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Topic: Miserable or Non-Existent Love Life aspects
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asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I'm ok with that. It would be perfect if I had no libido either ^^ Anyway, I intend to keep my virginity.
Maybe you shouldn't give up so easily. I don't know if you consider it giving up or not (sorry I hope I am not offending you). I really think everyone has a chance. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: Well usually out of those dozens of people they don't always have genuine intentions in why they pursue them. I just tell myself, if it's mean to be than it will be
You are right, I know what you mean.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5916 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: I just envy the people that get into relationships so easily and have 3049304 suitors to choose from.
haha i hear ya there.. my friend once complained to me that soo many girls liked him that he didnt know which one to choose... and i just laughed and said that it seemed like a good problem to have. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: haha i hear ya there.. my friend once complained to me that soo many girls liked him that he didnt know which one to choose... and i just laughed and said that it seemed like a good problem to have.
Seriously. Look in the personal readings forum, there is some chick comparing two synastry charts with these 2 different guys and I told her - wtf are you doing shopping for a f*cking car or something? These are people's feelings here. One guy is her longterm bf and the other is her new love. WTF I wish I had this problem!
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5916 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Seriously. Look in the personal readings forum, there is some chick comparing two synastry charts with these 2 different guys and I told her - wtf are you doing shopping for a f*cking car or something? These are people's feelings here. One guy is her longterm bf and the other is her new love. WTF I wish I had this problem!
yea, i'm on the opposite end of the scale lol IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: yea, i'm on the opposite end of the scale lol
same. I have been in love with the same man for almost two years, no one new has come into my life. I am just miserable from this love. it is killing me from the inside out. I have prayed to fall out of love with him, the feelings keep intensifying. it all feels so fated it is driving me crazy...sorry for the info. but my point is that I do not understand why I have this heavy karma to love this person. I feel like it is my duty to love him! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:05 PM
quote: I don't know if you consider it giving up or not (sorry I hope I am not offending you)
Giving up what? ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 310 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 12, 2013 08:06 PM
Ohh, I see.. That's quite the dilemma!! How long have you had feelings for him?Now that I know the story, I see the progression of Venus to your natal Saturn very clearly! IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Giving up what?
Giving up relationships altogether, maybe you shouldn't, maybe you will meet someone great? IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 736 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:08 PM
Seriously just go online lmaaaoIP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:09 PM
But I don't want to Don't worry, I've always been on my own and I'm used to it.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: Ohh, I see.. That's quite the dilemma!! How long have you had feelings for him?Now that I know the story, I see the progression of Venus to your natal Saturn very clearly!
I met him around 2 years ago (will be 2 years near the end of march), I noticed him instantly but I did not really develop feelings for him until the end of May 2011. Then it just hit me hard, sooo hard. I fell for him so hard. After I broke up with my boyfriend near the end of Nov. 2011 I didn't really care much to be dating anyone anymore. Then what do you know, near May of 2011 I had this desire again, I remember saying to myself "Oh how nice it would be to fall in love again!" Holy sh*t, I regret saying that, I do not think I knew what love was before I met this person. Seriously. I do not even think now that I loved anyone before him. The sad part is I love him unconditionally so you can imagine how much stress I experience all the time. It is so great to love him, but I want us to have the real thing together. So yes obviously this progression makes me wonder!!!! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5916 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: same. I have been in love with the same man for almost two years, no one new has come into my life. I am just miserable from this love. it is killing me from the inside out. I have prayed to fall out of love with him, the feelings keep intensifying. it all feels so fated it is driving me crazy...sorry for the info. but my point is that I do not understand why I have this heavy karma to love this person. I feel like it is my duty to love him!
well you have to realize that things will never work with that person and move on, i know its easier said than done.. i had heavy saturn in synastry with a girl (i was saturn) and i thought i would never get over her, but finally i realized that she wasnt coming back and there was nothing i could do about it. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 736 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: But I don't want to Don't worry, I've always been on my own and I'm used to it.
go to da club. I meet like so many people. Like I met 20 people I liked one night
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asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: well you have to realize that things will never work with that person and move on, i know its easier said than done.. i had heavy saturn in synastry with a girl (i was saturn) and i thought i would never get over her, but finally i realized that she wasnt coming back and there was nothing i could do about it.
it is impossible to move on when no one new is coming into your life and the other person has feelings for you too. I really tried moving on by dating a bunch of other people but life has been playing chess with us and keeps bringing me back to him without even my own intentions. what saturn aspect did you have? IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: go to da club. I meet like so many people. Like I met 20 people I liked one night
Easier said than done. The problem with that is that some people don't like the club. I don't for one. People do not meet their husband/wife at the club. People meet their one night stand there. I don't know it is just my personal opinion. I don't go to bars either. Totally not my thing. And I have been, even with boyfriends, I hated it...so not my atmosphere. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5916 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: it is impossible to move on when no one new is coming into your life and the other person has feelings for you too. I really tried moving on by dating a bunch of other people but life has been playing chess with us and keeps bringing me back to him without even my own intentions. what saturn aspect did you have?
my saturn squared all of her personal planets IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5916 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Easier said than done. The problem with that is that some people don't like the club. I don't for one. People do not meet their husband/wife at the club. People meet their one night stand there. I don't know it is just my personal opinion. I don't go to bars either. Totally not my thing. And I have been, even with boyfriends, I hated it...so not my atmosphere.
i hate clubs too,
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asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: my saturn squared all of her personal planets
OOH, not good at all. we ain't got none of that going on. Anyways I hope you find someone really great. My best wishes to you IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 736 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Easier said than done. The problem with that is that some people don't like the club. I don't for one. People do not meet their husband/wife at the club. People meet their one night stand there. I don't know it is just my personal opinion. I don't go to bars either. Totally not my thing. And I have been, even with boyfriends, I hated it...so not my atmosphere.
I feel like you are waiting for people to like sneak in your room at night and marry you lmao. You have to socialize and put yourself out there. I'm not going to approach people I find attractive at the corner of the block, thats just inappropriate. Majority of couples meet at social gatherings.IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 310 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 12, 2013 08:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: I met him around 2 years ago (will be 2 years near the end of march), I noticed him instantly but I did not really develop feelings for him until the end of May 2011. Then it just hit me hard, sooo hard. I fell for him so hard. After I broke up with my boyfriend near the end of Nov. 2011 I didn't really care much to be dating anyone anymore. Then what do you know, near May of 2011 I had this desire again, I remember saying to myself "Oh how nice it would be to fall in love again!" Holy sh*t, I regret saying that, I do not think I knew what love was before I met this person. Seriously. I do not even think now that I loved anyone before him. The sad part is I love him unconditionally so you can imagine how much stress I experience all the time. It is so great to love him, but I want us to have the real thing together. So yes obviously this progression makes me wonder!!!!
Ohh, okay, so now it all makes sense. Like you indicated earlier,the progressed Venus to Saturn could indicate falling in love with an older man. I was thinking about the fact that transiting Neptune has been squaring your natal Mars (7th hosue ruler), and Moon. The Moon rules your 10th house, so falling in love with an older person who is your superior at work makes a LOT of sense. Neptune transits make us feel like we have met our soulmate. They can make us kinda unrealistic and impractical when it comes to love, especially when it makes hard aspects to our love planets. People under these transits tend to idealize partners, or fall for unattainable lovers. Anyway, the transit is over now, so as Neptune keeps moving, I think things will become more clear for you. Again, I think Uranus sq your Uranus will get things going for you.. Your Venus conjunct Saturn progression isn't even exact yet. I think it'll be in effect for another year or so..?
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starfairy Knowflake Posts: 310 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 12, 2013 08:26 PM
Oh, and venus cap men could certainly be attracted to much younger women. With Cap involved, big age gaps are common. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5916 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:26 PM
I'm not going to approach people I find attractive at the corner of the block, thats just inappropriate. Majority of couples meet at social gatherings.[/B][/QUOTE] why is it inappropriate? you can meet interesting people everywhere... some people might be b*tchy towards ya,but so what? if someone is into you they wont mind you randomly talking to them IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: I feel like you are waiting for people to like sneak in your room at night and marry you lmao.
omg ahahahahahahahha I loved this line I actually smiled and laughed out loud lol LovE IT. Ah sir, yes, I do socialize though.
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 736 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:31 PM
[/B][/QUOTE]why is it inappropriate? you can meet interesting people everywhere... some people might be b*tchy towards ya,but so what? if someone is into you they wont mind you randomly talking to them[/B][/QUOTE] I'm not going to creep on people, thats just weird.
I also find that really irritating, I don't know you I'm not that attracted to you go away. In social gathering are more appropriate, people that are single are looking. These are people who creep in public http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTFZyl7hfBw IP: Logged |