posted August 16, 2013 07:38 PM            

My mercury is in Leo so the sun is dispositor of my venus which makes me more extroverted, leo like.

Venus doesn't like virgo but they have similar qualities that they can work on virgo is very analytical. So if I like someone; I will have this perfect person made out in my head and I will literally compare people based on this which just seems so normal to me it's something I do. And I'm SUPER blunt, like I don't think how they might feel

And I'm not flashy when I like someone. I won't go and assert myself not because ill be like OMG they didn't like me what was wrong etc

And remember venus rules arts so with venus in virgo they may give alot of dedication to services to their partner and their career (look at mercury again, it's placements and aspects)

posted December 24, 2013 12:38 AM            

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Originally posted by muddyt0es:
Sex has always been a very basic thing for me. The first time I had sex, it was very businessy. I did not want to be a virgin and worry about who I would give it away to like my friends who I saw crying that they thought he loved them, etc.

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posted December 24, 2013 01:09 AM            

Nothing wrong with Venus in Virgo. actually, there is nothing wrong with Venus in any sign, because remember, there is a chamber pot for every behind. So for every Venus in Virgo, there is a Mars in Virgo who is waiting to wooo her and sweep her off her feet.

So stop feeling that you are at a disadvantage. Virgo love astrology, so use your knowledge of astrology to make sure you mate with people whose planets make wonderful aspects to your Venus in Virgo.

posted December 28, 2013 06:14 PM              

Venus in Virgo. Nothing wrong with it. Mine is there.

The one caution that Venus Virgo needs to watch for is giving, giving, and more giving. If it's not reciprocated, or more importantly appreciated.... they WILL blow up. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but one day they will and when they do it will be devastating and shocking. You won't see it coming. Depending on the rest of their chart, it could be bad!

posted December 28, 2013 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
My Mars is in Virgo conjunct my Libra Asc.

Venus in Virgo. Nothing wrong with it. Mine is there.

The one caution that Venus Virgo needs to watch for is giving, giving, and more giving. If it's not reciprocated, or more importantly appreciated.... they WILL blow up. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but one day they will and when they do it will be devastating and shocking. You won't see it coming. Depending on the rest of their chart, it could be bad!

Show that Virgo Venus a little appreciation and you should be in heaven. That is unless you like Hollywood romance and flowers and all that sh*t. Maybe best to look elsewhere. That's my experience.

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Seems the placements that most appreciate Venus in Virgo are other Venus in Virgos or Mars in Virgo. Most other placements dont understand us unfortunately.

posted December 28, 2013 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
"..whose Mars" is in Virgo? I hardly know anyone whose Mars is in Virgo.

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Sorry I didn't finish my sentence, but I did mean Mars is in Virgo.

Another good match is Mars in Cancer or Scorpio, sextiling at close orb that Venus in Virgo. Heck, Mars in Taurus or Capricorn makes good match too. Not so sure about Mars in Pisces, but it's also a compatible match.

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posted December 29, 2013 10:39 AM            

Venus in Virgo. Theoretically spoken, she is in her fall, but this theory doesn’t necessarily have an impact on her, being a woman of practicality, won’t believe what is said and not proven in practice. She is being judged, just as many before her. Because she is unlike others, she is not one to freely burn in the heat of love. Not one to surrender her body to shadows and illusions. Not one to caress every lip that happens to be nearby. That is why they say she is cold. And when they say she is calculable, the universe is at risk because of this terrorizing untruth.

Her motto is: when the mind is being controlled, the body becomes the slave. The sooner you seize that, the clearer becomes your image of this Venus.
Whoever doesn’t realise that sign Virgo in itself signifies Love, should better not deal with Virgo. She wouldn’t allow it, anyway, for she doesn’t suffer shallow relationships.
Control the mind, as he leads the body. Anyone who is lead by the body quickly loses his mind. Heart here is in unity with the mind, there is no duality in her, and very rare are the changes in her thinking. She loves what she loves, and doesn’t think about that. But to get there, you must walk the thorny path. She will find hundreds of reasons to not meet you, perhaps she’ll even be a bit harsh, if you’ve approached her the wrong way, or even worse, surprised her! I beg your pardon? A surprise? No surprises, do not disturb her still, yet worse, do not interrupt her. She has to decide upon the right time to dedicate herself to you. For when she does, it will be completely. Therefore do not lose all hope, only be patient. If she gave you her number, she will not mislead, deceive you, nor will she lose her interest in you.

She will not lose interest in you, not even when the road takes you so far away, that there is little chance of you meeting again. She will not think about others, even though she rarely hears from you. She will be working with diligence and dedication, meanwhile calling you with her thoughts, paying no regard to logical laws known to human mind. If you are the one who conquered this Venus, this will be the natural effect. She won’t be interested in no one else and that is why she is called cold and distant. Why on earth would she be sweet and accessible to anyone, when in her heart she isn’t really? She won’t smile and flirt with just any stranger on the street, nor will she play a starlet. She might even withdraw when she does not fully master her imagination that touches the very essence of your being. She firmly believes in you, ever since she first trusted you. To double-cross her means to deceive yourself. After some time you realise it might be with her that you first came to understand love. And when you think deeper and further, step by step, just as things went, series of well-thought, concise steps, steps that built this bridge. The bridge that you crossed to reach her, living in profound belief, that you were the one to conquer this complex creature. For some it might be a sign of victorious deed, when in reality it just proves her affection. She weaved a whole web in the name of Love, just because you mean that much to her.

It all seems like a fairytale about a princess, which in truth is, but not just about any princess, about one that diligently works in her cabin, absorbed in her thoughts and a little melancholic, waiting for the prince to light a glow in her. She might help him a bit, entrusting him with a story about herself, and voila! It is just enough to arouse your interest. Like a rebus or a Mercury’s riddle. You may believe it or you may not, but you will think about it and not forget it easily. Until your next encounter, when you notice her in the sea of other Venuses. She is the same girl that looked like a librarian, but now all enthusiastic, in another dress, that reveals her back just enough to tickle your imagination. Because of her deep gaze through the eyelashes you won’t even notice her décolleté. You will be bewildered once again, starting all over, Mercury’s doing. Who is she? The Princess on the pea? Shy and uniformed? Or is there the essence of primeval Lillith living inside her? ... Who knows? You are not going to find the answer, even less likely if there is a touch of haughtiness, vanity and foolishness in you... that’s the way of things with Venus in Virgo – if you’re not the right one, then you are only a passerby.

posted December 29, 2013 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Belba:
I simply adore this thread. Which is why I must show my appreciation by contributing little something. It is a description of this placement, unlike any other I've encountered so far online. It is poetic, a bit idealistic and yet so real. I don't really do the text justice, but I did my best with the translation. The original text can be found on the website: http://www.astrologija.biz/i-jos-jedna-prica-u-nizu/

Venus in Virgo. Theoretically spoken, she is in her fall, but this theory doesn’t necessarily have an impact on her, being a woman of practicality, won’t believe what is said and not proven in practice. She is being judged, just as many before her. Because she is unlike others, she is not one to freely burn in the heat of love. Not one to surrender her body to shadows and illusions. Not one to caress every lip that happens to be nearby. That is why they say she is cold. And when they say she is calculable, the universe is at risk because of this terrorizing untruth.

Her motto is: when the mind is being controlled, the body becomes the slave. The sooner you seize that, the clearer becomes your image of this Venus.
Whoever doesn’t realise that sign Virgo in itself signifies Love, should better not deal with Virgo. She wouldn’t allow it, anyway, for she doesn’t suffer shallow relationships.
Control the mind, as he leads the body. Anyone who is lead by the body quickly loses his mind. Heart here is in unity with the mind, there is no duality in her, and very rare are the changes in her thinking. She loves what she loves, and doesn’t think about that. But to get there, you must walk the thorny path. She will find hundreds of reasons to not meet you, perhaps she’ll even be a bit harsh, if you’ve approached her the wrong way, or even worse, surprised her! I beg your pardon? A surprise? No surprises, do not disturb her still, yet worse, do not interrupt her. She has to decide upon the right time to dedicate herself to you. For when she does, it will be completely. Therefore do not lose all hope, only be patient. If she gave you her number, she will not mislead, deceive you, nor will she lose her interest in you.

She will not lose interest in you, not even when the road takes you so far away, that there is little chance of you meeting again. She will not think about others, even though she rarely hears from you. She will be working with diligence and dedication, meanwhile calling you with her thoughts, paying no regard to logical laws known to human mind. If you are the one who conquered this Venus, this will be the natural effect. She won’t be interested in no one else and that is why she is called cold and distant. Why on earth would she be sweet and accessible to anyone, when in her heart she isn’t really? She won’t smile and flirt with just any stranger on the street, nor will she play a starlet. She might even withdraw when she does not fully master her imagination that touches the very essence of your being. She firmly believes in you, ever since she first trusted you. To double-cross her means to deceive yourself. After some time you realise it might be with her that you first came to understand love. And when you think deeper and further, step by step, just as things went, series of well-thought, concise steps, steps that built this bridge. The bridge that you crossed to reach her, living in profound belief, that you were the one to conquer this complex creature. For some it might be a sign of victorious deed, when in reality it just proves her affection. She weaved a whole web in the name of Love, just because you mean that much to her.

It all seems like a fairytale about a princess, which in truth is, but not just about any princess, about one that diligently works in her cabin, absorbed in her thoughts and a little melancholic, waiting for the prince to light a glow in her. She might help him a bit, entrusting him with a story about herself, and voila! It is just enough to arouse your interest. Like a rebus or a Mercury’s riddle. You may believe it or you may not, but you will think about it and not forget it easily. Until your next encounter, when you notice her in the sea of other Venuses. She is the same girl that looked like a librarian, but now all enthusiastic, in another dress, that reveals her back just enough to tickle your imagination. Because of her deep gaze through the eyelashes you won’t even notice her décolleté. You will be bewildered once again, starting all over, Mercury’s doing. Who is she? The Princess on the pea? Shy and uniformed? Or is there the essence of primeval Lillith living inside her? ... Who knows? You are not going to find the answer, even less likely if there is a touch of haughtiness, vanity and foolishness in you... that’s the way of things with Venus in Virgo – if you’re not the right one, then you are only a passerby.

She might be in her rooms, calling you with her magic lips... she might be the one that notices every one of you and weighs you out... she might even secretly desire you... and reach out her hands... it is all possible. To win the heart of this seemingly shy Venus, you need a secret weapon that whispers... it might be the lips, she once kissed and fell asleep touching them... you were awake and weren’t able to feel the magic. That is why you aren’t in her life anymore.

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Belba, you're my new BFF. I absolutely love it!

I have said it before and I will say it again. I think the misunderstanding about Virgo and even the idea of Venus in Virgo being in its fall has to do with human consciousness going through the Age of Pisces, which was opposite all things Virgoan. I plan to write a more detailed article on that sometime soon.

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posted December 29, 2013 04:25 PM            

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Glad you like it! therefore I officially pronounce you my first BFF here on LL

posted December 30, 2013 12:09 AM            

I think the only reason the people who have said that they are single and have been on a very few dates etc is because we are sooooo picky haha

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Moon in Libra
Rising sign Libra

Honesty is Confidence - Hoodie Allen

posted December 30, 2013 08:16 PM            

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Originally posted by 23:
In human terms, there is nothing with characteristics of this placement. Service is very honourable etc. Compared to the mythological archetype of Venus, however, there is. Venus seduces, is haughty, is generous on her own terms - is diplomacy, giving with a strategy in mind, is possessive and expects everyone to give to her. She is not a servant but a princess. Virgo is practical and gives selflessly and mundane, not flamboyant. Personally, I have no problems with the position but as I've said it clashes with the mythology of how Venus is.

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You make excellent points, however traditional astrology has made Pisces, which is even more self-sacrificing than Virgo, the sign in which Venus is exalted. Pisces' personal is not in line with Venus' mythological persona either.

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posted December 31, 2013 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by 23:
In human terms, there is nothing with characteristics of this placement. Service is very honourable etc. Compared to the mythological archetype of Venus, however, there is. Venus seduces, is haughty, is generous on her own terms - is diplomacy, giving with a strategy in mind, is possessive and expects everyone to give to her. She is not a servant but a princess. Virgo is practical and gives selflessly and mundane, not flamboyant. Personally, I have no problems with the position but as I've said it clashes with the mythology of how Venus is.

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I have to disagree with your points on how extremely different in nature are Virgo and the Venus goddess. They differentiate in some views, in others not so much. The most common perception of mythological Venus might be of the hedonistic seductress you've described, but mythology is much more complex, she is also a goddess of chastity, who could “turn the heart from sexual vice to virtue”, she was after all born out of Uranus’s castration. Also the cult of Aphrodisiac is a common example of a Virgo-like sacrifice, priestesses having sexual intercourses with worshippers as one of the methods of worship (well yes, that also sounds a lot like Fish, just a perfect example of how Virgo and Pisces are so much alike). Besides, the eternal youth and fertility are also the characteristics I would connect with Virgo.

And if I may, (I hope I am not getting too OT with this) I must mention also the Western perceptions of romantic love we have today, which derive from the medieval idea of platonic, chivalrous, sacrificing, suffering love (just check out the legend of Tristan and Isolde), which has been aggrandized by Christianity. OUR perception of love is Piscean love, yet today in modern Western society. Just look at entertainment industry’s cheesy, happy-go-lucky, till the end of time, rose coloured glasses romances that are constantly brainwashing our idea of love. And no offence Pisces, I love you, it’s just that you’re sometimes being used in the wrong way.

posted December 31, 2013 10:46 AM            

A few ViV, when they 1st learned of my autoimmune disorder, looked up the disease to find out what it was, educated themselves, then looked up restaurants I could actually eat in so I could go out and eat with them. Now how can you not love that?

posted January 03, 2014 04:17 PM            

Mine disposits my Libra placements and it tends to blend together for me? Using the Virgo health-consciousness and the eye for detail to make sure I look and feel my best.

It's especially difficult for those who have strong Pisces, Neptune and/or the 12th house as well... double the amount of serving and doing things for others.

I agree with everyone here who said other Virgo placements go best with Venus here. I have found this to be true as well or else Libra, Pisces and Capricorn, possibly Cancer as well. I think they can appreciate someone who is willing to take the backseat to someone else. But we do need to learn when to stand up for ourselves and not just selflessly give, give and give some more. In the end, the wrong type will just take everything and leave you with the mess. I have the Virgo/Neptune combo and boy, has it been hard for me not to trust the wrong people. It's definitely a big lesson for me that has done a number on me with the men and relationships.

posted January 04, 2014 12:38 PM            

But my mom is really weird about curly hair. She doesn't have it, and I'm pretty sure none of her siblings have it.
My sister and I both had curly hair when we where little. Especially my sister. My hair naturally got straight as I got older. But my mom did not know what to do with our hair when we were little. When our hair was DRY she would brush out our hair! So our hair always looked like **** . Unless she forgot to brush our hair. (didn't happen much)

My sister pretty much straightens her hair every day. One day she let it go natural. And mom said. "So what are you going to do with your hair tomorrow?" One time I did an up-do with some curls hanging down to frame my face, and my mom was like "So...whats with the new gettup?" Making hinting comments that she doesn't like it. I did not know that people could be "hairist" haha.

And most recently I've been trying out braid looks. The first time I did a single french braid she really liked it and was impressed. But when she saw me a few days later, I took it out and it was wavy.
She was like "whats going on with your hair? Is it dirty?" "I took out the braid, and it made my hair wavy! You don't like it?" "It looks mangy"
hours later
In a joking way I said "Hey mom my foot hurts, wanna give me a foot massage?" "No, wash your hair!"

Most of the time I think my mom is hilarious when she is like this. I have an 11th house sun and Aqua Mars. Her reactions are priceless. And I'm not gonna gonna change my look for my mom.

My sister on the other hand, might be a bit more sensitive to her criticism. She told me in confidential one day that she wonders if she straightens her hair everyday because of mom.

posted January 04, 2014 12:54 PM              

He's mentions how he loves that my hair is extremely thick and curly because "it's better than thin hair"
Leo seal of approval but he is so conflicted because my hair is not tidy looking. It's flowy yet wild and spontaneous so it appeals to his leo sensibilities .
I have more of a leonine mane then he does
So when I was younger I never use to get length off but more so thin out a lot of the extra bulk.. So he would be like YOU DIDN'T ACTUALLY CUT YOUR HAIR.. -_-
He loved when I has extremely short hair but I looked so stupid lol..