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KarkaQueen
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posted July 29, 2014 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a genuine question, no this is not here to stir up any sexist discussion or enforce gender stereotypes.

What kind of placements in a male's chart would have him become more aroused at the idea of 'conquering' and being extremely dominate almost to the point of being forceful to her in the act of sex? And prefer it to say, when the woman is on the same level passion and activity of him instead of being more receptive/passive?
No this is not about rape.

Or is this is a common thing? If it is disregard this thread.

I know a few men like this
1st one.. Moon in Mutable (6h) square Mars and Venus
2nd one.. Moon in Cardinal (5h) square Neptune, opposite Venus and Uranus.

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posted July 29, 2014 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wouldn't know what placements attribute to it specifically but I am very curious to know this as well. I know someone who enjoys very much this type of dominating, aggressive, almost degrading sexual play.

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sweet-scorpion
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posted July 29, 2014 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In a man's chart:

1. Venus-Pluto or Venus in Scorpio: attracted to the sexy, femme fatale with an edge in and outside the bedroom, possible interest in bd/sm

2. Venus in the 8th (same as above)

3. Mars-Uranus and/or Mars-Pluto: may be attracted to sex activity that's outside of the norm [Uranus] and edgy [Pluto]. Mars-Pluto types are almost always dominants, regardless of gender, from what I've collected.

4. Moon-Pluto, Moon in the 8th: could indicate an interest in a mysterious, edgy type of woman who will have a dominating personality.

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posted July 29, 2014 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars in capricorn or scorpio I think

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posted July 29, 2014 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think people underestimate sag placements for having this kind of desire or at least close to it.

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KarkaQueen
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posted July 29, 2014 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
In a man's chart:

1. Venus-Pluto or Venus in Scorpio: attracted to the sexy, femme fatale with an edge in and outside the bedroom, possible interest in bd/sm

2. Venus in the 8th (same as above)

3. Mars-Uranus and/or Mars-Pluto: may be attracted to sex activity that's outside of the norm [Uranus] and edgy [Pluto]. Mars-Pluto types are almost always dominants, regardless of gender, from what I've collected.

4. Moon-Pluto, Moon in the 8th: could indicate an interest in a mysterious, edgy type of woman who will have a dominating personality.


Hello, Sweet-Scorpion!

I meant a man who was drawn to women he could dominate in sex and ones that did not compete or share his level of intensity and prowess in the bedroom and becoming more aroused at a receptive, submissive partner.
Men with the placements you mentioned would enjoy a woman with the same or more intensity and prowess in bed unlike the kind of man I am describing in my op.

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posted July 29, 2014 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gotta look at the houses and angles for something like this. Planetary aspects only deal with certain things. I'd look at Juno or BML

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posted July 29, 2014 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
S y n a s t r y! Certain people bring out certain things.

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posted July 29, 2014 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
In a man's chart:

1. Venus-Pluto or Venus in Scorpio: attracted to the sexy, femme fatale with an edge in and outside the bedroom, possible interest in bd/sm

2. Venus in the 8th (same as above)

3. Mars-Uranus and/or Mars-Pluto: may be attracted to sex activity that's outside of the norm [Uranus] and edgy [Pluto]. Mars-Pluto types are almost always dominants, regardless of gender, from what I've collected.

4. Moon-Pluto, Moon in the 8th: could indicate an interest in a mysterious, edgy type of woman who will have a dominating personality.


Absolutely. I will add Sun/Mars natal conjunction.

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posted July 29, 2014 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like someone who has a strong mars, probably Mars in aries, mars in 1st house, mars in taurus aspecting pluto or neptune (sexual fantasies about domination)

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posted July 29, 2014 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars in hard aspect to either Pluto or Saturn or both... Mainly if the woman in question has her Moon or Venus in aspect to his Mars/Saturn/Pluto.

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posted July 29, 2014 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
S y n a s t r y!

damn it, I like generalizing.
Man's Aphrodite-NN on Woman's Adonis
Man's Psyche-Dejanira on Woman's Sun
Man has Natal BML-Sun
Man has Natal Aphrodite-AC
Man's Mercury on Mars
Man's Nessus square Woman's North Node-Vertex
Man's Pluto square Woman's North Node-Vertex

...
Other one..
Man's Pluto-NN on Woman's Persephone-Uranus
Man's Pluto square Woman's Moon
Man's Pluto square Woman's Chiron-Psyche
This man has Aphrodite-Sun Natally
Man's Venus on Woman's Mars
Man's Neptune square Woman's Mars
Man's Anteros on Woman's Moon
Woman's Nessus square Man's Dejanira
Man's Eros on Woman's Pluto

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Barbiegirl19
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posted July 29, 2014 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think there is a set in stone answer. Like I said certain people bring out certain things, it's not all black and white especially for billions of people. We're all different.

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posted July 29, 2014 11:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Supreme cT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like to do all the work and dominate i seem to get less pleasure if im sitting back and not doing anything i dont like it lol it seems "lazy" to me hahaa i have mars trine pluto and moon square pluto my ex also had mars trine pluto and moon trine pluto and she loved to be dominated so i dont think its the same for girls or maybe just the girl i had was like that. Also my gay cousin is a sag sun conjunct sag mars and leo moon with venus conjunct pluto and he loves to get dominated me and him are real close so we talk about everything lmao i think there are to many variables to pinpoint a sign or aspect that dominates during sex

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posted July 29, 2014 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MagnumJoe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am venus in scorpio, and 8th house ruler (moon) in 8th house, pluto sextile sun, and i adore doing this

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posted July 29, 2014 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I like to do all the work and dominate i seem to get less pleasure if im sitting back and not doing anything i dont like it lol it seems "lazy" to me hahaa

Me too, even though I don't think the other person is lazy for sitting back.

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posted July 30, 2014 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MagnumJoe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Selenite:
Me too, even though I don't think the other person is lazy for sitting back.

So you like to dominate girls ?

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posted July 30, 2014 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I don't think there is a set in stone answer. Like I said certain people bring out certain things, it's not all black and white especially for billions of people. We're all different.

+1

I could give so many answers and theories for this question, but really it varies. I don't kiss and tell either though.

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posted July 30, 2014 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MagnumJoe:
So you like to dominate girls ?

That is not what I said, or meant

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posted July 30, 2014 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Comatoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
S y n a s t r y! Certain people bring out certain things.

Very true, and agree very much with this.

Some men get off on dominating or breaking down a woman they have their eyes on kinda of like 50 shades of Grey. The woman brings out something primal in them based on synastry. There is no set placements for this, except maybe Pluto but it goes deeper than this...

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posted July 30, 2014 12:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Hello, Sweet-Scorpion!

I meant a man who was drawn to women he could dominate in sex and ones that did not compete or share his level of intensity and prowess in the bedroom and becoming more aroused at a receptive, submissive partner.
Men with the placements you mentioned would enjoy a woman with the same or more intensity and prowess in bed unlike the kind of man I am describing in my op.


Hey there. Sorry I mis-read your post. You're totally right!

To modify:

1. Venus-Neptune, Venus in Pisces, Venus in the 12th.

2. Venus in Cancer; not so sure about Venus in the 4th but perhaps...?

3. Mars in the 8th, Mars conjunct Pluto. Those were all from my original post and they make even more sense in the scenario you describe. Mars-Pluto is the total 'warrior/conquerer' and if Mars or Pluto [or both] are in his 8th, he will have a higher chance of fitting this archetype in the bedroom... enjoying a partner he can both merge with and gently dominate, if Mars and Pluto aren't afflicted.

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posted July 30, 2014 12:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Pluto/Venus conjunct and Mars/Nessus trine Uranus
I like games sometimes...Ive found the person who really gets this, understands and plays very well has a Venus/Pluto exact trine and Uranus/Mars exact trine.

IMO it's the hard aspects that create the stress that gives it enough energy you want to act on it, others may have fantasies, but a hard aspect will give you the stress/courage to set your fear aside and ask about the more taboo type things.

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posted July 30, 2014 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A man that is overbearing or rough on a girl, could be a lot of Aries energy or a square with Mars/Pluto either in their natal chart or in synastry.

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posted July 30, 2014 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MagnumJoe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Comatoes:
Very true, and agree very much with this.

Some men get off on dominating or breaking down a woman they have their eyes on kinda of like 50 shades of Grey. The woman brings out something primal in them based on synastry. There is no set placements for this, except maybe Pluto but it goes deeper than this...


I kinda disagree but still agree. I will explain:

Every man, in general, has a preference or a style, stemming from his natal chart. Unless there.is really some specific synastry to change that, he will basically stay the same. So it's mainly about natal, and partially in synastry.

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posted July 30, 2014 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, my bf has:

Venus is Pisces sq Neptune
Venus op Pluto
Mars trine Pluto
Mars sq Uranus
Mars sq Sun
Sun op Uranus
Pluto in 8H


He TRIES to....no, that's a lie. I He WANTS to dominate but sadly my own Mars/Asc sextile (0.01 degree) sextile Uranus, probably Mars conj Pluto and Asc in my pChart and also me being a double (day, year) Fire Dragon doesn't like being dominated...I am very dominant and if I am not, it's because I have chosen to play a submissive role. He has very hastily mentioned something about S/M, to gauge my reaction I gather, and I looked at him and said "Gotta love a trier" winked and walked off with my Dragon tail swishing about

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