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Topic: Can a Scorpio Venus person ever move slow?
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GrlyGirl200
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posted March 07, 2013 07:00 PM
  
Hey I was just wondering if they can ever move slowly in relationships? Even if they have a lot of earth. All the one's I've known (girls and guys) tend to move VERY fast...and get sexually involved even faster. Can they just move slow (or even at normal speed) at all lol? Tell me about yourselves Scorpio Venus...or ppl that have had experience with you...I'm a Cancer Sun/Asc/Mars...and oddly enough I've only been involved with two guys who had a Scorpio Venus...I have a Cap Moon that is Square Pluto...but I think ultimately my Sun/Mars/IC/Mer Uranus aspects and Venus in 11th doesn't really gel well..they end up being WAY too overwhelming (and it doesn't come off as genuine to me). I can get extreme about ppl but it's once in a blue moon...I have Pluto in the 5th. But my Venus Scorpio people I know get intense about everyone...and that seems like the person really means nothing to me if you get intense about everyone. I guess that's why I like esp Air signs...they don't go crazy over everyone. Even other water signs do this, and fire signs do this. Not everyone is meant to make you obsessive and crazy lol. IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 07:33 PM
Scorpio Venus are always struggling eternally with this thought: I want love so bad but I cannot show like I need the person or I'm weak''.Therefore, they will sometimes either be on or off, they will have to find a balance and they can just requires the strength within to do so. They want to move fast, but they know they won't be satisfied if it's too fast. If they've been hurt before or don't trust you all that well, they'll be slow like a rock rolling at snail speed down an almost flat hill. lol Some of them tend to keep trusting and searching for love with speed and ambition no matter how many times they've been hurt. IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 07:35 PM
They'll never forget someone they truly love, and even if you break up on bad terms or they act like they don't need you towards the end. They'll be thinking about you if they love you, the whole time you're apart and they'll always come back to you if they love you, always no matter what you do to them. If they love you, their love for you is so strong that they cannot be deterred no matter if you hurt them a million times. They struggle with this, and find happiness in it all the same, they have a very fertile love life and a rich one full of emotions.IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 07:38 PM
To add: they can have sex with you and you might think it's just sex, and sometimes it is but almost ALWAYS they're hoping it develops into something more. They can confuse love, and some of them try to find it in ANYONE.After a while of this, one of two things happens, they either become soured and more careful/silent/immovable - or they become sex freaks (which they are naturally) and i don't mean freak in a bad way, Scorpio Venus' lol. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 07, 2013 07:47 PM
That is what I was wanting to know...I've been involved with a few...and I thought we were just sexually involved after we didn't work as a couple. One was a Scorpio Sun/Aqua Moon/Mars and the other was a double Sag...I figured we could still be sexually involved and no emotions (because they were a Sag and Aqua Moon). Nope when they found out I was involved with other ppl...not sleeping with, but talking to other guys and going on dates they freaked out on me. One cut me off, the other took him 3 years before he got his revenge by spreading false rumors about me.My question is this...they seem so focused on sex...is that all they care about with a person...do they care about getting to know someone? IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted March 07, 2013 07:50 PM
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Originally posted by CherryVodka:
They'll never forget someone they truly love, and even if you break up on bad terms or they act like they don't need you towards the end. They'll be thinking about you if they love you, the whole time you're apart and they'll always come back to you if they love you, always no matter what you do to them. If they love you, their love for you is so strong that they cannot be deterred no matter if you hurt them a million times. They struggle with this, and find happiness in it all the same, they have a very fertile love life and a rich one full of emotions.
making us sound like doormats and as if we would go back with a person, no matter how dangerous that individual may be. that is just mental....
true that we love very deeply but once you cross this, it is over.
at least, that is the way it is for me.
remember, scorpio is all about extremes, just like a venus in scorpio can give that love, she/he can kill that love as if it never existed. that love can disappear...just like that.
ive yet to met a scorpio venus who will go back to someone who has horribly wronged them.
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CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 07:52 PM
They might get to know you through sex. They might seem like they aren't putting emotion into it, but like I said appearances are usually wrong. Like you said, they freaked out on you, they're notorious for doing the same thing to you that you do them, and they will say they don't care anymore (or cut you off like you said) but that proves that they do care, and care too much. They get jealous, sometimes it's out of emotion and sometimes just pure manly ego lol. Sadly you'll never know or you aren't likely to find out if it's out of ego or sadness - the jealous that is. That's why they're called mysterious. They are really sexual by nature, like I said though, they get attached to almost everyone they sleep with. In a natural way or an egotistical way, it's your call on which they're expressing (or not expressing). IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 07, 2013 07:52 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
making us sound like doormats and as if we would go back with a person, no matter how dangerous that individual may be. that is just mental....
true that we love very deeply but once you cross this, it is over.
at least, that is the way it is for me.
remember, scorpio is all about extremes, just like a venus in scorpio can give that love, she/he can kill that love as if it never existed. that love can disappear...just like that.
ive yet to met a scorpio venus who will go back to someone who has horribly wronged them.
I agree with this...from what I have seen if someone wrongs them that is it!!!! I've also seen this extreme behavior of ppl who have Venus/Moon/personal planet pluto aspects (myself included). I wouldn't think of them as taking someone back unless of course they want to exact revenge lol. IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted March 07, 2013 07:53 PM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
My question is this...they seem so focused on sex...is that all they care about with a person...do they care about getting to know someone?
sounds like some folks of a particular age group... but..going back to the question.
i dont know...it depends.
ive seen scorpio venus who would put a nun into shame. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 07, 2013 07:57 PM
Getting to know someone through sex...lol how does that work. It doesn't make any sense to me that you would get to know someone more through sex. IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 07:58 PM
Well, I've seen Scorp Venus women go back to a guy they love who has hurt them a million times, they seem undeterred and even if they are hurt they seem to deal with it because they have hope - or whatever it is. Maybe the men are different? I'm a man myself, so I'm speaking from experience with Scorpio Venus people, but I'm speaking of the women I've been with, which has been a lot with Scorp Venus. I have had them get revenge on me, and at the same time or a little while after rather, they would still be sad and try again to make me feel something for them (hate and love is the same thing) it's all a reaction. IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted March 07, 2013 07:59 PM
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Originally posted by CherryVodka:
They are really sexual by nature, like I said though, they get attached to almost everyone they sleep with.
this would be another one i would clarify too.
it is true that scorpio venus is sexual, but i think that this is what allows scorpio venus to be able to sleep around easily with no strings attached.
the sex is like an expression that may or may not lead to feelings. IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted March 07, 2013 08:00 PM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
Getting to know someone through sex...lol how does that work. It doesn't make any sense to me that you would get to know someone more through sex.
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CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 08:01 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
this would be another one i would clarify too.
it is true that scorpio venus is sexual, but i think that this is what allows scorpio venus to be able to sleep around easily with no strings attached.
the sex is like an expression that may or may not lead to feelings.
In my experience this hasn't been true at all. IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted March 07, 2013 08:03 PM
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Originally posted by CherryVodka:
Well, I've seen Scorp Venus women go back to a guy they love who has hurt them a million times, they seem undeterred and even if they are hurt they seem to deal with it because they have hope - or whatever it is.
ive seen different venus going back to men regardless....
there are many women who even go back to abusive men
and men going back to abusive women...
not all of them have venus in scorpio.... the thing about your posts is that you describe venus in scorpio with the typical cliche manner of scorpio sun... mysterious, sexual and loyal no matter what...
and, this is not scorpio venus in itself,
there are also aspects to take into consideration. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 07, 2013 08:04 PM
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Originally posted by CherryVodka:
Well, I've seen Scorp Venus women go back to a guy they love who has hurt them a million times, they seem undeterred and even if they are hurt they seem to deal with it because they have hope - or whatever it is. Maybe the men are different? I'm a man myself, so I'm speaking from experience with Scorpio Venus people, but I'm speaking of the women I've been with, which has been a lot with Scorp Venus. I have had them get revenge on me, and at the same time or a little while after rather, they would still be sad and try again to make me feel something for them (hate and love is the same thing) it's all a reaction.
I agree with this...indifference hurts anyone with a prominent Scorpio. I always use my Venus in 11th as a fall back (using friendship) and they tend to get upset. This is true for even Venus Pluto people. The idea of being friends with exes doesn't happen lol (even if they are an Aqua). Are they aware of the feelings of the other person...like would they sleep with someone knowing that the person could eventually have deeper feelings for them? IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 08:05 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
ive seen different venus going back to men regardless....
there are many women who even go back to abusive men
and men going back to abusive women...
not all of them have venus in scorpio....the thing about your posts is that you describe venus in scorpio with the typical cliche manner of scorpio sun... mysterious, sexual and loyal no matter what...
and, this is not scorpio venus in itself,
there are also aspects to take into consideration.
I agree, but we need further information on the person to do a chart. Maybe a synastry chart, but in my experience Synastry charts aren't always so accurate.
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hikoro
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posted March 07, 2013 08:07 PM
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In my experience this hasn't been true at all.
i think you misread what i was trying to say.
if not... ok...
so according to you...
if a scorpio venus sleeps with a random stranger...they will get easily attached to that stranger just like that...right.
scorpio venus, in general, becomes attached to any person they sleep with, even if it was just a one-night stand, is that what you're saying?
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GrlyGirl200
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posted March 07, 2013 08:08 PM
Well how do you know if the sex is an expression of hormones or if they actually like you?IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
i think you misread what i was trying to say.
if not...ok...
so according to you...
if a scorpio venus sleeps with a random stranger...they will get easily attached to that stranger just like that...right.
scorpio venus, in general, becomes attached to any person they sleep with, even if it was just a one-night stand, is that what you're saying?
In my experience they aren't likely to sleep with a random stranger, and if they do they are more or likely young. Age matters a lot, how old are you guys? Also I would say at the end of the day, do what you feel is best. It's all you can do not everything has be so complicated all the time.
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CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 08:12 PM
But to further explain what I mean, actually yes the women I know with Scorp Venus if they did sleep with a stranger or someone they don't know a whole lot. They will still get attached even if it's only slightly. IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted March 07, 2013 08:16 PM
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In my experience they aren't likely to sleep with a random stranger, and if they do they are more or likely young. Age matters a lot, how old are you guys?
hahaha.
indirectly implying that scorpio venus who have one night stands are more likely to be young, hence less evolved...prolly? age is irrelevant. i think my point is that scorpio venus doesnt fit into a one neat category...
and i think the variety of opinions in this tread itself shows that...
and again, there is a difference between scorpio venus and scorpio sun. IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted March 07, 2013 08:17 PM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
Well how do you know if the sex is an expression of hormones or if they actually like you?
i think you're overthinking this...
you cant just judge a guy based on his venus...
heck, the person could even have pisces venus and be the most asinine individual in your life. if you have that much cancer as you say and your intuition is good enough...you should know how to proceed...
and, go with the flow... IP: Logged |
CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 08:19 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
hahaha.
indirectly implying that scorpio venus who have one night stands are more likely to be young, hence less evolved...prolly?age is irrelevant. i think my point is that scorpio venus doesnt fit into a one neat category...
and i think the variety of opinions in this tread itself shows that...
and again, there is a difference between scorpio venus and scorpio sun.
Of course there is. They don't fit into a neat category you're right, but there's definitely things that they all share. I disagree that age is irrelevant though, some people are still living and learning where as others who are older may be wiser.
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CherryVodka
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posted March 07, 2013 08:20 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
i think you're overthinking this...
you cant just judge a guy based on his venus...
heck, the person could even have pisces venus and be the most asinine individual in your life. if you have that much cancer as you say and your intuition is good enough...you should know how to proceed...
and, go with the flow...
I agree with this, and I think we've all gotten a little side tracked, as I said up there and hikoro said, go with your intuition and what you feel is right for you.
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