posted July 20, 2013 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I wasn't sure if you had it, but you do!

Anyway, as I said, it will be dealt with, so don't worry about it, okay?

*hug*

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I wish I can really hug you now. I've been feeling upset all day long about this. I'm sorry I yelled my head off. I should have known better than to post my picture on a forum, I just felt close to people here. Again, sorry everyone and thank you all for being so patient and nice to me.

posted July 20, 2013 04:18 PM            

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posted July 20, 2013 04:19 PM            

I hope you'll feel better about this soon.

And please don't be hard on yourself, it's not your fault that your pics got stolen, it could have happened to anyone.

It only shows that you're a sexy beast!

posted July 20, 2013 04:19 PM            

okay, don't know where my planets are today, as can't stay away from voicing my opinion today...but i think Pisces-Sweety has every right to be as angry as she is.

So the offender is a kid...so what? other kids have really bad lives, yet they don't do identity theft, or anything like that.

And let me tell you a summarized story, when i was 15 had changed schools some really insecure people weren't liking the opposite sex attention i was getting. They did something so close to stealing pictures...would write 'love letters' and make calls using my name and trying to be me...luckily the normal boys back then weren't stupid, and they were the one's who actually put an end to it.

Almost 15 years later, late 20's whatever, u'd think they had grown up, when i met them again? No they didn't. People don't change when they haven't learnt a lesson, that puts them off 'that track
They did the exact same thing but now using the internet...and pictures they had no authority to use. and you know what put an end to it? i checked the laws of the country all that happened in, where i discovered just slander, along with what they did 'identity theft' could put them behind bars for a long time.
Luckily for them, am not as mean as them, so did nothing, but asked someone to point that out for them.
and they did mess up my life badly, before i came across things and writings that asked we all let go of the ego and etc. and as the girl said, time wasted is never reclaimed. At least now am okay with the though of it (time) all being an illusion, and only the 'Now' existing, as it's the only way to go.

So no 15 isn't an excuse, there are 15 year olds who always behave and have that thing called manners even when mum and dad aren't watching. And if these things aren't nipped in the bud, then believe what a person did at 15, they will do at 30 and do at 40 only the way they do will change...ugh.

To go all defensive and call he person who did that 'lovely' etc, shows some bias or blindness. There isn't anything nice about what they did.

On the other hand, tone down the village death calls, and calls for abuse the rest of you.

I understand pisces-sweety's anger, but for the others, yes i don't approve either, there was this nice vibe on this forum, and some ppl felt it okay to let others see the face behind the name, only for this nice energy to be messed up by one person.

but wishing physical abuse on others isn't cool either.

BTW on most other forums, if the person is under 18, they want to know that the parents approve that their child is using public forum, not only to avoid incidents like these, but because usually it isn't even safe for kids to post these days, how is it that this forum doesn't have that?!

so anyway yes sharing pictures that aren't yours not cool! and that is the issue on hand not how lovely or not lovely the person who did is

posted July 20, 2013 04:24 PM            

It's called maturity

As a kid you do thing naughty things you would never do as an adult because you know better.

posted July 20, 2013 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Either way it's a connection.
I don't Ami had anything to do with it.

It's either karkaqueen or It has to be another young user who has been on this board for awhile.

Honey-vanilla placements are exactly the same..

Cancer sun
Taurus moon
Capricorn asc with neptune conjunct asc
Venus in Gemini

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The self esteem issues and possible "acting more than one character" come from this aspect:

Capricorn asc with neptune conjunct asc

I have a friend with this aspect, and she did the exact same thing. She used another girl's pictures to show herself, but when I found out it wasn't her she told me exactly why. The main reasons, "I'm ugly" "No-one cares about me"

Self-deception basically.

She also shares the Venus in Gemini + Taurus Moon.

posted July 20, 2013 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
That is very gracious of you to say, PS. I am sorry I upset you with my post. I know what it is like to make mistakes and have public shame so I was writing based on this. I did not mean to be insensitive to your feelings!

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I'm very sorry for yelling at you Ami. I know I can be quite harsh sometimes. I didn't mean to blow up at you but I had a very rough day with this.. especially since I'll never ever know who else has my pictures (let alone if they've messed with them)

I know you've been through a lot ami, I follow up on you when you post. But Ami, sometimes, you just can't excuse everyone's bad behaviour and forgive them. We want to believe that we can forgive everyone but we can't. A human being has limits..

posted July 20, 2013 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by LiesLilithsaidtouranus:
I would really like if the whole forum was more private. Like you couldn't copy and paste, or save images.

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posted July 20, 2013 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by LiesLilithsaidtouranus:
I would really like if the whole forum was more private. Like you couldn't copy and paste, or save images.

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posted July 20, 2013 04:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
of course people change....

It's called maturity

As a kid you do thing naughty things you would never do as an adult because you know better.

The people you met were simply immature.
I solved the case!!!!!

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lol well thank you for solving the case my good sir haha

yes they are immature, still are, back then was surprised how it could be possible someone who is approaching 30 is the exact same person they were at 15...same life, same subjects, same immaturity, and obviously same jealousy from the same people (honestly they have every right to be jealous of me, but won't post any pictures on public forums or even social networks )

posted July 20, 2013 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
I'm very sorry for yelling at you Ami. I know I can be quite harsh sometimes. I didn't mean to blow up at you but I had a very rough day with this.. especially since I'll never ever know who else has my pictures (let alone if they've messed with them)

I know you've been through a lot ami, I follow up on you when you post. But Ami, sometimes, you just can't excuse everyone's bad behaviour and forgive them. We want to believe that we can forgive everyone but we can't. A human being has limits..

Again, I'm very sorry. I've been exhausted and depressed from this all day long..

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Thank you PS. I was re-living my own situation when I really screwed up and was so ashamed more than thinking of your feelings. I am sorry,PS

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posted July 20, 2013 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Yeah some people are emotionally stunted.
That's probably the worse thing that can happen to a person imo

No problem, I'll solve more mysterious about human condition for you

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, you're a genius of human condition analyzing! i'll probably be needing your expertise very soon again, like next time i step out of my door...

btw did the people around discover your talents, or not just yet?

posted July 20, 2013 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
^^^ I don't even understand how people manage to get such low self esteems to that point! Look, I've had some things done to me as a child but you know what, you have two choices, you either let it consume you and destroy your future, or you try to pick yourself up. It's okay to feel bad on the inside and feel like you're ugly or you're this or that but none of that is going to solve anything.

Look, I used to know this girl a while back whose parents died (they were journalists). Her mother was buying her diapers from the supermarket and then after left and got into her car and turned it on, the car exploded. A few years later, her father had a meeting one day in a restaurant and someone fired 30 bullets at him. The girl was only 3 months old and she became an orphan.

A family then adopted her and a few years before she enrolled at my university, her father died. Then, during I think the second year of university, her mother passed away. The girl now lives with the only relative she has who is her aunt and she was MORBIDLY obese. She couldn't even afford to get surgery for that so she started running for almost a year or two and now she became around 60 kgs.

Point is, she has tons of problem(sometimes she becomes very suicidal, I don't blame her, she hates herself and her existence) and she can't even afford to go a therapist but she managed. She graduated with a high gpa from university and now has 2 BA's. Even SHE knew that she had to go on despite everything! Her willpower (that comes from inside of a person) made her want to go on and accept herself and her life even though it's a horrible life. She's very average looking yet she always looks so clean and decent and EVERYONE looks up to her because she has so much perseverance to improve herself on the inside.

So yeah, most people just like to whine about their looks and themselves.

People have different tastes and that's how it always was and that's how it'll always be! That's life and when you learn that, you'll start being grateful and you'll realize that you're not as "ugly" as you think you are.

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Wow...
She is definitely something special! Despite huge setbacks, she has the tenacity to achieve her goals. Maybe we should all shrive to be like her.

posted July 20, 2013 05:16 PM            

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Originally posted by jellyfishtry:
, you're a genius of human condition analyzing! i'll probably be needing your expertise very soon again, like next time i step out of my door...

btw did the people around discover your talents, or not just yet?

And do you do other species or only homo sapiens?
*eagerly awaits answer*

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Well one time in the city I was stopped by a talent agent that told me I would be perfect for discovering the depths of human mind... I never looked back since

posted July 20, 2013 10:32 PM            

(I walk around the house rhyming things lol)

posted July 20, 2013 10:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
beckylee is a hottie tamale !!!

(I walk around the house rhyming things lol)

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posted July 20, 2013 10:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
If potential employers or anyone irl decide to google image search Pisces-sweety from her facebook and find her photos in Pass or smash threads on shady forums, what would they think? It's like having your name and number written in a bathroom stall.

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This is why you always use fake names going to anonymous e-mail addresses when signing up for forums/profiles/Facebook. Never use the real info!

This is like "How to Avoid / Prevent ID Theft 101"... just sayin'.

posted July 20, 2013 10:55 PM            

this is me on vacation in Maine. its not a serious picture. lol. im 21.

here is my chart.

posted July 20, 2013 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
This is why you always use fake names going to anonymous e-mail addresses when signing up for forums/profiles/Facebook. Never use the real info!

This is like "How to Avoid / Prevent ID Theft 101"... just sayin'.

I get why PS is so upset, but at the same time, she has to learn to protect herself when interacting online right? It's not about someone just using a picture. There is so much more at stake (reputation, possibility for stalking, etc.).

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