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Topic: Do you feel dating your own sign...
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Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 24, 2016 04:06 PM
As an Aquarius I've tried getting to know other Aquarians, but it's never worked out. I've always been too different for other Aquarians XDIt's probably due to how reserved I usually am. It takes a LOT to get me to open up to most people, but I always find myself unable to relate to others. I'll probably give that to how heavily destroyed my Saturn has become under disassociate squares to my Aquarius Stellium.:/ IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 24, 2016 04:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: As an Aquarius I've tried getting to know other Aquarians, but it's never worked out. I've always been too different for other Aquarians XDIt's probably due to how reserved I usually am. It takes a LOT to get me to open up to most people, but I always find myself unable to relate to others. I'll probably give that to how heavily destroyed my Saturn has become under disassociate squares to my Aquarius Stellium.:/
Hi! I love Colorado~! planning to move back there this year. WELCOME to Lindaland . I love aquas but yes you can be a bit of an enigma which just makes you interesting. You don't have to answer but what part of Colorado are you in? IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 24, 2016 04:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Hi! I love Colorado~! planning to move back there this year.WELCOME to Lindaland . I love aquas but yes you can be a bit of an enigma which just makes you interesting. You don't have to answer but what part of Colorado are you in?
Thanks for the welcome! Appreciated very much  I live in Brighton as of the moment. Was born in Westminster and lived in Northglenn for seven years  Yes, I'm a huge enigma. Coupled with this Scorpio Rising, it just makes things weirder lol. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 24, 2016 04:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: Thanks for the welcome! Appreciated very much  I live in Brighton as of the moment. Was born in Westminster and lived in Northglenn for seven years  Yes, I'm a huge enigma. Coupled with this Scorpio Rising, it just makes things weirder lol.
Nice, yes I recognize the areas you mention! . Colorado stole my heart. I use to live in Evergreen and then Dumont between Idaho Springs and Georgetown...and commuted to work at Lafayette...I would take route 93 by Boulder to go back home at times. Weirder? or more interesting?! hahaha IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 24, 2016 04:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Nice, yes I recognize the areas you mention! . Colorado stole my heart.I use to live in Evergreen and then Dumont between Idaho Springs and Georgetown...and commuted to work at Lafayette...I would take route 93 by Boulder to go back home at times. Weirder? or more interesting?! hahaha
I would say just a coincidence lol  I like to head up to Steamboat Springs quite often. Nice place to visit every year  IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 24, 2016 04:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: I would say just a coincidence lol  I like to head up to Steamboat Springs quite often. Nice place to visit every year 
Oh yes! Steamboat Springs! I did get to check out Strawberry Park Hot Springs in the Fall, it was beautiful, looking forward to going again; very cute town. Nice mini road trip, I loved it. IP: Logged |
Sikanda Knowflake Posts: 888 From: 28080 Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 24, 2016 05:19 PM
Hmm yes, why not, as long as they are different enough to spice things up and not make it monotonous. But I would also date someone that trined my Sun (Capricorn or Taurus). I feel those would understand me well. Or a water or fire sign, really. As long as we have compatible placements it should be ok. I don't know about air signs (I have a Libra Moon and Venus), but after my experience with Gemini I don't think I will date them, sorry...IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 24, 2016 06:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Elysia: By virtue of never having to come into contact with reality, they're in an impenetrable cocoon of ethereal perfection.
Isn't that such a lovely image? Thank you!  Maybe...just a little reality...since my imagination isn't so great, and people have surprised me by being more interesting, and affecting me more profoundly, than I could have imagined. Yes it's funny about how I got married. I had a crush on my husband for a few months, so I kinda knew what I was getting into. For him, it was more sudden. We have Mars-Juno-ASC in composite, all nearly exact. Other chart features explain the rush, especially Uranus. It's odd because it's the only time I ever raced into ANY relationship, the others I was always so hesitant about. quote: Originally posted by Elysia: I hear ya. Did you happen to meet some such person?
Mostly, it's like I said above...some people (very few, actually) make a strong impression on me, and I think, if this chemistry is so powerful with minimal contact, I wonder what more contact would do? My 8H Pisces moon is sensitive to emotional currents and harps on, amplifies, and tinkers with them, because...because the 8H hangs onto stuff too long, and one has to keep the feeling going somehow? LOL Not so much these days....more devoted to other things that occupy my mind, these days. Thanks for the chat, you are delightful to talk with! IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 832 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 24, 2016 10:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Elysia: Cool..! How many of them were you attracted to? Btw, aren't Daniel Craig and his wifey also a Pisces-Pisces couple?
Only one- my boyfriend  IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 2149 From: Gotham Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 25, 2016 10:40 AM
Welcome, Electro DGX. *wink* *wink* to your Scorp Asc. Faith, lovely talking to you too! Would like to hear more about your hubby and 8H moon someday... IP: Logged |
Spica Knowflake Posts: 442 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 25, 2016 11:33 AM
I know two couples that are Sagittarius.The first Sagittarius couple get along well. They argue sometimes but it's never serious. They have a fun relationship. The other Sagittarius couple the woman is always complaining about his husband. Se finds faults in him all the time and they divorced. The husband is an indifferent kind of person who was tolerating her. I'm a Virgo and what I'm scared about about dating my own sign is that virgos are really fast in pointing out something or noticing something. They point out flaws easily and we will think alike. Virgos have high nervous energy and quick movements and think really fast like me. And I know how virgos think. So what's the use of the excitement of a relationship if you can tell what your partner's always thinking. It's boring. I can relate to virgos. They can be my best friends or soul brothers. When I see something they do that you can't explain with words but can relate completely like a habit, it brings a smile on my face and I think "that is so me!" For some reason I can relate more to Virgo men than Virgo women. I don't understand Virgo women because they can be too clever and secretive and materialistic. So I think if I date my own sign we will be a nervous couple and I don't really like that I want someone who is sure of themselves, don't want someone mercurian like Gemini or Virgo. Someone laid back and sure of himself and chill like a Capricorn or Leo. Because I already have a lot of nervous energy and I need someone to balance that. As a person with a lot of mutable sign I am very fidgety, fickle and nervous. Someone who is fixed or has calm laid back energy is someone who can balance me out. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 25, 2016 07:15 PM
Thanks for the welcome Elysia! I would also like to add that I have an 8th house moon in Gemini. Makes me more emotional than I need to be lol (well maybe it balances things out concerning I have 6 air planets lol). A lot of the time I feel like a Capricorn Moon, but that may be because that's my moon in Draconic (so much earth in my Draconic but no earth in Natal?). IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 2986 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 25, 2016 07:49 PM
I know quite a few same sign couples. They seem to do well together. Most of those relationships are based on long-term friendships. I don't know any of them very well, so can't comment much on their relationship dynamic. Though I expect some sort of natural understanding, bird of the same feather feel. I like a bit of friction and complementary qualities. Hence my attraction to libra/virgo. As far as I know, I haven't had a crush on caps. But from the friendships and the way I and some male caps connect, I suppose if I were in a romantic relationship with one, chances are that it'd be good. There's already a lot of basic building blocks for a good connection - shared interests and values, and respect/admiration. There's this friend, whom I've known and worked with for more than a year. We sort of got on each other's nerves at the beginning. He seemed pretty much the snarky cap to me, until one day I had the feeling that most of his snark had a hint of fondness. Lol after getting to know the guy, I thought he was pretty cool. Well spoken, has a sort of quiet confidence, lovely personalities, romantic, loves and edits books, sings at the bar...etc.. We got on well, talked a lot. One fine day when we were talking about romance and whatnot, he gave me a look and made a comment about how sometimes we met the right person, but not at the right time. Suddenly there was so many unspoken meanings in the air. After that day he kept his distance. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 25, 2016 09:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: Thanks for the welcome Elysia! I would also like to add that I have an 8th house moon in Gemini. Makes me more emotional than I need to be lol (well maybe it balances things out concerning I have 6 air planets lol). A lot of the time I feel like a Capricorn Moon, but that may be because that's my moon in Draconic (so much earth in my Draconic but no earth in Natal?).
Interesting, my Draco moon is also in Capricorn @1d.
My Sidereal moon is in Aquarius @27d. My Tropic Moon is in Pisces @21d in the Scorpio Duad of Pisces and the Sagittarius dwad of Pisces and rules my 8th house and falls in my 3rd house. Have you checked your Duad and Dwad placements??
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Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 25, 2016 10:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Interesting, my Draco moon is also in Capricorn @1d. My Sidereal moon is in Aquarius @27d. My Tropic Moon is in Pisces @21d in the Scorpio Duad of Pisces and the Sagittarius dwad of Pisces and rules my 8th house and falls in my 3rd house. Have you checked your Duad and Dwad placements??
Honestly I haven't. I've not been aware such exists until today lol. Guess I'll have to do more studying. Would you know how I can figure out mine? IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 25, 2016 11:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: Honestly I haven't. I've not been aware such exists until today lol. Guess I'll have to do more studying. Would you know how I can figure out mine?
Dwads and Duads are my new fascination. I don't think you can get the whole picture of a person without looking into them. Duads and Dwads are the reason why two Sun in Virgos or any sign can feel totally different and is the key to unlocking differences among twins. I feel Duads and Dwads tell you what is underneath the surface like the sound and vibration of your soul, your melody. Like my Sun in Virgo has Duad in Leo @7d and Dwad in Pisces @7d; I have always felt I was more pisces and Leo and figured it was bc I have moon in pisces and venus and mars in leo but the sun is suppose to be stronger in the expression of your overall personality so having Sun in Virgo in the duad of Leo and Dwad of Pisces really explains that. You can get the Duad placements with Planetdance software which is a free software. Once downloaded go to File, then Harmonic and then click on Dwad but those are actually the Duad placements. To get the Dwad placements go to File, then Harmonic and then click on Harmonic again and put 12 in the box and hit ok. The Dwad placements are the 12th harmonic. Share your placements when you find them out... IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 26, 2016 06:53 PM
Awesome! Thanks for the help  This is quite interesting. My Duad Sun is in Aries at 22 degrees and my Dwad Sun is in Gemini at 22 degrees. My Duad Moon is in Virgo at 29 degrees (ooh lol), and my Dwad moon is in Cancer at 29 degrees. Maybe this Cancer Moon Dwad explains why I'm really emotional for a Gemini Moon. I could be totally wrong though since this is the first time learning about this. This is actually really cool  IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 26, 2016 10:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: Awesome! Thanks for the help  This is quite interesting. My Duad Sun is in Aries at 22 degrees and my Dwad Sun is in Gemini at 22 degrees. My Duad Moon is in Virgo at 29 degrees (ooh lol), and my Dwad moon is in Cancer at 29 degrees. Maybe this Cancer Moon Dwad explains why I'm really emotional for a Gemini Moon. I could be totally wrong though since this is the first time learning about this. This is actually really cool 
Oh wow your Duad Moon conjuncts my Sun by 1d, very cool. With that combo I would think there is nothing like good conversation to make you feel at home and emotionally secure. I imagine you really enjoy regular contact like keeping in touch throughout the day when in a relationship as part of your daily routine perhaps that is when you get "emotional" if that does not happen. People probably tend to feel safe and comfortable opening up to you. Its probably really important to you to talk things out when something bothers you and perhaps your words are reassuring and nurturing to others. Also you probably also have very good keen eyes and are attentive to detail, maybe a good researcher with Moon in Gemini with Duad in Virgo. That is nice having Sun duad in Aries, I bet it adds confidence and helps you be more risky and take more initiative and with an Aqua Sun I could see how that would be more conducive to activism, you add Sun dwad in Gemini and you perhaps have your own you tube channel like Adam Kokesh also an aqua LOL . Something to think about... IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 26, 2016 11:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Oh wow your Duad Moon conjuncts my Sun by 1d, very cool. With that combo I would think there is nothing like good conversation to make you feel at home and emotionally secure. I imagine you really enjoy regular contact like keeping in touch throughout the day when in a relationship as part of your daily routine perhaps that is when you get "emotional" if that does not happen. People probably tend to feel safe and comfortable opening up to you. Its probably really important to you to talk things out when something bothers you and perhaps your words are reassuring and nurturing to others. Also you probably also have very good keen eyes and are attentive to detail, maybe a good researcher with Moon in Gemini with Duad in Virgo. That is nice having Sun duad in Aries, I bet it adds confidence and helps you be more risky and take more initiative and with an Aqua Sun I could see how that would be more conducive to activism, you add Sun dwad in Gemini and you perhaps have your own you tube channel like Adam Kokesh also an aqua LOL . Something to think about...
That sounds exactly like me. I'm honestly very shocked  I've been thinking of doing YouTube videos involving me for some time now. Since you mentioned that, maybe I will. I've already got 84 followers on SoundCloud with my music lol (SoundCloud follower loyalty though can easily be questioned). The confidence thing is definitely true. Despite having my Saturn in Aries natally, I've never dealt with self-confidence issues (honestly it was more related to self-worth). I've also been attentive to detail; enough to be described as having OCD lol. I once read a interpretation of the Aqua Sun and Gem Moon combination, and it said that they tend to, "Only skim the surface of subjects" which I disagreed with. Reading this makes more sense to me  What surprised me most about these charts is how both my Mars and Asc are in Scorpio, both natally and in my Duad chart. In my Dwad chart though, they're both in Aries. I've felt like an Aries mars quite often lol. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 27, 2016 06:07 PM
^ That must be quite nice having AC and Mars in Scorpio at the Duad of Aries! Given you that extra notch and confidence to act on your desires and not over think things while still being calculating and strategic. You would be less shy and more forward having the duad there. I was once with someone who had the reverse Mars in Aries with duad in scorpio, quite liked it but he was anxious and insecure strangely and shy, well he is a saturn riser with saturn in the 12th and his Duad Sun in Cancer and his Dwad Sun in Virgo. IP: Logged |
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posted March 01, 2016 05:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: I tried dating an Aries once. Shortest relationship of my life. 24h. Aries are quick you know. 
I take it back!  Well, it's only been 2 weeks but I'm loving the blunt honesty (there's nothing we can't discuss upfront, including some difficult matters which it's already done and I feel so relieved, I can't think of anyone I could have had this with, other than an Aries), the excitement and spontaneity. It helps that my Mars is in Aries and his DC is also in Aries, so we can appreciate one another. Also that we both have something important in Capricorn (Asc and Moon) to get us to slow down a bit and be more realistic. As well as the fact that we met in our 30s when we're technically more mature. I don't think two young Aries can make that good of a pairing, but we'll see what age brought me and him soon enough. So far, it might just be the best relationship I've had in my whole life, if it keeps up like this. Though I suppose a sudden rupture like with the other Aries could also happen.. But oh well we have today and today was perfect. IP: Logged |
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posted March 01, 2016 09:27 PM
I'm a Sag but I've never dated one, which is completely crazy and weird b/c I think Sagittarius guys are SUPER attractive. Their eyes (all sexy with a twinkle of mischief), their charm (unmatched), their minds(quite the zealot but fascinating lol)! I just love them. I was madly obsessed with one for over 3 years when I was in school (he moved after a year but the feeling never left). Fell in love with (but never dated) one with his Mars in Scorpio. Last summer, I had a quick but intense fascination with yet another Sag w/ Mars in Scorpio (he wasn't aware). Had a major attraction to one that shared my birthday back when I was an intern. Worked with a Scorpio guy with Mars in Sag that I was attracted to against my will lol (had to avoid him like the plague). Another Scorpio with Sag moon appeared to have super-powers or something when it came to making me feel all weird and "hot" lol. The only celebrity crush I've ever had in my life had a Sag moon (and I NEVER actually care about famous ppl). If I'm watching a movie or something and find a person attractive they are almost always Sag or Leo with some Scorpio sprinkled somewhere (or the reverse lol). Yep, lots of attraction but it's just never happened. I guess it's a mix of it not being the right time and the fact that I rarely get involved with anyone to begin with (despite w/e crush I may have). I'm a picky hermit that literally has to be forced by fate into relationships lol. The only two that were ever granted access were a Leo and a Pisces (and both were totally by chance). The circumstances in which I ended up with them make most movies look boring lol. Still secretly want to experience a Sag one day though, life will throw one my way eventually lol 
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 01, 2016 10:13 PM
^Hahaha My ex was a Scorpio with Mars in Sag. I love Venus and Mars sag placements! Both trine my venus and mars and conjunct my Neptune, Northnode, AC or chart ruler Jupiter Conjunct Uranus.Why were you attracted to him against your will?! Was he taken? How did you meet these mysterious Pisces and Leo that make movies look lame?! Gustin Grant also has Mars in Sag and it conjuncts exact my Southnode. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5110 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 01, 2016 10:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: I take it back!  Well, it's only been 2 weeks but I'm loving the blunt honesty (there's nothing we can't discuss upfront, including some difficult matters which it's already done and I feel so relieved, I can't think of anyone I could have had this with, other than an Aries), the excitement and spontaneity. It helps that my Mars is in Aries and his DC is also in Aries, so we can appreciate one another. Also that we both have something important in Capricorn (Asc and Moon) to get us to slow down a bit and be more realistic. As well as the fact that we met in our 30s when we're technically more mature. I don't think two young Aries can make that good of a pairing, but we'll see what age brought me and him soon enough. So far, it might just be the best relationship I've had in my whole life, if it keeps up like this. Though I suppose a sudden rupture like with the other Aries could also happen.. But oh well we have today and today was perfect.
Awww I am happy for you !! I hope it lasts and it continues to be a great adventure. I love the upfrontness of Aries too, so refreshing, I have soutnode in the 1st so it works well with me. IP: Logged |
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posted March 01, 2016 11:25 PM
Thank you, H! I hope it lasts too! Definitely NOT boring or like dating a cousin. hahaIP: Logged |