posted March 11, 2014 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I guess you don't know them too well because that's not even half of it.

I don't think they know what they're either LOL

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posted March 12, 2014 07:09 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Because I'm a geek.

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posted March 12, 2014 07:13 AM            

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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
There are a few major reasons, but the biggest is the difference between his passionate, fire nature, and my more stable, comfortable saturn nature. I have a cap moon, saturn exalted in my 5th trine my sun/ascendant, and NN in cancer. His NN is in...wait for it...Leo!!!! Our moons are tightly square, and although there is some affinity between our moons, it's still difficult. He wants to shine, and I like ambient lighting. We would be awesome friends.

That's my nice way of saying he's always on the go, wanting to do things, and I can be a boring homebody.

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posted March 12, 2014 07:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I am only answering the OP. I haven't read the rest.
The whole chart is important - I'm sure others have said that lol
But in terms of just Sun Signs, it depends on what you are looking for. In my experience - for a long term, serious relationship the best matches are Leo Suns and Scorpio Suns. But that's only if you are absolutely sure that you want to settle down.. otherwise Leo/Scorpio can make you feel suffocated.
But if you meet the right Leo (or Scorpio) at the right time in your life - this can be a very loving and positive relationship.

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posted March 12, 2014 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

Gemini is another nice match. The only thing is you can end up being bffs, rather than romantically involved. This is an awesome relationship from many perspectives. There aren't many Gemini Suns in the world who don't have positive memories of Aries buddies/gfs/bfs etc. And totally vice versa for Aries people. Every so often you may encounter a Gemini who you argue with more than you play .. but this is a pretty rare occurrence. There has to be much negativity and friction in the synastry to wipe out the positive vibes (of which there are many).

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posted March 12, 2014 07:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Oh I forgot to talk about Pisces. My first love was a Pisces - definitely the most insane relationship I've ever had.
I wouldn't even know where to start explaining the Aries/Pisces relationship. As friends it works, but romantically it can get very complicated and very hurtful.
I don't think any other guy in the zodiac can cause as much pain and emotional damage to an Aries woman - as a Pisces can.

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posted March 12, 2014 07:33 AM            

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Originally posted by fireopal09:
I signed ALL four copies of the divorce decree with a smiley face next to my signature. :-)

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posted March 12, 2014 07:44 AM              

They have the directness of Aries but also the playfulness. And they'll let you be as opinionated as you want to be (if you can put up with their bickering in return, not always an easy task lol)

posted March 12, 2014 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Sapphire:
me. the answer is me.

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And you are?

posted March 12, 2014 01:44 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
My vote is for Sag...

They have the directness of Aries but also the playfulness. And they'll let you be as opinionated as you want to be (if you can put up with their bickering in return, not always an easy task lol)

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posted March 12, 2014 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
A fiery Virgo? You've got to be kidding me! lol
Anyways, RFTS, I wish you all the best, it seems like you've made your decision already. Does he know/suspect you intend to separate from him? How does he feel about it? Sorry if I'm prying, I am sublimating, like my therapist says lol. My NN is late Gemini so you guys are just a few years older than I am.

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I know right... A fiery Virgo and a homey Gemini. Hmmm, something's not right!!! Actually, it's just the dynamic of our relationship. My mutability ends up filling the voids in our partnership which happens to fall in the home environment. I always thought I'd marry a Mr. Mom. What a surprise I got. His sun is an earth singleton, and venus is his only planet in water. Not that he isn't good at household stuff, but he has way too many interests to be bothered with. And...Um...hello, gemini here...do you know how many things I left undone and would like to get back to...

We've had short separations in the past, and currently, he knows we aren't well. I'm as transparent as I can be without causing too much grief, and I've casually suggested a trial separation which he declined. It's an issue I need to approach with more seriousness.

Yes, if your saturn is in the early degrees of Scorpio, we are a year apart.

posted March 13, 2014 12:06 AM            

I have not yet read through this incredibly long thread. But I'll add my two cents as I go!

I'm a proud Arian Woman - passion is essential for me! As is intellect, communication & a sense of adventure. Obviously, the whole chart comes into play. But if I have to list Sun Signs alone:

-Gemini...bond based on great communication & great fun!

-Sagittarius...equally fiery & adventurous. We teach each other a lot. Truly!

-Pisces...instant chemistry! Yin to my yang. Interesting match for us. It's scrumptious!

-Scorpio...no duo could EVER be more powerful! As long as we compromise, the relationship will never ever be dull. Transformative bond.

-Libra...just amazing friendship. We balance each other out. Different approaches? Yes but usually we share the same belief system!

posted March 13, 2014 12:13 AM            

Libras? You like Libras? BLECH. TAKE THEM ALL.

posted March 13, 2014 01:47 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I do love Scorpios! Pluto and Vertex right in my Libra 5th house, but in Scorpio.

Libras? You like Libras? BLECH. TAKE THEM ALL.

I notice you really like your mutable signs though LA! What's your other four planets in? (Moon, Mercury, Venus Mars)

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I'm heavily Cardinal actually!! Aries Sun, Cancer Moon & Cap Mars.

Pisces Mercury for mutable.
Taurus Venus for fixed.

What about you Hanna??

We may disagree about Libras but we definitely are on the same page about Scorpios. Scorpio is actually my favorite placement for Mars in males!

posted March 13, 2014 02:04 AM            

I've been attracting many Aquarians lately. I do like them - they are funny, intelligent, and genius. Aries & Aquas make an awesome pair when it comes to shaking sh*t up! Such fun! I have always enjoyed them as friends.

Aquas simply aren't intense enough for me romantically though. I'm a passionate person and I need that reflected back to me in my partners.

I like some things about Taurean Men. Dislike other things about them. I appreciate their rugged, home-grown masculinity very much. Not sure they are exciting enough though!

I used to REALLY be into Cancer Men. Not so much now. I'm neutral at this point.

Arian Men? If I date fellow Aries they have to be HEAVILY Aries - like Sun & Mars in Aries or Sun & Moon. That intense male energy...TURNS. ME. ON. But I'd only do short-term for fun, nothing long-term w/ them. Some Arians can be much too selfish and I don't play that in the romance department!

Leo Males are alright. Neutral about them like I am w/ Cancer. We bump heads a lot and they need too much "superficial" attention, which isn't my thing. They have good hearts though.

Virgo nags too damn much for me. And the worrying brings down the Arian enthusiasm sometimes. Overall, I can date them as long as they can learn to 'let loose'. They are always there to look out for you and lend a helping hand, which I do love.

posted March 13, 2014 02:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

I don't think any other guy in the zodiac can cause as much pain and emotional damage to an Aries woman - as a Pisces can.

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Hi Odette. Just curious what makes you say that Pisces can hurt us the worst?

And do you feel it's the same for them? Aries hurting them?

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Originally posted by vickymadness:

They stick in your unconscious, on the back of your head. They never really leave.

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OMG nothing but the truth!

I cut off this one Pisces guy I was really into. I refused to have sex with him and I did not allow it to get serious. Why?? Because he had me *this close* to falling so deeply in love with him!! And I knew he wasn't yet emotionally mature enough to treat me right and give me what I deserved...so I ended it.

Like a Pisces...he wanted (at first) to "become" what I needed instead of truly discovering who he truly WAS and showing me that.

Like the Aries that I am...I got over him within 2 weeks and forgot about him after that. HOWEVER...8 months later I begin thinking about this man out of NOWHERE. I mean STRONG back in my head!! All the "should, coulda, wouldas" returned and I'm like F*CK THIS.

posted March 13, 2014 04:19 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I'm heavily Cardinal actually!! Aries Sun, Cancer Moon & Cap Mars.

Pisces Mercury for mutable.
Taurus Venus for fixed.

What about you Hanna??

We may disagree about Libras but we definitely are on the same page about Scorpios. Scorpio is actually my favorite placement for Mars in males!

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I've never been with Mars in Scorpio, but I agree! I love how I feel around them! All jittery and sexy at the same time, lol.

I'm heavily cardinal too. Lots of squares to my Cap planets (outer) and Aries planets.

posted March 13, 2014 06:26 AM            

NO WATER, ever! (said in a Joan Crawford voice) It just does not work.

I'm going to jump on the band wagon and suggest Leo. I'll add Aries, Sag, Cap & Aqua too.

But Leo.... I don't know why people are so harsh on them on this forum. The good ones are great. And they are not super dominant. They are quietly strong. Think of the lion he's not all up in your face. He's hangin' out watching making sure everything is Ok.

Find an evolved one, not a narcissist. You can run the show and he'll hang back until he is needed. The good thing is the one who's always looking in the mirror is easy to spot and move away from.

posted March 13, 2014 06:32 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Because I'm a geek. I like to deal with numbers. I remember googling this book but never had the chance to order it. It's called "The Astrology File : Scientific Proof of the Link Between Star Signs and Human Behavior by Gunter Sachs."
basically states the most-lasting attractions (based on high marriage rates and low divorce rates.)

an Aries Female (by order)

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posted March 13, 2014 06:49 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Nvm, I just read that you've never dated Leo men.

Well, I'd always are recommend trying Leo sun with venus in cancer. Exquisite..

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OMG!!! YES!!! My x husband is this. He really is a great guy.

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
So I'm guessing none of you Arians like watery guys Like Cancer and Pisces.
idkk aries is my second most dominant sign but I find them so cute.
I don't get them but that's why I like them...
Water signs don't always stereotypically lack energy I mean it depends on the lifestyle they choose to live but fire along with being energetic can be so obnoxious and noisy....

Like every cancer or pisces guys I meet are really attractive not only to me but everyone else in the room.

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It's not the energy levels. I've dated a Cancer and a Pisces who are both super high energy they were always on the move, always exploring, etc.

It's the emotional stuff. And not the moon emotions. Just the way they deal with emotions/themselves/what they want/need, etc is incompatible with fire.

They are moody, broody, "mysterious" (um-huh)... Just come out with it already!! It's just the watery thing.

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Originally posted by Odette:
LoL Where do people find these nasty Scorpios? I only seem to have positive experiences with Scorpio Sun and Mars in men.

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I don't think they are nasty. I think they are great. As friends. I'm not going to date one.

posted March 13, 2014 09:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
LoL Where do people find these nasty Scorpios? I only seem to have positive experiences with Scorpio Sun and Mars in men.

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