posted April 17, 2019 12:44 PM            

I'm plutonic and no matter the synastry I will always get obsessive when I'm infatuated.

My exemple was bad I think. I think what I ment to say "not being rattled" is that I as a plutonian I just thrive on my obsessiveness.

While my subject for ex if he is not plutonian to begin with but we have heavy pluto energy, how he may react to all that and how may feel may differ. He may be very uncomfy with the pluto energy while for me its familiar as I already have that energy.

I think using pluto was a bad example:/

posted April 17, 2019 03:10 PM            

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Anyways I really am bad at expressing my mind correctly lately, I don't know why

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posted April 17, 2019 09:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Can you tell me your experience and how you felt as the Moon person?

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it was a narc/co dependent dynamic. he was the narc, i was the codependent. he kept ******* with my mind etc...i don't want to relive it, but he was the one who actually made me look at my dark shadow stuff to transform. so the pluto energy did it's thing to find my soul (moon)

posted April 18, 2019 02:02 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:

All I can suggest is total utter surrender, if you believe in a higher power. Things then start to move in the direction the Universe/God intended for your highest good... the moment you try to control....no bueno.

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BINGO.

I'm learning to do this with *everything* in my life now. Just trust & surrender to the plan of the universe for me.

I have a deep Pluto connection with a man that *refuses* to admit his feelings for me YET he is totally *obsessed* with me at the same time and everyone can see it. It's super ridiculous! Lol. I've emotionally pulled away from him & cut him off several times, as my sanity is of the utmost importance to me! But I am still very drawn to him, I cannot lie...

posted April 18, 2019 02:40 AM            

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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
it was a narc/co dependent dynamic. he was the narc, i was the codependent. he kept ******* with my mind etc...i don't want to relive it, but he was the one who actually made me look at my dark shadow stuff to transform. so the pluto energy did it's thing to find my soul (moon)

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posted April 18, 2019 02:44 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

I have a deep Pluto connection with a man that *refuses* to admit his feelings for me YET he is totally *obsessed* with me at the same time and everyone can see it. It's super ridiculous! Lol. I've emotionally pulled away from him & cut him off several times, as my sanity is of the utmost importance to me! But I am still very drawn to him, I cannot lie...

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Was he Pluto?

posted April 18, 2019 06:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Was he Pluto?

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posted April 18, 2019 07:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
^ Ah... ok, I get what you're saying now. Yes, it's sounds logical that if you already have the aspect in natal you will thrive on the energy because that's WHO you are naturally.

Have you been thinking too much about someone maybe?

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Yay! haha I'm glad I could clearify! <3

posted April 20, 2019 03:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Pluto is momentum. Its like free-falling from an Airplane. You can't just "stop" mid air because you have changed your mind. Its just not possible.

What one can do is just see the jump through to the end. And this to me is no different. You have to see the momentum of what you two created right through to the end.

The alternative feels like torture because it IS. Pluto glued the experience you two had with each other and to dislocate it , WILL be painful.

My advice is Neptune. The slow dissolution over time is a better option than the brusque & abrupt severing of ties that Uranus is famous for.

The thing is that even when the tie is "severed" unceremoniously as Uranus wluld have it, the pain of sseparation will still linger on.

Have you two tried EVERYTHING to make it work?If not then perhaps you should re-think giving that a try seeing that BOTH of you still feel strongly about each other.

If only one of you feels strongly, that person should consider going to therapy(Neptune ruled)in order to learn coping mechanisms and techniques for the break-up.

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Aries, just read this; can’t believe i missed it.

posted April 20, 2019 09:31 PM            

I spent the next day, feeling depressed and sad. Felt like he left me forever! I couldn’t dnt even eat
We didnt talk one day last week. The next day he called me while he was at the gym. He said he couldn't concentrate on his workout, wanted to know why its been so long since we have talked. (24) hrs yeah its that bad between us. Neither of us can go with out talking.

Honestly i wouldn't wish this type of relationship on my worst enemy . Its so raw human emotion. Dealing with it can be very difficult.

posted April 21, 2019 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Marandana:
I've only had 3 lovers in my life and 2 of them were (or are) plutonic. I can totally relate to your first post, Hikaru, and my answers is you really can't at all. Time and pluto are the ones to decide when it all stop hurting. With my first ex-pluto boyfriend the pain lasted 2 years approx, and with the second one (with whom I'm currently struggling) has been two years already and I'm still in pain cause he goes and come back once every year and it's so painful.

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I've decided that I should just give up the struggle.

posted April 21, 2019 03:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
when we dont talk for one reason or another. I really feel it deep in my gut. Its unbearable to not talk to him.

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posted April 21, 2019 10:26 AM            

Her Pluto (4th house) makes the following aspects to my planets:
- square sun (my sun falls in her 8th house)
-square moon (my moon falls in her 2nd house)
-sextile Venus (6th house)

My Pluto sesquisquare her 8th house sun
Her moon falls in my 8th house ( conjunct my moon; trine my Neptune)

My sun conjunction her 8th house ruler (Saturn😳
Her Pluto square my 8th house ruler, sun.

There loads more shyte going on (might as well post the charts, would be so much easier)

posted April 21, 2019 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Don't you feel compelled to see him? Everywhere I go I imagine he's there... I feel frustrated that he may not feel the same way and that I'm the only crazy one here.

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posted April 21, 2019 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Another pluto bond

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posted April 21, 2019 11:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I see him, we just dont date anymore. We work together. Talk a lil over the course of day/work wise. But we really talk in the evening after work. Sometimes we go to lunch together. Etc.
but yes its why it works but also the reason why it doesnt work. Its easy communcation but very hard to let it go.

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posted April 22, 2019 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Have you been through one (or more)? Is that why your nick is "madness"? 😝

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Ahaha
I've been only in three.
First one lasted for 7 months, but I couldn't get over it for the following 4 years.
I completely got over it ONLY when I got into another Pluto relationship, which also ended and left me damaged until the 3rd one came lol

posted April 22, 2019 04:29 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Ahaha
I've been only in three.
First one lasted for 7 months, but I couldn't get over it for the following 4 years.
I completely got over it ONLY when I got into another Pluto relationship, which also ended and left me damaged until the 3rd one came lol

I'm actually flighty and move on pretty fast but pluto relationships are really a black hole lol

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You must be pretty plutonic yourself to attract all the pluto relationships? I've Pluto in 5H quincunx/parallel Sun so I can get obsessive in relationships and I felt transformed with each one (I became a different person). I find it easier to let go of people I don't have strong Pluto contacts with in Composite. It still took me awhile to walk out but once I did, I was over them almost instantly. But if we have Pluto hard aspects in Composite, I find it so hard to get over them even after they're long gone.

E.g. my ex and I have Pluto conjunct Moon in Composite. Our Pluto also trine Sun, sextile Mars. I felt so drained when our r/s ended and continued to miss him years after we broke up.

And then I met this guy and again I see Pluto hard aspects.. God help me. 🙏 Our last meeting ended in a fight, severed ties etc but I still feel Pluto's looming presence. Friends all told me: "It's not over yet. You're gonna meet again."

posted April 22, 2019 05:27 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Ahaha
I've been only in three.
First one lasted for 7 months, but I couldn't get over it for the following 4 years.
I completely got over it ONLY when I got into another Pluto relationship, which also ended and left me damaged until the 3rd one came lol

I'm actually flighty and move on pretty fast but pluto relationships are really a black hole lol

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posted May 23, 2019 08:38 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
All I can suggest is total utter surrender, if you believe in a higher power. Things then start to move in the direction the Universe/God intended for your highest good... the moment you try to control....no bueno.

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