posted April 28, 2013 12:53 PM            

Just listing them is not helpful to me, per se, as I want to try to get behind the eyes of them.

If you care to add the orbs, that would be great too!

I think mine would be my almost Unaspected Moon. It is borderline Unaspected but the Unaspected Moon makes for a very, very sensitive person in terms of everything. It is a raw kind of feeling.

Also, this would be someone who was not nurtured as a child, which is super hard and very hard to get over, if ever.

What are yours?

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posted April 28, 2013 01:11 PM            

PS If you feel you don't want to, that is cool

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posted April 28, 2013 01:14 PM            

-square ascendant
-square neptune
-square uranus (don't mind this aspect though)
-quincunx saturn

Me + communicating with people = a big bunch of blahh

For me it just makes me feel sort of awkward when talking to people one-on-one. I'm pretty good talking in front of a class but when it comes to new people and my family I just feel "out of place"as far as socializing goes. I'm always worried about how I'm perceived (whether I seem weird, boring, cold, etc.) and I can get really flustered trying to figure out what to say to someone.

As far as my education goes I've never had any major problems. It was one time I was behind the class reading level in 1st grade but I self disciplined myself til I was up to speed with the rest of the class. Other than that I've always had pretty good grades.

Oh and I don't know if this is my merc-neptune aspect or something else but I assign meaning to every.little.thing... This can be a detriment since I think I tend to over-hype someone. For example: I'll crush on a guy and sooner or later I end up making mental notes on every little thing he does towards me (i.e. If he winks at me, hugs me with both arms or one, how close he stands by me, etc.) And then before you know it, I make it seem like he likes me when he actually probably doesn't.. So yeah

posted April 28, 2013 01:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I would say my afflicted Venus retrograde.Love isn't easy to give or receive.

It makes me insecure.And apparently guys don't appreciate that in a woman.

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I forgot about Venus Retro. That is a hard one!

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posted April 28, 2013 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
All of the aspects to my libra mercury..

-square ascendant
-square neptune
-square uranus (don't mind this aspect though)
-quincunx saturn

Me + communicating with people = a big bunch of blahh

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Makes sense!

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posted April 28, 2013 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I'm afraid I don't feel like writing how it feels.

Oh, I accidentally nailed it.

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posted April 28, 2013 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
I do not like Aries Moon in 4 th house. I like my Aries moon takes initiative but hate explaining and telling family members how stupid they are ??

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WOW You are a warrior in your home. Interesting. Is that how you would sum it up? If so, I have really learned something here!

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posted April 28, 2013 02:35 PM            

I have Aries rising with Mars in Leo. I am fun, ambitious and I know I can do whatever I set my mind to.

I always get complements on how attractive, smart and wonderful I am from other people but I just don't see what they are talking about. It is like, if I really poses all those qualities that people say I have; I am truly blind to them.

posted April 28, 2013 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:
It really is my chiron in the second house. No matter what I accomplish, how in-shape I am, or how much effort I put into things; I never feel a sense of self worth.

I have Aries rising with Mars in Leo. I am fun, ambitious and I know I can do whatever I set my mind to.

I always get complements on how attractive, smart and wonderful I am from other people but I just don't see what they are talking about. It is like, if I really poses all those qualities that people say I have; I am truly blind to them.

No matter how much I grow as a person, I can't seem to overcome these feelings.

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I was thinking about this last night and I know Ceri disagrees but I do not feel the 2nd house is self esteem. I feel it is the material world only. What do you think? Why do you think either way you do? xx

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posted April 28, 2013 03:37 PM            

2nd house is the house that rules self worth & self
esteem. Being in the 12th house...Well, self esteem is
pretty much non existent in me. Lack of self love. But I
am trying to work on my issues. Growing up, I didn't
have alot of encouragement or I didn't feel the 'love'
around me so those are the reasons why I feel this way
now in my life. But it's not too late, I have my whole life
ahead of me to work on my issues. Everything will be
ok
But yeah...For me it would be Saturn in the 1st. It does
bring delays & I am a late bloomer in plenty of areas in my life. But the bright side is that I am responsible.

posted April 28, 2013 04:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I would say my afflicted Venus retrograde.Love isn't easy to give or receive.

It makes me insecure.And apparently guys don't appreciate that in a woman.

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I agree! Venus Retrograde is so hard. I don't think though it's insecurity, we don't want to waste our love anywhere. And just imagine I'm in love with a guy that has a Retrograde Venus too...

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posted April 28, 2013 05:26 PM            

My opposition makes it nearly impossible for me not to feel strongly about everything. I didn't realize it 'til literally just now but everything feels like life or death to me though I may treat it with less caution. It would be nice to be a stable and lighthearted person. I have that quality but it's not the strongest.

posted April 28, 2013 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Probably my sun tightly square my ascendant. It makes me quiet in new situations and people usually think I'm mean or a snob before they get to know me. I can be very tight lipped and really surprise people when they get to know me.

Also my mars square Neptune (also less than a degree) which is suspect the cause of my ADHD.

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How would Mars sq neptune fit into ADD? Please, explain how it feels, if you can.

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posted April 28, 2013 07:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
How would Mars sq neptune fit into ADD? Please, explain how it feels, if you can.

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i remember sweetscorpion pointing this out to me.

"At your worst, you can be disorganized in your approach to life, easily procrastinating and lacking follow-through when you do begin a task. Some of the most important lessons you need to learn in life are self-control, self-assertion, and trust in yourself. At your best, you are a creative person with a powerful imagination and great stores of compassion." http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/marsneptuneaspects.html

i honestly don't relate to most of that description except parts that would have to do with ADHD. other parts in my chart must mitigate them.

i wasn't diagnosed with ADHD until i was older. my mom never wanted me to take medicine for it. eventually i was seeing a therapist for years because of a past eating disorder i got overcame and he spotted it from getting to know me.

it makes me FEEL disappointed. it's frustrating because i feel like it's one thing i can't just will away... i guess i'm just not trying the right approach. i'm on medicine for it but i only take it on days i work. (i didn't today) it seems like any problem in my life or even argument revolves around it. it makes me upset with my mom that she didn't get me help for it earlier like she did with my brother. i have a higher IQ than him so i would still do exceptional in my classes. it's easy to hyperfocus on things you are good at and extremely hard to concentrate on things that don't interest you. i would still get high marks in advanced classes in math - because it was like a game to me - but barely ever complete assignments in other classes. i mostly got through those courses by my teachers just liking me probably.

posted April 28, 2013 08:30 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
I agree! Venus Retrograde is so hard. I don't think though it's insecurity, we don't want to waste our love anywhere. And just imagine I'm in love with a guy that has a Retrograde Venus too...

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You both have it? To me, venus is the hardest Retro. I have Saturn, Neptune and Chiron. I would still put Venus before Chiron

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