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Topic: How do you react when angered?
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Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Midwest Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:32 PM
Frustrated: I try to walk away but most likely SOMETHING is going to get hit or kicked. LOL Angry: Someone will get a lengthy butt chewing or if a bigger issue I'm like a Hyena. Every time they turn away I'll take a nip until they can't stand it. (could be over months of time) IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: Frustrated: I try to walk away but most likely SOMETHING is going to get hit or kicked. LOL Angry: Someone will get a lengthy butt chewing or if a bigger issue I'm like a Hyena. Every time they turn away I'll take a nip until they can't stand it. (could be over months of time)
Aweeeee you sound so very violent yet so sweet Zander hahahahha  IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 08:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: It's so weird I'm the same way about my family too yet flip out and never feel like I fit in with them. And I agree with people being the most hurt when you leave abruptly. It shocks people who aren't used to that happening to them. I've had a lot of people shocked and surprised when I defend myself or others they don't expect it from such a little person. But hey if you don't stand up for yourself or what you believe in who else will!? We were born in this world alone and leave it the exact same way. I've been burned way too many times in my life that I just don't even bother depending on people.
Good for you! Keep sticking up for yourself. And don't ever rely/depend on any person COMPLETELY.
I'm also a big fighter for "The Underdog". When I'm angry...I *must* get it off my chest. Have to do that!!! I'm not going to constantly repress my feelings to please you after you've hurt me. My tone & voice are ALWAYS standouts to people - you'll know when I have an issue to address with you. I can YELL with the best of 'em! But I prefer NOT to get there. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Good for you! Keep sticking up for yourself. And don't ever rely/depend on any person COMPLETELY. I'm also a big fighter for "The Underdog". When I'm angry...I *must* get it off my chest. Have to do that!!! I'm not going to constantly repress my feelings to please you after you've hurt me. My tone & voice are ALWAYS standouts to people - you'll know when I have an issue to address with you.
I've always felt like I was born to defend the people who don't defend themselves. I hate when peope who can defend themselves pick on the ones who can't. It's like pick on someone your own size and with the same attitude. My eyes give it away they get devil like lol. IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Midwest Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 09:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Aweeeee you sound so very violent yet so sweet Zander hahahahha 
Hahaha! It's not so bad. In reference to a girlfriend/spouse here. Lets say I'm extremely frustrated with something or some situation and I'm just going stupid crazy. The best thing to do? Just walk up, sweetly give me a hug and/or kiss and say "I love you" if in fact you're both in love. Or, "lets come back to this later when you've had a chance to cool off. Lets go do something." Just things like that. If I'm yelled at or told I'm acting stupid I'll just get worse. LOL If I'm frustrated WITH that person... just walk away. I'll cool down pretty quickly. The angry part. It takes a LOT for me to be that way. I might be able to count on one hand the number of times that I've ever really tormented someone. LOL It should be zero, but it is what it is I guess. I get better with age. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 09:10 PM
@Zander Aweeee that's the best thing to do for me too. There's nothing like a hug and reassurance from the one you love. I love hugs I'd be a people hugger if it were a real job. It really just changes people. We all need love and told every once in a while that we aren't crazy no matter how much we think so at times high five friend 👏👏👏IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 669 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 09:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: @Zander Aweeee that's the best thing to do for me too. There's nothing like a hug and reassurance from the one you love. I love hugs I'd be a people hugger if it were a real job. It really just changes people. We all need love and told every once in a while that we aren't crazy no matter how much we think so at times high five friend 👏👏👏
i agree haha i could hug people all day ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 09:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: i agree haha i could hug people all day
Aren't hugs just so amazing lol  IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Midwest Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 09:55 PM
Only if they have big boobs. Just kidding!
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11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 09:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: Only if they have big boobs. Just kidding!
Lmfao. No you're not. I don't like hugs, unless its a guy i like so i can grope a bit :-X IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 10:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: Only if they have big boobs. Just kidding!
Hahahaha no you're not  IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 10:00 PM
Lol Barbie whats up with me and you having the same thoughts at the Same time?! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 10:02 PM
Hahahaha because we're awesome  IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 10:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I've always felt like I was born to defend the people who don't defend themselves. I hate when peope who can defend themselves pick on the ones who can't.
Aww we're kindred spirits IN ANGER That's so cute! IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 10:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: Hahaha! It's not so bad. In reference to a girlfriend/spouse here. Lets say I'm extremely frustrated with something or some situation and I'm just going stupid crazy. The best thing to do? Just walk up, sweetly give me a hug and/or kiss and say "I love you" if in fact you're both in love. Or, "lets come back to this later when you've had a chance to cool off. Lets go do something." Just things like that. If I'm yelled at or told I'm acting stupid I'll just get worse. LOL If I'm frustrated WITH that person... just walk away. I'll cool down pretty quickly. The angry part. It takes a LOT for me to be that way. I might be able to count on one hand the number of times that I've ever really tormented someone. LOL It should be zero, but it is what it is I guess. I get better with age.
Just read this. You & I are also Twins. This is nuts! I was reading your reply and thinking "Did my soul just transport over to Zander's computer and type that comment?" I'm truly this EXACT same way. Yes! P.S - Hugs are the best!!!!!!  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 10:13 PM
Hahahahahaha it is! Team Underdog!  IP: Logged |
orocairion Knowflake Posts: 218 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 11:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Oh my gosh! Were you expelled from school? And my mom too I don't know what it is but I've always felt like I was adopted. I'm so different from everyone in my family. I moved away and it's like we're growing more and more apart and I don't even care honestly. I'm completely peaceful and just enjoying life. That probably sounds terrible
I didn't get caught. Back then, we would go long periods without supervision. Plus, it was quite a large school. I think the issues with my mother are made worse by the fact she is an Aries Sun and I'm an Aries Moon, so clashes can't be avoided. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 12:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by orocairion: I didn't get caught. Back then, we would go long periods without supervision. Plus, it was quite a large school.I think the issues with my mother are made worse by the fact she is an Aries Sun and I'm an Aries Moon, so clashes can't be avoided.
My moms a Taurus and we clashed terribly when I lived at home. I'm so glad I don't anymore. And I'm really glad you didn't get into any trouble. You'd probably be in some serious shiat IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Midwest Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 12:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Just read this. You & I are also Twins. This is nuts! I was reading your reply and thinking "Did my soul just transport over to Zander's computer and type that comment?" I'm truly this EXACT same way. Yes! P.S - Hugs are the best!!!!!! 
That deserves a hug! IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 23, 2013 12:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: That deserves a hug!
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3998 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 23, 2013 01:52 AM
I never cared much for bullies either. I would guess that's my Libra asserting itself. Or maybe my Sag doesn't like the bad vibes and/or doesn't consider it sporting. (It might be similar to how I respect hunting but get disgusted when people massacre ducks with full auto fire or shoot an animal in a cage.) Interesting enough, I once attacked a cheerleader not because she and her friends were giving me a bad time but to hopefully stop them from tormenting others by making them wonder if they'd be attacked again. She even mocked my friend to me (not knowing she was dead, but I wasn't angry, just missed her yet glad she wasn't there to hear that as she'd been scared of being targeted by her), but I didn't care, I cared more for the complete strangers she destroyed for fun. Still, I was made to pay for it. But much worse was when I stood up to a vile adult when I was 13 who sadistically tormented teens in his power (unfortunately I was one of them). That's when I learned that Hell has outposts on earth and sometimes evil wins. IP: Logged |
bethbabe Knowflake Posts: 481 From: CA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 23, 2013 01:54 AM
I have libra both in sun and mars! eh....the need for balance is killing me sometimes!!!How do i react to anger varies depending on whom i'm with and the where it happens. But yes, I can be pretty explosive once i feel like i'm being pushed to the edge...a typical libra mars...i guess? IP: Logged |
meissieri Knowflake Posts: 853 From: The Netherlands Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 08:24 AM
Leo sun & Mars in Virgo, both in the 11th house. I get very stressed out, the stress kind of getting trapped in my body, giving me physical pain. I hate fighting and being angry scares me, I tend to try and work around it, put it into something useful. But when I do get angry... my voice raises, I make biting sarcastic comments at the person I'm mad at. I usually either try to talk about it or withdraw to rant somewhere private. Oh, I can rant for ages - the Virgo in me remembers everything you've done to me, and you're going to hear it! (I'm joking here, but I'm actually serious.) It's usually after having tried everything else, you can count on that, even if it doesn't look that way (I'm quite subtle as I don't want anyone else to suffer). For an outsider, it may look as if I'm blowing up over something tiny, while it's actually that last thing that I couldn't have, too. I hate not feeling useful and appreciated. If that goes on for months, especially when being cussed out or laughed at when I try to talk about it, yep that's it. IP: Logged |
FelineStarChild Newflake Posts: 9 From: Florida, US Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 02:53 PM
When I get angry it's like 0 to boiling point in a nanosecond, I have the tendency to blow things out of proportion when i'm madI can also hold a killer grudge if we don't work things out shortly afterwards. The longer I have to think about how mad I am, the more mad I get. I don't "cool down" by walking away. I'm very forgiving though, under the right circumstances, so settling the argument within the hour or so is NECESSARY. Sun Leo, Mars Libra IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 03:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by bethbabe: I have libra both in sun and mars! eh....the need for balance is killing me sometimes!!!How do i react to anger varies depending on whom i'm with and the where it happens. But yes, I can be pretty explosive once i feel like i'm being pushed to the edge...a typical libra mars...i guess?
Imagine having 5 placements and Pluto dominance like me. It's unreal how I crave balance! It drives me absolutely insane when things are smooth. And I'm obsessed with depth and intensity. I love really deep conversations about any and everything.
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