posted February 23, 2019 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I know sex isn’t everything but everyone likes sex. I think it may have just been because it was the first time.

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that's why i said it was still important

posted February 23, 2019 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
that's why i said it was still important

easy way to find out if it was just a first time issue

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posted February 23, 2019 05:55 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you only have good sex with people who’s Mars aspect your Mars?

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best sex i've had has been with my fiancee and her mars/jupiter sextiles my mars/neptune from pisces and then her venus/pluto sextiles my mars from scorpio

my pluto is conjunct her venus/pluto

her sun/saturn/uranus is also sextile my venus/ascendant

and my moon/descendant is trine her sun/saturn/uranus (my mercury is also trine all that for her)

as far as some of our positive aspects go

had pretty good sex with mars opposite mars too

worst sex ive had no mutual mars aspects (his saturn squares my mars and my sun is opposite his mars) and his saturn also is opposite my venus conjunct my descendant

he enjoys it, but i mean who wouldnt when they do almost none of the work it's like an oversized sex toy that i have to listen to speak

posted February 23, 2019 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
best sex i've had has been with my fiancee and her mars/jupiter sextiles my mars/neptune from pisces and then her venus/pluto sextiles my mars from scorpio

my pluto is conjunct her venus/pluto

her sun/saturn/uranus is also sextile my venus/ascendant

and my moon/descendant is trine her sun/saturn/uranus (my mercury is also trine all that for her)

as far as some of our positive aspects go

had pretty good sex with mars opposite mars too

worst sex ive had no mutual mars aspects (his saturn squares my mars and my sun is opposite his mars) and his saturn also is opposite my venus conjunct my descendant

he enjoys it, but i mean who wouldnt when they do almost none of the work it's like an oversized sex toy that i have to listen to speak

i've actually had sex with him before because i felt like going to sleep and i knew he'd just keep talking and not go home for hours if i didnt interrupt it with sex

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posted February 23, 2019 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I know having Mars aspects are important in regards to sex.

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i didn't really think much about it til you asked that's why i checked the charts

thing is one person can feel like things are better than they are you know?

i know he's said positive things about me to other people meanwhile i don't feel like that at all

synastry is weird like that

posted February 23, 2019 07:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
You'll be most sexually attracted to Sun in Gemini guys.

However, as the Moon is the store of your feminine, you'll end up with the guy whose Sun or Ascendant makes a conjunction your lunar placement.

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posted February 23, 2019 07:59 PM            

As a guy, I tend to be attracted to women who exibit my Venus and my Moon. Women tend to find me attractive based on their Mars aspecting my sun or moon.

posted February 23, 2019 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
You'll be most sexually attracted to Sun in Gemini guys.

However, as the Moon is the store of your feminine, you'll end up with the guy whose Sun or Ascendant makes a conjunction your lunar placement.

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posted February 23, 2019 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i didn't really think much about it til you asked that's why i checked the charts

thing is one person can feel like things are better than they are you know?

i know he's said positive things about me to other people meanwhile i don't feel like that at all

synastry is weird like that

so you might never feel much as far as sex goes with this guy but he'll probably enjoy himself

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posted February 23, 2019 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I think he actually enjoyed it. I'm the one who feels iffy about it. Yes we've talked since then he said he had fun with me. But I think it's more about us hanging out and being together. We went to dinner, the movies and an arcade. I think sometimes I put too much emphasis on sex. So it's awkward when I think about how I actually enjoyed this persons company over having sex lol. Like with the Virgo he and I meet up for sex and basically that's it. We do talk and stay overnight with each other and sometimes it's fun with him too. But I think I prefer being with this guy even though the sex for me isn't as good as it is with the Virgo. I guess I'm just learning that sometimes it's not ALWAYS about good sex. But it could just be that it was only our first time. Maybe next time it'll be better.

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posted February 23, 2019 09:28 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What was the composite chart like with the person you mentioned?

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terrible sex guy?

our composite has moon, mars, and saturn conjunct in aquarius (5th house) squaring scorpio sun conjunct pluto (3rd house) sag venus (3rd house) square jupiter (6th house) libra mercury (2nd house) square mars and saturn

easy aspects we have
neptune and uranus (4th house) sextile the sun/pluto and jupiter, venus sextile mars and saturn, and mercury trine jupiter

also have chiron in virgo in 12th (quintile sun, sextile mercury, square venus, opposite jupiter, trine uranus, sextile north node) and virgo ascendant with a 10th house north node in cancer

him and i get along if it's through music and can occasionally have conversations, but mostly i feel like i'm just being polite and humoring him a lot

posted February 23, 2019 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
terrible sex guy?

our composite has moon, mars, and saturn conjunct in aquarius (5th house) squaring scorpio sun conjunct pluto (3rd house) sag venus (3rd house) square jupiter (6th house) libra mercury (2nd house) square mars and saturn

easy aspects we have
neptune and uranus (4th house) sextile the sun/pluto and jupiter, venus sextile mars and saturn, and mercury trine jupiter

also have chiron in virgo in 12th (quintile sun, sextile mercury, square venus, opposite jupiter, trine uranus, sextile north node) and virgo ascendant with a 10th house north node in cancer

him and i get along if it's through music and can occasionally have conversations, but mostly i feel like i'm just being polite and humoring him a lot

he's told me he loves me, i think more in a friend sort of way but i have no feelings we hooked up in the first place because i was really drunk because i was using cocaine that night to drink extra and i smoked weed too and then he just kept coming by

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posted February 23, 2019 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Is it that same guy from the other post? Cuz I remember your Mars wasn't aspected at all. (remember I asked you how you felt about it?)

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posted February 23, 2019 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So because the orb between my Mars and his Venus is 9 degrees I shouldn’t count it?

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posted February 23, 2019 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

Wow is Saturn and Uranus in the 5th house in a Composite chart bad? And I know Mars/Saturn can make sex bad too. I didn’t think one aspect could do it though.

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lol that was more than one not great aspect to have in a composite, buti don't have to look at a chart to know it isn't anything great

edit: i dont really have any feelings and he seems to and i hear from other people he does and talks about me a lot (good things) etc

posted February 23, 2019 10:31 PM            

for instance, I have Cancer on my DC but it's opposite my Venus. And my Mars is in Sag.

It's difficult to find a practical, sensitive and nurturing, detached adventurous person to meet all my needs

posted February 23, 2019 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
It can apply to other realms in the chart too:

for instance, I have Cancer on my DC but it's opposite my Venus. And my Mars is in Sag.

It's difficult to find a practical, sensitive and nurturing, detached adventurous person to meet all my needs

Cancer doesn't gel at all with my very airy other planets.

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posted February 24, 2019 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I think it may have just been because it was the first time.

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posted February 24, 2019 02:20 PM            

I, personally, am mostly attracted to Aries sun men, and my moon is in Aries, but also my Mars is in Fire sign, Sagittarius. I only like Sagittarius men for their easy going style/vibe, but they are not my type at all for a relationship. Mature Pisces sun men is my crush all the time, my venus lays there.

I attract Gemini sun man a lot, making an opposition to my Mars and it's my DSC.

Men is attracted to their venus?

Let's see all the Men who ask me to marry them (I like them too, but there's a situation where I don't feel right), I have sun in Aquarius:

- Aries moon, Leo venus
- Gemini moon, Gemini venus
- Capricorn moon, Gemini venus (this is my husband)
- Gemini moon, Aries venus
- Capricorn moon, Aquarius venus
- Gemini moon, Pisces venus
- ??? moon, Cancer venus (I don't remember his moon, but his Sun is in Gemini, he was my teacher back when I was in a highschool, he said that he would wait for me to grow up and he would ask my parents to marry me. He kept contacting me until I graduated highschool and asked me if I would marry young with him before getting a permission to my parents. I said, I wanted to go to college. He said, "ok, I'll wait". And it was true, he waited for me graduating university. He asked me again, but I wanted to pursue a career and I wasn't ready for a marriage yet at the time, I was too young, I thought. I told him to not waiting for me anymore, to find someone better than me. And then, several months later, he was married 😂 .. Years later he contacted me again and he was still the same, always telling me "you will always be my favorite student all of the time, I never forget you", he was very nice tho)

Men who are obviously attracted to me, but I don't:

- Libra moon, Pisces venus
- Aquarius moon, Libra venus (he was so sweeeet, bought me anything he wanted to give me even when I didn't ask, but I didn't know why I didn't feel the spark, he has Scorpio sun tho)
- Scorpio moon, Aries venus
- Scorpio moon, Aquarius venus
- Scorpio moon, Leo venus
- Aries moon, ??? Venus (I don't remember his venus, but he is a Capricorn sun, oops! Now I remember he has Scorpio Venus who tried to lock me in his room with him!)
- Aries moon, Libra venus (a looong time friend of mine, who is also one of my lecturer in the college, he tries to cheat from his wife tho, he has Scorpio sun)

posted February 24, 2019 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
lol that was more than one not great aspect to have in a composite, buti don't have to look at a chart to know it isn't anything great

edit: i dont really have any feelings and he seems to and i hear from other people he does and talks about me a lot (good things) etc

it was a mistake and i'm hoping it blows over soon and he moves on

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posted February 24, 2019 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
Very likely. In my experience the first time with someone new is rarely that great. Especially when they meet up with the expectation to have sex. If it happens spontaneously and naturally that is something different.
Usually the sex gets better when the 2 people get to know the rhythm of the other one's body

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posted February 24, 2019 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
There is nothing wrong with being friends but I understand.

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posted February 25, 2019 02:29 AM            

Going by friends I've made in recent years, my Moon/Venus wins out there. (Gemini.) I have a crush on someone right now, who is kind, funny, friendly, and not the guy you expect a girl to crush on. He's a good friend to women, just a really good guy. He's a Taurus, which is typical. I usually love Taureans.

I hate a guy whose Mars is conjunct my Moon/Venus and square my own Mars. I absolutely loathe him, and do not find him attractive at all. My Saturn is square his Aries Venus, as well. He's one of two Taureans that I never, ever want to be around again. My BIL, who sexually harassed me, and destroyed my family.

posted February 25, 2019 04:19 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:

I guess with my Mars in Pisces, I'm not attracted to men who want to stress me out. If they keep winding me up or picking a fight, that isn't for me. It's also dull. I like the men that you can just enjoy being around.

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posted February 25, 2019 11:29 AM            

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Originally posted by kani:
That's interesting. I have Mars in Pisces and I'm someone who starts provoking the men I find attractive into arguments. It seems to be some type of foreplay for me. I have arguments with my bf as well (quite often) which can be annoying but I think having a totally peaceful relationship would bore me.
Oh and I also love Taureans

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