posted April 30, 2013 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by virgolotus:
Venus sq Neptune
feels really deceiving and like a let down.
I feel like every little fling is actually something really [b]BIG and meaningful

when it's not.. lol[/B]

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Aww That is a great explanation Ems. How close is it and what are the houses and the sign of your venus? xx

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posted April 30, 2013 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

Thank you, Ami. However, I'm not without my own problems, struggles and sacrifices. A lot of people only see the superficial exterior of career success and think I am portraying an image of "perfection." No, I'm not. Far from it. So I try to be self-effacing, but I will not stoop to degrading myself. Yes, I have large self-confidence, in that is attached an ego. However, I'm able to bring myself down to humble denominators given religious convictions. The thing is... I don't understand how you can relate to me and see the value in me while ... I would say 90% of this LL forum cannot do so.

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If you stand for something, ignorant people are going to hate you, usually because they stand for nothing. I am hated by people who are not worth worrying about! Same for you!

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posted April 30, 2013 06:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

Aww That is a great explanation Ems. How close is it and what are the houses and the sign of your venus? xx

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posted April 30, 2013 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by virgolotus:
It's a wide-8* Venus in Libra 11th house with Neptune in Cap 2nd house

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Venus in Libra. You are a refined one
So, you still feel the 8 degrees? Do you feel it strongly. I have some 7-8 degree aspects and sometimes I feel them. What is your experience?

posted April 30, 2013 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Venus in Libra. You are a refined one
So, you still feel the 8 degrees? Do you feel it strongly. I have some 7-8 degree aspects and sometimes I feel them. What is your experience?

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posted April 30, 2013 06:55 PM            

My hardest aspect is my moon in scorpio (20 degrees, in pisces decan), but it is also my favourite one, and even more so my mars in 12th house in libra.

What does it feel like having a moon in scorpio in pisces decan?
Well, I feel like my emotions are very complex, almost non-understandable to me. I feel like they are coming from a place that I left behind in the physical world, but I never really got over the impact it had on me. It feels like Iīm carrying around alot o fear that is irrational, because the situation that it came from is actually not relevant anymore, so the fear is unnecessary.
It makes me hyper-sensitive too, and I am alone most of the time because I feel overwhelmed very easily.

My mars in 12th house in libra is even more challenging to me. It has been a life long lesson trying to learn how to stand up for myself and fight!
It FEELS like I have no idea what I want/desire/feel most of the time. I am forever in a state of confusion. It feels very scary, almost like I am a puppet and people can do as the want with me. It is only later that I realise what it is that I want but then itīs too late.

The most extreme example is when I got pregnant when I was young and my boyfriend told me to do an abortion. I did, and I will never get over that. I have deep pain because of it. I guess I hav learned the hard way to never ever let anyone tell me what to do in life. It made me paranoid about my limits, and I am a fierce protector of my own integrity now.
But my potential for being limitless, and my struggles with setting boundries are always something I have to look out for because of my mars in 12th. Unfortunately people take advantage of these weaknesses if they can, and itīs very scary.

posted April 30, 2013 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Little Doe:
Ami:

My hardest aspect is my moon in scorpio (20 degrees, in pisces decan), but it is also my favourite one, and even more so my mars in 12th house in libra.

What does it feel like having a moon in scorpio in pisces decan?
Well, I feel like my emotions are very complex, almost non-understandable to me. I feel like they are coming from a place that I left behind in the physical world, but I never really got over the impact it had on me. It feels like Iīm carrying around alot o fear that is irrational, because the situation that it came from is actually not relevant anymore, so the fear is unnecessary.
It makes me hyper-sensitive too, and I am alone most of the time because I feel overwhelmed very easily.

My mars in 12th house in libra is even more challenging to me. It has been a life long lesson trying to learn how to stand up for myself and fight!
It FEELS like I have no idea what I want/desire/feel most of the time. I am forever in a state of confusion. It feels very scary, almost like I am a puppet and people can do as the want with me. It is only later that I realise what it is that I want but then itīs too late.

The most extreme example is when I got pregnant when I was young and my boyfriend told me to do an abortion. I did, and I will never get over that. I have deep pain because of it. I guess I hav learned the hard way to never ever let anyone tell me what to do in life. It made me paranoid about my limits, and I am a fierce protector of my own integrity now.
But my potential for being limitless, and my struggles with setting boundries are always something I have to look out for because of my mars in 12th. Unfortunately people take advantage of these weaknesses if they can, and itīs very scary.

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posted April 30, 2013 08:14 PM            

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I am in my late 20īs. Thank you.

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You are very welcome. What a deep and sensitive soul you are

I have many articles on 12th house planets. The Libra Mars is hard anyway cuz it is in the detriment. Libra Mars tries to reason too much and action is hard. the 12th house Mars is a really, really hard one as action must seem painful. Does it?

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posted May 01, 2013 05:04 AM            

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You are very welcome. What a deep and sensitive soul you are

I have many articles on 12th house planets. The Libra Mars is hard anyway cuz it is in the detriment. Libra Mars tries to reason too much and action is hard. the 12th house Mars is a really, really hard one as action must seem painful. Does it?

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posted May 01, 2013 08:06 AM            

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Well, yes I do think 12th house mars is hrd, because things seems so much more blurry. Other mars placements may think itīs obvious what needs to be done, and they just do it. In arguments I rarely take stands. People sometimes think Iīm two-faced or secretive. Iīve actually had people tell me "just say what you think!", but I couldnīt, because I had five different oppinions about the matter.
I often feel like I should be a shaman or a nun or something, but Iīm studying to be a scientist, and it doesnīt suit me at all, lol.
I think the pain is about losing acess to your needs with mars in 12th. Pleasing others all the time..
Now Iīm starting to work on it. And this is where the rewards of 12th house mars come in. I feel full of spirit and very close to God after all Iīve been through.
Thanks for letting me share.

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Oh my goodness. I feel so close to you. We must have personal planets touching. I bet it is Moon. My moon is 8 Cancer. My Sun is 28 Gemini. My Venus is 9 Gemini and my merc is 21 Gemini. My Mars is 16 cancer. What do we have?

Back to you. My father has this Mars and he is the same with people pleasing. It is like a pure sickness. I do think the 12th house person can be closer to God than other people as they live in this mystical realm and MUST find God to function imo

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posted May 01, 2013 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by magicspells:
moon conjunct saturn: every day is a struggle to not be depressed. i look at other people and just wonder if they ever feel as hollow as I do sometimes.. it's so hard to express emotions (square ascendant)

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How close is the conjunction? The square?

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posted May 01, 2013 11:11 AM            

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Ami:

My mars in 12th house in libra

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Would u mind tell.. Do u have mars near AC or fas from Ac?

Thank you

posted May 01, 2013 11:19 AM            

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Moon square mercury is hard. I feel stuck between my emotions and logic, which hampers my thinking processes. Sometimes out of bursts of anger (moon trine sun-mars-pluto), I end up saying what I don't mean and I end up hurting people.

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Thanks for explaining this and how it feels! What is the orb and what are your moon and mercury?

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posted May 02, 2013 06:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
How close is the conjunction? The square?

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moon conjunct saturn 0.40
saturn square asc 0.31
moon square asc 1.11

so basically EXAAAACT

posted May 02, 2013 06:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Thanks for explaining this and how it feels! What is the orb and what are your moon and mercury?

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1 deg orb. Moon in Pisces, Mercury in Sagittarius.

posted May 02, 2013 07:05 AM            

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I think mine would be my almost Unaspected Moon. It is borderline Unaspected but the Unaspected Moon makes for a very, very sensitive person in terms

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I noticed that women with unaspected Moon rarely marry or have children, even if they want to. Not sure if this occurance is not a coincidence since unaspected Moon is rare and i dont know many who has it :-(

Mine would be Sun/Mars square Neptune. Diffused energy, hard to concentrate when someone is talking to me for long...my mind tends to drift to more pleasant places and i end up missing half of the conversation with the person in front of me.

posted May 02, 2013 07:07 AM            

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Originally posted by magicspells:
moon conjunct saturn: every day is a struggle to not be depressed. i look at other people and just wonder if they ever feel as hollow as I do sometimes.. it's so hard to express emotions (square ascendant)

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I feel you. Don't give up! You just need to look for something that will make you feel glad to be alive.

posted May 02, 2013 07:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I noticed that women with unaspected Moon rarely marry or have children, even if they want to. Not sure if this occurance is not a coincidence since unaspected Moon is rare and i dont know many who has it :-(

Mine would be Sun/Mars square Neptune. Diffused energy, hard to concentrate when someone is talking to me for long...my mind tends to drift to more pleasant places and i end up missing half of the conversation with the person in front of me.

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Lovely and heartfelt post. Thank you, Orange. I know 4 Unaspected Moon woman--2 have married and had children. 2 have not.

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posted May 02, 2013 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Oh my goodness. I feel so close to you. We must have personal planets touching. I bet it is Moon. My moon is 8 Cancer. My Sun is 28 Gemini. My Venus is 9 Gemini and my merc is 21 Gemini. My Mars is 16 cancer. What do we have?

Back to you. My father has this Mars and he is the same with people pleasing. It is like a pure sickness. I do think the 12th house person can be closer to God than other people as they live in this mystical realm and MUST find God to function imo

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Thatīs sweet. I think itīs our water moons. I often find that itīs enough if someone has a water moon for me to establish a connection. As for the rest, Iīm not sure. I donīt know how to figure out aspects based on the info you gave me. Hereīs my chart though, if you can have a look for yourself.
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/graphic/daisy24?dformat=2&date=1983/12/30&time=2.0&lat=45.08&long=-17.15&adjust=-1.00&lang=en&x=480&y=640