posted February 07, 2017 01:33 PM            

Why the heck is my name on that list? I do not ever endorse death threats. I didn't even comment on the misandry thread because I didn't read it. Faith is literally one of my favorite people here and I would never agree with bullying. How bout you check your facts before you go around accusing people of stuff?

posted February 07, 2017 01:34 PM            

You PROVOKE people until they lose it and then you cry VICTIM!

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posted February 07, 2017 01:35 PM            

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posted February 07, 2017 01:35 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
LEELOO

Why the heck is my name on that list? I do not ever endorse death threats. I didn't even comment on the misandry thread because I didn't read it. Faith is literally one of my favorite people here and I would never agree with bullying. How bout you check your facts before you go around accusing people of stuff?

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I think Lee misunderstood?

Vouching for bananaz

You're awesome....

posted February 07, 2017 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
LEELOO

Why the heck is my name on that list? I do not ever endorse death threats. I didn't even comment on the misandry thread because I didn't read it. Faith is literally one of my favorite people here and I would never agree with bullying. How bout you check your facts before you go around accusing people of stuff?

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Because I saw you posting here but not making a stand against death threats. I believe whoever chooses to speak yet not speaking against what happened (death threats to some members here) actually endorses them.

If indeed you posted against those death threats, please make it clear or direct me to where you said that, so that I can apologize, thank you.

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posted February 07, 2017 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
you can say "i dont support death threats" but that's not the problem. they wont get off your back until you say "faith is awesome and one of my favourites" then they

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Can you please just stop?

It's NOT a joke.

posted February 07, 2017 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
you can say "i dont support death threats" but that's not the problem. they wont get off your back until you say "faith is awesome and one of my favourites" then they

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EXACTLY. They destroy other people on here over and over and over and over but if you say one word to them, they get nasty and demeaning lol

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posted February 07, 2017 01:39 PM            

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posted February 07, 2017 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by headintheclouds91:
Omg i can`t believe all the drama that`s happened :O Faith i hope you stay ❤️️

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I honestly thought Randall was going to let that horrible thread stay open with his full knowledge and consent, since he appeared there but didn't lock it.

This thread is another poisonous one and something has to be done.

If Randall lets Ami get away with encouraging death threats, I am definitely unregistering.

For now, just waiting and seeing.

posted February 07, 2017 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b]I am not perfect but I am not a BULLY. If I am not liked, it is due to my beliefs or just my personality.

I DON"T BULLY! I stand up when people are bullied cuz I hate it but I don't bully!

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Now I am going to say this with love:

you need to take responsibility for not properly handling Venusincap when he started going off and wishing death on those posters.

And yes I can see where they kept needling him and taking dig at him until he went off, but that still does not excuse him saying what he said. You should have handled that and put him on warning.

I am not saying that you encouraged him or cheered him on, because you didn't. But your failure to use your mod's power to at least give him a formal warning, it does carry consequences and shows you have lost the impartiality needed to be a mod. [/B][/QUOTE]

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This, I agree with, but I couldn't find the words - thank you Belage.

Ami, it looks like (I can't know for sure, of course) you let that thread go on and on due to your animosity about Faith.

You can't moderate like this. We are here to promote harmony and problem-solving, but you chose not to close that thread until people were really harming others with words.

I read it, and there were multiple appeals from members who were upset to close the thread. Not only didn't you close it, but you continued to engage in the argument. This is in direct conflict to your role.

I understand that when we are involved in ongoing issues with people, there is an urge to engage - I am not saying that engaging is wrong - it's just that you can't do that AND moderate the same community.

We've all been involved in fighting, including moderators, but most have stepped back, reflected and come back with a willingness to solve the problem, or, they have given up being a moderator in order that they can more freely engage in discussions without limitation.

I know Randall supports moderators speaking up and free speech, etc, however, your level of involvement and strength of opposition to one side of the argument is too far IMHO.

posted February 07, 2017 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Faith

You PROVOKE people until they lose it and then you cry VICTIM!

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THIS is what you do, Faith!

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posted February 07, 2017 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Can you please just stop?

It's NOT a joke.

Death threats are not a joke so STOP goofing off about it.

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You just have to ignore him - before he displayed a mildly coherent stream of consciousness here as the resident ascendant assigner he used to love babbling on and playing devil's advocate in horrible situations.

posted February 07, 2017 01:40 PM            

Faith - for what it is worth right now, I actually really respect your contribution to this forum in general. I am still new-ish to astrology and I've always learned from and found inspiration in your posts. They are heartfelt and genuine and you can really feel that.

I hope you take solace in knowing how much respect you have in this community in spite of how some "unnamed" individuals have attempted to flame you.

They can say what they want but the intelligent folks who read the other threads can see exactly what transpired and what is still going on now.

I think there are some bandwagoners who are getting a kick out of this and are trolling out of spite but ignore them.

It's actually disgusting how far this has gone and how much respect I've lost for some notable contributors and people I looked up to at one point.

People's true colours really come out at times like these and there are some forum members who have downright EMBARRASSED themselves over the past couple of days.

LeeLoo as well has contributed immensely to the community. I still stumble upon and learn from her older articles.

Rise above this because everyone can see plain as day what is going on.

posted February 07, 2017 01:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I CAN make a case for it, as I said there, I can show you all the quotes she used against me directly and how they are word-for-word matches of her description of a Mal Narc. And she posted those in a very close time frame so people remembered and knew what she was up to. That's why I didn't even have to say anything, it was recognizable to others.

Also as I said, the chart details she listed match my chart.

It's not actually hard to make a case for it.

Others saw it immediately.

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I have never seen your chart. In fact I don't know the finer details of anyone's chart around here so I could never relate any chart or any set of astrological aspects to any particular poster. But then again I am here infrequently.

If you can prove that her thread was about YOU specifically and that she used elements in your chart to prove her astrological assertions, then you have a right to be upset.