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Topic: Why always look for "soulmate" connections in synastry?
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 2290 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:25 PM
It is kinda silly, whether they can hurt us here or not, but I can't rule it out so why not theorize for fun ^^------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: People are in your life to teach you lessons, specifically your soul mates. Everyone thinks souls mates are about love..and friendships... The person that constantly terrorizes your life never leaves for a reason...Maybe these people need learn how to drop abusers from their life.. that's a huge lesson on its own.
I don't believe in soul mates or twin souls, good or bad ones, so this all seems silly to me.
They won't drop a users from their lives if they believe their abusers are soul mates. They believe they're meant to be together. It's all pretty delusional stuff. I use astrology to predict future events not to see if people are soul mates or anything like that. It works on predicting stuff, that's its purpose.
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 2290 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:29 PM
somethingexcellent, what if I believe in reincarnation but not in karma?  quote: They won't drop a users from their lives if they believe their abusers are soul mates. They believe they're meant to be together. It's all pretty delusional stuff.
A lot of people don't need this belief to keep their abuser in their life. Emotional dependence is enough. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 6050 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:29 PM
You can believe what you wish anyways back to this topic...........Looking for soul mate connection in way suggest what type of relationships this may be like. If saturn is involved, it may not be fairytale. Saturn is the planet of karma. If NN-SN is involved things from the past life are being carried on into this life etc/ IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 3297 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:31 PM
quote: what if I believe in reincarnation but not in karma?
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Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: Omfg but that goes without saying. If you subscribe to karma, soul lives, reincarnation, then it's what happens. Your abuser can be your soulmate because soulmates are souls you encounter throughout your lives - they exist because you have karma together, lessons to learn, stuff like that!Your soulmate can be your lover, your mother, your abuser, your pet, your teacher in high school, the person you didn't know who hit you and sent you to the hospital - and your soulmate probably was at one point or another. In fact, you don't have only one soulmate. You can have many across the globe, but the ones you encounter depend on you. ...That is, if you believe in karma, soul lives, and reincarnation. 
I don't believe in soul mates or reincarnation but I believe in karma. Karma can be seen in a tangible way. I only believe in things I've seen proof of... IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 2290 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:41 PM
What? I'm no Hindu or Buddhist, I think for myself and question things instead of completely relying on dogmas  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: You can believe what you wish anyways back to this topic...........Looking for soul mate connection in way suggest what type of relationships this may be like. If saturn is involved, it may not be fairytale. Saturn is the planet of karma. If NN-SN is involved things from the past life are being carried on into this life etc/
Ok, you too. But saturn will never be a fairytale. Saturn is what will tear two people apart, contrary to popular belief that it binds. If you want to see why two people won't last, what will end it, look to their saturn ties. IP: Logged |
Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 288 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 09, 2013 03:42 PM
Because people want someone who will undrestand them. Someone who will like them knowing every inch of their soul, psyche. I agree, i don't know why people drop name 'soulmate" so often? Soulmates are not only found in love relationships...IP: Logged |
Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: What? I'm no Hindu or Buddhist, I think for myself and question things instead of completely relying on dogmas 
Exactly. *I've*got the power not some stupid theory about soulmates & reincarnation and past life cr@p. . IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 2290 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lily: I don't believe in soul mates or reincarnation but I believe in karma. Karma can be seen in a tangible way. I only believe in things I've seen proof of...
If you're talking about the cause and effect that take place here and now, you do something - there will be consequences, then I believe in this kind of karma ^^ Are you a christian? ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.
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somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 3297 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:49 PM
quote: Lily: *I've*got the power not some stupid theory about soulmates & reincarnation and past life cr@p.
What an idiot... You do have power. Everyone does. Nothing about soulmates or reincarnation says you don't have power... Oh well, it's clear you won't change your mind, so why are you even in this thread? To challenge people's beliefs? Go away!  IP: Logged |
Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: If you're talking about the cause and effect that take place here and now, you do something - there will be consequences, then I believe in this kind of karma ^^Are you christian?
Yes, that's the karma I believe in, not the hind or Buddhist one about past lives. I am Christian but I don't believe in the church. I believe in god and the saints and that's it. I don't believe there's a devil either., which I guess means I'm not really Christian lol. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 6050 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:49 PM
.... wow I could really pick that argument apart. I am trying this new thing where I don't argue with people....hm Nvm.. first of all. People have had experiences with soul mates karma, past lives.. like people have experiences with jesus, astrology, psychics, supernatural You only believe in things that have tangle effects in your life.. Yeah, you and half population... Have fun with your ignorance, just please spare us...
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Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: What an idiot... You do have power. Everyone does. Nothing about soulmates or reincarnation says you don't have power...Oh well, it's clear you won't change your mind, so why are you even in this thread? To challenge people's beliefs? Go away! 
Maybe I'm your message board soulmate meant to shake you up. Like your theory about abuser soulmates IP: Logged |
Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: .... wow I could really pick that argument apart. I am trying this new thing where I don't argue with people....hm Nvm.. first of all. People have had experiences with soul mates karma, past lives.. like people have experiences with jesus, [b]astrology, psychics, supernatural You only believe in things that have tangle effects in your life.. Yeah, you and half population... Have fun with your ignorance, just please spare us...[/B]
Of course you could pick it apart but could you prove me wrong?
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 2290 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:52 PM
Now, jelly fight! ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 125 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 09, 2013 03:53 PM
Sometimes these "soulmate" connections in astrology can be bad, too much neptune/pluto/saturn afflicted aspects, it certainly feels deep, but you do not see the person very clearly. For example they could be a serial killer but you still think they are lovely people LOL even if they are planning to hurt you.IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 3297 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 03:58 PM
quote: I am trying this new thing where I don't argue with people....
Omfg I should try that too...she says she only believes in what she sees. I suppose she's blind as to how dangerous a belief like that is! See, there's a problem already. She only believes in what she sees but she doesn't see the pitfalls in her mindset.  Well, time to go get some breakfast. A parting sentiment to Lily: quote: just please spare us...
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Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 04:02 PM
Oh noes, I'm in danger bc I'm not delusional lol. Ok then. No soulmates or past life people for me then.  And I guess I'm going to hell bc that's totally true too! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 2290 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 04:05 PM
Lily, what makes you believe there are vips in the afterlife?------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 09, 2013 04:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lily: Ok, you too. But saturn will never be a fairytale. Saturn is what will tear two people apart, contrary to popular belief that it binds. If you want to see why two people won't last, what will end it, look to their saturn ties.
I completely disagree. This hasn't been so in experience. Saturn is what brings you closer together and makes your union stronger. Though of course, it doesn't work that way for everybody, there are exceptions. But between most long-lasting soulmates/karmic mates/etc, I have seen Saturn prominent in their snastry and they are still going strong till this day. IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 09, 2013 04:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene:
People have had experiences with soul mates karma, past lives.. like people have experiences with jesus, astrology, psychics, supernatural
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Lily Knowflake Posts: 231 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 04:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Lily, what makes you believe there are vips in the afterlife?
What's VIPs? Very important people? If so, I have no idea what you're talking about. Please explain.
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 2290 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 04:12 PM
I'm talking about saints  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |