posted September 20, 2019 09:06 PM            

His progressed Sun was conjunct my Moon/Venus/SN when we met, though, and his progressed Venus was about to conjoin my Ceres/Chiron/Sun. Years ago.

posted September 21, 2019 12:02 AM            

my ex fiancee has venus in scorpio conjunct pluto we were together almost 15 years (i told her off 3 weeks ago with her back and forth **** and she tried to get in touch with me again yesterday actually still havent read the message, from what i could see of it it's friendly and it's like she's pretending i didnt say **** , weird as **** ) so that was about half my life there

the last few years my life was essentially that mountain goats song no children (way too much like it tbh) because of all of the stupid manipulative ******** she kept pulling and mutual drug use

my other ex, the witch (literal not just being an ******* ) was a sag venus (conjunct uranus) that was also intense and ****** she yelled at me for being too calm when she'd yell at me and about other women even looking at me or standing near me

as far as other people ive been with that i can think of guy with pisces venus (that was mostly a casual drugs/sex thing), gemini venus (opposite pluto ended because of **** with my ex fiancee not him or me), cap venus (his was retrograde, ended because it was another drugs/sex thing and i was trying to be sober at that point), and that ****** one night stand with the guy who wanted me to be his forever was taurus venus

2 of them had scorpio mars

posted September 21, 2019 12:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
Venus in taurus 12H, I'm dating a venus in scorpio but his is exactly conjunct uranus 4H and its absolutely not working.

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posted September 21, 2019 12:48 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I don't know if you could call it dating, but Venus in Gemini versus Venus in Pisces. You know how that went.

His progressed Sun was conjunct my Moon/Venus/SN when we met, though, and his progressed Venus was about to conjoin my Ceres/Chiron/Sun. Years ago.

With your on again-off again friend, you might want to check your progressed composite, unless you really are over it. I only just noticed that option at astro.com, tonight, and it surprised me.

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Are you the Venus in Pisces in this instance?

In terms of the friend you mentioned, I am really actively focusing my attention away from him tbh.

I checked our composite(but not progressions as I don't want to dwell too much on him) and there is Sun/ Ven in the 7th conjunct in Cap (tight).

So once again,this relationship may require both of us to grow up and be more mature(which is what I always suspected).

There is always something "serious" about Cap/Sat in 7th. Especially with added Sun(goal of the relationship) & Venus (attraction to the relationship) in that house that makes it feel very heavy.

Add to this, Saturn is in our composite 5th with Mars in Scorpio also there in the 5th. We do tend to disagree a lot but in the same breath,we also tend to get back to normal after months of not talking to each other.

Typically he is the one that is "offended" by me. My Uranus squares his Moon.

Things with him just feel so extreme and dramatic. Our composite Moon is in Leo(Comp 2nd)and it squares Pluto in Scorpio(Comp 4th).

For now, I am putting "us" on ice. It is an EXHAUSTING matchup.

posted September 21, 2019 12:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
mine is in libra lot of aspects

my ex fiancee has venus in scorpio conjunct pluto we were together almost 15 years (i told her off 3 weeks ago with her back and forth **** and she tried to get in touch with me again yesterday actually still havent read the message, from what i could see of it it's friendly and it's like she's pretending i didnt say **** , weird as **** ) so that was about half my life there

the last few years my life was essentially that mountain goats song no children (way too much like it tbh) because of all of the stupid manipulative ******** she kept pulling and mutual drug use

my other ex, the witch (literal not just being an ******* ) was a sag venus (conjunct uranus) that was also intense and ****** she yelled at me for being too calm when she'd yell at me and about other women even looking at me or standing near me

as far as other people ive been with that i can think of guy with pisces venus (that was mostly a casual drugs/sex thing), gemini venus (opposite pluto ended because of **** with my ex fiancee not him or me), cap venus (his was retrograde, ended because it was another drugs/sex thing and i was trying to be sober at that point), and that ****** one night stand with the guy who wanted me to be his forever was taurus venus

2 of them had scorpio mars

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posted September 21, 2019 01:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I keep on being blown over by the 15 years!!Its a bloody long time though Most marriages don't even last that long.

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we met at around 12 too, i keep saying by accident that we've known each other about 20 years but at this point it's been 21 give or take a few months

**** 's crazy, i still would've stuck with it because commitment/promises and all that but she left during one of her ******** crazy tantrums

my life has been relatively peaceful since then though, i used to legit hope i would die just to not have to deal with her at points

any idea why a scorpio venus would try to get back in touch and be friendly after you've essentially told them you'll always love them on some level but they're dead to you? paraphrasing but yeah, still not even sure if i want to read it

edit: she has a scorpio mercury too

posted September 21, 2019 07:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
What makez this relationship so bad? With the Aqua Venus,it was mostly shortlived because he was inconsistent & it felt like I had to date him through his friends.

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posted September 21, 2019 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
we met at around 12 too, i keep saying by accident that we've known each other about 20 years but at this point it's been 21 give or take a few months

**** 's crazy, i still would've stuck with it because commitment/promises and all that but she left during one of her ******** crazy tantrums

my life has been relatively peaceful since then though, i used to legit hope i would die just to not have to deal with her at points

any idea why a scorpio venus would try to get back in touch and be friendly after you've essentially told them you'll always love them on some level but they're dead to you? paraphrasing but yeah, still not even sure if i want to read it

edit: she has a scorpio mercury too

idk what's wrong with me and going for scorpio placements and heavy pluto **** , every time as far as i know

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Most people tend to take one down to hell.Then when the person leaves or decides that they don't want to continue on the road etc. The accompanying mate can feel abandoned and try to get the one who is looking for the exit point, to come back.

This can be done through them suddenly "changing" or claiming to have turned a new leaf by displaying traits they didn't openly potray before i.e being unusually nice or "perky".Or conveniently forgetting all about the hellish experience they put the mate through by claiming "redemption" or "spiritual awakening" etc.

Be careful of behaviour of that nature because it suggests someone who is addicted to drama.The real authentic people would review the life they had with the mate and take responsibility for what they put their ex through.Honesty does not ignore hail storms, it examines its own role in bringing them about .

Scorpio Ven can also be the type to love posthumously in the literal sense of falling inlove with someone AFTER they have left or physically died i.e the whole "you loved me after all.Now i know" mess...bla blah blah.

The above is also a drama king.Take the detour...

I am sorry if I sound harsh about Scorpio Venus.But i don't agree with this imbalanced popularity fan base this placement has .I have it-with Pluto and Saturn also there.

I used to go to dark places when young and bring volcanoes to peaceful island.Its addictive until you know YOU are the cause. That's what Scorpio energy needs to own.

In as far as attracting Pluto types is concerned however,look to whether you like dungeons and dragons Coz we never attract that which we don't identify deeply with on a fundamental level.

So if your heart flutters for the dark brooding stranger in the far right corner of your eye more than the obe in front of yoy trying to get your attention, you may be addicted to the Scorpio vibe.This especially when the native becomes very Jason Statham " life/death" as you two go on.

posted September 21, 2019 09:24 AM            

Husband: Pisces Venus 12H conj Asc opp. Pluto.

posted September 21, 2019 09:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
He has no concept of what a relationship is. He wants me to explain constantly what I want from him and it's exhausting trying to explain to someone over and over you just want them, no strings attached. He also has no stability of his own and that drives me crazy. When I talk to him about anything relationship related it's like he forgets everything and accuses me of never saying how I feel when we've had that convo over and over. We have a lot of affinities in our charts too
My 12H sun, his is conjunct Neptune
My moon conjunct Pluto, his is in the 8H
My Merc in 12H, his conjunct Neptune
My Uranus in 7H, his conjunct venus
But seriously, it's the swinging back and forth that I can't stand anymore. The only aspect composite sun makes is to uranus and I'm feeling it.

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Neptune can bring MASSIVE communication problems.BIG.

You have Mercury in 12th & i do get that this placement can be the type to speak metaphorically,trail off on another tangent or assume they are communicating the way they speak etc. Merc-Nep is no different really(I have the parallel aspect)

Then on top of that, both of you have Neptune on Sun and/or 12th house influences.I have the conjunction too.Exact!

Add to that,"do whatever I feel at the moment" Uranus on Venus for him.And Uranus in 7th for you.So things can go from being unclear(Neptune) to random and/or chaotic(Uranus).

Look at how your placements related to Neptune/12th cab hoodwink you.So getting involved with someone who mirrors them can have the "doubling" effect.

posted September 21, 2019 10:07 AM            

I've never met a venus in Aquarius, are they similar to venus/uranus?

posted September 21, 2019 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
That is exactly what's happening, we both see each other as our complete opposite and yet we see that we're exactly the same. How can that even make sense!? It's a mirror effect and it's driving both of us insane. The pull was very strong at first. I used the word fated because I couldn't pull away, and still can't but this venus/neptune/uranus combo is pushing me to my limit. Thank you for the clarification.

I've never met a venus in Aquarius, are they similar to venus/uranus?

*edit my sis has Aquarius venus. I've never met a aqua v man.

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I find Venus/Uranus ime more into long distance love. But Venus in Aqua is more into friendship "first" then love etc.

posted September 21, 2019 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
We both have venus in leo and my parents both have Venus in aqua..seems like this helps a lot bc you have similar love languages.

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Yeah, I get that. I dated a Venus in Scorpio. Twas easy. But it also amplified the intensity too. LOL.

At one point when the Libra Sun/Ven Scorpio ex was mad at me, he talked about killing himself and framing me for the "murder".

posted September 21, 2019 01:07 PM            

Yes, it was a friendship transformed into love! We're not the conjoined-at-the-hip lovers type and it suits us just fine.

The Virgo Venus does bring out the cuddler in the Aqua Venus. Or is it vice-versa? Both cases are positive.

posted September 21, 2019 01:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Most people tend to take one down to hell.Then when the person leaves or decides that they don't want to continue on the road etc. The accompanying mate can feel abandoned and try to get the one who is looking for the exit point, to come back.

This can be done through them suddenly "changing" or claiming to have turned a new leaf by displaying traits they didn't openly potray before i.e being unusually nice or "perky".Or conveniently forgetting all about the hellish experience they put the mate through by claiming "redemption" or "spiritual awakening" etc.

Be careful of behaviour of that nature because it suggests someone who is addicted to drama.The real authentic people would review the life they had with the mate and take responsibility for what they put their ex through.Honesty does not ignore hail storms, it examines its own role in bringing them about .

Scorpio Ven can also be the type to love posthumously in the literal sense of falling inlove with someone AFTER they have left or physically died i.e the whole "you loved me after all.Now i know" mess...bla blah blah.

The above is also a drama king.Take the detour...

I am sorry if I sound harsh about Scorpio Venus.But i don't agree with this imbalanced popularity fan base this placement has .I have it-with Pluto and Saturn also there.

I used to go to dark places when young and bring volcanoes to peaceful island.Its addictive until you know YOU are the cause. That's what Scorpio energy needs to own.

In as far as attracting Pluto types is concerned however,look to whether you like dungeons and dragons Coz we never attract that which we don't identify deeply with on a fundamental level.

So if your heart flutters for the dark brooding stranger in the far right corner of your eye more than the obe in front of yoy trying to get your attention, you may be addicted to the Scorpio vibe.This especially when the native becomes very Jason Statham " life/death" as you two go on.

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yeah she has a tendency towards drama it's what made me miserable in the first place, she was the one who left but it was after one of her tantrums

i was fine with staying friends at first but once i saw that was going to be more drama and pushing and pulling i lost interest

if youre going to yell at me about the past and complain to me about what i should be doing in the future or what i shouldve done instead while we're not even dating then it's not worth it to me

too much selfishness too much ******** and too many games and power plays

she kept trying to push me away while saying the opposite and creating all kinds of **** and now i've hit a point where i have zero interest and i told her as much

i still havent even looked (she sent me the message on instagram so i can see some of it but if i read it she'll know) because i dont want to deal with it, i told her already the day would come where she'd look for me and i wouldnt be there

i warned her before it happened that she was pushing me there too, gave her every opportunity to have things go in a different direction, but it always felt like she was constantly seeing how much i would love her after and it's stupid

also the drama issues just in general things are calm may as well ruin it then ***** about why things are dramatic was her mindset

i told her i can love someone without them being in my life because you can love someone who's dead, so me always loving her has nothing to do with whether or not i actively want her around and i guess she didnt believe me because for years i was always there for her through everything when she needed it

i get that ive made mistakes though some of them were under false impressions and had she just been honest instead of changing her mind after the fact they wouldn't have happened

she didnt really give me a fair chance in some cases to have an authentic reaction because instead of being upfront and vulnerable she'd pull **** then get mad that i'm not reading her mind past the walls she'd put around it

you don't sound harsh btw you sound honest in a way i wish she couldve been with herself rather than the constant scapegoating and blameshifting, she's still too immature to own that **** though and understand it

i can't say it's something i would intentionally go for

honestly i don't tend to find that stranger attractive, and i also dont generally make the first move people like that have a tendency to come my way and open up to me so i dont notice those qualities until a little later when they interact with others (if they show them) or talk about other people

posted September 21, 2019 01:48 PM            

My wife has her Venus in Scorpio.

posted September 21, 2019 02:05 PM            

but i do have sun in sag and they have sun in taurus, so that's a lil healthier i suppose.

posted September 21, 2019 02:07 PM            

She was my classmate all through school. Her Venus is in Scorpio and I've watched all these scenarios play out in her love life.

She started up drama with everyone she got close to just to feel in control. Her relationships had followed the pattern of hunt the most desirable/popular boy, hook him in with the Venus charm, then as soon as the boy shows any deeper affection for her she would sting him with her tail and take complete control of the relationship. (She was like this with friends too- a real queen bee.)

As soon as this happens, the boys either let her control them until she ruins them or instinctively make themselves appear boring so she would leave them and move on to the next guy. These were the more superficial boys.

However, I watched her with two boys who were her match in terms of power and control issues and this is how it happened:

Boy 1 played along and let her think she had control, promising her everything in the world. As soon as she fell for it 100% (she agreed to marry him,) he got bored with her and left for another girl.

Boy 2 played along same as Boy 1, letting her dictate the terms. However, he did the complete opposite: he never gave her the intimacy that she wanted. He went along with her plans, went along with whatever she said, but nothing from his end. It took her the longest time to finally figure out that to him, she wasn't the hot stuff she took herself to be for granted. Big time ego check here.

Me being Plutonic, I got bullied by her because I knew what she was up to. She did not like that one bit!

Now 25 years later, she's finally starting to understand her Scorpionic vibes and how her low vibrations are attracting the wrong people. Last time I talked with her, she had just woken up to her own truth and is on her way to self-transformation; she'd already started choosing better people to include in her life and addressing her own control issues.

posted September 21, 2019 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
Mines is Venus in Libra.

My wife has her Venus in Scorpio.

Happily Married and couldn't get along with anyone else better. We just click . It also helps that we have good aspects together.

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my ex and i were like that together for a really long time, then the venus in scorpio games started

posted September 21, 2019 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yeah, I get that. I dated a Venus in Scorpio. Twas easy. But it also amplified the intensity too. LOL.

At one point when the Libra Sun/Ven Scorpio ex was mad at me, he talked about killing himself and framing me for the "murder".

My response :"Sit your sorry a*** down and shut up"

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Hahaha crazyness!

I figured this may not play out well between two venus in scorpio bc of the shadow side of this placement acting out.