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Topic: People heavy in Virgo - are they ******* and ******** ?
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Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Qld, Australia Registered: May 2014
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posted January 31, 2016 07:27 PM
I really like a woman who's Mars, Venus and Mercury are all in Virgo. Everyone at her work says she is a ***** !!! They think I'm CRAZY for liking her! She's hard to get a hold of and about a week ago, stopped talking to me 100% - she cut me off for no reason. I've asked her why, no response. She works at a bar I frequent, but I mostly spoke to her online.Another person I know has Sun, Mercury and Jupiter in Virgo. She's a damn ***** too!!! GRRRR! My Descendant is in Virgo and I seem to always go for people heavy in Virgo ( or Earth signs ). So what do you think? Hopefully this doesn't offend all you cranky Virgo's :P IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 66329 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 31, 2016 07:49 PM
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Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Qld, Australia Registered: May 2014
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posted January 31, 2016 07:59 PM
HAHA yeah you know me. When I have a problem, everyone hears about it.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 66329 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 31, 2016 08:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leo-Dave: HAHA yeah you know me. When I have a problem, everyone hears about it.
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1873 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted January 31, 2016 08:51 PM
I'm Virgo mercury, Venus, mars. I think I need more details of the story to possibly take a stab at what's going on in their head. Plus, what's the rest of the chart? Sun and moon..? IP: Logged |
mamawolf Knowflake Posts: 318 From: the universe Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 31, 2016 09:19 PM
I either love or hate Virgo heavy men. They've either been such d***s for no reason or really nice and polite.IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Qld, Australia Registered: May 2014
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posted January 31, 2016 09:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: I'm Virgo mercury, Venus, mars. I think I need more details of the story to possibly take a stab at what's going on in their head. Plus, what's the rest of the chart? Sun and moon..?
She works at a pub that I've been coming to since I moved to this town. I've known her for nearly a year through her work. She is GORGEOUS. But she had a ring on her finger. In December, it was gone. I asked where it was and she said her fiance took it back. So I have been talking to her on Messenger since December. She knows I like her. Everyone at her work knows. I got her chart about 2-3 weeks ago. Often times when I would talk to her on Messenger she would take hours or days to reply after seeing the message. It is very frustrating. I told her it was annoying and now she cut me off. I've told her if she doesn't want anything to do with me, say so! I will leave her be 100% if that's what she wants. Still, nothing. I've given her Christmas presents and she's called me a sweetheart more than once. Her Sun is in Leo, Moon is in Aries. For some reason, Aries moon people tend to really dig me ( I have Leo Sun, Moon and Venus ). Both her Mercury and mine are conjunct in Virgo.
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Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Qld, Australia Registered: May 2014
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posted January 31, 2016 09:35 PM
Something I hate more than anything is being ignored. My ex-wife ( before becoming my ex-wife ) did it and it drove me nuts. When I first saw this woman, it was like love at first sight. But now, after all the ignorance, my feelings toward her are dying. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 3342 From: Miami Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 31, 2016 10:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leo-Dave: Something I hate more than anything is being ignored. My ex-wife ( before becoming my ex-wife ) did it and it drove me nuts. When I first saw this woman, it was like love at first sight. But now, after all the ignorance, my feelings toward her are dying.
Ofcourse they are, I hate being ignored too, how hard is it to reply to a stupid message, it takes a few seconds, that annoys me a lot and is a big pet peeve of mine. I have Sun and mercury in virgo with venus and mars in leo, if I am interested I show it and I need other person to show it too and if they can't I will lose interest bc I don't have time for stupidity or people with issues. Leos hate being ignored and being taken for granted, its a big deal for us if you ignore a text, its super rude or a sign of being taken for granted for us. We also respect a lot someone who can just be upfront and say they are not interested, it shows you have balls; bravo!. What I have learned through time is that no response is a response; they are either not interested or emotionally unavailable which either way means its not going to happen. Its very possible that if she just got out of a relationship with someone she was engaged with that she is not emotionally available if she was deeply in love or she is not interested. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 103 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted January 31, 2016 11:02 PM
My husband has Sun, Mercury, Jupiter, Saturn and Midheaven in Virgo. I love him so much, he is such a great, sweet, loving, caring responsible man! In addition he has lots of Leo in his chart as well so he is also very fiery and passionate. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 31, 2016 11:57 PM
I'm just a Virgo Asc, Mars (progressed Virgo stellium + Asc 12H). I will ignore a person if:a: I don't like you. b: you bore me. Usually though, I am extremely attentive. It's the "service and please you" in me. IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Qld, Australia Registered: May 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 12:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Ofcourse they are, I hate being ignored too, how hard is it to reply to a stupid message, it takes a few seconds, that annoys me a lot and is a big pet peeve of mine.I have Sun and mercury in virgo with venus and mars in leo, if I am interested I show it and I need other person to show it too and if they can't I will lose interest bc I don't have time for stupidity or people with issues. Leos hate being ignored and being taken for granted, its a big deal for us if you ignore a text, its super rude or a sign of being taken for granted for us. We also respect a lot someone who can just be upfront and say they are not interested, it shows you have balls; bravo!. What I have learned through time is that no response is a response; they are either not interested or emotionally unavailable which either way means its not going to happen. Its very possible that if she just got out of a relationship with someone she was engaged with that she is not emotionally available if she was deeply in love or she is not interested.
I agree, she is probably not in the right emotional spot right now for anything else. But, a simple " I'm not interested " is all I'm after. The ignorance is BS! IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 3342 From: Miami Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 12:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Leo-Dave: I agree, she is probably not in the right emotional spot right now for anything else. But, a simple " I'm not interested " is all I'm after. The ignorance is BS!
I feel you its extremely annoying people's inability to communicate simple matters and it comes such a long way to just be honest and let the other person know what is going on and were your head is out. IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 5349 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted February 01, 2016 12:18 AM
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 3342 From: Miami Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 12:24 AM
What surprises me is that with moon in Aries I would think she would be upfront. One of the most open and upfront guys I had a fling with had MOON-MARS in Aries and Venus in Sag. He always told me were his head was at, no wondering; how freaking refreshing and sadly rare. We had a connection and friendship throughout the fling and after though..I would suggest you don't contact her anymore. Don't blow up her messenger or phone. Give yourself a messaging/texting rule from now on that after the second message you don't send any more messages until they have responded and let her be the one to text you first from time to time. Guys have to play hard to get too. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 570 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 01, 2016 12:43 AM
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StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 570 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 5349 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted February 01, 2016 12:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by StubbornVirgo: ^ Violets, you should have left it up! I thought it was funny and relevant.
I also thought it was funny and relevant... But then I felt like a d!ck. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 3342 From: Miami Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 01:02 AM
There are really cool virgos and there are some crazy virgos too, usually the crazy ones are a mix of cool, sexy and crazy..but that is the case for all signs really. He is just venting bc is upset, I don't think his intention is to offend but more to express his anger and frustration.IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 570 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 01, 2016 01:04 AM
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Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Qld, Australia Registered: May 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 01:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by StubbornVirgo: I was going to write a helpful response, but honestly, the title of this thread is so offensive I'm not really sure I want to help you out. I mean, seriously... How would you like it if somebody created a Leo-hating thread like this?
I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. Leo's are arrogant, vain, egocentric ******** . Even me. Happy? IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Qld, Australia Registered: May 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 01:16 AM
The thread is about people heavy in Virgo. The 2 people in my life that are thick in Virgo are a freakin pain, yet I am fond of them both. Am I the only one that has this problem with Virgo? It's not just a vent session. It's personal research. If being called a ***** is offensive, I guess you're a..... Virgo.IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Qld, Australia Registered: May 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 01:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: What surprises me is that with moon in Aries I would think she would be upfront. One of the most open and upfront guys I had a fling with had MOON-MARS in Aries and Venus in Sag. He always told me were his head was at, no wondering; how freaking refreshing and sadly rare. We had a connection and friendship throughout the fling and after though..I would suggest you don't contact her anymore. Don't blow up her messenger or phone. Give yourself a messaging/texting rule from now on that after the second message you don't send any more messages until they have responded and let her be the one to text you first from time to time. Guys have to play hard to get too.
Good suggestion. Cheers. The women who works for me has Aries moon, as does her Husband. We are pretty much best friends as they came to QLD from VIC. I know another Aries moon, it's trine with my Leo Moon and she adores me too. Yet this one I want, nup. Crushed me lol. I've not messaged her and I will not. But she works at the only pub in town that has good food and the staff run after me like I'm a King. They give me free beer and all. Last week, because of how she was ignoring me, I went to another pub. Well their deep fryer died so they could only do pizza. I ordered, had 1 slice and walked out frustrated. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 3342 From: Miami Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 01:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Violets: I also thought it was funny and relevant... But then I felt like a d!ck.
why is it relevant though? I saw what you posted, please elaborate. Do you mean that his writing may have turned her off bc of typos?? When he said 'the ignorance is bs' I understand he was referring to her not communicating assertively about why she stopped talking to him or cut him off, she exercised passive communication instead and disappeared. There is a lot of ignorance in the topic of communication and positive ways of communicating IMO. Like taking a jab at someone is an example of a passive aggressive style of communication. Saying 'hey I found what you said offensive' would lead to a dialogue and is an assertive style of communication. Perhaps the structure of the sentence 'the ignorance is BS' was not proper IYO and your point is that this would make a heavy virgo terminate contact with someone. I do know plenty of heavy virgos who are not grammar Nazis though; she is not a professor this girl, he mentioned she was a bartender. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 570 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 01, 2016 01:33 AM
EDIT: NVM. Not worth it. IP: Logged |