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Topic: Capricorns hate being teased/mocked/made fun of
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meyray
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posted May 09, 2013 01:52 AM
  
@goatcatDo you mind posting some aspects? Also your house placements. The issues you raised seem to be typical for Virgo. (not being appreciated, wanting to do the right thing and make no mistakes)But they're Capricorn influenced as well - wanting to be taken seriously, being respected. I have the same issues and I have little to no Virgo or Capricorn, I have tons of Scorpio but they're all in the 6th House which speaks for itself. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 01:53 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Why?I mean why would you hate doing this to someone who is doing it to you? I could understand you not wanting to ridicule *other* people... but him? *shrug*
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Jessica2407
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posted May 09, 2013 01:54 AM
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I don’t know you so just by what you wrote here I think that joke was pretty harmless. But your boyfriend is a little insensitive that even after you told him that he hurt your feelings he still laughed. It could be because of a lot of reasons. He could be “training” you to see that being clumsy and forgetful isn’t something to get all worked up about. Or it could be that he is really a rather cruel person. This reminds me of one time my husband and I were at a social gatherings and the conversation was about death and stuff. I mentioned that my grandmother passed away and my husband said “Well she probably was tired of seeing your face”. I was like “Yeah there is a bright side to everything, she at least didn’t have to live to see me sink so low as to marry you”. Lol he laughed so much and he was like “This is why I love you”
Haha Muddy, that was a nice repartee you gave him! You rock! Haha!!!! IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 09, 2013 01:55 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Why?I mean why would you hate doing this to someone who is doing it to you? I could understand you not wanting to ridicule *other* people... but him? *shrug*
This, I agree with. I've always felt that if someone is crappy enough to you, you're well within your rights to verbally backhand them, and I'm gonna be honest, I don't feel any remorse about it whatsoever because they had it coming. If I were her I'd have just looked at him and gave him a look and a hard "Ha!". Just once. If you do it right he'll get a stricken look on his face, and there will be an awkward silence and you'll have humiliated him without saying a word. IP: Logged |
virgolotus
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posted May 09, 2013 01:55 AM
My moon in Cap hates mockery or ""light-hearted"" jokes (double quotations) because I just hate feeling vulnerable and weak. Capricorn is actually a very sensitive and low-confident sign which is why we have that ambition to strive forward and excel in everything we do to show how strong and powerful we really are! At least that's how I feel... But yeah I hate being made fun of and especially when my ability is mocked that's when I get really angry!! IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 01:57 AM
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Originally posted by meyray:
@goatcatDo you mind posting some aspects? Also your house placements. The issues you raised seem to be typical for Virgo. (not being appreciated, wanting to do the right thing and make no mistakes)But they're Capricorn influenced as well - wanting to be taken seriously, being respected.
Okay Virgo rising
Virgo rising trine Cap Sun
Cap sun and Merc 4 house
Moon in Scorpio 2 house
Venus in Pisces 6 house
Rx Mars in Cancer 4 house Grand trine in moon, venus, and Mars IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 09, 2013 01:58 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
Maybe it's my Venus in Pisces
*laugh* Ha! Nuh unh, my brother is a Cappy with Venus in Pisces and trust me - he's probably the most verbally abrasive person I've ever encountered. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted May 09, 2013 01:58 AM
@goatcat,I bet your boyfriend just loves rocking your boat.He is enjoying himself at your expense,there is nothing wrong at giving him a little dose of his own medicine. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:05 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
@goatcat,I bet your boyfriend just loves rocking your boat.He is enjoying himself at your expense,there is nothing wrong at giving him a little dose of his own medicine.
I'm a sucker for him he gets away with everything. When I give him a dose of his own medicine he pouts something terrible and turns into an even bigger baby. Sometimes I can deal with it. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:06 AM
I'm one of those Scorpio moons that's actually not too big on revenge.IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 09, 2013 02:08 AM
I agree with Odette, just slap him hard a good time or two (verbally). When he finally shuts the hell up...you'll know he's gone off to lick his wounds.  IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted May 09, 2013 02:08 AM
Jessica2407: hehe he's always like that. He reserves the "more offensive" jokes for me but he generally teases everyone. quote:
Originally posted by Jessica2407:
@goatcat,I bet your boyfriend just loves rocking your boat.He is enjoying himself at your expense,there is nothing wrong at giving him a little dose of his own medicine.
I agree with this, goatcat.
Next time when you guys have sex, you should wear a wrist watch and look at it. It will really rock his boat, or perhaps will even sink it lol.
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goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:09 AM
My sun and Mercury are conjunct Neptune.I have Mercury opposite Mars. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:11 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
I agree with this, goatcat.
Next time when you guys have sex, you should wear a wrist watch and look at it. It will really rock his boat, or perhaps will even sink it lol.
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goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:12 AM
He really hates it when I roll my eyes after he says something I find stupid. Per his request I stopped doing it but maybe I should roll my eyes when he has something important to tell me. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted May 09, 2013 02:13 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Jessica2407: hehe he's always like that. He reserves the "more offensive" jokes for me but he generally teases everyone. I agree with this, goatcat.
Next time when you guys have sex, you should wear a wrist watch and look at it. It will really rock his boat, or perhaps will even sink it lol.
I like you Yes! You got to do that Goatcat!! IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 09, 2013 02:14 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
My sun and Mercury are conjunct Neptune.I have Mercury opposite Mars.
That doesn't mean anything. I have Neptune aspecting my sun and my moon, trine and sextile. So I totally get being tender-hearted and not wanting to hurt anybody. But some people like to go after people they think are a vulnerable target and pick at them psychologically like that. And if you don't stand up to them, they'll think they can take liberties and just talk to you any way they want, all the time. The other day I had some random person approach me saying stupid stuff to me. I went in on them, then they shut the hell up and left me alone.Stop looking at it as attacking an innocent and start looking at it as what it is - self-defense. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:15 AM
Thanks you guys for talking me through this because I was feeling so misunderstood. IP: Logged |
meyray
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posted May 09, 2013 02:15 AM
I may be in the wrong here but I think you should look at your Scorpio Moon as well. As far as I can tell from personal experience Scorpio Moons takes themselves very seriously and despise being teased or insulted, they can hold grudges about that. Your Moon touches your Venus and Mars with a soft aspect so I suspect you get more upset and hurt when this happens rather than angry and enraged.Also your chart ruler sits with your Sun in the 4th House which I would say makes remarks form people who are close to you hurt and traumatize much more than those from strangers. Venus in the 6th always wants to please and feel useful, being deemed as incompetent and useless is her biggest nightmare.
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Jessica2407
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posted May 09, 2013 02:15 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
He really hates it when I roll my eyes after he says something I find stupid. Per his request I stopped doing it but maybe I should roll my eyes when he has something important to tell me.
Rolling your eyes? Is that your best revenge??? C'mon! You gotta make the guy sweat and beg forgiveness! IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:21 AM
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Originally posted by meyray:
Venus in the 6th always wants to please and feel useful, being deemed as incompetent and useless is her biggest nightmare.
Aaaaagh why u hit it spot on??? Yes I love love love to please and be available and relied on and so his comment, "Don't leave anything up to her" really set deep in me. I felt so uselesss... quote:
Originally posted by meyray:
Also your chart ruler sits with your Sun in the 4th House which I would say makes remarks form people who are close to you hurt and traumatize much more than those from strangers.
Yes cuz Idgaf about what others think but when one close to me says something I die Can you interpret more of my chart please? IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:25 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Rolling your eyes? Is that your best revenge??? C'mon! You gotta make the guy sweat and beg forgiveness!
Under all that Arian bullshi he's a sensitive baby! He has a 12 house moon! If I act like I don't care while he's raving about his favorite superhero or about a song he just made he won't wanna be my friend lol IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted May 09, 2013 02:28 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
He really hates it when I roll my eyes after he says something I find stupid. Per his request I stopped doing it but maybe I should roll my eyes when he has something important to tell me.
Lol your boyfriend seems like the type who dishes it out but can’t take it. Roll your eyes at him randomly, he won't know why and that will f*** with his head. One score for team goatcat, lol I know it might sound a bit dysfunctional, keeping score like this but I can’t help it haha. quote:
Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I like you
Yes! You got to do that Goatcat!!
I think your sun likes my 7th house leo Jupiter haha. I did that to him once and he fired back by perved at some girls’ backsides and he was like “Heavenly father, pls give my woman a fat a**”. I was like yeah, if mine were any bigger your little penny wouldn’t have been able to get between the crack. Hehe this little game has been going on between us for like forever.
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meyray
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posted May 09, 2013 02:32 AM
Sure! Sounds like fun.  It’ll be easiest for me if you give me your info (I usually use astrotheme.com’s generator) but if you’re not comfortable with that you can just post a picture of your chart or just state your other placements.Also this is fun - http://sasstrology.com/love-calculator If you want to check your overall compatibility with your guy. It’s a very fun and lighthearted interpretation. I usually avoid ones where you have to give your e-mail but this one doesn’t spam.
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goatcat
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posted May 09, 2013 02:37 AM
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Originally posted by meyray:
Sure! Sounds like fun. It’ll be easiest for me if you give me your info (I usually use astrotheme.com’s generator) but if you’re not comfortable with that you can just post a picture of your chart or just state your other placements.
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