posted October 24, 2015 01:41 PM              

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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
Oh goodness, I couldn't agree more. It seems like I'm going to marry to my job or no white knight is ever going to come to my garden.

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posted October 24, 2015 01:48 PM              

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Just tell me that you love me and mean it. But, don't try too hard. It comes off as too gushy and sappy as well as not entirely sincere. Virgo Venus people place much, much more trust on people's actions than their words. My attitude is "show me you love me, instead of telling me." That's why I prefer very loyal, genuine people who may be less effusive over people who just talk a big game but really don't have much substance or depth when it comes to relationships. I have zero tolerance for flakes.

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posted December 27, 2015 07:53 PM              

However, the few times when I fall in love, I have been extremely dedicated and caring to a fault. I've never ever cheated, but unfortunately the few guys who I've cared about have been.... well..... trash. I'm not cold, and I'm very approachable and easy to talk to. People find themselves sharing things with me that they may not with others, but it's just the way it is. I'm not frigid and the thought of sexual and emotional bonding with that special someone is one of the most beautiful experiences a person can have, but I don't want to do that with just anyone, because for me my body is sacred, and being sexually intimate is sacred for me. And doing that with many people in my opinion cheapens the experience. Others may disagree, and that is fine, but I'm just stating the associations IIIII have with that.

posted December 28, 2015 03:22 AM              

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Originally posted by Southern Sun:
I am sure I've contributed to the thread before, but I can't remember.

I feel like some kind of lonely freak that has missed the memo on love experience. Relationships start and fail before they take off because I am afraid of what's happening if the momentum feel too good to be true, or the guy has too many faults for me to deal with. Or the guy is impatient and doesn't wish to wait for my flower to bloom. I am surely cursed, because working bring me more joy and sense of purpose than an actual relationship...

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Lol yes, you might have.

posted December 28, 2015 05:31 AM            

I'm a workaholic. I'm not social at all, mostly because a lot of people are immature, rude or dumb themselves down for their friends or company. I appreciate someone who takes their relationships and friendships seriously, understands what true loyalty and honesty actually means, and isn't afraid to dish out the truth...I can't stand liars. I would rather hear the cold hard truth than have it sugar coated or be misled to think that they want something that is the complete opposite of what they really want. That might be all of my Mars squares talking, though...

I basically mind my own business until an Aries or Scorpio (or Leo, once, surprisingly) busts the twenty-feet barriers down that I've built around myself. Sadly, I think a lot of people do that just to see what's behind the barrier, and then they lose any interest they had when they realize I'm not like, living a secret life or something. It's like, nope, just a quiet Virgo who loves her cats.

I have a warm, loving heart. I just don't trust a lot of people, and in between relationships I tend to forget that there's actually nice people in the world. Venus in Virgo can sometimes easily be taken advantage of, too, which can make us a little jaded at times.

posted December 28, 2015 07:18 AM            

I feel like it is pointless being in a relationship unless I have very strong feelings and see long term potential with he guy. I could never just be in a relationship with someone.

posted December 06, 2022 05:51 PM            

Virgo's need to watch the criticism. There is a charm and humor to their critical nature that some are drawn to...including me. But when someone is criticizing more than appreciating them, they just become a huge downer to be around. Like when you leave the room, the sun comes back out.
In my experience and observations if the person dealing with too much criticism and lack of appreciation they may not leave you physically at first but they will emotionally.

posted December 06, 2022 07:06 PM            

People consume people in relationships these days, wanting excitement and quick-fix from others. Possibly as a panacea to their own inner pains.

Depth, and clarity, are often missing as a result because people end up having too many chaotic experiences, tending to chase outward for solutions.

Virgo tends to go inward and find esteem and love, by hyper-focusing on their own world. Their routines and etc, the small things they are tenacious about.

I could be wrong of course, and maybe I am only talking about some sectors of society that are rushing around looking for outward solutions.

posted December 10, 2022 02:05 PM            

I prefer independence bcs I don't want people to interfere with me. I love to work. I prefer clean cut men, but that doesn't mean I don't appreciate a scruffy one too.

I am a pain in the ass and high maintenance, but I provide for my own maintenance so I don't need to adjust down for anyone. I should add I am only high maintenance in certain things- I like my routines, I like my self defined sense of order. I like my coffee a certain way, and I want chocolate and wine after dinner. I like exercise in the morning, and I want to sleep with the fans on high ... that kind of high maintenance. Other than that, I am low key and low need. But I totally agree that I am a pain in the ass, and sometimes I annoy myself.

I show my love in service and the fastest way to infuriate me is to be unappreciative. Ask my kids. I will do whatever I feel my friend or partner would appreciate most- clean their house, cook them dinner, write a love note, buy them something fancy... it's about them.