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Topic: How do you react when angered?
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chargeomentum Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 03:51 PM
In any case why do we even reply to this topic? It's like saying we were born like that but we can't do things differently. "You were meant to be angry ******* who punches every living organic being in their so called faces", doesn't mean you have to do that right? Nobody told you to do that, right? Like I said, ppl just want to live up to their stereotypes for some reason, and not use their brains. Or just because you are a supposed to be the weak guy or girl, doesn't mean you have to be one. There is no such rule okay. No such rule. Do not forget that, please.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 07:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by chargeomentum: In any case why do we even reply to this topic? It's like saying we were born like that but we can't do things differently. "You were meant to be angry ******* who punches every living organic being in their so called faces", doesn't mean you have to do that right? Nobody told you to do that, right? Like I said, ppl just want to live up to their stereotypes for some reason, and not use their brains. Or just because you are a supposed to be the weak guy or girl, doesn't mean you have to be one. There is no such rule okay. No such rule. Do not forget that, please.
I was upset at the time that I wrote this and was curious as how to everyone else acted when upset. You DID NOT and NEVER have to respond to any topic that you don't want to hear or talk about. So thanks for responding no one else has seemed to mind it. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 23, 2013 09:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: And I'm obsessed with depth and intensity. I love really deep conversations about any and everything.
Tell me about it!!! I've said the word "Intense" on this board more than I've ever said the word in my entire life! I need to just tattoo the word on my back. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 23, 2013 09:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I was upset at the time that I wrote this and was curious as how to everyone else acted when upset. You DID NOT and NEVER have to respond to any topic that you don't want to hear or talk about. So thanks for responding no one else has seemed to mind it.
LOL Touche! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 09:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Tell me about it!!!I've said the word "Intense" on this board more than I've ever said the word in my entire life! I need to just tattoo the word on my back.
Hahahaha good idea! Id rather be intense and passionate than to not be. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1611 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 10:01 PM
First my blood boils. It runs very hot. Then i feel my whole body get very hot. Then i shake with rage because I need to react. Then i blow like a volcano. My words are enough to hurt someone.
------------------ Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp) Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 10:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: First my blood boils. It runs very hot. Then i feel my whole body get very hot. Then i shake with rage because I need to react. Then i blow like a volcano. My words are enough to hurt someone.
I've yet to witness the explosiveness of a gemini but have heard very scary stories lol
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3998 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 23, 2013 11:24 PM
I've heard scary stories about enraged Geminis, too. Like I know this one guy who has casually faced horrors and willingly (and soberly) traded blows with cops (once in a jail cell, he paid for that one in spades...) and yet his Gemini mom called him in a rage over something he'd said in a letter (she took it the wrong way) and had a meltdown on his answering machine. Said his mom sounded demon possessed and though there was no way his mom could get to him that voice terrified him, said it was the stuff of nightmares (though she was a terror, held a knife to his throat once when she thought he stole her cigarettes, I imagine that left an impression on him). I don't recall him saying that she was particularly coherent as she shrieked and I didn't hear it so I don't know the details. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3998 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 23, 2013 11:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: My words are enough to hurt someone
What do you mean? Like physical pain?  In my observation it's almost impossible NOT to hurt people with words, even when trying to be nice! And of course when people TRY to hurt on purpose as many do well I understand there's an epidemic of suicide inspired at least in part by mean words said by complete strangers (as in never interacted with them online or off!) on the net... Therefore I don't see what's remarkable about being able to "hurt people with words" and thus my question for clarification. IP: Logged |
chargeomentum Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 07:42 AM
still you don't react the same every time... unless you are not human.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 08:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by chargeomentum: still you don't react the same every time... unless you are not human.
Well duh................... LOL Who reacts the same with anything it was just a question that once again you didn't have to respond or say anything to if you didn't want to. Please take your ridiculous and just plain unnecessary argument somewhere else IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1611 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 09:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: What do you mean? Like physical pain?  In my observation it's almost impossible NOT to hurt people with words, even when trying to be nice! And of course when people TRY to hurt on purpose as many do well I understand there's an epidemic of suicide inspired at least in part by mean words said by complete strangers (as in never interacted with them online or off!) on the net... Therefore I don't see what's remarkable about being able to "hurt people with words" and thus my question for clarification.
I think you're confused. I never said i was a bully who purposely singles people out did i? It takes alot to get me angry. When i blow i blow! I dont go looking for trouble with people. Now if someone messes with me then yes i am gonna boil over. That is the only time it happens. Otherwise im a sweet outgoing person. I will defend anyone against a bully.
Im 31 years old. I know better than to bully someone.
The topic is how do you react when angered. Obviously its asking how you react when someone angers you.
It doesnt ask how do you bully people. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3998 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 24, 2013 05:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: I think you're confused. I never said i was a bully who purposely singles people out did i?
That wasn't what I was asking. Instead of trying to explain why I found your statement confusing again I'll just ask simply this time: What do you mean your words cause pain in a way that's different from the words of everyone else? IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 314 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 24, 2013 06:02 PM
9MH retro Mars in Taurus. 2H Sun in Libra. I am very slow to anger and have literally seen red when in a rage. When I was younger, I would bully the bullies and have the scars to show it. My litmus test these days is the question "Is this person's misdeed worth jail time?".My 3H Merc Scorpio opposes this Mars and I have to watch my mouth as I can be verbally cruel when angered. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 07:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by fireopal09: 9MH retro Mars in Taurus. 2H Sun in Libra. I am very slow to anger and have literally seen red when in a rage. When I was younger, I would bully the bullies and have the scars to show it. My litmus test these days is the question "Is this person's misdeed worth jail time?".My 3H Merc Scorpio opposes this Mars and I have to watch my mouth as I can be verbally cruel when angered.
Hahaha misdeed I hear ya there lmfao I don't know what's going on but I've been extremely verbal as of lately and really have been just saying what's on my mind regardless of it's the right or wrong thing when I normally always think about what I'm gonna say at least 3 or 4 sometimes even 5 times lol. So something is definitely going on with scorpio this week because it's bad IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Midwest Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 07:34 PM
I've been rather peaceful the last few weeks. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 07:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: I've been rather peaceful the last few weeks.
I dunno what's going on I feel sort of more liberated in a way and have just not been afraid to say how I feel. Not that I ever was before just more appropriate about it if that's makes much sense. IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 24, 2013 07:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: I've been rather peaceful the last few weeks.
Me too. I think its the affect of the full moon all last week in my first.lVenus was conjunct my sun too, Late August early September. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3290 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 07:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by 11nahyt: Me too. I think its the affect of the full moon all last week in my first.lVenus was conjunct my sun too, Late August early September.
Then what in the heck's going on with me!!? Lol  IP: Logged |
11nahyt Knowflake Posts: 3431 From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 24, 2013 08:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Then what in the heck's going on with me!!? Lol 
You have natal moon and mercury in libra. Idk what degree though . But possibly transit Uranus (which is in 10 dg Aries now) or transit Pluto which is 8degress Capricorn could be the culprit.. What you described about the sudden verbal outburst lately, sounds like transit Uranus aspecting your moon or mercury.. Or transit Pluto. But Pluto is usually not impulsive like Uranus can be. Especially when in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1611 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 24, 2013 10:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: That wasn't what I was asking. Instead of trying to explain why I found your statement confusing again I'll just ask simply this time:What do you mean your words cause pain in a way that's different from the words of everyone else?
Well im not trying to compete with anyone based on whos words are more different. Im speaking for myself. How can u not understand words can hurt people right? Thats what i meant. And my main point was that if someone ****** me off i can hurt them with my words or **** them.
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fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 314 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 02, 2013 12:22 AM
Yes, I don't think I would do well in prison as I hate being confined. I weigh the consequences before acting too. I really did not need to know Uranus is at 10 degrees Libra. That means it is at conjuncting my Chiron and opposing my Libra Sun-Uranus conjunction. I hope this transit is more like a Eureka moment and less like getting unexdpectedly zapped by cattle prod. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |