posted April 04, 2019 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
tease them,make them smile, use clever words and anecdotes etc. Always flirt...

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posted April 04, 2019 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Ime Guys tend to cave in when you are upfront. So its a gamble coz he may find it intimidating and retreat.

Where is his Mars?

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posted April 04, 2019 02:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Crystalm:
Hmmm I'm sure he knows you like him. I mean at least attracted since you already slept with him.

If he's not making any proper moves towards you, that should be a sign.

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posted April 04, 2019 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Cancer and It's the same one I've been talking about. We've already been out and had sex. So I don't see what the issue would be. But I told him that I talk to other guys and do online dating. Which I do but honestly I like him the most. I don't want be in a relationship with him. But I want him to know that I like him.

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What house is his Mars in?And what aspects does his Mars make to other planets?

How does he react when you tell him that you are seeing other guys?

Its very curious for him to not be proactive if he likes you.It makes no sense.

posted April 04, 2019 02:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
What house is his Mars in.And what aspects does his Mars make to other planets?

How does be react when you tell him that you are seeing other guys?

Its very curious for him to not be proactive if he likes you.It makes no sense.

And if you don't want to date him? Why tell him you like him?What is the end result hoped for?

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posted April 04, 2019 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Would you be proactive with a guy if he told you he only wanted to be friends and that he was talking to other men? I told him that it's hard for me to find guys who like the same things as me. And he asked me if I do online dating and I said yes. But that I don't meet up with them. He said well I should be able to find guys who like the same things as me. Then I told him that I like to see a friend once a year. He asked me why and he kept asking me what do I do with the person. I did not tell him it was a guy and that I have sex with him.

I just want him to know that's all.

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Oh ok I think I now understand this situation. It started off as a "friends with benefits" type of situation that got comfortable.

If I liked a guy and he told me that he wants to be friends and is seeing other people etc. I would ignore that. I would consider other guys "competition" and "up my game" to bag him. I would consider it a challenge.

The thing is that I am very selfish when I like someone. The only feelings that matter are my own. And if I like you, then nobody you are seeing outside of me is "good enough" for you in my head. Very arrogant I know My Mars conjuncts 7th house in Libra.

But to get started on the above, I have to know that you like me too. And that even though you claim to see other people etc. the fact that you are spending the most time with me and acting very receptive to my affections, would suggest to me that you are either self preserving or not seeing the obvious.

I have to get the assurance that you want to be with me and are just feigning disinterest because of how our situation began.And i have direct methods of finding out how deep your love runs for me.

In your case however, it seems like the guy is comfortable with the status qou and is not too bothered by you seeing other people. Coz even if you tell him that you are seeing others, if he likes you it will make him iffy to hear details about your time with the other peroson.

Usually his body language will change or facial expressions will be forced. He will not let you finish what you were saying about the other guy(competitor) etc.

posted April 04, 2019 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I guess I'll just see what happens then. And if he doesn't like me then it's fine as I other guys anyway. But I already stated that I don't want to be in a relationship with him. I just want him to know that I like him that's it. Because I'm not going to stop seeing my other friend.

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posted April 04, 2019 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Your Venus in Aqua or in aspect with Uranus? Or perhaps Neptune?

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posted April 04, 2019 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Venus square Uranus, Venus square Saturn and Venus square Neptune it’s at 9 degrees though. I’ve been told that I shouldn’t really count it though because the orb is so wide.

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Well imo for this set-up to occur in the way it did suggests some initial detachment(Uranus/Saturn).Then the subsequent confusion of feelings (Neptune).

The "no strings attached" is typically a Uranus thing. But when a feeling planet like Neptune or Pluto ger involved, deeper emotions seem to come out of "nowhere". Like they did here.

Now you don't want to scare him away with feelings- even when it was you who initited this situation. And that is classic Neptune i.e being ill aware of how complex situations can get.

posted April 04, 2019 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Well imo for this set-up to occur in the way it did suggests some initial detachment(Uranus/Saturn).Then the subsequent confusion of feelings (Neptune).

The "no strings attached" is typically a Uranus thing. But when a feeling planet like Neptune or Pluto ger involved, deeper emotions seem to come out of "nowhere". Like they did here.

Now you don't want to scare him away with feelings- even when it was you who initited this situation. And that is classic Neptune i.e being ill aware of how complex situations can get.

I think just wait it out and see how things progress with him. Check to see if he has changed his mind as much as you have yours.

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posted April 04, 2019 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Well imo for this set-up to occur in the way it did suggests some initial detachment(Uranus/Saturn).Then the subsequent confusion of feelings (Neptune).

The "no strings attached" is typically a Uranus thing. But when a feeling planet like Neptune or Pluto ger involved, deeper emotions seem to come out of "nowhere". Like they did here.

Now you don't want to scare him away with feelings- even when it was you who initited this situation. And that is classic Neptune i.e being ill aware of how complex situations can get.

I think just wait it out and see how things progress with him. Check to see if he has changed his mind as much as you have yours.

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posted April 04, 2019 04:35 PM            

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posted April 04, 2019 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
If you just like him, there's nothing wrong with telling this to someone in a casual way. I don't know the extent to which this holds true, but it can be a buddy form of liking someone which is completely cool. I mean it doesn't seem like you intensely like him based on the way you describe it. So just tell him. And don't overcomplicate it that's all. I mean if you're saying it's platonic for you then this shouldn't be an issue really. Just say it as is which is really the truth.

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posted April 04, 2019 06:05 PM            

I'm sorry if I was too direct, it's just so painfully obvious to me that I couldn't resist. And I think you were supposed to hear it. Otherwise you'll just find yourself as an old woman trying to still tell people you like them but don't want them to be in your life. Cut the cr@p.