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Topic: What placements would make a man want to "conquer" a woman during sex?
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 5596 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2014 10:26 PM
This is a genuine question, no this is not here to stir up any sexist discussion or enforce gender stereotypes. What kind of placements in a male's chart would have him become more aroused at the idea of 'conquering' and being extremely dominate almost to the point of being forceful to her in the act of sex? And prefer it to say, when the woman is on the same level passion and activity of him instead of being more receptive/passive? No this is not about rape. Or is this is a common thing? If it is disregard this thread. I know a few men like this 1st one.. Moon in Mutable (6h) square Mars and Venus 2nd one.. Moon in Cardinal (5h) square Neptune, opposite Venus and Uranus. IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 29, 2014 10:31 PM
I wouldn't know what placements attribute to it specifically but I am very curious to know this as well. I know someone who enjoys very much this type of dominating, aggressive, almost degrading sexual play. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 1892 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 29, 2014 10:55 PM
In a man's chart: 1. Venus-Pluto or Venus in Scorpio: attracted to the sexy, femme fatale with an edge in and outside the bedroom, possible interest in bd/sm 2. Venus in the 8th (same as above) 3. Mars-Uranus and/or Mars-Pluto: may be attracted to sex activity that's outside of the norm [Uranus] and edgy [Pluto]. Mars-Pluto types are almost always dominants, regardless of gender, from what I've collected. 4. Moon-Pluto, Moon in the 8th: could indicate an interest in a mysterious, edgy type of woman who will have a dominating personality. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 1113 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 29, 2014 11:01 PM
Mars in capricorn or scorpio I thinkIP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2713 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 29, 2014 11:06 PM
I think people underestimate sag placements for having this kind of desire or at least close to it. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 5596 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2014 11:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: In a man's chart: 1. Venus-Pluto or Venus in Scorpio: attracted to the sexy, femme fatale with an edge in and outside the bedroom, possible interest in bd/sm 2. Venus in the 8th (same as above) 3. Mars-Uranus and/or Mars-Pluto: may be attracted to sex activity that's outside of the norm [Uranus] and edgy [Pluto]. Mars-Pluto types are almost always dominants, regardless of gender, from what I've collected. 4. Moon-Pluto, Moon in the 8th: could indicate an interest in a mysterious, edgy type of woman who will have a dominating personality.
Hello, Sweet-Scorpion!  I meant a man who was drawn to women he could dominate in sex and ones that did not compete or share his level of intensity and prowess in the bedroom and becoming more aroused at a receptive, submissive partner. Men with the placements you mentioned would enjoy a woman with the same or more intensity and prowess in bed unlike the kind of man I am describing in my op. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 158 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 29, 2014 11:16 PM
Gotta look at the houses and angles for something like this. Planetary aspects only deal with certain things. I'd look at Juno or BMLIP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4366 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 29, 2014 11:18 PM
S y n a s t r y! Certain people bring out certain things. IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 453 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 29, 2014 11:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: In a man's chart: 1. Venus-Pluto or Venus in Scorpio: attracted to the sexy, femme fatale with an edge in and outside the bedroom, possible interest in bd/sm 2. Venus in the 8th (same as above) 3. Mars-Uranus and/or Mars-Pluto: may be attracted to sex activity that's outside of the norm [Uranus] and edgy [Pluto]. Mars-Pluto types are almost always dominants, regardless of gender, from what I've collected. 4. Moon-Pluto, Moon in the 8th: could indicate an interest in a mysterious, edgy type of woman who will have a dominating personality.
Absolutely. I will add Sun/Mars natal conjunction. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1854 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 29, 2014 11:24 PM
Sounds like someone who has a strong mars, probably Mars in aries, mars in 1st house, mars in taurus aspecting pluto or neptune (sexual fantasies about domination) IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4462 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted July 29, 2014 11:24 PM
Mars in hard aspect to either Pluto or Saturn or both... Mainly if the woman in question has her Moon or Venus in aspect to his Mars/Saturn/Pluto.IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 5596 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted July 29, 2014 11:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: S y n a s t r y!
damn it, I like generalizing.  Man's Aphrodite-NN on Woman's Adonis Man's Psyche-Dejanira on Woman's Sun Man has Natal BML-Sun Man has Natal Aphrodite-AC Man's Mercury on Mars Man's Nessus square Woman's North Node-Vertex Man's Pluto square Woman's North Node-Vertex ... Other one.. Man's Pluto-NN on Woman's Persephone-Uranus Man's Pluto square Woman's Moon Man's Pluto square Woman's Chiron-Psyche This man has Aphrodite-Sun Natally Man's Venus on Woman's Mars Man's Neptune square Woman's Mars Man's Anteros on Woman's Moon Woman's Nessus square Man's Dejanira Man's Eros on Woman's Pluto
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4366 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 29, 2014 11:40 PM
I don't think there is a set in stone answer. Like I said certain people bring out certain things, it's not all black and white especially for billions of people. We're all different.IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 450 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 29, 2014 11:45 PM
I like to do all the work and dominate i seem to get less pleasure if im sitting back and not doing anything i dont like it lol it seems "lazy" to me hahaa i have mars trine pluto and moon square pluto my ex also had mars trine pluto and moon trine pluto and she loved to be dominated so i dont think its the same for girls or maybe just the girl i had was like that. Also my gay cousin is a sag sun conjunct sag mars and leo moon with venus conjunct pluto and he loves to get dominated me and him are real close so we talk about everything lmao i think there are to many variables to pinpoint a sign or aspect that dominates during sexIP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 440 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 29, 2014 11:50 PM
I am venus in scorpio, and 8th house ruler (moon) in 8th house, pluto sextile sun, and i adore doing this  IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 128 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 29, 2014 11:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: I like to do all the work and dominate i seem to get less pleasure if im sitting back and not doing anything i dont like it lol it seems "lazy" to me hahaa
Me too, even though I don't think the other person is lazy for sitting back. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 440 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 30, 2014 12:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Selenite: Me too, even though I don't think the other person is lazy for sitting back.
So you like to dominate girls ? IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 897 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 30, 2014 12:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I don't think there is a set in stone answer. Like I said certain people bring out certain things, it's not all black and white especially for billions of people. We're all different.
+1 I could give so many answers and theories for this question, but really it varies. I don't kiss and tell either though.  IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 128 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 30, 2014 12:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: So you like to dominate girls ?
That is not what I said, or meant  IP: Logged |
Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 208 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 30, 2014 12:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: S y n a s t r y! Certain people bring out certain things.
Very true, and agree very much with this. Some men get off on dominating or breaking down a woman they have their eyes on kinda of like 50 shades of Grey. The woman brings out something primal in them based on synastry. There is no set placements for this, except maybe Pluto but it goes deeper than this...
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sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 1892 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 30, 2014 12:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Hello, Sweet-Scorpion!  I meant a man who was drawn to women he could dominate in sex and ones that did not compete or share his level of intensity and prowess in the bedroom and becoming more aroused at a receptive, submissive partner. Men with the placements you mentioned would enjoy a woman with the same or more intensity and prowess in bed unlike the kind of man I am describing in my op.
Hey there. Sorry I mis-read your post. You're totally right! To modify: 1. Venus-Neptune, Venus in Pisces, Venus in the 12th. 2. Venus in Cancer; not so sure about Venus in the 4th but perhaps...? 3. Mars in the 8th, Mars conjunct Pluto. Those were all from my original post and they make even more sense in the scenario you describe. Mars-Pluto is the total 'warrior/conquerer' and if Mars or Pluto [or both] are in his 8th, he will have a higher chance of fitting this archetype in the bedroom... enjoying a partner he can both merge with and gently dominate, if Mars and Pluto aren't afflicted. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4269 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 30, 2014 12:55 AM
I have Pluto/Venus conjunct and Mars/Nessus trine Uranus I like games sometimes...Ive found the person who really gets this, understands and plays very well has a Venus/Pluto exact trine and Uranus/Mars exact trine. IMO it's the hard aspects that create the stress that gives it enough energy you want to act on it, others may have fantasies, but a hard aspect will give you the stress/courage to set your fear aside and ask about the more taboo type things. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4269 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 30, 2014 01:09 AM
A man that is overbearing or rough on a girl, could be a lot of Aries energy or a square with Mars/Pluto either in their natal chart or in synastry. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 440 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 30, 2014 01:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Comatoes: Very true, and agree very much with this. Some men get off on dominating or breaking down a woman they have their eyes on kinda of like 50 shades of Grey. The woman brings out something primal in them based on synastry. There is no set placements for this, except maybe Pluto but it goes deeper than this...
I kinda disagree but still agree. I will explain: Every man, in general, has a preference or a style, stemming from his natal chart. Unless there.is really some specific synastry to change that, he will basically stay the same. So it's mainly about natal, and partially in synastry. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2192 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 30, 2014 01:33 AM
Well, my bf has:Venus is Pisces sq Neptune Venus op Pluto Mars trine Pluto Mars sq Uranus Mars sq Sun Sun op Uranus Pluto in 8H He TRIES to....no, that's a lie. I He WANTS to dominate but sadly my own Mars/Asc sextile (0.01 degree) sextile Uranus, probably Mars conj Pluto and Asc in my pChart and also me being a double (day, year) Fire Dragon doesn't like being dominated...I am very dominant and if I am not, it's because I have chosen to play a submissive role. He has very hastily mentioned something about S/M, to gauge my reaction I gather, and I looked at him and said "Gotta love a trier" winked and walked off with my Dragon tail swishing about 
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