posted March 13, 2014 09:06 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Ohhhh ok wow sorry I just realized who you are Dancing Maenad... But yeah I'd still say Sag or maybe Aqua as others have said. Another Aries could be good too. Anyway, jupiter in your 7th sounds promising, I've read this transit causes breakups but only to clear the way for the real thing And whoever it is you deserve someone who is just as awesome as you are

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posted March 13, 2014 09:08 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Well no offense to anyone but I always like to hear both sides to a story...the motives and reasons behind actions, even if the actions are shady.
That said though.... I have no clue what happened and just wish the best for both at this point.

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posted March 13, 2014 09:13 AM            

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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
I know right... A fiery Virgo and a homey Gemini. Hmmm, something's not right!!! Actually, it's just the dynamic of our relationship. My mutability ends up filling the voids in our partnership which happens to fall in the home environment. I always thought I'd marry a Mr. Mom. What a surprise I got. His sun is an earth singleton, and venus is his only planet in water. Not that he isn't good at household stuff, but he has way too many interests to be bothered with. And...Um...hello, gemini here...do you know how many things I left undone and would like to get back to...

We've had short separations in the past, and currently, he knows we aren't well. I'm as transparent as I can be without causing too much grief, and I've casually suggested a trial separation which he declined. It's an issue I need to approach with more seriousness.

Yes, if your saturn is in the early degrees of Scorpio, we are a year apart.

Thanks for the best wishes - same to you.

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You need to do what's best for you. I know society has us thinking we need to sacrifice our needs for the good of another, the family, your country, the world etc. Sacrifice and more sacrifice. Understanding and compromise. Well, f*ck that. I ain't no friggin martyr. I need to get my share or I'm not playing. People feel selfish and guilty therefore when they finally look after themselves. Don't. Your first and foremost duty is to yourself. Do what is good for you!

posted March 13, 2014 09:19 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I'm very late to the Aries Party, forgive me please.

I have not yet read through this incredibly long thread. But I'll add my two cents as I go!

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An Aries sister need not apologize! Welcome and thank you for adding your input!

posted March 13, 2014 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Girl! You're an Aires... Seriously? What were you thinking?!

NO WATER, ever! (said in a Joan Crawford voice) It just does not work.

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posted March 13, 2014 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I'm asking myself the same thing! In the last 2 years or so it's been nothing BUT water, with one exception, my Gemini ex. 3 Scorps, 1 Cancer and 1 Pisces. Indeed, WHAT was I thinking?! I didn't date all of them though (PHEW!), some of them were minor flings but still.
I managed to stay friends with one Scorpio, but unlike the other two, born 1 day apart btw, this one was born in November. As friends, they're great, so is the Pisces. But I should probably not date another, ever again.

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I love water signs as friends. But I can't date them. There is just some sort of total disconnect/incompatibility emotionally.

We all know it's totally personal. What someone likes, others hate. I personally like stubborn (to a point), solid, responsible, not emotionally gushy, reserved guys. Some people would call that super boring. But a Leo with those qualities is fab. A Taurus with those qualities might be too boring. It's a complicated balancing act. Just like all of us, right?

You know it doesn't work for you even though you're attracted to it. Sometimes you do have to use your head instead of your heart. This is (ie, picking a long term partner) probably one of those times. I know. Totally unromantic! It will be romantic in the long run.

posted March 13, 2014 08:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Oh I forgot to talk about Pisces. My first love was a Pisces - definitely the most insane relationship I've ever had.
I wouldn't even know where to start explaining the Aries/Pisces relationship. As friends it works, but romantically it can get very complicated and very hurtful.
I don't think any other guy in the zodiac can cause as much pain and emotional damage to an Aries woman - as a Pisces can.

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Truth x10

I'm still trying to regain my sanity

It's hard tho my past always haunts me and really hurts me....it's like I cannot forget

posted March 14, 2014 01:57 AM            

An evolved Leo...sure I'll give him a chance. But Leo Suns are in the middle of the pack for me. Can take 'em or leave 'em.

posted March 14, 2014 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I don't think they are nasty. I think they are great. As friends. I'm not going to date one.

Ooohh. But a Scorpio Mars! Sign me up!!!

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You feel about Water the way I feel about Air! I can do an airy Sun or Mercury but if your Moon, Venus or Mars is airy - I dry up like a desert at the thought of it. At least usually! Lol.

I have Cancer Moon. Also Pluto in the 1st House. So emotionally, I understand the Water people. I love *depth* in a person.

At least we agree about Scorpio Mars!

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
An Aries sister need not apologize! Welcome and thank you for adding your input!

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No problem girlie!

posted March 14, 2014 07:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You guys are obsessed with Leo for us!! They're alright, but damn.

An evolved Leo...sure I'll give him a chance. But Leo Suns are in the middle of the pack for me. Can take 'em or leave 'em.

However...I am into Leo ASC lately! The (2) males that I'm most attracted to right now are both Leo ASC. They really turn me on! Ironically, one is an Aqua, the other an Aries.

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Well, we also suggested Aires & Aqua since she is hesitant about Leos. Maybe a Sag would be better for her than a Leo.

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

You feel about Water the way I feel about Air! I can do an airy Sun or Mercury but if your Moon, Venus or Mars is airy - I dry up like a desert at the thought of it. At least usually! Lol.

I have Cancer Moon. Also Pluto in the 1st House. So emotionally, I understand the Water people. I love *depth* in a person.

At least we agree about Scorpio Mars!

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I love depth. I don't like drama, games & moody broody types and really, not all the waters are deep. Some of them are just shallow. I know, like everyone. But I think I expect depth and get disappointed when it's shallow. Must not dive in head first!!

I can deal with some water (I have Sco Ven, Jup, Asc). My x had Cancer Venus and he's awesome. I can't deal with water sun, moon, merc (in a relationship). I've got Sag sun, moon & merc. I'm not sure about the Asc. Most people I know don't know their birth times and I'm not too good at guessing those.

posted March 14, 2014 11:15 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I love depth. I don't like drama, games & moody broody types and really, not all the waters are deep. Some of them are just shallow. I know, like everyone. But I think I expect depth and get disappointed when it's shallow. Must not dive in head first!!

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Oooh yes! I absolutely agree with the above. Every part of it.

I despise games.
Don't enjoy drama on ANY level.
Not into shallow people.
And I like a straight-shooter!

Well stated Lucie!

posted March 14, 2014 03:31 PM            

I would look at where your Juno is.

I'm an Aries, w/ Juno in Scorpio. Been with a guy who has a stellulum in Scorpio for almost 3 years. I also have more water and earth in my chart, than fire and air.

posted March 15, 2014 09:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
See.. I know who you are so I already know what you like LOL

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I like trouble. That's what I like. Cannot friggin stay out of it, there has to be a crisis in my life or I'm not happy. wtf..

posted March 15, 2014 09:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:

I would look at where your Juno is.

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Pisces. My DC ruler is conj Neptune too.
DC is in water too. That's why I like 'em. Doesn't mean they're good for me tho.

posted March 15, 2014 09:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I am single again and I don't intend to mope for too long. Come June 18th Jupiter enters my 7th house and will stay there for [b]2 years thanks to my lengthy 7H. Plenty of time to lick my wounds until then, diet anew, and look forward to the future with optimism, Aries style.

Which manly creature do you think is best suited for an Aries woman? Whom shall I stick my claws into next? And may I ask why you think so?

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posted March 15, 2014 09:26 AM            

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Originally posted by MagnumJoe:
Look for a firey square: cap or libra with firey traits. Squares are very nice when other planets are close to your sun.

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posted March 15, 2014 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Water are very attractive, but aries wants the "I need your love, and all, right now!" type of intensity ... And in my eyes, water can't do that. Only a fire would.

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*nods*

Yeah, I like my fire people. Nobody does a grand romantic gesture like a fire sign - in fact, I'm not sure other signs do it anyways. Well, I want it! There, I said it. It has to be earth shattering, larger than life, slap you silly kinda thing.

Nothing less will do!

posted March 15, 2014 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:

Nothing less will do!

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posted March 15, 2014 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I am not afraid of squares. And can look past Sun signs - yes, I would even date another Libra.. maybe. BUT! There really has to be a LOT of Fire and not just in the chart, in his actions too.

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No one implied you are "afraid of squares" you jumpy fiesty aries :P

posted March 15, 2014 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by MagnumJoe:
No one implied you are "afraid of squares" you jumpy fiesty aries :P

I just meant that squares are actually sometimes better than trines even. And yes: search for a rally racer cap or a warrior cancer or something.

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