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Topic: Aspects that indicate a selfish person?
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 16, 2015 09:26 PM
What would you say shows a selfish person? Not emotionally giving and unable to be empathic or caring for another? IP: Logged |
VirgoAquaSag Knowflake Posts: 82 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 16, 2015 09:27 PM
Mix of taurus and aries in my opinion. Really stubborn and selfish.IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 16, 2015 09:31 PM
I've seen scorp and cancer mixed that are selfish also leo/cancer....IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 14134 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2015 09:33 PM
Maybe it would help to compare them to your own charts. Someone could be awful to me, or many, but still have a special connection to others, with whom they aren't selfish.IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 16, 2015 09:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by VirgoAquaSag: Mix of taurus and aries in my opinion. Really stubborn and selfish.
I could see that!! IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 16, 2015 09:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Maybe it would help to compare them to your own charts. Someone could be awful to me, or many, but still have a special connection to others, with whom they aren't selfish.
Valid point! What aspects do you would show emotionally selfish synastry? Jupiter in hard aspects to personal planets? IP: Logged |
sunshinedragon Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted September 16, 2015 10:05 PM
The most selfish person I know is a cancer sun, gemini moonIP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 16, 2015 10:33 PM
Moon/Mercury Sun/MercuryIP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 6847 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted September 16, 2015 11:14 PM
Taurus Moon.. and some Aries placements (not so much the Sun, on its own). Aries Venus Retrograde is a biggie!IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 16, 2015 11:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Taurus Moon.. and some Aries placements (not so much the Sun, on its own). Aries Venus Retrograde is a biggie!
Never thought of a Venus rx but that does make sense.... IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 3182 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 16, 2015 11:54 PM
Two very selfish people I know are Libra sun, Aquarius moon. One with Virgo Venus and the other one with sag. Another selfish person I know is a Pisces sun, Lemmon Aqua Venus/Mars I guess afflicted Jupiter is something to look for too IP: Logged |
sunshinedragon Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted September 17, 2015 12:04 AM
Jupiter? So would someone with a Jupiter-sun conjunction exhibit selfish traits?IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 4949 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 17, 2015 12:24 AM
My SO can be extremely selfish! Not really on purpose but he lacks some general consideration for others..His Pisces Venus dampens it slightly but not all the time.He is an Aries Sun/Taurus Moon. Edit: I should prolly mention that he has Aries Sun, Mercury in 1H. Taurus Moon 2H. Pisces Venus 12H. IP: Logged |
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posted September 17, 2015 01:38 AM
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 14134 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2015 01:48 AM
^^ Time for me to make my exit. I'm not up for an Aries smack down. Gabby, I wondered about harsh uranus aspects in a composite or synastry, or even a lot of Saturn (people expecting more from you). If they have strong positive aspects with another person, they might be more concerned with treating them well, although I guess it could also lead to both sides taking each other for granted. IP: Logged |
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posted September 17, 2015 04:08 AM
Any hard mars aspects to the other personal planets or the ascendant, esp moon/mars people i have noticed can be incredibly selfish. Aries placements. stellium in the 1st house or mars in the 1st. The most selfish people i have dealt with ALWAYS have either aries placements or mars making hard aspects to their other personal planets or ascendant or more than one personal planet in their 1st house. They are verrrry me me me me me me minded. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2611 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted September 17, 2015 04:26 AM
Hey teasel, this moon/mars hard aspect gal is also exiting I'm not sure you can just bring it down to aries, taurus or leo etc. what about the house influence. E.g. i'm sure a 12th house aries mooner is going to be less selfish than otherwise no? IP: Logged |
astra7 Knowflake Posts: 1059 From: I live at 667 Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 17, 2015 06:03 AM
So... so far.... Aries Taurus Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagi Aquarius Pisces placements have been mentioned.Jolly good!
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posted September 17, 2015 06:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: Hey teasel, this moon/mars hard aspect gal is also exiting I'm not sure you can just bring it down to aries, taurus or leo etc. what about the house influence. E.g. i'm sure a 12th house aries mooner is going to be less selfish than otherwise no?
I know an aries moon opposite mars girl that has her moon in a water house, and no, she is not less selfish nor very good at understanding another person unfortunately. You really, reeeeally have to be very obvious and give an exhausting explanation to her before she "catch up" with what you are feeling and want etc etc, no reading between the lines there. Been many embarrassing moments for her with men where a guy isn`t that into her but she dosen`t understand that until he actually have to say it. Another aries moon girl i know has her moon square neptune and the selfish traits are still there but the difference between the two aries moon girls that i noticed was that the one with the square to neptune was better at reading between the lines and understanding others. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 3182 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 17, 2015 10:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: Aries moon #1All other aries placements Emphasis on the first house. Sun in the first house. Taurus moon Leo placements
That's because you have cancer moon .... IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 2940 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2015 11:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: Aries moon #1All other aries placements Emphasis on the first house. Sun in the first house. Taurus moon Leo placements
Asides for Taurus moon, I agree with everything. Please allow me to add: Capricorn moon: what's in it for me?
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 6847 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted September 17, 2015 11:27 AM
^ Not Taurus Moon? How many have you met? Lol IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 7119 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 17, 2015 11:28 AM
Jupiter square perhapsIP: Logged |
Dreaminess unregistered
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posted September 17, 2015 11:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by Belage: Asides for Taurus moon, I agree with everything. Please allow me to add:Capricorn moon: what's in it for me?
"Capricorn moon: what's in it for me? "
^ That is so true. Saturn influenced people can be like that too.
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posted September 17, 2015 11:41 AM
Can I ask somebody to define selfish and give some example when they thought somebody was selfish with both people's aspects. Thanks :-) IP: Logged |