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Topic: How do you reject people
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k e p h x i
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 30, 2013 09:14 PM
  
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I just simply run away from them.
That too. I'm very good at that. ------------------
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somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 898
From: walking with my head in the clouds!
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:21 PM
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Kerosene: **** that I'm not spending a dime.
Custom cakes are like 15 bucks
Really, I just like doing ridiculous/extravagant things.  Plus there's serendipitous upsides! They get to console themselves by eating a delicious cake or destroying something (of mine if they're revengeful). Plus they might gossip about it and people will say wow, somethingexcellent sure is ridiculous/extravagant.
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KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2006
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 30, 2013 09:23 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
that are romantically interested in you?Whats your moon venus and mars doing.
I'm primarily a gemini. this is me " Awww sure,why not?..........I'll let you know when I'm free" *disappears*
Never texts back.
One time a person who kept on asking me out was In my class and I said my single mother is dying I have to take care of my many siblings. She thought that was even more romantic and offered to help. I never would text her back hahaha. I guess I'm leading them on BUT ITS HARD OKAY!!!! My friend with aries moon faked her death and I had to call him and explain to him how she died... HE KEPT ON CALLING HER!!! It really did work, I'm a good actor. ha. My scorpio sister is like Ewwwww...She's just mean.
That's nonconfrontional, I don't like it. I straight up say I'm not interested, but I am flattered by what they are saying. Moon in Taurus, Venus in Gemini IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
Knowflake Posts: 861
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posted March 30, 2013 09:23 PM
arrrgh you guys with the mind games, just be straight up. If i like them as ppl but just not romantically then i usually just physically shy away/stay away from them or if they're very in my face about it and come out and ask me then i'll say "thanks, but i'm not interested....i'm just not feeling it".IP: Logged |
k e p h x i
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 30, 2013 09:24 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Really, I just like doing ridiculous/extravagant things. Plus there's serendipitous upsides! They get to console themselves by eating a delicious cake or destroying something (of mine if they're revengeful). Plus they might gossip about it and people will say wow, somethingexcellent sure is ridiculous/extravagant.
OMG. People will take that in so many directions. Ahaha. That's cute. I mean, it's funny.  ------------------
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KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2006
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 30, 2013 09:25 PM
They know I don't like them romantically, but I find it amusing when they flirt with me, except if its a pedophile weirdo. LOLI actually had 2 women make advances towards me before, that and only "feminine" men are attracted to me.. well men connected to their feminine side, emotional, ect Must be my Cancer Descendant and strong descendant ruler o_o IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 1801
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:30 PM
Well I don't want to be mean especially if they're sweet, I think it take guts to ask someone out and I don't want them to be discouraged for feel forever alone lol.Being hit on is flattering and yes I do allow them to make their advances but... when getting asked out is like.... Errrrrrrrrrrr I'M DYING... lol IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 642
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:30 PM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
arrrgh you guys with the mind games, just be straight up. If i like them as ppl but just not romantically then i usually just physically shy away/stay away from them or if they're very in my face about it and come out and ask me then i'll say "thanks, but i'm not interested....i'm just not feeling it".
Seriously, people get angry. They don't like to be rejected.IP: Logged |
k e p h x i
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 30, 2013 09:31 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
They know I don't like them romantically, but I find it amusing when they flirt with me, except if its a pedophile weirdo. LOLI actually had 2 women make advances towards me before, that and only "feminine" men are attracted to me.. well men connected to their feminine side, emotional, ect Must be my Cancer Descendant and strong descendant ruler o_o
Okay, now I want to meet you. LOL! I want to see this cause and effect. Hahaha. Oh, let's bring this up too! I, first, have to connect with people through my head (intellectually) before anything else. I can't stand stupidity. Idc what you look like or who you are. ------------------
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 1801
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:31 PM
exactly you'll sound like a complete ***** if you flat out reject them.IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2006
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 30, 2013 09:32 PM
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Originally posted by k e p h x i:
Okay, now I want to meet you. LOL! I want to see this cause and effect. Hahaha.Oh, let's bring this up too! I, first, have to connect with people through my head (intellectually) before anything else. I can't stand stupidity. Idc what you look like or who you are.
LOL! Agreed, with the intelligent part. I have Mercury in 7th house and Gemini Venus IP: Logged |
k e p h x i
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 30, 2013 09:33 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Well I don't want to be mean especially if they're sweet, I think it take guts to ask someone out and I don't want them to be discouraged for feel forever alone lol.Being hit on is flattering and yes I do allow them to make their advances but... when getting asked out is like.... Errrrrrrrrrrr I'M DYING... lol
Agreed. You should be flattered. Realize what they had to go through because I'm pretty sure you have gone through it too, so. Be flattered... that all kinds of people are into you. ------------------
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 292
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 30, 2013 09:34 PM
I ignore them.------------------
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freebrainstorms
Knowflake Posts: 861
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 30, 2013 09:40 PM
of course i'm flattered and i'll usually say so, but i'm just saying if you're going to end up saying no by the end of the night or whatever, why not just let them try to find somebody else who will say yes and not lead them on all night. in my opinion that qualifies you as more of an ******* , but an ******* that ppl tend to be more comfortable with because that's what happens more often in society.i don't know i'm really not the expert and i tend to be waaaay more upfront than most guys are used to/prepared for in terms of rejection. How about the awkwardness when the best friend of the one you're into hits on you...? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 642
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:42 PM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
of course i'm flattered and i'll usually say so, but i'm just saying if you're going to end up saying no by the end of the night or whatever, why not just let them try to find somebody else who will say yes and not lead them on all night. in my opinion that qualifies you as more of an ******* , but an ******* that ppl tend to be more comfortable with because that's what happens more often in society.i don't know i'm really not the expert and i tend to be waaaay more upfront than most guys are used to/prepared for in terms of rejection. How about the awkwardness when the best friend of the one you're into hits on you...?
I don't play games where I lead them on. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 1801
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:45 PM
^^
If they had any common sense they would realize I'm not interested.
Its not my fault if they're naive or simple minded.  I would be so ****** if some I have cared for as a friend had a crush on me.
I would ask how long they felt this way. I would feel kinda betrayed. Like they always felt this attraction... This happened with someone I was very fond of as a friend, and they tried to use me as a rebound.
WTF I was so mad and blocked all contact!
Unacceptable!
Also they were in my one class which was so awkward. IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
Knowflake Posts: 861
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 30, 2013 09:48 PM
oops i think you misunderstood me perhaps. i meant like you're about to hit on someone and then that person's best friend (not your best friend) comes out of nowhere and asks you out. this leaves you in the awkwardness of i like you, i want to be friends with you but i'm really into your best friend for life standing right beside you...IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 642
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:51 PM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
oops i think you misunderstood me perhaps. i meant like you're about to hit on someone and then that person's best friend (not your best friend) comes out of nowhere and asks you out. this leaves you in the awkwardness of i like you, i want to be friends with you but i'm really into your best friend for life standing right beside you...
Usually what people do in this situation is go out with the friend and yap about who they really like all night long, lol. The friend understands sooner or later, "he likes her not me..." Down side is they get angry and you probably made an enemy of them while the one you really like will probably never go out with you. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2006
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 30, 2013 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
exactly you'll sound like a complete ***** if you flat out reject them.
not really, i do it nicely. they dont mind because i say it gently, not mean. Haha IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 1801
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:54 PM
Gosh thats so funny.
I would imagine that would be awkward.
Never experienced a situation like that.
I would imagine this happens in clubs often.
Idk I'm never attracted anyone at clubs everyone is sweaty, a lot of people like to wear tacky clothes when they're drunk.
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somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 898
From: walking with my head in the clouds!
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 09:59 PM
In all seriousness, I would tell them that I don't reciprocate their sentiment. Simply, gently. I wouldn't dance around and dress it up or flat out avoid them. People tend to drift away any ways after being rejected. IP: Logged |
suireen
Knowflake Posts: 457
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted March 30, 2013 10:00 PM
I asked one of my guy classmates why some guys wouldn't talk to me. He said "It's so hard to approach you"To guys who TRY to flirt with me, I give them a cold shoulder to reject them. I find it more comfortable to be around females, and every friend I have, they're all females. LOL. Taurus Moon, Capricorn Venus and Mars.
I also have Saturn in 1st house, that's why people get this impression of me being strict, cold and too mature. IP: Logged |
Vradec
Knowflake Posts: 74
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 30, 2013 10:13 PM
Sun in Capricorn (1st house)
Moon in Gemini (7th house)
Venus in Capricorn (2nd house)"Heh, well that sounds nice but I will have to think about it. I dunno" *doesn't want to be with the person, but still spends weeks considering whether she should be. Weeks later, says a friendly 'no, we're just too different'.* Happens the same way EVERY time!  IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 898
From: walking with my head in the clouds!
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posted March 30, 2013 10:16 PM
The most annoying thing ever to me is not getting an answer, and to be left hanging while they carry on as if it never existed.  IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2006
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 30, 2013 10:23 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Gosh thats so funny.
I would imagine that would be awkward.
Never experienced a situation like that.
I would imagine this happens in clubs often.
Idk I'm never attracted anyone at clubs everyone is sweaty, a lot of people like to wear tacky clothes when they're drunk.
lmao. never been to a club, hows it like? all the 13-17 year old high schoolers go to clubs, they sneak their I.D and pretend to be 18. I heard a lot of them talk about it actually
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