posted February 01, 2016 01:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
Good suggestion. Cheers.

The women who works for me has Aries moon, as does her Husband. We are pretty much best friends as they came to QLD from VIC. I know another Aries moon, it's trine with my Leo Moon and she adores me too.

Yet this one I want, nup. Crushed me lol. I've not messaged her and I will not. But she works at the only pub in town that has good food and the staff run after me like I'm a King. They give me free beer and all.

Last week, because of how she was ignoring me, I went to another pub. Well their deep fryer died so they could only do pizza. I ordered, had 1 slice and walked out frustrated.

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I adore Leo moons! Very manly placement IMO. You will find someone special soon I have a feeling...

Awww I wouldn't want you to stop going to your favorite pub bc of her. I guess let some time pass to let the feelings cool off but then return to your favorite pub.

posted February 01, 2016 01:40 AM            

You are right when I said the ignorance is BS. I was referring to her not having the decency to simply respond to a message. If she had have said " leave me alone ", that would be the point where I cut her off 100%. Still to this day, it's only silence.

posted February 01, 2016 01:42 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
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NVM. Not worth it.

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Bahahaha! I just did the same thing, except that I hadn't posted yet.

posted February 01, 2016 01:43 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
It certainly qualifies as assertive, but it's not passive-aggressive in any way. I simply told him he was being offensive - what he does with that is up to him.

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That is my point I was using what you said as an example of positive communication, you were being assertive by letting the other person know calmly they have crossed a line with you.

posted February 01, 2016 01:48 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
That is my point I was using what you said as an example of positive communication, you were being assertive by letting the other person know calmly they have crossed a line with you.

Passive aggressive would be taking a jab at someone.

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posted February 01, 2016 01:50 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I edited the post because this is just the internet.

Go ahead, call me names...I'm sure a mod will see this at some point.

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Are you upset about being called a whinger?

You don't like the title. Boo hoo. Rather than say " I was going to write and help out, but now I won't ", how about next time, save the personal anguish and close the thread.

posted February 01, 2016 01:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:

I would say that even though she is a bartender, she is very intelligent. She is very driven and strives to own her own pubs. Another quality about her that I love.

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posted February 01, 2016 01:59 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes I respect that profession 100% and love she wants to own her own pub, that sounds fun. Sometimes I fantasize about being a bartender, I think it could be fun part time.

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posted February 01, 2016 02:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
Are you upset about being called a whinger?

You don't like the title. Boo hoo. Rather than say " I was going to write and help out, but now I won't ", how about next time, save the personal anguish and close the thread.

Have a nice day.

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Dave, I'm sorry for carping about your grammar. The way that you were using the word "ignorance" seemed as though you were referring to her ignoring you. My grammar is not perfect, and I'm pretty okay with that.

Not that it's any of my business whether you use a word incorrectly, but part of my point (I'll re-post the cartoon if you would like) was that Virgos nitpick. It was ridiculous, so I removed the post. It was just a cartoon, and a mention that (I thought) you were using the word incorrectly.

I have a Virgo Moon, and Mars and Mercury in H6.
I will flat-out ignore people quite often if they irritate me, or if I find them creepy, time consuming, or energy draining.

However, it sounds to me as though she possibly hadn't broken things off with her fiance completely when you contacted her, or that maybe she's still processing a heavy breakup.

posted February 01, 2016 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
No, I'm not upset. If my feelings could be hurt by what someone on the internet says, I wouldn't have posted as much as I have on this forum. I'm just pointing out that name-calling is frowned upon on this forum and has, in the past, led to people being banned.

There is no personal anguish. Again, I was pointing out that you would probably get more helpful responses if you weren't offensive in your approach. Respect tends to go a long way with Virgos.

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posted February 01, 2016 02:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
Dave, I'm sorry for carping about your grammar. The way that you were using the word "ignorance" seemed as though you were referring to her ignoring you. My grammar is not perfect, and I'm pretty okay with that.

Not that it's any of my business whether you use a word incorrectly, but part of my point (I'll re-post the cartoon if you would like) was that Virgos nitpick. It was ridiculous, so I removed the post. It was just a cartoon, and a mention that (I thought) you were using the word incorrectly.

I have a Virgo Moon, and Mars and Mercury in H6.
I will flat-out ignore people quite often if they irritate me, or if I find them creepy, time consuming, or energy draining.

However, it sounds to me as though she possibly hadn't broken things off with her fiance completely when you contacted her, or that maybe she's still processing a heavy breakup.

That would be the most basic idea I would have about your situation, based on what you've mentioned.

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posted February 01, 2016 02:29 AM            

You are both special and in a weird way the two of you are sort of flirting...lol like if we were back in 5th grade and you pulled the girl's hair and she got mad at you and went after you with a rock to get back at you but you pulled her hair in the first place bc you liked her type of thing..

posted February 01, 2016 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Leo I see the point you are making and also see the point that SV is making but lets just stop making the fire bigger with name calling can do, let go and focus back on practical advise and having a fun dialogue.

You are both special and in a weird way the two of you are sort of flirting...lol like if we were back in 5th grade and you pulled the girl's hair and she got mad at you and went after you with a rock to get back at you but you pulled her hair in the first place bc you liked her type of thing..

^ anyways trying to diffuse tension here with humor.

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Lol I've actually had interactions like that in-person with male Leos (especially back in HS). It's funny that you mention that.

@Leo-Dave

posted February 01, 2016 06:32 AM            

I agree with everything else. It sucks that she's ignoring you. I will only send two or three messages and if they do not reply (on Facebook you can see if they've read it) then I'm done. I'll move on.

posted February 01, 2016 09:29 AM            

That's just how they are. They always have really brutal, irrational standards in partners, even if they aren't really a catch themselves, and if you don't meet the standard, they handle how they express disinterest in a really brutal way. It seems to me to apply outside of the romantic sphere also - people who don't meet strange, rather surface-level, arbitrary standards, are treated as though they don't exist, or routinely stuffed into a dark corner of a dark room and they pretend they aren't there.

...At least the unevolved ones, anyway. That's fine; no one has to go out with any one they don't want to, people do have a right to their tastes however nonsensical, but you have to make a decision on whether or not you're going to keep yourself hanging on that meat hook or just write them off and go on with your life.

posted February 01, 2016 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:
Everybody around her, dislikes her - and while yes, in some instances that doesn't mean anything because the individual is just misunderstood, in some cases it does tell you something. Not even her fiance wanted to keep her around and got rid of her.

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posted February 01, 2016 04:24 PM            

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