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Topic: Sexlessness in Scorpios
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two-headed-she
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: LA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 30, 2018 06:54 PM
  
Tons of revelation there in the Draconic Synastry chart...my sun is in his 12th, house of struggle and undoing. His Mars conjunct my Chiron in the 7th. My Mars Square his Saturn. My Venus square his Sun/Jupiter conjunction. Feeling down about this actually... IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 5748
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 01, 2018 06:58 PM
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Originally posted by two-headed-she:
I'm going to do that right now...a couple of questions first?Do you apply Draconic to composites or no?
I read once that the 12th house Draconic is a place to see where you might be having issues...mine would be in the 7th house if there's a strong case for doing that. I don't have a ton of experience with them, which is odd, given that I do focus heavily on eclipses and nodal axis etc. What about Draconic progressions...good for anything? Thanks for the conversation so far, have been happily engaged in this thread!
 Those are questions that I will likely have a response for the more I work with it. At the moment however, I am still only understanding the synastry between it(Draco) and the natal. But don't feel down about it. I always think that there is deep meaningfulness in challenges- even if not immediately apparent. Your Sun in his 12th could also mean that you are shedding light to unconscious issues of Hus own undoing. This puts them to the forefront. And Mars/Chiron is as Marvin Gaye put it "sexual healing"- where the energy reserves are towards productive and holistic approach to partnership (7th) Also Sun in 12th,6th,7th and 11th often also speak of being of service or being part a unit that serves a bigger objective than the individual ego. This does not mean that the ego doesn't count. It just means that the objectives of the ego are inextricably combined with being part of the unit. So Sun in 12th speaks of an ego that supports from " behind the scenes "(12th). This behind the scenes focus is exactly the way in which the energy sign is best able to express itself and have you self-actualize IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted July 05, 2018 08:37 AM
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hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 05, 2018 12:08 PM
I have a new client and she says her husband has no sex drive. He is a scorpio with Mars in Aquarius square Saturn. She has Mars square Saturn too but her mars is not in aquarius and she does have a sex drive.Again my partner with mars in scorpio conjunct uranus I feel has a low libido. My mother has mars in aquarius and she is a prude in my opinion, I always got that sense. Anyhoo there is something about an uranian mars that is a bit on the low sex drive side like they are rebelling against the nature of mars so mars operates different than usual. When my partner does want to have sex is always random and out of the blue and I hate that, I like consistency in that department bc you have to nourish that desire weekly or it dies. IP: Logged |
two-headed-she
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: LA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted July 17, 2018 12:48 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I have a new client and she says her husband has no sex drive. He is a scorpio with Mars in Aquarius square Saturn. She has Mars square Saturn too but her mars is not in aquarius and she does have a sex drive.Again my partner with mars in scorpio conjunct uranus I feel has a low libido. My mother has mars in aquarius and she is a prude in my opinion, I always got that sense. Anyhoo there is something about an uranian mars that is a bit on the low sex drive side like they are rebelling against the nature of mars so mars operates different than usual. When my partner does want to have sex is always random and out of the blue and I hate that, I like consistency in that department bc you have to nourish that desire weekly or it dies.
This tracks with my observations as well...that a Uranian influence in a Scorpio's chart might produce sexlessness...I have Uranus in Scorp in the 1st...another person I have in mind has a Uranus Kazimi on their Scorpio sun...nice observation!
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Desiring Shadows
Knowflake Posts: 4261
From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 17, 2018 10:52 PM
Tbh, I was like you once. I cared a lot about relationships and who I was going to give my body to. If I 'd ever even have sex with anyone, or let a guy touch me. Let a guy kiss me, or hold my hand, without having a nervous break down or just over thinking it way too much.
Can I give you some girl advice?
Its not that complicated. you might think these people are so perfect, when really they are all very ****** . And believe me they just want one thing.
Yeah they might care about your feelings. But they still want that one thing.
So keep that in mind. and if you dont give them that one thing, they'll find someone else. people in todays societies feelings dont run very deep. they will stay interested as long as they are, until they realize you're too hard to crack, and lose interest. no guy wants to beat a dead horse.you aren't though. and I wasn't either.
I used the internet and hooked up with a lot of guys to get out of my shell. honestly, im still kind of in it. Because I like you, still value myself a lot. but realizing how all of the guys I have hooked up with, who were originally dates, who used me for sex, felt such little care about me.... even the ones id be seeing for a while...
it just gives me experience and wise advice to say that no one is worth you not enjoying yourself. live in the moment and **** them. **** them all!!! 
XD jk hahahaha btw, thats coming from a Mars in Scorpio.!!! if we are going by tropical.
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hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 9559
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 18, 2018 05:07 PM
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Originally posted by two-headed-she:
This tracks with my observations as well...that a Uranian influence in a Scorpio's chart might produce sexlessness...I have Uranus in Scorp in the 1st...another person I have in mind has a Uranus Kazimi on their Scorpio sun...nice observation!
But in connection to mars, my ex had sun conjunct Uranus in scorpio and had a high sex drive but who knows maybe he has a sexless marriage for all I know and ended up with someone with a low libido. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 9559
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 19, 2018 03:21 PM
I have another client who is a libra with venus and mars and uranus all in scorpio, venus conjuncts uranus tightly and her mars conjuncts uranus widely by 9 degrees (perhaps is too wide), my partner has mars conjunct uranus in scorpio on the DC very tight by 1d or exact. She has mars sextile saturn too.Anyhoo she has a healthy sex drive but her boyfriend has no libido. Come to realize my partner has Saturn septile Mars/Uranus/DC. Something to ponder on..It could be uranus influencing expression of mars and also saturn restricting, maybe both aspecting mars generates such outcomes. My mom has mars in aquarius biquintile exact saturn. Mars septile Saturn: Inspired by the idea of doggedly pursuing that path which destiny has laid down for one; believing that men's wilder instincts should be restrained; expressing this message through one's actions and one's art. IP: Logged |
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