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Lalafortunaea
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posted August 22, 2018 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's talk about sex bay bee ;D

What's in your 8th house, and what's your sex style? How do you feel about sex? Do you feel you relate to your 8th?

I relate to my 8th in a way. I've got Sagi there, and their motto is "the more sex, the better!" Which I can agree with LOL if I'm with the right partner, I can become a sex addict, easily. It gets bad, but in a good way. I'm not comfortable being with someone who says they've had enough sex. He's gotta have stamina. I'm not inhuman, I'll allow breaks, but I want to see how far we can push our limits, and if we can go beyond them. Sagittarius also plays a part (no pun intended) in dongs and dong size, and I do love an attractive, large, thick one, and I really love to give oral. I'm not too keen on receiving oral, however. I've never had group sex, but I have fantasized about loads of men. How many can I take, one after the other, before I pass out from over exertion? 20? 100? I don't think I'll ever actually bring that fantasy to life, but I've played with the thought before. It's not practical, but a fantasy nontheless (Virgo mars side lol)

Oh, and I'm comfortable with talking about sex, but I try to soften it a little bit so it doesn't sound like I'm reciting smut to you all. But since 8th is in Sagi, I think it helps make me open to the topic, and see it as an adventure of discovery!

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hypatia238
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posted August 22, 2018 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahahahahahaha

I love talking about sex too and am very open about it.

I like to give head too but not into receiving either.

Average is fine with me, I actually don't care for above average and it annoys me when guys want to show off bc of that.

To me is more about how you use it, how kinky you are, confidence, intensity, passion and EMOTIONS, I love to feel vulnerable and feel like my soul is naked in front of the other and feel like I can give you all of me, perhaps that is bc I have cancer in the 8th and bc vertex is in the 8th. I also like it aggressive and kinky, BDSM stuff (perhaps bc of my mars in the 8th).

I have late cancer in the 8th but mostly Leo is in the 8th and I have a lot of stuff in Leo falling in the 8th. I have venus conjunct mars in the 8th, eros, thisbe, angel, valentine and vertex are all in the 8th in Leo, Atropos in cancer in the 8th.

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posted August 22, 2018 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune Conjunct Juno in Sag 8th H.
I don't like to discuss my Sex Style in public. Though I have no sex life. Lol I said it... 😂

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posted August 22, 2018 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Neptune Conjunct Juno in Sag 8th H.
I don't like to discuss my Sex Style in public. Though I have no sex life. Lol I said it... 😂


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ChildofVenus
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posted August 22, 2018 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've always wanted to try Kinky stuff just hasn't happened yet. Venus, Mercury, Jupiter and North Node in the 8th house.

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posted August 22, 2018 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have an Aries ruled 8th house with Venus in it

I am definitely kinky.... but not into anything violent at all. I definitely like to feel very feminine and getting hit or choked or anything like that is the ultimate turn-off. I never spoke to this guy again after he choked me.

I prefer to have very slow, tantric, inter-connected sex where we share a breath.

I also can turn off my sex-drive entirely and go without it for quite some time and really not care at all. I only want to have sex with someone I have an all-encompassing soul connection with. Anything less, I'd have to be on Xanax (lol...)

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posted August 23, 2018 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am curious and open to trying most things. I like erotica or suggestive literature than raw, all out porn.

So my sex style is lots of romance and lots of strokes. If it gets rough, it must be a slow progress there. But I really love kissing. As that excites me.

I think my sex style is strongly Mars in Libra. The traditional ruler of the 8th house is Mars. And although Uranus is in the 8th, I don't strongly identify with it there.

Yeah sure I like to be open to many ways of getting dirty!! But I am not emotionally detached from the experience as suggested by interpretations of the Uranus placement there.

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mercmercy99
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posted August 23, 2018 04:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercmercy99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heathens. I will pray for all of you. Sincerely, someone with the 8th in Virgo.

Jk. I have Mars and Mercury conjunct in the 8th, with Mars conjunct the Sun, which is just on the 9th house cusp. The ruler of my 8th is also in the 8th, so I have always been open and experimental about sex. I understood what sex was all about even as a kid and would joke about it all the time (it got me in trouble a few times). But at the same time, I'm also very annoyed by people who are more vulgar than "mature", for lack of a better word, when it comes to sex. I think that's the Virgo influence, maybe?

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Aries Eagle
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posted August 23, 2018 06:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries Eagle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very confident and otherworldly romantic.

Mars in 8th Taurus , Venus in 5th Pisces.

Venus in Pisces sums up my sex style.

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Lalafortunaea
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posted August 23, 2018 07:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by missblyss:
I have an Aries ruled 8th house with Venus in it

I am definitely kinky.... but not into anything violent at all. I definitely like to feel very feminine and getting hit or choked or anything like that is the ultimate turn-off. I never spoke to this guy again after he choked me.

I prefer to have very slow, tantric, inter-connected sex where we share a breath.

I also can turn off my sex-drive entirely and go without it for quite some time and really not care at all. I only want to have sex with someone I have an all-encompassing soul connection with. Anything less, I'd have to be on Xanax (lol...)


That's interesting! I've always thought Aries 8th would like it hardcore, if not all the time, at least sometimes. Some things in your chart softening the edge, maybe?
What other placements have you got? (venus/mars,5th?)

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Lalafortunaea
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posted August 23, 2018 07:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Heathens. I will pray for all of you. Sincerely, someone with the 8th in Virgo

LOL

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posted August 23, 2018 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Deltahydrus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My favorite topic! I think I'm pretty accurate when I say I ooze sexual energy. My Aquarius Sun is in my 8th house and it sextiles my Aries Mars, Node, Eros, Eris, and Midheaven. It also makes a trine to Pluto in Scorpio in my 5th house, and sextiles to my Uranus and Saturn in Sagittarius. I have my Venus in Capricorn conjunct my Descendant, Nymphe, Lust and Juno. I also have BML conjunct my Ascendant (1 orb).

I am a highly sexual female with a super-charged Libido. I'm kinky, adventurous and rough in the bedroom. I could talk about sexuality all day.

I always knew my career had to involve my sexuality somehow. I'm finishing my last year at school for my Masters in Couples, Relationship and Sex Therapy currently. It's the best decision I ever made! Astrology helped me find that for myself and I'm forever grateful


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Desiring Shadows
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posted August 23, 2018 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m not at all a sexual being. Lol
I’ve had sexual needs in the past before they were executed by a medication. I’m glad my sexualneeds are gone because when I had them I used sinister means to fulfill them and I’m sure most people do too.
And if not they probably just have to fulfill that need and it’s annoying the lengths they probably go to. Cheating. Manipulation. Lies. Deceit. Who knows what sort of craziness?
So it probably is an okay thing it’s gons... but I’m a few months it’ll be back. Unfortunately. For the longest time I thought it was a curse but now I see how it is partially a blessing.

On another note it will be a blessing because in today’s world it is impossible to have a boyfriend or girlfriend without sex being part of the relationship.
So ...

It’s whatever. I remember what it was like. I was really private about that stuff and I was insecure too. I didn’t really talk about it I just did it. Lol

I had a hoe phase. I’m sure most did. But I also had my reasons. I think naturally I’m not the hoe phase type I think I was trying to mimic my gemini 8th sister who is very sexually promiscuous.

My 8th house is sagittarius.

I also have Neptune there and Uranus on the cusp.
And my mars is libra venus virgo
😇 tbh I’m an angel

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posted August 23, 2018 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I was sexual couple years back this was my song http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=79fzeNUqQbQ

Lol

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Desiring Shadows
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posted August 23, 2018 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
😊😊😊

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Aries Eagle
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posted August 23, 2018 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries Eagle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I’m not at all a sexual being. Lol
I’ve had sexual needs in the past before they were executed by a medication.

I know this feeling, i feel sorry for you and nice song you're a true angel!

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posted August 23, 2018 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks

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Lalafortunaea
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posted August 23, 2018 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wonder if someone has a higher octave sign somewhere that relates to romance/sex (Aqua, Pisces, Scorpio), then it could overpower other things easily?

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posted August 23, 2018 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
Very confident and otherworldly romantic.

Mars in 8th Taurus , Venus in 5th Pisces.

Venus in Pisces sums up my sex style.


Well, I'm a Pisces sun and I think that is more telling of my sexual style... and no I HAATE it rough. Like it ****** me off and I will never talk to you again if you try to **** me like this is some cheap porn. I want to be treated like an ethereal goddess and cherished and loved out of the highest energy and intention.

I'm very into tantra and practice that a lot with my partner. I have gemini mars in the 11th and I can see the Gemini in me too bc I will be REALLY turned on but then I get BORED fast and want it done with. I have trauma from being 17 and losing my virginity to this guy who would take like 4 hours to bust bc he was always so stoned..... so that is basically my worst nightmare. I actually have no complaints if a guy comes right away. My partner actually is able to come and stay hard so that is pretty ideal for me.

I get decently kinky, but not into pain at all. I do have a collection of crystal butt plugs LOL.

I guess my Leo ascendant too wants to be worshipped and honored. I definitely am turned on when guys are like floored and awkward and nervous around my nakedness. I enjoy when they squirm haha.

But I am really a one-man woman. The thought of being with anyone besides me husband grosses me out.. like I LOVE being with him bc he feels what I want and gives it to me. I feel like that is hard to come by. I would hate to be with someone who doesn't know me or what I enjoy.... He can LITERLLY feel my feelings so it's pretty amazing. (Scorpio/Pisces)

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posted August 23, 2018 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries 8H with Lilith

I hate sex toys. I hate when people talk dirty. I hate rushed sex. I don’t like rough sex!

I need it to be deep, like two bodies become one.
I like to be submissive, and I will be if I feel secure. If I don’t feel secure, I’ll be very aggressive..

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posted August 23, 2018 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
I wonder if someone has a higher octave sign somewhere that relates to romance/sex (Aqua, Pisces, Scorpio), then it could overpower other things easily?

Depends upon if the aspects in question are associated with powerful emotional energies; Mostly related to planets such as pluto.

My 8th house is in Pisces. However, there are other aspects that IMO play an equal (if not more dominant role) when it comes to my sex and relationship life.

My aspects:

Venus Conjunct Pluto
Venus Sextile Mars
Moon Sextile Pluto (This one's a double whammy!)

Moon Sextile Venus
Venus Sextile Mars

I used to be what one would call a "serial Monogamist" Lol! (What an Oxymoron of a term.) Now I am just a happily married Monogamist . To me, sex is an enjoyable, passionate and romantic medium of a relationship. It can be fun and kinky when you want it to be, it can be raw and Animalistic when you want it to be and it can be soulful and romantic when you want it to be.

I am sure no concerned husband in the world would wanna go at it like Rabbits with his wife when she has had a difficult and traumatic day. In which case a night of consoling and love-making is in order.

Other times, I release the reigns on my Venus Conjunct Pluto, Venus Sextile Mars and Moon Sextile Pluto and let the Kinky times roll! Lol!

Synasty aspects also play a huge role; Especially if those aspects are Mars, Venus or Moon related.

My wife and I have... a very good Synasty , including Mars Sextile Mars. Yep... Good times Lol!

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posted August 23, 2018 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:

I like to be submissive, and I will be if I feel secure. If I don’t feel secure, I’ll be very aggressive..

Interesting.

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posted August 23, 2018 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
hahahahahahaha

I love talking about sex too and am very open about it.

I like to give head too but not into receiving either.

Average is fine with me, I actually don't care for above average and it annoys me when guys want to show off bc of that.

To me is more about how you use it, how kinky you are, confidence, intensity, passion and EMOTIONS, I love to feel vulnerable and feel like my soul is naked in front of the other and feel like I can give you all of me, perhaps that is bc I have cancer in the 8th and bc vertex is in the 8th. I also like it aggressive and kinky, BDSM stuff (perhaps bc of my mars in the 8th).

I have late cancer in the 8th but mostly Leo is in the 8th and I have a lot of stuff in Leo falling in the 8th. I have venus conjunct mars in the 8th, eros, thisbe, angel, valentine and vertex are all in the 8th in Leo, Atropos in cancer in the 8th.


To be clear I like aggression in the sense that I like to be touched aggressively and man handled and I like to be submissive but I like switching too to SOME exent so I can be raw as well with them (my mars tends to aspect their mars) but with penetration I like for the guy to start off slow and gentle and for it to then build up and get faster and harder, I am protective of my P*ssy. Huh LOL I guess since 8th is reproductive organs and cancer is protective.

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Oh and I am fine with quickies as we can go AGAIN later and last longer so quickies are fine and have their own appeal to me, they feel primal to me.

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posted August 23, 2018 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 23, 2018 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
Aries 8H with Lilith

I hate sex toys. I hate when people talk dirty. I hate rushed sex. I don’t like rough sex!

I need it to be deep, like two bodies become one.
I like to be submissive, and I will be if I feel secure. If I don’t feel secure, I’ll be very aggressive..


I think this shows everyone is different. Because with Aries there you’d think it would be opposite. I don’t always relate to my placements either.

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