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Topic: How do you react when angered?
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1079 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 06:23 AM
Sun in virgo conjunction mars in virgo, and mars opposition moon and square uranus.I think I get very aries-like when I get angry, I get a sharp tongue and a hot head, but still being able to focus my eyes on what I think is important! IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 21, 2013 06:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by chargeomentum: Aries sun, Taurus mars.
Idk whats more shocking to me.. the fact that someone punched you in the face for no reason (you sure you didn't kiss his girl or something?), or the fact that you're an ARIES who didn't return the favor right away.. IP: Logged |
Jinni Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 08:42 AM
I think Taurus mars makes aperson very very slow to react.I hardly get mad, I can be annoyed though and then you can hear it in my voice as it gets bit stretched and my usually long-winded replies are much shorter or I can be whiney. If I do get mad (this does occur maybe every second or third year) I irritate other person until they have had enough and snap and then I usually start cry and playing a role of martyr. Not nice or mature way to express anger at all. Sun in Pisces, Mars in Taurus Sun in P IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 02:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by chargeomentum: Aries sun, Taurus mars.I never start a fight, I mean never. But I think I live up to taurus mars really well. I remember someone punched me in the face one day, for no reason lol. He said it was an accident, when I was sitting half a metre away from him, that couldn't be an accident. Well I didn't do anything about that just continued on listening to teacher. But then he started to giggle, and told other ppl that he punched me in the face. Inside I got so angry lol, that I even started to sweat, like drinking whisky or vodka or anything that makes you red. And when teacher gave us a task to do I punched him back, but none of us said anything about that lol, that was very awkward indeed. In short: I don't do anything unless they become like little annoying buzzy inscects.
I can't believe you didn't do anything!!!!!!!! That's insane lol are you sure you're an Aries  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 02:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by 11nahyt: Idk whats more shocking to me.. the fact that someone punched you in the face for no reason (you sure you didn't kiss his girl or something?), or the fact that you're an ARIES who didn't return the favor right away..
That blew me away too lmao!!! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6717 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 21, 2013 03:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: What's your sun and mars sign!?
It depends who it's with. You can feel it when I'm truly angry though. I'm conscious of this so I try not to yell, but will probably raise my voice if in the moment. I can't see myself ever getting in a physical altercation (with the exception of my life being at risk). I almost did once in high school after many sleepless nights and being put on new medication for ADD. Even then I was wobbly since I was not used to having an audience. I'm more comfortable with verbal disagreements than physical ones, so that's how I express myself most often. Putting them in their place, or knocking people off their high horse is satisfaction enough for me. Sun and Mars are in my signature...(eta: which apparently isn't included. Aries Sun, Mars in Gemini) Aspects: Sun squared Saturn Sun square Neptune Sun conjunct Mercury Sun conjunct Venus Sun sextile Mars Sun sextile ASC Mars conjunct ASC Mars sextile Mercury Mars sextile Venus Mars inconjunct Pluto IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: It depends who it's with. With my mother I yell, with my dad I get mad but try to control it so it's usually just some looks and seething. With my friends I ignore them, with love interests I usually just fade unless I feel like I've put up with much more crap than they have from me in which case I tell them what I really think which often blindsides them (I don't do that on purpose though. Or do I? Maybe subconsciously, hmm.) You can feel it when I'm truly angry though, I know this so I tend not to yell although I may raise my voice if I get going.Sun and Mars are in my signature... Aspects: Sun squared Saturn Sun square Neptune Sun conjunct Mercury Sun conjunct Venus Sun sextile Mars Sun sextile ASC Mars conjunct ASC Mars sextile Mercury Mars sextile Venus Mars inconjunct Pluto
In a way I'm like that too and of course the environment I'm in. I'm easily embarrassed or when someone makes a scene. I freak out and try to make myself as less noticeable as possible. But without a doubt you definitely can tell when I'm upset. My eyes change and just my whole aura changes. The littlest thing will upset me it's from a family member or loved one but if it's from someone else I could really cares less. Instead I think horrible thoughts about those people in my head. Lol
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6717 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 21, 2013 03:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: In a way I'm like that too and of course the environment I'm in. I'm easily embarrassed or when someone makes a scene. I freak out and try to make myself as less noticeable as possible. But without a doubt you definitely can tell when I'm upset. My eyes change and just my whole aura changes. The littlest thing will upset me it's from a family member or loved one but if it's from someone else I could really cares less. Instead I think horrible thoughts about those people in my head. Lol
Interesting, you have Mars in Cancer and only loved ones can take you to "that" level? I feel the same way but my Mars has nothing to do with Cancer. Just good ol' Moon opposition Pluto. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Interesting, you have Mars in Cancer and only loved ones can take you to "that" level? I feel the same way but my Mars has nothing to do with Cancer. Just good ol' Moon opposition Pluto.
Heres my chart http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_2gw_01_barbie_hp.69379.10389.gif&res=60&va=&cid=mobile-8pnfile8J3A0G-u1379114470 IP: Logged |
orocairion Knowflake Posts: 218 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:19 PM
My Pisces Asc/Neptune-Sun conjunction seems to curb a lot of my MIS+Pluto and Aries Moon agression.If angry, I'll do my best to ignore you or I'll be deliberately blunt but composed. I'll avoid any physical confrontation if I can as well. Now, if you still manage to make me explode, you better hide. Last time it happened, my mom(who was the one who triggered) was completely horrified and surprised to the point of saying she didn't recognize me at all. But it takes a LOT to get me to that breaking point. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:19 PM
I had a very crazy life growing up and I think that's why IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by orocairion: My Pisces Asc/Neptune-Sun conjunction seems to curb a lot of my MIS+Pluto and Aries Moon agression.If angry, I'll do my best to ignore you or I'll be deliberately blunt but composed. I'll avoid any physical confrontation if I can as well. Now, if you still manage to make me explode, you better hide. Last time it happened, my mom(who was the one who triggered) was completely horrified and surprised to the point of saying she didn't recognize me at all. But it takes a LOT to get me to that breaking point.
It takes a lot for me too and for some reason my family really irritates and annoys me. I think that steams from always feeling different and that I didn't fit in with them IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6717 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 21, 2013 03:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Heres my chart http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lan g=e&gif=astro_2gw_01_barbie_hp.69379.10389.gif&res=60&va=&cid=mobile-8pnfile8J3A0G-u1379114470
You know what though... I've noticed Libras (unless they have a water moon) are rather explosive. Moreso than any Aries' I've been around. Aries seem to get noticeably frustrated but when Libra snaps, they leave scars. You have Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra. Your temper makes sense to me despite how everyone gushes Libras just want to please everybody. 
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: You know what though... I've noticed Libras (unless they have a water moon) are rather explosive. Moreso than any Aries' I've been around. Aries seem to get noticeably frustrated but when Libra snaps, they leave scars. You have Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra. Your temper makes sense to me despite how everyone gushes Libras just want to please everybody. 
And the fact that I have Pluto dominance doesn't help it either. I know a ton of libra with multiple libra aspects who are really awesome people but when pushed get extremely violent and really leave a mark. People are always talking about how Libras aren't deep and blah blah blah when really we are extremely and just so much better than Aquas!
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PlutoFish Knowflake Posts: 1963 From: Sumeria Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:28 PM
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PlutoFish Knowflake Posts: 1963 From: Sumeria Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:29 PM
Scorpio Asc Conj Scorpio Pluto + Scorpio JupiterMars Leo 9th square Asc, Pluto + Jupiter Sagittarius Sun 1st Aries Decan IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoFish: Angrily 
What are you talking about!?  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: What are you talking about!? 
Ooooooh wait you were responding to the topic lol I thought you were making fun of me. Describe your anger!?? IP: Logged |
orocairion Knowflake Posts: 218 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 03:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: It takes a lot for me too and for some reason my family really irritates and annoys me. I think that steams from always feeling different and that I didn't fit in with them
Indeed family seems to trigger things faster. I have no idea why my mother really irks me and gets me annoyed extremely fast without much effort compared to everyone else. And when I was younger and I didn't have much self countrol, things weren't pretty. I was bullied a lot in 6th grade, until one day I had enough and I tried to stab a kid with a school compass and chased another with a pair of scissors. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 04:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by orocairion: Indeed family seems to trigger things faster. I have no idea why my mother really irks me and gets me annoyed extremely fast without much effort compared to everyone else.And when I was younger and I didn't have much self countrol, things weren't pretty. I was bullied a lot in 6th grade, until one day I had enough and I tried to stab a kid with a school compass and chased another with a pair of scissors.
Oh my gosh! Were you expelled from school? And my mom too I don't know what it is but I've always felt like I was adopted. I'm so different from everyone in my family. I moved away and it's like we're growing more and more apart and I don't even care honestly. I'm completely peaceful and just enjoying life. That probably sounds terrible
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freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 1203 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 05:20 PM
Sag mars - Quick to anger, quick to get over it. I think conflict is healthy.I fight with my dad all the time, we yell at each other, storm away from each other, and then after a while of giving each other the silent treatment we ease back into our relationship - his moon is in sag. Usually I just need time to work out my anger and then I'm good, but also kicking a ball at a wall always helps. It's weird but people who can't handle conflict kind of offend me, I don't want to make nice all the time, I want to be wild and chaotic, and I find that healthier than the avoidance of conflict. This is probably why even though I should technically get along with Libras...I just don't or at least I can't get close to them. (Hope I didn't offend anyone, I really just have some personal issues surrounding people avoiding conflict stemming from growing up with someone with BPD.) IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 637 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 05:36 PM
Hide it all inside (Cancer mars) then explode behind the scenes because i'm self conscious what others think of me (Sag sun) I like to appear strong to people even if im dying inside. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 06:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: Hide it all inside (Cancer mars) then explode behind the scenes because i'm self conscious what others think of me (Sag sun) I like to appear strong to people even if im dying inside.
I'm the same way but only loved ones and people close to me are the ones that I care about what they think. I have cancer mars as well just in the 8th house. I've been called secretive but a lot of people and that I definitely think steams from my 12th house scorpio venus. I also like to appear strong when I'm everything but that inside. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3998 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 21, 2013 07:34 PM
I forgot to mention that once I got older I started working out more and sometimes when I'm angry (or even just stressed out) I engage in some physical activity (I also love the sauna) it helps me get it out of my system fast (I've got so much Sag energy...). Some physical activities also demand my full attention as well which can also prove useful at times. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1608 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 21, 2013 09:31 PM
Libra Sun h10. Cancer Mars h8, square Mercury, opp. Neptune-Uranus. I get nasty. Forked tongue. Mean insults. Quick rapid speech and a tirade of meanness. Verbal attacks. My head starts hurting. This all goes with merc-mars. I'm extremely mean, the meanest to my family since I put them on a pedestal and feel like they betray me more than they should. Mars opposes my 4h ruler. For friends and people I know less well I'm more apt to be quietly cruel and become aloof and silent because I'm concerned with fitting in socially but I'm volcanic, sometimes I just end up exploding and going on rants against people's crappy behaviors especially when they ignore me, treat me lower than themselves or act hypocritical. IP: Logged |