posted July 14, 2013 09:57 AM            

I have been betrayed once. I consider it my fault for trusting those people. They made 4 months of my internship traumatic because of something I didn't even do. So since then I have learned to tune into people better and feel if they are trustworthy or not.

As for being trustworthy, I can't say that I'm the type that people feel compelled to tell secrets to because I keep my distance from most people anyway. But when it comes to people I'm close to, it's a mutual understanding-- they keep my secrets and I keep theirs. I have a tendency of forgetting them anyways haha

posted July 14, 2013 10:01 AM            

Dat face at the end!!

Don't hide secrets in your house, cause boy I stole the key!

ETA.

Yeah, sorry for going off topic..

I just don't have much to share about being betrayed, I don't take things personally.

posted July 14, 2013 10:05 AM            

You sound so wise girl

See I told you there is much much more to your personality!

@Lunae

LOL about forgetting people secrets haha

@Doux

Priceless huh?

I love it when she says I'll never let you leave without a small recording device tucked under your sleeve

emphasis on

posted July 14, 2013 10:06 AM            

If someone were to question that opinion, I would wonder what they are up to...

posted July 14, 2013 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Aww

Thank you, girl.
You deserve all the hugs in the world.

Lunae,

"irregardless" = wut?
I thought it was "regardless"!
(just checked it out, it says the word is "nonstandard", hmm so you're trying to be all smart-a$$-ish?).

Anonymi,

I always smell nice! (okay, almost always).
Living in the country of perfumes helps.
Mmm I love pleasant fragrances.

Where's Jessica?!

I wanna hug her too.

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Lol, I actually thought it was a standard english word hahaha and nooo I wasn't trying to be hahaha

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Yeah he comes around sometimes. Piscesfishgoddess, Scorpiomoon are one of his few names, not sure about him and Jess making a great royal couple though but I am pretty sure Textbook and Piscesfishgoddess would make a great couple.

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Yeah I remember him. I actually thought he was a Pisces/Scorpio since he always mentions it?

Anyways moving on SE has a Leo asc.. He can be Jess' royal partner! Haha

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Thanks, Lunae *hugs* you are with Doux on niceness! You, Doux and Jessica are always so sweet to everyone.

Jessica, I have no idea what her deal is. Don't take it personally. You have done nothing to deserve what she posts.

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Thanks, SSS! You're a nice person yourself.

@Jess, I saw the vid! Hahahahahaha can't stop laughing. The memes have come to life XD

Okay, this is the last off topic post.

posted July 14, 2013 10:13 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I thought Textbook and Jessica would get along as they are both Leos but I guess there can only be one Queen of the Jungle.

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Seriously?????

WHAT ON EARTH gave you that idea???

I don't usually have to FIGHT to be queen.

I just have to do this:

posted July 14, 2013 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:

@Lunae

LOL about forgetting people secrets haha

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Haha yeah, it comes in handy sometimes. And besides, I'm thankful for that because that makes me not the type to release your hidden skeletons in the closet during a fight haha. I find that really low.

posted July 14, 2013 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I think most people are wisely cautious about placing their trust. It's completely normal and natural not to give it your all until you are really sure about someone.

If someone were to question that opinion, I would wonder what they are up to...

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Yes of course.

posted July 14, 2013 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Yes of course.

I noticed Sag suns are quick to forgive. I wish it was that easy..

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posted July 14, 2013 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Yes of course.

I noticed Sag suns are quick to forgive. I wish it was that easy..

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I hope you don't mind me going off topic for just a minute. Do you mind sharing your opinion about people who have their sun in your ninth house? Do you find you get along pretty well with them from the get-go, like you do not need a warming up period with them? I read the sun does really well when placed in house nine and I find it easier talking to people who have their sun in my ninth.

This is sorta trust related, since trusting a person is crucial if you are to feel at ease talking to them, so it's not completely off topic.

posted July 14, 2013 10:40 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I hope you don't mind me going off topic for just a minute. Do you mind sharing your opinion about people who have their sun in your ninth house? Do you find you get along pretty well with them from the get-go, like you do not need a warming up period with them? I read the sun does really well when placed in house nine and I find it easier talking to people who have their sun in my ninth.

This is sorta trust related, since trusting a person is crucial if you are to feel at ease talking to them, so it's not completely off topic.

Your mentioning Sag suns reminded me of it.

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posted July 14, 2013 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I feel sometimes in life you come across people who without them knowing address an issue in yourself something that you KNOW you need to address but you put it off each time.They come into your life at a specific point and bang they cause a mini upheaval in your thinking structure.

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People we interact with often reflect something inside of us; they can act like triggers, messengers, destroyers, healers.

posted July 14, 2013 10:47 AM            

~Do you value being called trustworthy by other people or is it okay to you when someone tells you you can't be trusted?
-I feel offended when someone says I'm not trust worthy. But then again, as my best friend calls it," you only are trust worthy to those you like". Which I find to be quite true. If I don't like you, best believe you better not open up about your business to me.
-When people call me trust worthy, I feel content that we have mutual understandings. I will sacrifice myself to make that person happy.

~Do you take it as an affront? What is the meaning of ''I give you my word'' to you?
-The meaning is simple. I will hold ground with you, I will not let you fall, as long as you don't let me fall. We will keep everything between us.

~To what extent will you go to honor your word given?
-To the point where I don't have to sacrifice someone else that I love.

posted July 14, 2013 10:51 AM            

We're all human, no one is perfect, and each one of us is capable of messing up.

Does that mean we don't deserve another chance?

Wish people were more open to forgiveness..

posted July 14, 2013 10:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I don't understand why people are so extreme when it comes to forgiving others.

We're all human, no one is perfect, and each one of us is capable of messing up.

Does that mean we don't deserve another chance?

Wish people were more open to forgiveness..

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I had to think about this.

I guess it comes down to this:

posted July 14, 2013 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I don't understand why people are so extreme when it comes to forgiving others.

We're all human, no one is perfect, and each one of us is capable of messing up.

Does that mean we don't deserve another chance?

Wish people were more open to forgiveness..

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It depends on the severity, Doux. Some betrayals are just hard to forgive. I can't say I can't forgive period but it takes a LOT of time. To be honest, I really won't lend a hand to someone who betrayed me, at least not after time has passed long enough to heal the wounds inflicted.

I forgot to mention, I am willing to forgive if one asks sincere apology for the wrongdoing. When I say sincere, I mean that in all the essence of the word.

posted July 14, 2013 11:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Lunae:
It depends on the severity, Doux. Some betrayals are just hard to forgive. I can't say I can't forgive period but it takes a LOT of time. To be honest, I really won't lend a hand to someone who betrayed me, at least not after time has passed long enough to heal the wounds inflicted.

I forgot to mention, I am willing to forgive if one asks sincere apology for the wrongdoing. When I say sincere, I mean that in all the essence of the word.

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