posted March 02, 2016 12:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Thank you, H! I hope it lasts too! Definitely NOT boring or like dating a cousin. haha

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posted March 03, 2016 02:47 AM            

Perhaps if you have a relatively stable, routine life it's better to have a relationship which shakes it up.

I'm single but I would favour comfort and deep understanding in a relationship. Having said that I have enough dramas to know myself pretty well and I'm 42 now, so I guess I may have thought Aquarius was the easy option 20 years ago... ;-)

posted March 03, 2016 03:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Yes, Jupiter!

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posted March 03, 2016 03:23 AM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
I've found the most success in dating fellow Aquarians, I go for men as similar to me as possible. That may sound narcissist but when you consider that so few people have a clue what I'm talking about most of the time; it's rare for me to find men with lots in common and they usually end up being Aquarian, sometimes Libra.

Perhaps if you have a relatively stable, routine life it's better to have a relationship which shakes it up.

I'm single but I would favour comfort and deep understanding in a relationship. Having said that I have enough dramas to know myself pretty well and I'm 42 now, so I guess I may have thought Aquarius was the easy option 20 years ago... ;-)

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posted March 03, 2016 07:00 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Can be a bit more of the same or monotonous kind of Like dating a third cousin comforting but also a bit boring bc you are so similar..

A bit kind of dating yourself comes to mind too...

Both of my parents are caps and both of my grandparents from my dad's side are aquas and yes both marriages are very stable with rarely any fights, I don't think my grandparents fought ever tbh. My cousin is a Leo married to a Leo and yes all three examples I have given are of couples who never got divorced and never will and appear very united but there is also something about these unions that I don't like, the predictability of it I guess..

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posted March 03, 2016 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by happyleo:
Also, Leos l o v e mirrors lol

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When I'm walking and see a mirror, I will stop and check myself out

Leo venus and mars in the 1st

posted March 03, 2016 10:56 AM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Yes Hypatia,

I've got to thinking only Aquarians actually want to put up with Aquarians daily ;-)

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I'm a male Aqua with a stellium of 5. Maybe we should start dating LOL XD

Jk. I just think it's surprising that you have better experience dating fellow Aquarians than I do. Typically, I find myself to be too different from other Aquarians, so I struggle to see the connection. Have you experienced this?

posted March 03, 2016 11:34 AM            

That's a whole lot of Aquarius....so where are we going on our first date?

It’s true all Aquarians are different and some can be a little cold (if there are no mitigating water placements) I love the intelligence, the play on words, the humour.

One of my best friends is Aquarius, I hardly ever see him but when we meet we spend hours and hours laughing… we make up the funniest most ridiculous ideas and sometimes even carry them out. So much fun, but he’s also one of the most trustworthy, decent and kind human beings I’ve ever met.

Entirely unreliable in some ways but why try to make somebody conform? These days with mobile phones you don’t need to make plans anyway….. I even love my girlie Aqua friends. They’re just so warm, and loving and open and funny.

posted March 03, 2016 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Yes Hypatia,

I've got to thinking only Aquarians actually want to put up with Aquarians daily ;-)

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I wouldn't take it that far

posted March 03, 2016 05:03 PM              

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
What are the two houses Jupiter rules in your chart? Just curious

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posted March 09, 2016 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
... with same sign combos. When it doesn't work, it really doesn't work. But when it does work, it's almost perfect.

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I agree, the best relationship I've had was with another Aquarius.
I love Aqua energy in general. But when it comes to the sun I divide it within 3 groups of people - 1 that works (and I love them), 1 that does not (it's like they are not even the same sign) and the 3rd is just 'meh' (or I don't care about you).
Aquas can be a lil bit in a leage of our own not only concerning the sign in general, but the individuals as well.
And the aspects and other placements can really make or break it.

posted November 03, 2016 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Hemilla:
I have not met Gemini man i wanted to date.

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I never really liked gemini women, i've always found them looney or a little off.

posted November 03, 2016 01:54 PM            

Otherwise of course it depends on the main influences, Sun is just one of them. Most Virgos I met seemed so cold or distant, which makes me think about me projecting these attributes on them.
Otherwise my long term ex had a lot of Virgo influence, and that was exhausting, especially Mars in Virgo part. Even though he was Aqua, I was the rebel one and he was the control freak. Again, we were also projecting a lot on each other.

posted November 03, 2016 02:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Cinnamon sky:
I read somewhere that from an energetical point of view, a relationship with your own sign can be very stale, neutral, somehow doesn't connect. And this was my experience with another Virgo, but that was back in high school.

Otherwise of course it depends on the main influences, Sun is just one of them. Most Virgos I met seemed so cold or distant, which makes me think about me projecting these attributes on them.
Otherwise my long term ex had a lot of Virgo influence, and that was exhausting, especially Mars in Virgo part. Even though he was Aqua, I was the rebel one and he was the control freak. Again, we were also projecting a lot on each other.

But if they are Virgo, usually have to have a lot of water, for me to get hooked.

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I am with you, I think typically I don't connect with other Virgo men deeply on a romantic level but can click as friends well or have fun with them for a while, there can be attraction sure but yes there are exceptions to the rule I am sure and the rest of the chart would play a role in that exception.

posted November 03, 2016 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I am with you, I think typically I don't connect with other Virgo men deeply on a romantic level but can click as friends well or have fun with them for a while, there can be attraction sure but yes there are exceptions to the rule I am sure and the rest of the chart would play a role in that exception.

I like your feedback from an energetical point of view.

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posted November 04, 2016 07:27 AM            

Dating them was very hard because they were not evolved, and I was growing as well, and I think Caps have a kind of telepathic bond with one another if we're dating each other. So when it was going well and they were evolving and growing and trying, it was WONDERFUL. But when they were still stuck and being teenagers and messing wth me or lying, I always knew. I felt it. And they felt me feeling it. (That's what she said?)

So it was always horrible in the end because love never died with either, but there was a point of no return where we knew being together was impossible. The last one also lied to me the entire relationship and was a hot mess in the end. He wanted me to give him a shot still, and I still was very much in love with him emotionally but absolutely could not and would not go into another phase of a relationship with him after that betrayal.

I'm not sure how to describe my same-sign experiences except for this way: dramatic, extremely deep, and almost TOO much love,if that makes sense. Sacrificial love (until it wasn't).

posted November 04, 2016 07:29 AM            

Dating them was very hard because they were not evolved, and I was growing as well, and I think Caps have a kind of telepathic bond with one another if we're dating each other. So when it was going well and they were evolving and growing and trying, it was WONDERFUL. But when they were still stuck and being teenagers and messing wth me or lying, I always knew. I felt it. And they felt me feeling it. (That's what she said?)

So it was always horrible in the end because love never died with either, but there was a point of no return where we knew being together was impossible. The last one also lied to me the entire relationship and was a hot mess in the end. He wanted me to give him a shot still, and I still was very much in love with him emotionally but absolutely could not and would not go into another phase of a relationship with him after that betrayal.

I'm not sure how to describe my same-sign experiences except for this way: dramatic, extremely deep, and almost TOO much love,if that makes sense. Sacrificial love (until it wasn't).