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Gabby
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posted September 16, 2015 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What would you say shows a selfish person? Not emotionally giving and unable to be empathic or caring for another?

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posted September 16, 2015 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoAquaSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mix of taurus and aries in my opinion. Really stubborn and selfish.

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posted September 16, 2015 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've seen scorp and cancer mixed that are selfish also leo/cancer....

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posted September 16, 2015 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe it would help to compare them to your own charts. Someone could be awful to me, or many, but still have a special connection to others, with whom they aren't selfish.

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posted September 16, 2015 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VirgoAquaSag:
Mix of taurus and aries in my opinion. Really stubborn and selfish.

I could see that!!

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posted September 16, 2015 09:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
Maybe it would help to compare them to your own charts. Someone could be awful to me, or many, but still have a special connection to others, with whom they aren't selfish.

Valid point!
What aspects do you would show emotionally selfish synastry?

Jupiter in hard aspects to personal planets?

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posted September 16, 2015 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunshinedragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The most selfish person I know is a cancer sun, gemini moon

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posted September 16, 2015 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini30     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon/Mercury
Sun/Mercury

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posted September 16, 2015 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus Moon.. and some Aries placements (not so much the Sun, on its own). Aries Venus Retrograde is a biggie!

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posted September 16, 2015 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
Taurus Moon.. and some Aries placements (not so much the Sun, on its own). Aries Venus Retrograde is a biggie!

Never thought of a Venus rx but that does make sense....

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posted September 16, 2015 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Two very selfish people I know are Libra sun, Aquarius moon. One with Virgo Venus and the other one with sag.

Another selfish person I know is a Pisces sun, Lemmon Aqua Venus/Mars

I guess afflicted Jupiter is something to look for too

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posted September 17, 2015 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunshinedragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jupiter?
So would someone with a Jupiter-sun conjunction exhibit selfish traits?

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posted September 17, 2015 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My SO can be extremely selfish! Not really on purpose but he lacks some general consideration for others..His Pisces Venus dampens it slightly but not all the time.

He is an Aries Sun/Taurus Moon.

Edit: I should prolly mention that he has Aries Sun, Mercury in 1H. Taurus Moon 2H. Pisces Venus 12H.

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posted September 17, 2015 01:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted September 17, 2015 01:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ Time for me to make my exit. I'm not up for an Aries smack down.

Gabby, I wondered about harsh uranus aspects in a composite or synastry, or even a lot of Saturn (people expecting more from you). If they have strong positive aspects with another person, they might be more concerned with treating them well, although I guess it could also lead to both sides taking each other for granted.

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posted September 17, 2015 04:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any hard mars aspects to the other personal planets or the ascendant, esp moon/mars people i have noticed can be incredibly selfish.
Aries placements.
stellium in the 1st house or mars in the 1st.
The most selfish people i have dealt with ALWAYS have either aries placements or mars making hard aspects to their other personal planets or ascendant or more than one personal planet in their 1st house. They are verrrry me me me me me me minded.

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posted September 17, 2015 04:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey teasel, this moon/mars hard aspect gal is also exiting

I'm not sure you can just bring it down to aries, taurus or leo etc. what about the house influence. E.g. i'm sure a 12th house aries mooner is going to be less selfish than otherwise no?

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posted September 17, 2015 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So... so far....
Aries
Taurus
Cancer
Leo
Virgo
Libra
Scorpio
Sagi
Aquarius
Pisces placements have been mentioned.

Jolly good!

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Hey teasel, this moon/mars hard aspect gal is also exiting

I'm not sure you can just bring it down to aries, taurus or leo etc. what about the house influence. E.g. i'm sure a 12th house aries mooner is going to be less selfish than otherwise no?


I know an aries moon opposite mars girl that has her moon in a water house, and no, she is not less selfish nor very good at understanding another person unfortunately. You really, reeeeally have to be very obvious and give an exhausting explanation to her before she "catch up" with what you are feeling and want etc etc, no reading between the lines there. Been many embarrassing moments for her with men where a guy isn`t that into her but she dosen`t understand that until he actually have to say it. Another aries moon girl i know has her moon square neptune and the selfish traits are still there but the difference between the two aries moon girls that i noticed was that the one with the square to neptune was better at reading between the lines and understanding others.

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posted September 17, 2015 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Aries moon #1

All other aries placements

Emphasis on the first house. Sun in the first house.

Taurus moon

Leo placements


That's because you have cancer moon ....

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posted September 17, 2015 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Aries moon #1

All other aries placements

Emphasis on the first house. Sun in the first house.

Taurus moon

Leo placements


Asides for Taurus moon, I agree with everything. Please allow me to add:

Capricorn moon: what's in it for me?

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posted September 17, 2015 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Not Taurus Moon?

How many have you met? Lol

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posted September 17, 2015 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jupiter square perhaps

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quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
Asides for Taurus moon, I agree with everything. Please allow me to add:

Capricorn moon: what's in it for me?



"Capricorn moon: what's in it for me? "

^
That is so true. Saturn influenced people can be like that too.

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posted September 17, 2015 11:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can I ask somebody to define selfish and give some example when they thought somebody was selfish with both people's aspects. Thanks :-)

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