posted March 08, 2013 08:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
How does this placement work with scorpio mars? I have mars in scorpio and I'm always drawn to venus in scorpio guys.

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i always like to know this.
im a venus in scorpio into a scorpio mars man...
i dont know which one is better...
a scorpio mars opposes my moon and asc in taurus and squares my mars...
a venus in scorpio in a man opposes my moon and asc in taurus and squares my mars...

i dont know which option is better, to have the opposition/squares with venus, or mars

posted March 08, 2013 09:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Little Doe:
I was married to mars in scorpio man.

I willnot go into details, but mars in scorpio is a good match for venus in scorpio romantically, and all that..

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yay!

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I like the man to have a sensual mars sign. Itīs more important than anything else in his chart.

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why is that?
after all, astrology says that in a man, it is venus and the moon that seems to count more.
so, doesnt mars come in second place in a way?
wouldnt venus in the man count more than mars?
after all, venus is his romantic nature and how he proceeds romantically
mars is...action.

i sense a strong plutonic energy from him, but that is because he has mars-saturn conjunct in scorpio, and mc in scorpio too.

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(I think women with venus or moon in scorpio feel drawn to mars in scorpio, so Iīm wondering if this is mutual)

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posted March 08, 2013 09:11 AM            

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
Wow I'm surprised she didn't find a nice Cancer Man to end up with. I actually have a Taurus Venus Opp Saturn and Cap Moon so I do try to move slow but have moved very fast on occasion (usually when I feel intensely...the Aqua ex is one person whom this happened) and I had a Libra Sun/Mars and Venus in Scorpio friend who did the same. AND EVERY time they would end up dumping her...they were guys who had Scorpio/water in them. One was another Libra with Scorpio Mars...he was fine with the closeness until they went on break and he was FINALLY able to have some breathing room and saw her for what she was (he had a Virgo Venus...and an Aquarius DC...so the freedom was a welcome change for him. All this occurred under the time of a semester). Another was a nice Virgo who had a Cancer Venus...BUT Gemini Moon. He too needed some breathing room (she even literally took her cat and litter box to his place...this is all under 5 months of being together lol). Another was again a Libra with Scorpio Venus...he took it the longest at 3 years...BUT he had a Virgo Moon and knew all long he had no intention of getting truly serious with her as told to me by his best friend (she slept with him too quickly). From what I see with her and another Virgo female friend I have they dive in FAR too fast and the other person is typically done with them as they need some freaking breathing room and a life outside that person!!!!

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Funnily enough her new man is a Libra sun but he has a Sag moon just like her. They seem to be together all the time, I know he has cut off some of his friends since being with her. I hope it doesn't fizzle out like the others, but he seems happy with such a high level of involvement.

posted March 08, 2013 09:15 AM            

rumour has it that demi moore is going after her ex-husband for alimony.
i had to look at her chart and she has sun, neptune, mercury AND venus in scorpio...
and, mars in leo...
and also, moon in taurus

posted March 08, 2013 09:27 AM            

i wish you good luck with him! I hope he is the one.

Moon and venus in a mans chart are important to HIM, they show what he likes, loves and feels comfortable with, romantically attracted to and so on.

But to ME, it is how he expresses himself in love and also sexually and emotionally that is the most important. For me to be attracted sexually I find that the mars sign and moon sign is most important.

posted March 08, 2013 09:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Little Doe:
hikoro

i wish you good luck with him! I hope he is the one.

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thanks sweets.

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Moon and venus in a mans chart are important to HIM, they show what he likes, loves and feels comfortable with, romantically attracted to and so on.

But to ME, it is how he expresses himself in love and also sexually and emotionally that is the most important. For me to be attracted sexually I find that the mars sign and moon sign is most important.

I have my own astrological theory that says that venus sign is the same in women and men. It is our VENUS that shows what kind of man we like, not our mars or sun. Thatīs crap. My oppinion..

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i see what you mean...
like, ive met men who are more attracted to the sign corresponding to their mars, than venus..
and women more attracted to their venus sign, and not mars.
also, ive seen how venus can be more about what we like in romance and our romantic nature...and that it works similarly in both men and women.
ive never...thus far, been convinced about the cookie-cutter concept of venus and moon for men and mars and sun for women...
but, that is just my opinion.

posted March 08, 2013 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Little Doe:
I was married to mars in scorpio man.

I willnot go into details, but mars in scorpio is a good match for venus in scorpio romantically, and all that..

But I have mars in libra so mars in scorpio men think Iīm to silly and shallow.

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We're opposites! I have venus in libra and scorpio mars lol. The guy I like is a double sag with scorp venus and virgo mars so my libra venus should be fine.

posted March 08, 2013 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Little Doe:
Are there any mars in scorpio guys here? Do you feel drawn to venus in scorpio women?
How about moon in scorpio, or ascendant in scorpio?

(I think women with venus or moon in scorpio feel drawn to mars in scorpio, so Iīm wondering if this is mutual)

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Yes I have that, for me Libras or Geminis just click with me, we become fast fast friends and if female then lovers.

One of the drawbacks is it is not as if everyone just is forthcoming with a birthdate/place/time

posted March 09, 2013 10:08 AM            

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Originally posted by jjj:
But Im very slow in going to bed with someone. I like this long spiritual obsessive foreplay. It can take months...

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posted March 10, 2013 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Freesia:
No games. I probably won't show deep interest if I'm not sure I can trust the person. To person whom I trust there are no secrets, I rather demand honesty from both sides involved.

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posted March 11, 2013 05:35 AM            

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
What is the game playing seen in a Scorpio Venus?

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The 'Game Playing' is that we may be very careful about our feelings and not so quick to share our emotional selves. In this sense we could be seen to be dishonest, not forthright etc.

I think the greatest problem with Venus in Scorpio, is that because we feel so strongly about someone (you) we think it is like super totally obvious. Whereas in reality, we may strap it down, box it up, and screw the lid on tight so you have no idea.

So maybe the game playing, is us trying to figure out how you feel about us, when we aren't necessarily so forthcoming with our own feelings. Which is something all Venus in Scorpios should learn from. There is no reason for us not to be more open. Scorpio any placement has a great capacity for healing transformation, and in Venus the sign of relationships amongst other things, we can have a great capacity to help people heal.

posted March 11, 2013 05:45 AM            

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GrlyGirl200: What is the game playing seen in a Scorpio Venus?

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posted March 11, 2013 01:41 PM            

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The 'Game Playing' is that we may be very careful about our feelings and not so quick to share our emotional selves. In this sense we could be seen to be dishonest, not forthright etc.

I think the greatest problem with Venus in Scorpio, is that because we feel so strongly about someone (you) we think it is like super totally obvious. Whereas in reality, we may strap it down, box it up, and screw the lid on tight so you have no idea.

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I'll share some perspective from a man with Venus in Taurus who has both shown and received interest with a Venus in Scorpio woman. We're still in the game playing phase but as most would agree, it comes and goes.

So how does it work? Well, from the ViT perspective, we see what we like or are interested in and directly approach/seduce the person of interest in our sturdy, patient, trustable energy and while we won't be aggressive like more of the other more masculine signs, we usually get our point across.

However, ViS, if they are also interested don't really understand or desire to take that approach. Because there's an inherent sense of mistrust clouding most of their involvement, they will test or manipulate their interest to try and truly read the character or person's intentions. To other signs, the actions appear as game-playing as sometimes they'll ignore the person, show interest in other people instead and pretend like there's no real feelings there. But one needs to understand that it's Scorpio's way of discerning who they can trust.

As a ViT, you can bet it's frustrating at times as we're not the type to try and prove ourselves to anyone, including whether we love you or not. We'll more likely ignore you back as well, and yet there's a type of energy vibe that a ViS person can send that they hope their interested partners can detect and connect with on a soul level.

posted March 11, 2013 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by SDragon:
I'll share some perspective from a man with Venus in Taurus who has both shown and received interest with a Venus in Scorpio woman. We're still in the game playing phase but as most would agree, it comes and goes.

So how does it work? Well, from the ViT perspective, we see what we like or are interested in and directly approach/seduce the person of interest in our sturdy, patient, trustable energy and while we won't be aggressive like more of the other more masculine signs, we usually get our point across.

However, ViS, if they are also interested don't really understand or desire to take that approach. Because there's an inherent sense of mistrust clouding most of their involvement, they will test or manipulate their interest to try and truly read the character or person's intentions. To other signs, the actions appear as game-playing as sometimes they'll ignore the person, show interest in other people instead and pretend like there's no real feelings there. But one needs to understand that it's Scorpio's way of discerning who they can trust.

As a ViT, you can bet it's frustrating at times as we're not the type to try and prove ourselves to anyone, including whether we love you or not. We'll more likely ignore you back as well, and yet there's a type of energy vibe that a ViS person can send that they hope their interested partners can detect and connect with on a soul level.

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You hit the nail on the head. I have a Taurus Venus...and Cap Moon so to me the ignoring thing is something I don't do. Well I will admit to sometimes testing the affections of someone by showing interest in a friend of theirs...but usually these are with guys who should be able to discern that I am not serious and am trying to make them jealous.

But really I only resort to these tests if I'm not sure (and they have done things to show they're iffy in their interest in me). But to do so is VERY draining on me. I'm really at my core a simple person so its just annoying to use these tricks.

posted March 11, 2013 06:21 PM            

My Venus in scorpio makes me hide my feelings. I think venus in scorpio is extreme - either they will hide all their feelings or boom (this usually happens after theyīve managed to make you belive they donīt have feelings) they come on as a volcano thatīs been latent for centuries. Itīs one of those "Oh my god - I didnīt know this person was crazy about me for years and never said anything " - situations, and " I could have sworn they were 100% neutral about me)

That IS the game - the neautrality. If a venus in scorpio seems oddly cold and indifferent around you in the beginning - chances are they might be checking you out and testing yu while safely hiding their cards.

I would consider myself lucky if a venus in scorpi oman loved me, because I know that their love is LOYAL, and that is so important to me. Hpwever, unfortunatelyI had a venus in scorpi man proclaim his love for me after two days (And the funny thing is that I KNOW he meant it, and would have stayed loyal to me forever. A fellow venus in scorpio just knows these stuff..), wich freaked me out and I ended up hurting him.

The point is maybe that venus in scorpio is the sign most likely to fall in love within hours, often even minutes, because we have such strong intuition. Thatīs why it seems like we move fast, or get obsessed about anyone. Truth is I was never, to this day (almost 30years ) wrong about a single one of my crushes. It was always a love that came after minutes and stayed for years. Of course I would hide it and no - I never made a move, but had i chose to it would have been withing minutes, or days, or whenever I considered them ready, lol. Wich unfortunately wasnīt often, because my love has been onesided..

Your guy probably made a move because he considers you special and ready.