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Topic: People who don't want the "in a relationship" label???
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 7449
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 06, 2014 01:47 AM
  
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I wonder how a Libra with a Virgo Mercury would be, personally. I never met one. All the Libras had Libra Mercuries, some Scorpio. (my father was a Libra with a Scorpio Mercury)I already know how Virgos with Libra Mercuries are (Me!  ) so it would be quite interesting to see the reverse of that.
Doesn't it seem like Mercury is ahead of the sun more than behind? IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 895
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 01:47 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by next to neptune:
[b] Me too, uranus is strong in my chart but not venus… but I can feel it! If I have been with the same person for a week I get tired of them and want to sleep alone for some days…But I think also my pisces moon needs time to be alone and reload everything once in a while! He also got a pisces moon which is really nice, cause then he can relate to that…
I wish I knew his TOB, cause it would explain so much if I just knew the exact time, but I can only guess! If someone knows a VERY smart way to ask his birth time without revealing anything about astrology, come with it please!
My friends tried this with me and it worked, sometimes, until I figured out what they were doing, then I would purposely change the subject just to prove how contrary I can be  .
I notice if I start talking about certain subjects people will clam up, especially online purchases, lol. They act like they expect me to ask them to get me something but I would never be that rude. I am just making casual conversation about something in my life, small talk.
What works sometimes is just start talking about the time you were born. People sometimes chime in and reveal the time of day they were born so they can include themselves in your story and share something personal. Just start talking and reveal a funny anecdote about the day you were born, a story a relative told you, then casually mention, "all this and it was 1:30 in the morning," or something similar and if he doesn't say something like, "oh really, I was born at 3:00 am," you can ask, "were you born in the middle of the night too?" Try to gradually get more specific in casual conversation (it's Libran influenced finessing the situation.) Or, whenever it was. You will have to customize this to fit your needs since I don't know your birth time. This is just an example I thought of at the moment  [/B][/QUOTE]Haha this could be a good idea… especially because we enjoy talking about childhood memories sometimes, and I was actually born under a full moon (sun opposition moon) and it was the middle of the night too….it's ok fun to tell, but wouldn't he be wondering how I could know it was a full moon?
But if we were talking about childhood memories anyways, I could be joking a little and ask him how far he can remember back? Then say "I can even remember the time I was born, lol! It was only 20 min past twelve, can you remember your time?"
The risk is, he could be telling me a wrong answer, cause it's a joke... IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 895
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 01:50 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I wonder how a Libra with a Virgo Mercury would be, personally. I never met one. All the Libras had Libra Mercuries, some Scorpio. (my father was a Libra with a Scorpio Mercury)I already know how Virgos with Libra Mercuries are (Me! ) so it would be quite interesting to see the reverse of that.
He loves intellectual stuff…and he is extremely good at playing chess, isn't that a typically virgo thing:P IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 7449
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 06, 2014 01:55 AM
I love chess! Since I'm an only child I didn't grow up playing it. The second time I played my friend, I had her queen in check and she had played the game many times with her brothers. I figure it's in my genes and being a solar Virgo. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 895
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 01:55 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
But in reality, I guarantee you that he will not know his birth time anyway, lol. (especially exact time)
Hardly anyone really does. I believe I got lucky with my Mother knowing mine.
I think you are right, and it is probably not interesting for him to know, unless it was a special day or something…
but I could bring up the subject somehow and see if he remembers anything his mother has told him in some sneaky way, but it's likely that he doesn't know anything, and I should be careful not to seem a bit too excited about knowing that, then he would just be very suspicious:P I feel like some weird undercover-agent, but I'm not gonna tell him about astrology, no way! IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 895
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 01:58 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I love chess! Since I'm an only child I didn't grow up playing it. The second time I played my friend, I had her queen in check and she had played the game many times with her brothers. I figure it's in my genes and being a solar Virgo.
It probably is, chess is totally a game for virgo influenced people!
I just really suck at it, but it's still really funny But now I must go, it was nice chatting with you all! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 7449
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 06, 2014 02:11 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
It probably is, chess is totally a game for virgo influenced people!
I just really suck at it, but it's still really funny But now I must go, it was nice chatting with you all!
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3041
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 02:32 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Doesn't it seem like Mercury is ahead of the sun more than behind?
Yeah, it does! I have thought about that, too.
Actually, there is probably something to that.
Maybe because of Mercury's retrograde cycles are a certain way or something, which allows it to be ahead of the Sun more frequently, and behind is less often. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3041
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 02:34 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I love chess! Since I'm an only child I didn't grow up playing it. The second time I played my friend, I had her queen in check and she had played the game many times with her brothers. I figure it's in my genes and being a solar Virgo.
Lol, same here. I like it, but actually don't really know how to play it, but I played someone who played Chess before and as we played he was telling me how to play and stuff, and then I beat him in the end on the first try, lol. I asked him if he let me win and he said no. Virgos and their logic IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3041
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 02:37 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I think you are right, and it is probably not interesting for him to know, unless it was a special day or something…
but I could bring up the subject somehow and see if he remembers anything his mother has told him in some sneaky way, but it's likely that he doesn't know anything, and I should be careful not to seem a bit too excited about knowing that, then he would just be very suspicious:PI feel like some weird undercover-agent, but I'm not gonna tell him about astrology, no way!
I don't think he will think any less of you or become suspicious if you straight up tell him about Astrology.
It's something you're passionate about, and if he loves you, then he should love it for you. But if you don't want the conversation being about what he is like from his astrological chart, (because you don't want him to gain suspicion that you want to find out all about him) tell him about yours, too, and see if he says that is true about you or whatever.
But I think you should keep it equally about you and him. (so that you don't look like the type who only likes to talk about themselves) IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3041
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 02:38 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
But now I must go, it was nice chatting with you all!
You too, goodnight IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 7449
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 06, 2014 02:42 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Lol, same here.I like it, but actually don't really know how to play it, but I played someone who played chess before and I beat him on the first try, lol. Virgos and their logic
Do you have brothers and sisters? IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3041
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 02:43 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Do you have brothers and sisters?
Nope, only child IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 07:35 AM
lolol @ Uranus comments. Almost laughed loud at work lol.Well I have Uranus trines in my chart, but I prefer commitment and clear definitions. It depends on the type of Uranian energy I guess. In the end, labels or not, the most important is if you are comfortable with the state of the relationship, and if not, simply talk to your partner. As others said, poop will hit the fan sooner or later. And it's not good to be afraid of talking things with your partner. Just pretending that everything is alright is simply not making things work, and besides, would you really be fine with someone with whom you can't be honest with? Even if you don't like labels of "bf"/"gf"/"partner", at least you should make it clear what you guys really are at this moment. Things like, do you see other people right now, what are the boundaries and expectations. (but Idk, maybe if people really dislike commitment labels, then they can be called as roommates or housemates then IMO, this whole labels stuff is so dramatic. We clal friends as friends, coworkers as coworkers, families as families, but then there's drama when it's about romantic relationships lol) IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8837
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 06, 2014 01:03 PM
how air signs feel love, it's just different more on a detached levelPay attention to the lyrics.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CGFeCDnnfo quote:
What God give me a brain for,
If he won’t let me use it?
What’d God give me a plan for?
He never helps me do it.You’re gonna love me,
I’m gonna have to make you.
You’re gonna love me,
I’m gonna make you. You say that you don’t want to be hypnotized,
But baby I, I don’t want to hypnotize you.
There’s nothing from you that I want to take.
I just want to be like you.
(Maybe love you just a little bit),
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1531
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 01:09 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
how air signs feel love, it's just different more on a detached levelPay attention to the lyrics.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CGFeCDnnfo [QUOTE]What God give me a brain for,
If he won’t let me use it?
What’d God give me a plan for?
He never helps me do it. You’re gonna love me,
I’m gonna have to make you.
You’re gonna love me,
I’m gonna make you. [b]You say that you don’t want to be hypnotized,
But baby I, I don’t want to hypnotize you.
There’s nothing from you that I want to take.
I just want to be like you.
(Maybe love you just a little bit),
[/B]Not me. I'm a possessive psycho b***h. Lol
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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8837
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 06, 2014 01:11 PM
thats attractive
I guess that's the taurus lol
since its about possessing another person lol. One reason why Im not into earth energy. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1531
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 01:14 PM
Lmfao!!!
Some people like it. Others run for their lives.
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meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 808
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 06, 2014 05:40 PM
Definitely Uranus harsh aspects to Moon or Venus in synastry. Uranus runs/refuses to commit/keeps pushing Venus or Moon away.IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 2687
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 14, 2014 12:39 AM
I'm with a guy like this. With all this retrograde action and Valentines day...I am like WHY DOES HE WANT OTHER GUYS TO BE LED ON TO THINK THAT I AM SINGLE/AVAILABLE!? I don't want to call him my boyfriend or anything like that if that's how he "feels." That makes me feel dumb and like I'm a crazy delusional chick. So I usually just call him my special someone or my guy. If a guy on fb is talking to me. And after a few messages back and forth I bring him up....what do ya know, they stop messaging me. So I changed profile status hidden. haha sometimes I wonder if I should put its complicated. Nah...FB should have the an "it's stupid" option. Not the relationship in general, but when its been almost 3 years the no label thing is stupid.
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Stawr
Moderator Posts: 2687
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 14, 2014 07:11 AM
I do want to talk to him about this, but Uranus has been squaring is Venus on and off. Not a good time to push commitments. Actually it will be done squaring his Venus FOR GOOD in a few days!IP: Logged |
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