posted September 21, 2019 06:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
my ex and i were like that together for a really long time, then the venus in scorpio games started

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I am sorry to hear that you had to deal with that. I guess every aspect is a gift and the individual can either use that gift for constructive purposes or just be plain ******** .

I can say without a doubt that there is no one else I would trust deeply enough with anything than my wife . It goes without saying that her being a Venus in Scorpio, she feels things more deeply than others and just needed time, understanding and support to not only accept but to embrace and work with her gift.

I personally don't mind the intensity one bit. If anything, as someone with a Venus Conjunct Pluto aspect, I welcome it .

If I am not mistaken, I posted a thread a long time ago highlighting some of our Synasty aspects together. Let me just repost it to highlight why I trust her completely:

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posted September 21, 2019 09:25 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Me: Cancer Venus 11H square Uranus 3H, conjunct Leo Saturn.

Husband: Pisces Venus 12H conj Asc opp. Pluto.

I can be very detached (with friends, lovers and family) and it’s safe to say that his Venus/Pluto no likey...

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Hmmm Venus conj Saturn here too. I have been told that i can be impassive at times. And this can come across as "cold" to the partner or atleast "detached".

Your hubbys Pluto opp Venus can swing back/forth between wanting you two to be super close one minute. But then distant on the other.

Pluto can also create massive mood swings when opp to Venus i.e extremes of emotions on one end.But then detachment and disengagement on the other.Very back/forth confusing stuff.

Believe it or not(whether he "likey" or does not lol), he could have been intensely drawn to your sometimes cool/detached or even "rigid" energy because of the extremes of feelings spoken of earlier.

Opp to Venus from Pluto are just as fearful of intimacy as they crave it. And this paradox mixes well with Uranus/Saturn on Venus-as these folks aren't quite comfortable with constant /consistent lovey duveyness either .

Plus all this opp action happening in the 12th can have him not being sure which he appreciates more?Healthy distance or intimacy?

12th house Venus can create uncertainty and/or a changeable love nature that's tough for anyone to understand(let alone him).This especially when Venus is also in "open-ended" Pisces.

I think he could have been drawn to you because of your own cool approach to love matters. And as much as he may not like it at times(Pluto opp Ven) its a far safer bet to deal with this than something more demanding or closed ended

posted September 21, 2019 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by cthonicstar:
Venus in Virgo with Venus in Aquarius, going on 10 years.

Yes, it was a friendship transformed into love! We're not the conjoined-at-the-hip lovers type and it suits us just fine.

The Virgo Venus does bring out the cuddler in the Aqua Venus. Or is it vice-versa? Both cases are positive.

About the Neptune comment, yes I've seen this in charts of people I know to be serial liars--harsh aspects from Neptune to their partners' planets.

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That's awesome! Odd combo but it works. Lol.

posted September 21, 2019 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
Mines is Venus in Libra.

My wife has her Venus in Scorpio.

Happily Married and couldn't get along with anyone else better. We just click . It also helps that we have good aspects together.

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Oh ok.Lol. Never met a Libra Venus I liked in "that" way. Most come across as smooth operating players to me.This even with my Mars in Libra.

posted September 21, 2019 09:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Venus in Scorpio with venus in gemini here... it's like a moth to a flame.

but i do have sun in sag and they have sun in taurus, so that's a lil healthier i suppose.

coming up on 4 yrs next week

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Taurus and Sag eomehow work. I don't know how.But they do.

I dated more Taurus/Libra than any other sign as a Sag. And I believed a past relationship with a Taurus Sun/Venus in Gemini would last.

But he claimed I wasn't "there" for him. I didn't get what he meant by that and our interactions when we meet are a tad awkward.

I am Sun in Sag /Venusin Scorpio. And my thinking is that a Taurus Sun opp my Venus in Scorpio with Venus Gemini opp my Sun should be interesting.?

posted September 21, 2019 09:46 PM            

Husband's Venus is in Gemini.

posted September 21, 2019 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by cthonicstar:
Scorpio energy has two vibrations: low and evolved. Low vibrations feed into the jealousy and possessiveness, all the traits that make people dislike Scorpios.
The evolved energy is when the individual matures and recognizes their own energy and uses it more constructively and positively.

Here's an example of this happening to someone with Venus in Scorpio:

She was my classmate all through school. Her Venus is in Scorpio and I've watched all these scenarios play out in her love life.

She started up drama with everyone she got close to just to feel in control. Her relationships had followed the pattern of hunt the most desirable/popular boy, hook him in with the Venus charm, then as soon as the boy shows any deeper affection for her she would sting him with her tail and take complete control of the relationship. (She was like this with friends too- a real queen bee.)

As soon as this happens, the boys either let her control them until she ruins them or instinctively make themselves appear boring so she would leave them and move on to the next guy. These were the more superficial boys.

However, I watched her with two boys who were her match in terms of power and control issues and this is how it happened:

Boy 1 played along and let her think she had control, promising her everything in the world. As soon as she fell for it 100% (she agreed to marry him,) he got bored with her and left for another girl.

Boy 2 played along same as Boy 1, letting her dictate the terms. However, he did the complete opposite: he never gave her the intimacy that she wanted. He went along with her plans, went along with whatever she said, but nothing from his end. It took her the longest time to finally figure out that to him, she wasn't the hot stuff she took herself to be for granted. Big time ego check here.

Me being Plutonic, I got bullied by her because I knew what she was up to. She did not like that one bit!

Now 25 years later, she's finally starting to understand her Scorpionic vibes and how her low vibrations are attracting the wrong people. Last time I talked with her, she had just woken up to her own truth and is on her way to self-transformation; she'd already started choosing better people to include in her life and addressing her own control issues.

Perhaps there were more influences at play here, but this is what I've witnessed as an outsider of a Scorpio Venus in action.

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What a tragic story but thank goodness for the happy ending.

I don't try to manipulate people or "seduce" them anymore. U just can't manipulate love and expect it to be truthful to you.

The irony is that many of us want honest love so badly that we go about getting it in dishonest ways.

posted September 21, 2019 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Taurus and Sag eomehow work. I don't know how.But they do.

I dated more Taurus/Libra than any other sign as a Sag. And I believed a past relationship with a Taurus Sun/Venus in Gemini would last.

But he claimed I wasn't "there" for him. I didn't get what he meant by that and our interactions when we meet are a tad awkward.

I am Sun in Sag /Venusin Scorpio. And my thinking is that a Taurus Sun opp my Venus in Scorpio with Venus Gemini opp my Sun should be interesting.?

I met onea.long time ago but he was very flaky Lol. Not my cup of tea. But perhaps there are better suited ones? I want to find out

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My mum and dad were a Sadge/Taurus couple. He was smitten with her. They divorced when I was small, and got back together ten/eleven years later. He is Venus in Pisces, she was Venus in Scorpio.

posted September 21, 2019 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I’m a Venus Virgo my best friend is a Venus Taurus but she’s been ignoring me lately for her venus virgo boyfriend

I think her descendant is virgo. We aren’t sure about the rising but I have a lot of planets Virgo and so does he. It’s his sun apparently. (I’m talking western talk but it really isn’t)

Dating a Venus Scorpio was awesome, until we stopped trusting each other. I thought my soul mate was a Venus Sagittarius the rest of the chart matched up despite me not having any sagittarius planets.. but it kind of went with my mars in Libra so maybe that. But right now we’ll I’m flirting with a lot of guys online just seeing what my options are. I’ve been kind of friends with a Venus Capricorn and he is also a Sun Capricorn all of my planets are virgo ish so there’s a lot of flirting going on. I don’t find him attractive we are friends but we joke around d I call him husband and put the kissy emoji. We are going to meet in person soon. Just as friends though because my Venus Virgo standards are pretty high well I appreciate intellectually stimulating g conversations plus a pretty boy with my mars in libra. In other words he needs to be close to perfect for me to even give him the time of day.

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Is your Sun in Libra? Then its likely few will ever really "measure up".Lol

Try out a Libra Venus for size? Venus in Sag is very "gung ho" in my experience-so I am suprised at the attraction to them. Perhaps even Taurus Venus?

posted September 21, 2019 09:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

any idea why a scorpio venus would try to get back in touch and be friendly after you've essentially told them you'll always love them on some level but they're dead to you? paraphrasing but yeah, still not even sure if i want to read it

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I'm not Scorpio Venus, but it's in the 8th. I might try to talk about this, but I don't do that a lot. I can tend to forget about the bad stuff, or good memories overshadow the bad, but I try to squash any thoughts of reaching out. I'd prefer to wait and see if they want contact again. Generally, if I just write a lot like the way you've described with your ex, I've just thought, "**** it". But in my more desperate moments, it's been a way to try to fix things - only I would be repeatedly trying to communicate something, that the other person didn't want to hear. I'm talking family here, though, for the most part. I've seen that going around facebook recently: how communication isn't the most important thing, listening and taking it in, is. You can try to talk until you're hoarse, but it won't matter if the other person doesn't care.

posted September 21, 2019 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Hahaha crazyness!

I figured this may not play out well between two venus in scorpio bc of the shadow side of this placement acting out.

With my ex he had venus Conjunct Pluto and I had venus conjunct mars in leo in the 8H sextile that and it was amazing our connection, out of this world but also came with the pluto side effects.

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posted September 21, 2019 10:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Are you the Venus in Pisces in this instance?

In terms of the friend you mentioned, I am really actively focusing my attention away from him tbh.

I checked our composite(but not progressions as I don't want to dwell too much on him) and there is Sun/ Ven in the 7th conjunct in Cap (tight).

So once again,this relationship may require both of us to grow up and be more mature(which is what I always suspected).

There is always something "serious" about Cap/Sat in 7th. Especially with added Sun(goal of the relationship) & Venus (attraction to the relationship) in that house that makes it feel very heavy.

Add to this, Saturn is in our composite 5th with Mars in Scorpio also there in the 5th. We do tend to disagree a lot but in the same breath,we also tend to get back to normal after months of not talking to each other.

Typically he is the one that is "offended" by me. My Uranus squares his Moon.

Things with him just feel so extreme and dramatic. Our composite Moon is in Leo(Comp 2nd)and it squares Pluto in Scorpio(Comp 4th).

For now, I am putting "us" on ice. It is an EXHAUSTING matchup.

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I understand completely.

posted September 21, 2019 10:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
I am sorry to hear that you had to deal with that. I guess every aspect is a gift and the individual can either use that gift for constructive purposes or just be plain ******** .

I can say without a doubt that there is no one else I would trust deeply enough with anything than my wife . It goes without saying that her being a Venus in Scorpio, she feels things more deeply than others and just needed time, understanding and support to not only accept but to embrace and work with her gift.

I personally don't mind the intensity one bit. If anything, as someone with a Venus Conjunct Pluto aspect, I welcome it .

If I am not mistaken, I posted a thread a long time ago highlighting some of our Synasty aspects together. Let me just repost it to highlight why I trust her completely:

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/003628.html

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posted September 21, 2019 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Btw I’m interpreting all sign placements western style)

The Venus scorpio I was so sure id Marrrryy
But he was full of mind games and he kept a lot of things to himself. He was not a good communicator in the slightest. I’m a Venus Virgo, we rule mercury I am an excellent communicator despite my scorpio sun but it’s my descendant scorpio so I always think my best partner will have a lot of scorpio planets because that’s the sign I most relate to. He gave me PTSD and the break up was really bad but that’s how it always is with a venus scorpio. I dated a Sagittarius sun who had Venus scorpio. He was very casual but was convinced that I was the one. He said I would never find anyone like him ever again and believe me I will.. there are plenty of guys that exist and he didn’t really have that many redeeming qualities. But the Venus scorpio makes someone passionate and hell of cocky. Cocky and sexy are their two words. He was moon mercury and Venus scorpio and he was the hottest guy I’ve ever dated in my entire life that’s why I wanted to marry him. He also had a mars libra like me. I don’t know his rising. His sun was pisces.. you could definitely tell. Not only did h me never leave his house but he was weed abuser. Pisces tend to abuse things and when we were breaking up he went off the deep end with weed. Atleast it’s healthy. Unlike some of the harder drugs that should actually be considered drugs. Weed is legal in some states and is equivalrnt to a healthy alcohol in my eyes. Although I don’t do it. Wouldn’t anyway..

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You mentioned two differing guys there. One Sag and the other Pisces right? What Venus is the Pisces?

posted September 21, 2019 10:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am Venus in Gemini and it seems like guys I get close to have Venus in Aqua or Saggi.

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posted September 21, 2019 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Venus in Pisces,

Husband's Venus is in Gemini.

6 years a rocky relationship that eventually it feels a lil bit more peaceful than ever..

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posted September 21, 2019 11:20 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
My mum and dad were a Sadge/Taurus couple. He was smitten with her. They divorced when I was small, and got back together ten/eleven years later. He is Venus in Pisces, she was Venus in Scorpio.

One of my cousins, a Sadge, married a Taurus the first time, too. They were just as smitten with each other, until he got a brain tumour, and the surgery altered his personality.

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Yes. That is usually the drawing card for me too. They either have Pisces/Cancer or Gemini Venus. I haven't experienced Aries Venus though. That would conj my Asc by sign.

Is your Cousin the one with Sag Sun and had the surgery?

I just realised that the above means ALL Taurus people are a drawing card to me then lol. Oddly however, I don't feel the same about Scorp(Taurus' opp sign).

posted September 21, 2019 11:23 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:

I understand completely.

I'm the Venus in Gemini. Mars in Pisces, though.

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posted September 22, 2019 05:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Hmmm Venus conj Saturn here too. I have been told that i can be impassive at times. And this can come across as "cold" to the partner or atleast "detached".

Your hubbys Pluto opp Venus can swing back/forth between wanting you two to be super close one minute. But then distant on the other.

Pluto can also create massive mood swings when opp to Venus i.e extremes of emotions on one end.But then detachment and disengagement on the other.Very back/forth confusing stuff.

Believe it or not(whether he "likey" or does not lol), he could have been intensely drawn to your sometimes cool/detached or even "rigid" energy because of the extremes of feelings spoken of earlier.

Opp to Venus from Pluto are just as fearful of intimacy as they crave it. And this paradox mixes well with Uranus/Saturn on Venus-as these folks aren't quite comfortable with constant /consistent lovey duveyness either .

Plus all this opp action happening in the 12th can have him not being sure which he appreciates more?Healthy distance or intimacy?

12th house Venus can create uncertainty and/or a changeable love nature that's tough for anyone to understand(let alone him).This especially when Venus is also in "open-ended" Pisces.

I think he could have been drawn to you because of your own cool approach to love matters. And as much as he may not like it at times(Pluto opp Ven) its a far safer bet to deal with this than something more demanding or closed ended

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Yes, he does swing back and forth making it appear as if he’s having a hard deciding what he wants; intimacy or distance.

I mean, sometimes I couldn’t care any less whether I’m alone or with someone and I know that scares him but it also fascinates him! As an example is that when he crosses the line of being a sh1t head he can sense that I don’t really care, anymore. I’m not his mother and won’t “baby” him back. Then he gets fearful and takes a step back.

Not sure this is healthy actually!?

posted September 22, 2019 06:05 AM            

I have been dating a Cancer Sun/Venus (not conjunct) for about a year now.

posted September 22, 2019 06:31 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Venus in Cancer.

I have been dating a Cancer Sun/Venus (not conjunct) for about a year now.

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posted September 22, 2019 06:39 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I think Saturn and Uranus are “wild horses” in the sense that Saturn is rigid against everything and Uranus is, well Uranus..., against everything and sometimes “small, little baby Pluto” wants to run and hide.

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Well i wouldn't call Pluto a "baby". Lol. Maybe Mars?

posted September 22, 2019 03:34 PM            

I woke up thinking about him, because I looked at his chart in the past, and I thought he might have had moon opposite venus (re: the other thread), but he doesn't. He has Moon opposed Mars/Mercury in Scorpio (I LOVE Taurus Moons, always will I guess).

He has Venus in Sagittarius, conjunct my Neptune, his, and that of most of our friends from that time. Trine my Jupiter and MC. His Sadge Sun is conjunct my NN, opposed my Moon/Venus/SN and square my Mars in Pisces. He was one of my best friends, and so sweet. Genuinely kind, and he was nice to my little sister, too. My mother adored him, and wanted us to get together. He would help her with things, like if she needed something out of the attic. There was one night when we were all supposed to go to a dance in another town, but I ended up not wanting to go. The others left, but he stayed behind to keep me company. My mum and sister would tease me about him hanging around so much, but I don't remember him ever asking me out. I do remember one or two moments when we were in close quarters, and you get that awareness of being so close to them, but that's as far as I can remember things going in that direction. I think his friendship was what I needed, though, and in most cases, is the better option. I also would have required him to ditch the other girls.

posted September 22, 2019 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Oh ok.Lol. Never met a Libra Venus I liked in "that" way. Most come across as smooth operating players to me.This even with my Mars in Libra.

I wonder if Dumuzi has seen this post?It seems that the Libra/Scorpio is not such an awkward combo for some. Do you have Pluto aspects to Venus or the wife has Venus in Scorpio aspects to Saturn?

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Oh I am sure almost every Libra Sun or Libra Venus goes though the insatiable flirt phase atleast once in their life . I wasn't an exception. But as the good book of Astrology states, Libras settle down when they find someone they truly love.

Both me and my wife have strong Pluto influenced aspects, with my wife is a literal Scorpio Sun . But what is more important IMO is how the overall synasty chart looks like. We have a LOT of Conjunctions in our Synasty with placements, with emphasis on Moon/Pluto, Venus/Pluto, Venus/Moon and Asc/Moon; Both in Synasty and Composite.

Now mind you, this is complimented with some serious Square aspects as well but IMO it gives our relationship just that extra bit of spice .

We may not act like a bunch of horny teenagers anymore but with age, passion, lust and love have evolved in their own right.

There just isn't anyone else who I feel such a deep connection with.

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Originally posted by teasel:
I remember your posts about your wife. I'm glad that you're both still so happy.

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Long time no see teasel . Sorry if I am not a regular on the forums anymore as I used to be. Life and love keeps my time occupied these days Lol!