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Topic: How do you react when angered?
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 21, 2013 09:44 PM
@sweet scorpion I seriously feel like you read my mind!!! I'm the exact same way and I that's exactly why I'm so mean to my family because they've betrayed me! And I didn't think about that until you said it and it made so much sense. I'm so sorry they treated you that way especially your own family! You sound sooooooooooo much like me it's scary!!!!!! Go team Libra! Lol my sun squares my mars and my mars opposes Neptune and Uranus.IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 870 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted September 22, 2013 05:05 AM
Sun in Sagittarius Mars in LibraWhen angry, I tend to brood. I don't want to talk, don't want to even look at the person. I get icy and cold. I seldom explode, I just cut them out of my life for the time being. But it also happens that , in other occasions, I just explode. I just snap and tell the person exactly what is on my mind. I think that in time I will also get violent. Sometimes I just feel so much anger. I think that has everything to do with my Mars in Libra. A lot of people think that this ,ars position is passive aggressive. That may be true , but has anyone heard of Richard Kuklinski? To me that is Mars in Libra raging.
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chargeomentum Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 11:56 AM
He actually didn't do that on purpose, I just got to know that now. Plus the teacher was looking at us most of the time so I didn't want to bring in more drama. Btw it's just only a stereotype of Aries to be that badass-nobody-can-touch-him/her person. Just a stereotype. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 637 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 12:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I'm the same way but only loved ones and people close to me are the ones that I care about what they think. I have cancer mars as well just in the 8th house. I've been called secretive but a lot of people and that I definitely think steams from my 12th house scorpio venus. I also like to appear strong when I'm everything but that inside.
Yeah, i don't know if its a blessing or a curse. It's mostly secretive anger, my libra ascendant makes it worse because i want balance with people. Neptune aspects just makes me avoid conflict altogether. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 05:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: What's your sun and mars sign!? I'm a person who silently steams and then eventually freaks out. I get extremely quiet and don't say anything for a long time until I've had enough and eventually all hell breaks lose. I scream, throw and break things. Can get extremely violent. My sun is libra 11th house and my mars is in cancer the 8th house.
-Aries Sun -Mars Cap -Pluto in 1st House My Aries Sun moves *quickly* and if pushed far enough...will indeed BEAT THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS OUT OF YOU. Especially about my family. However, I usually don't get to that point. My Mars-Cap will try to be mature & dignified at first, trying to come to a sensible solution. My Pluto will plot against & intimidate you & come for you though! If I decide NOT to come for you...that means I'm cutting you *OFF*. You're DONE like a steak on a blazing grill!!! I'll never allow you into my circle again. I find that people are the most hurt by this -- losing you so abruptly.
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 07:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: Yeah, i don't know if its a blessing or a curse. It's mostly secretive anger, my libra ascendant makes it worse because i want balance with people. Neptune aspects just makes me avoid conflict altogether.
I hear ya. Sometimes I feel like it is and others times it's the greatest thing. I'm just glad I'm not the only person who feels or reacts the way I do. Thank you for sharing  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 07:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: -Aries Sun -Mars Cap -Pluto in 1st HouseMy Aries Sun moves *quickly* and if pushed far enough...will indeed BEAT THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS OUT OF YOU. Especially about my family. However, I usually don't get to that point. My Mars-Cap will try to be mature & dignified at first, trying to come to a sensible solution. My Pluto will plot against & intimidate you & come for you though! If I decide NOT to come for you...that means I'm cutting you *OFF*. You're DONE like a steak on a blazing grill!!! I'll never allow you into my circle again. I find that people are the most hurt by this -- losing you so abruptly.
It's so weird I'm the same way about my family too yet flip out and never feel like I fit in with them. And I agree with people being the most hurt when you leave abruptly. It shocks people who aren't used to that happening to them. I've had a lot of people shocked and surprised when I defend myself or others they don't expect it from such a little person. But hey if you don't stand up for yourself or what you believe in who else will!? We were born in this world alone and leave it the exact same way. I've been burned way too many times in my life that I just don't even bother depending on people.
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11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 07:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by chargeomentum: He actually didn't do that on purpose, I just got to know that now. Plus the teacher was looking at us most of the time so I didn't want to bring in more drama. Btw it's just only a stereotype of Aries to be that badass-nobody-can-touch-him/her person. Just a stereotype.
The Aries I've met sure lived up to their stereotypes lol. Of course that doesn't mean i expect all Aries to be this way. I was being somewhat sarcastic when i replied to your comment . IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 669 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 07:45 PM
i get angry very quickly. im usually quick to let it go after some resolution however. when i get angry, i feel restless. i just get into this mode where i want to do everything that needs to be done, tie up EVERY SINGLE one of the loose ends in my life. i attribute that to my mars opposition jupiter.
------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 07:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by 11nahyt: The Aries I've met sure lived up to their stereotypes lol. Of course that doesn't mean i expect all Aries to be this way. I was being somewhat sarcastic when i replied to your comment .
Quite a few Aries I know are like that to the extreme. It's annoying and extremely unattractive. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 07:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: i get angry very quickly. im usually quick to let it go after some resolution however. when i get angry, i feel restless. i just get into this mode where i want to do everything that needs to be done, tie up EVERY SINGLE one of the loose ends in my life. i attribute that to my mars opposition jupiter.
I clean everything!!! I angrily clean everything so fast hahahaha IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3185 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I clean everything!!! I angrily clean everything so fast hahahaha
That kinda helps me too when I'm angry, lol. Maybe because I'm a Virgo? IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: That kinda helps me too when I'm angry, lol. Maybe because I'm a Virgo?
All the Virgos I know are the biggest slobs IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3185 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: All the Virgos I know are the biggest slobs
Well if you count me, I'm certainly not one  I have so much fun organizing, no joke. My friends think I'm just being myself as they always say about everything, lol. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3185 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: Well if you count me, I'm certainly not one  I have so much fun organizing, no joke. My friends think I'm just being myself as they always say about everything, lol.
I don't really have any close Virgo friends that I know in person, so I'm the only one, lol. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3185 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: All the Virgos I know are the biggest slobs
Maybe they're like that because they got tired of worrying about cleaning every little thing every time, so they just take the all or nothing route if the can't clean everything. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: Well if you count me, I'm certainly not one  I have so much fun organizing, no joke. My friends think I'm just being myself as they always say about everything, lol.
Hahahahha you're so adorable  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: I don't really have any close Virgo friends that I know in person, so I'm the only one, lol.
I know soooooooo many it's ridiculous and sooooo many Libras where I live. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3185 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Hahahahha you're so adorable 
Thanks adorabear sweetie  IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3185 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I know soooooooo many it's ridiculous and sooooo many Libras where I live.
I have a few close Libras, but no Virgos, lol  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:21 PM
Libras are something else! Especially the older guys 
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Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3185 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Libras are something else! Especially the older guys 
Yeah, I feel that I gt along the best and easiest with my Libra friends  IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1321 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:22 PM
For me, it depends on what level of anger I'm at...When I'm just your usual angry, antagonised and annoyed, I'll shut up and shut everything out, almost always removing myself from the situation. When I feel personally offended, be it a slight to my character, be ir a slight to my beliefs and values, I feel as if I'm experiencing everything from afar. I start bringing up things I didn't even remember nor realised that I knew, in order to shock/shame them, to show how wrong and contradictory they are... I can count the number of times that's happened before on one hand (4 times). I've Sun in Virgo, ASC in Capricorn, Moon in Aquarius, Venus in Leo and Mars in Aries. Don't know how that factors into anything, lol. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: For me, it depends on what level of anger I'm at...When I'm just your usual angry, antagonised and annoyed, I'll shut up and shut everything out, almost always removing myself from the situation. When I feel personally offended, be it a slight to my character, be ir a slight to my beliefs and values, I feel as if I'm experiencing everything from afar. I start bringing up things I didn't even remember nor realised that I knew, in order to shock/shame them, to show how wrong and contradictory they are... I can count the number of times that's happened before on one hand (4 times). I've Sun in Virgo, ASC in Capricorn, Moon in Aquarius, Venus in Leo and Mars in Aries. Don't know how that factors into anything, lol.
I'm not really sure either lol just curious if maybe if someone had the same as me felt but thank you for sharing  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 22, 2013 08:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: Yeah, I feel that I gt along the best and easiest with my Libra friends 
I do too until one of us disagrees with something then it's like all hell breaks through too many people trying to balance each other balance each other lmfao IP: Logged |