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Topic: What's ur Venus?And what Venus sign are u dating/married to?
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2173 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted September 22, 2019 07:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Xodian: I am sorry to hear that you had to deal with that. I guess every aspect is a gift and the individual can either use that gift for constructive purposes or just be plain ******** . I can say without a doubt that there is no one else I would trust deeply enough with anything than my wife . It goes without saying that her being a Venus in Scorpio, she feels things more deeply than others and just needed time, understanding and support to not only accept but to embrace and work with her gift. I personally don't mind the intensity one bit. If anything, as someone with a Venus Conjunct Pluto aspect, I welcome it . If I am not mistaken, I posted a thread a long time ago highlighting some of our Synasty aspects together. Let me just repost it to highlight why I trust her completely: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/003628.html
it's cool i'm alright with being free, had a lot of good times and plenty of bad times i've literally felt everything so i experienced a lot i'm at peace with that glad it worked out for you, and honestly i'm glad it didnt for me IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2173 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted September 22, 2019 07:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Oh ok.Lol. Never met a Libra Venus I liked in "that" way. Most come across as smooth operating players to me.This even with my Mars in Libra.I wonder if Dumuzi has seen this post?It seems that the Libra/Scorpio is not such an awkward combo for some. Do you have Pluto aspects to Venus or the wife has Venus in Scorpio aspects to Saturn?
i saw it, found it funny my ex has a lot going on in her chart though, and a lot of issues so there's some huge differences we did have a fair amount of good aspects, but her chart on its own is intense @teasel after 2 days of me ignoring her she sent me a message that she wants to come here and get "some of" her things (because she left **** here) i responded by having my brother bring her some of her things (clothes, some of her sister's paintings, jewelry, bags, some childhood stuff etc) that i could get to currently because she left a lot without even looking at what he brought she threw a tantrum, refused to take any of it, and said she already spoke to me about it and that i know what she wants (i dont entirely outside of her sister's stuff which was some of what i gave her because all she said ultimately was "some" and asked if it was ok if she came here to get it) and insisted she needed to come here to do it reality is i dont want her here, from what i know she's using coke and **** possibly heavily and she's already put me through a lot of **** and i also dont want her stuff here because i'm not a storage center and i dont want her to keep having reasons to ask me if she can show up so now her wanting her things back has turned into her refusing to take any of her **** edit: she always blamed me for all of the heroin and drug issues like they were solely my fault, and admittedly i ****** up and i take responsibility for that it's why i've been isolating myself to get clean but without me it sounds like she's only gotten worse so i guess i can at least see what was me and what wasn't more clearly
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2061 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 23, 2019 05:46 AM
I'm Gemini Venus dating a Leo Venus. My ex is also a Leo Venus. With both we play and tease each other a lot. They're also very affectionate with me probably because their Venus trine my Moon.There's this other guy who likes me for a long time but I didn't like him back the same way although we get along really well and he's really caring towards me. He has Venus in Aries. And all 3 guys have Venus conjunct Saturn, woah! Seems like I really attract Venus-Saturn people, haha.. My bestie also has Venus conj Saturn. My first ex has a Scorpio Venus and it was baaaaddd... I can relate to some of Dumuzi's descriptions of manipulation/games playing... coming back to play more games after I got so fedup I left and cut my feelings off. When he realised it he sent me a long email to apologise (for the first time!) which I didn't reply... then when he saw me he accused me of being stuck-up, petty etc.
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7770 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 23, 2019 06:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Xodian: Oh I am sure almost every Libra Sun or Libra Venus goes though the insatiable flirt phase atleast once in their life . I wasn't an exception. But as the good book of Astrology states, Libras settle down when they find someone they truly love.Both me and my wife have strong Pluto influenced aspects, with my wife is a literal Scorpio Sun . But what is more important IMO is how the overall synasty chart looks like. We have a LOT of Conjunctions in our Synasty with placements, with emphasis on Moon/Pluto, Venus/Pluto, Venus/Moon and Asc/Moon; Both in Synasty and Composite. Now mind you, this is complimented with some serious Square aspects as well but IMO it gives our relationship just that extra bit of spice . We may not act like a bunch of horny teenagers anymore but with age, passion, lust and love have evolved in their own right. There just isn't anyone else who I feel such a deep connection with.
The Pluto aspects make sense then Coz I know a Libra/Scorpio couple who struggle to connect with each other FUNDAMENTALLY. And it's a headache for both. Their synastry is lukewarm.I find it ...blah!
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7770 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 23, 2019 07:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: I'm Gemini Venus dating a Leo Venus. My ex is also a Leo Venus. With both we play and tease each other a lot. They're also very affectionate with me probably because their Venus trine my Moon.There's this other guy who likes me for a long time but I didn't like him back the same way although we get along really well and he's really caring towards me. He has Venus in Aries. And all 3 guys have Venus conjunct Saturn, woah! Seems like I really attract Venus-Saturn people, haha.. My bestie also has Venus conj Saturn. My first ex has a Scorpio Venus and it was baaaaddd... I can relate to some of Dumuzi's descriptions of manipulation/games playing... coming back to play more games after I got so fedup I left and cut my feelings off. When he realised it he sent me a long email to apologise (for the first time!) which I didn't reply... then when he saw me he accused me of being stuck-up, petty etc.
Yeah...Scorpio Venus with Gemini Venus is typically not a good match. Gemini Venus with Leo Venus...fun match. Gemini Venus with Cap Venus...hit/miss match. But interestingly,I (Scorpio Venus ) have dated more Gemini Venus than any other Venus sign.
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2173 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted September 23, 2019 01:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: I'm Gemini Venus dating a Leo Venus. My ex is also a Leo Venus. With both we play and tease each other a lot. They're also very affectionate with me probably because their Venus trine my Moon.There's this other guy who likes me for a long time but I didn't like him back the same way although we get along really well and he's really caring towards me. He has Venus in Aries. And all 3 guys have Venus conjunct Saturn, woah! Seems like I really attract Venus-Saturn people, haha.. My bestie also has Venus conj Saturn. My first ex has a Scorpio Venus and it was baaaaddd... I can relate to some of Dumuzi's descriptions of manipulation/games playing... coming back to play more games after I got so fedup I left and cut my feelings off. When he realised it he sent me a long email to apologise (for the first time!) which I didn't reply... then when he saw me he accused me of being stuck-up, petty etc.
how long after the break up did things keep going? because this is heading into 3 months i'm waiting for the next round, last night was a ***** she got mad about me not wanting her here and insisted i do things her way, i refused told me she doesnt want all of her things i said i didnt want them and theyre hers to deal with, so then she decided she wants the bed out of spite told her that was fine but she still wasnt coming here and she started namecalling and telling me to keep everything and she could just get new, better **** because it's only "stuff" stayed civil told her whatever makes her happy she went back to pushing to getting things from here and not through someone else, i refused again she tried to give me some sob story about how it made her uncomfortable to do things any other way and now today isnt an option so it has to be next week apparently it's fine to bring her mail to her job (she wont change the address) but it's not fine to bring her things to the parking lot where no one goes and just move them from one car to another can't even ******* give her back her **** without her making it difficult, and i have no motivation to deal with her temper tantrums because it's not like we're having sex anymore so i dont give a **** immediately after the break up she was going on about loving me and **** and talking to me near daily from the beginning of july til the end of august, during that time i repeatedly asked her to come get her things and she refused because she was "too hurt" or some dumb **** when i ended communication between us, she was quiet for a while then did this **** and was semi civil until she didnt get exactly what she wanted so now i'm waiting for any possible vengeance ******** i cant wait til saturn squares my venus exact again, ******* shoot me edit: on the bright side she's made it really easy for me to feel nothing for her to a point where i dont care that she's slowly killing herself again IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2173 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted September 23, 2019 02:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: The Pluto aspects make sense then Coz I know a Libra/Scorpio couple who struggle to connect with each other FUNDAMENTALLY. And it's a headache for both. Their synastry is lukewarm.I find it ...blah!
with my ex we had pluto conjunct venus, and her mars/jupiter was sextile my mars and her venus/pluto was sextile her mars my moon was trine her sun so was my mercury, both trine her uranus and saturn and my venus was sextile her sun/uranus/saturn my sun and mercury were in her 7th, my venus in her 8th composite we had venus conjunct sun and pluto (sun and pluto werent conjunct) lot of other aspects, sexually we were consistent even over a decade in and could still have fun together it was the problems that had no resolution (she always wanted things her way no matter how wrong she was and i wouldnt always just "compromise" by doing what she wanted and she wouldnt compromise at all which would put us at odds) and explosive fights and roller coaster **** that made things difficult in our case IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2061 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 24, 2019 01:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Yeah...Scorpio Venus with Gemini Venus is typically not a good match.Gemini Venus with Leo Venus...fun match. Gemini Venus with Cap Venus...hit/miss match. But interestingly,I (Scorpio Venus ) have dated more Gemini Venus than any other Venus sign.
I became so wary of Scorpio Venus after my first bf. What has been your experience with Gemini Venus? Do you find us too flighty and untrustworthy? What's the reason you attracted so many Gemini Venus? IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2061 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 24, 2019 01:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: how long after the break up did things keep going? because this is heading into 3 monthsi'm waiting for the next round, last night was a ***** she got mad about me not wanting her here and insisted i do things her way, i refused told me she doesnt want all of her things i said i didnt want them and theyre hers to deal with, so then she decided she wants the bed out of spite told her that was fine but she still wasnt coming here and she started namecalling and telling me to keep everything and she could just get new, better **** because it's only "stuff" stayed civil told her whatever makes her happy she went back to pushing to getting things from here and not through someone else, i refused again she tried to give me some sob story about how it made her uncomfortable to do things any other way and now today isnt an option so it has to be next week apparently it's fine to bring her mail to her job (she wont change the address) but it's not fine to bring her things to the parking lot where no one goes and just move them from one car to another can't even ******* give her back her **** without her making it difficult, and i have no motivation to deal with her temper tantrums because it's not like we're having sex anymore so i dont give a **** immediately after the break up she was going on about loving me and **** and talking to me near daily from the beginning of july til the end of august, during that time i repeatedly asked her to come get her things and she refused because she was "too hurt" or some dumb **** when i ended communication between us, she was quiet for a while then did this **** and was semi civil until she didnt get exactly what she wanted so now i'm waiting for any possible vengeance ******** i cant wait til saturn squares my venus exact again, ******* shoot me edit: on the bright side she's made it really easy for me to feel nothing for her to a point where i dont care that she's slowly killing herself again
Oohhh... my Scorpio Venus tortured me for a few years. He would drift in/out of my life, randomly called me to talk sh*t, coerced me to go out with him and when I appeared distant (and of course I would because we've already broken up) he would say spiteful things to me. When I met my second boyfriend, he had the cheek to call me on his birthday asking why I didn't wish him 'happy birthday'. I asked why should I and he got spiteful again, starting talking sh*t about my new guy. Another time he saw me in a pub (I was already with my new bf then) he asked if he could kiss me. I asked if he wanted a slap instead. So over those years he went on and on irritating me randomly and his behaviour just made me lose all feelings and respect for him until what's left is only disgust. I partly blamed myself because I had allowed him to haunt me for so long when I should have just cut him off cold. In retrospect, I think at some point he was apologetic but he was too proud to admit it and the only way he could express those feelings was through spitting venom. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7770 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 24, 2019 03:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: I became so wary of Scorpio Venus after my first bf. What has been your experience with Gemini Venus? Do you find us too flighty and untrustworthy? What's the reason you attracted so many Gemini Venus?
I find Venus in Gem funny and creative. But I have to admit that insecurities do get to me when i find out (after the relationship), just how blind I was to the cheating. I get tge curiousity of Mercury . I have a Mercury strong chart and so I do get the "pull" that novelty has and how enticing a "forbidden" experience can be etc. My issue is that the Gemini Venus I have been with mess around.And I am the last to know that the relationship was an "open" arrangement. So I get egg in my face. That makes ne mad! Scorpio Venus hates secrets whereas Gemini Venus ime,can be "economical" with the truth and avoid the uncomfortable by telling you what you wish to hear. And that's what causes the breakups. Scorpio Venus: Are you cheating on me ? Gem Venus: What? No!(offended) Ofcourse not... ScorpioVenus: Then who is "Tom"? And why is he calling you "baby"? Gem Venus: He is just a friend. And we call each other those affectionate names all the time. ScorpioVen: (serious tone)If you want us to have an open relationship, then we can discuss that and set up ground rules. But I don't want to be inlove alone. Gemini Ven: Don't be ridiculous(lunges in for a kiss),I love you. You are the only one for me. Scorpio Ven: (pulls back from the kiss) Only one huh?...We'll see. Why do I attract them? My belief is that all Sag dominant people rendezvous with Gemini intimately at some point in their lives.lol. And perhaps I have had more opportunities? I have North node in Gemini,Moon in 3rd and Mercury opp Moon. I am very communicative-which I notice Gemini people LOVE. Mercury parallel Sun Mercury opp Moon Mercury sextile Venus Mercury square Mars Mercury parallel Jupiter Mercury sextile Saturn Mercury parallel Neptune Mercury parallel Uranus Mercury square Asc Mercury conj Midheaven Mercury contra parallel North node. The chances of me marrying a Gemini/Virgo strong person are plenty.But typically in either a Libra or Taurus Sun. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 12634 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 24, 2019 03:24 PM
Oh, I'm a Gem Venus, and I'm not economical with the truth. I'm sorry they did that to you, but we aren't all that way. I was thinking earlier, that it's lies that I can't get past. With the Taurus, he lied about something, and I couldn't get past it. I mentioned in another thread, someone lying about me, which is a definite "no". IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 12634 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 24, 2019 03:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: @teasel after 2 days of me ignoring her she sent me a message that she wants to come here and get "some of" her things (because she left **** here) i responded by having my brother bring her some of her things (clothes, some of her sister's paintings, jewelry, bags, some childhood stuff etc) that i could get to currently because she left a lot without even looking at what he brought she threw a tantrum, refused to take any of it, and said she already spoke to me about it and that i know what she wants (i dont entirely outside of her sister's stuff which was some of what i gave her because all she said ultimately was "some" and asked if it was ok if she came here to get it) and insisted she needed to come here to do it reality is i dont want her here, from what i know she's using coke and **** possibly heavily and she's already put me through a lot of **** and i also dont want her stuff here because i'm not a storage center and i dont want her to keep having reasons to ask me if she can show up so now her wanting her things back has turned into her refusing to take any of her **** edit: she always blamed me for all of the heroin and drug issues like they were solely my fault, and admittedly i ****** up and i take responsibility for that it's why i've been isolating myself to get clean but without me it sounds like she's only gotten worse so i guess i can at least see what was me and what wasn't more clearly
Congratulations on getting clean. I'm sorry this is happening. When I flipped out, and kept it up for a while, it was because my PTSD was triggered, I think. Also, the Taurus didn't stay gone when I thought he would. I'd said a goodbye, and left it at that, because I was so confused. He contacted me a few months later, and it all started again. At the time, it didn't occur to me to ignore. Back in June, he put it down to "youthful cockiness" but he's a year older than me, and I wasn't pulling that crap. I kind of had an early mid-life crisis hit me, and I think your ex is around the same age that I was. It's weird, I feel like I can kind of understand her, but I also understand why you're backing off. I wonder if Jupiter is hitting certain placements, and if that could be inflating her emotions/feelings. I'll look up her chart in the other thread soon. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4459 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 24, 2019 11:15 PM
Like I said earlier, I'm not dating the Capricorn with venus Capricorn mercury scorpio mars gemini but we do flirt a lot!! I'm a scorpio with mercury virgo venus virgo mars libra
he said to me today that he feels like I'm his "lowkey soul mate." Honestly, I just have no filter. I just say whatever whenever because I like interesting conversations and take nothing too seriously. When he confessed his feelings for me, I wasn't over the top about it. I just said thank you. lol My favorite singer has a completey compatible chart to mine! THats how you know Astrology is true. And trust me, I know a ton of music! My favorite singer has a venus leo mars virgo. His venus goes with my mars and vice versa. Not the same venus or same like dude Im crushing on's chart. But we are mostly just friends. I also wanted to post on a forum that a guy tried to kill me once!!! And I wanted to rat out his chart because he was a GEMINI!!! with mercury venus moon scorpio!! Mars virgo. I stayed away from him! Yikes! IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2061 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 25, 2019 01:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I find Venus in Gem funny and creative. But I have to admit that insecurities do get to me when i find out (after the relationship), just how blind I was to the cheating.
I'm sorry you had such an experience with Gemini Venus. But...umm...you know what? That conversation sounds oddly familiar. 😅 I've never cheated but I do flirt here & there (sometimes I don't even realise I'm doing it). It seems to be embedded in us although a lot of us don't actually sleep around. It's more about mind capture although I agree some can take it too far. I'm wondering if this is more a gender thing because the other 2 Gemini Venus gals I know don't do open relationships either. I think our light-hearted demeanour also makes people distrust us, so like that convo you had with your ex...I had that with my guy as well and he wouldn't believe me. quote: I have North node in Gemini,Moon in 3rd and Mercury opp Moon. I am very communicative-which I notice Gemini people LOVE.Mercury parallel Sun Mercury opp Moon Mercury sextile Venus Mercury square Mars Mercury parallel Jupiter Mercury sextile Saturn Mercury parallel Neptune Mercury parallel Uranus Mercury square Asc Mercury conj Midheaven Mercury contra parallel North node. The chances of me marrying a Gemini/Virgo strong person are plenty.But typically in either a Libra or Taurus Sun.
Wow, that's a lot of Mercurial energy you have there. Do you consider yourself talkative? Genuine qn. My bestie has Aries Mercury square Jupiter, opp Uranus/Pluto, sextile Mars/Saturn, Gemini Venus/Mars/Saturn. A lot of people find her talkative. She can go on & on and when we have sleepovers she would talk until I fall asleep, hahaha... I've Gemini Asc/Venus with Taurus Sun. I love communicative people. Do you wanna marry me. 😅 Oops, I'm flirting again. What's your ASC sign, btw? IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird Knowflake Posts: 820 From: California Registered: Sep 2017
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posted September 25, 2019 01:20 AM
So Im a Pisces Venus... not yet to be in a relationship. But bad news for me, because I do like a guy but I found out something bad. His Venus conjuncts my asteroid Lucifer and also my asteroid Deja 😔 his Venus is in Scorpio. So it's really unfortunate news for me. Too bad because I really liked him.------------------ I appreciate the masterpiece that is you, because your existence alone is art IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2061 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 25, 2019 01:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by SoulOfABird: So Im a Pisces Venus... not yet to be in a relationship. But bad news for me, because I do like a guy but I found out something bad. His Venus conjuncts my asteroid Lucifer and also my asteroid Deja 😔 his Venus is in Scorpio. So it's really unfortunate news for me. Too bad because I really liked him.
Why do you bother about asteroids at this stage? Just go for it if you feel right and the main aspects show a good connection. 🤷🏻 IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird Knowflake Posts: 820 From: California Registered: Sep 2017
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posted September 25, 2019 01:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I am Venus in Scorpio.Last attempt at dating was with a Venus in Aqua. CRASH AND BURN!!
Yeah I don't know how well those signs work out... like I mentioned about the guy I liked, his Scorpio Venus Squares my Aquarius moon. The fixed energy together in incompatible elements are probably a train wreck waiting to happen. Thats only what I imagine but I cant apply that to reality. If anyone can give me insight on how these placements interact based in experience please let me know lol IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2061 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 25, 2019 01:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I also wanted to post on a forum that a guy tried to kill me once!!! And I wanted to rat out his chart because he was a GEMINI!!! with mercury venus moon scorpio!! Mars virgo. I stayed away from him! Yikes!
Must be the Scorpio in him trying to kill you. Geminis will most likely broadcast rumours about you. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird Knowflake Posts: 820 From: California Registered: Sep 2017
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posted September 25, 2019 01:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Desiring Shadows: Btw I’m interpreting all sign placements western style)The Venus scorpio I was so sure id Marrrryy But he was full of mind games and he kept a lot of things to himself. He was not a good communicator in the slightest. I’m a Venus Virgo, we rule mercury I am an excellent communicator despite my scorpio sun but it’s my descendant scorpio so I always think my best partner will have a lot of scorpio planets because that’s the sign I most relate to. He gave me PTSD and the break up was really bad but that’s how it always is with a venus scorpio. I dated a Sagittarius sun who had Venus scorpio. He was very casual but was convinced that I was the one. He said I would never find anyone like him ever again and believe me I will.. there are plenty of guys that exist and he didn’t really have that many redeeming qualities. But the Venus scorpio makes someone passionate and hell of cocky. Cocky and sexy are their two words. He was moon mercury and Venus scorpio and he was the hottest guy I’ve ever dated in my entire life that’s why I wanted to marry him. He also had a mars libra like me. I don’t know his rising. His sun was pisces.. you could definitely tell. Not only did h me never leave his house but he was weed abuser. Pisces tend to abuse things and when we were breaking up he went off the deep end with weed. Atleast it’s healthy. Unlike some of the harder drugs that should actually be considered drugs. Weed is legal in some states and is equivalrnt to a healthy alcohol in my eyes. Although I don’t do it. Wouldn’t anyway..
LOL your post made me laugh because of how you described Scorpio Venus 😂 "cocky and sexy" Im actually interested in a Sag sun Scorpio Venus and indeed.. he's attractive ... but he also got conjunct Pluto.. like wow that's .. a lot... I don't know.. Maybe Sag is train wreck for Virgo/Pisces ------------------ I appreciate the masterpiece that is you, because your existence alone is art IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird Knowflake Posts: 820 From: California Registered: Sep 2017
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posted September 25, 2019 01:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Why do you bother about asteroids at this stage? Just go for it if you feel right and the main aspects show a good connection. 🤷🏻
We have some pretty good aspects my Nessus also conjuncts his Sun and actually Ami Ane, the Christian lady on here said on her website that Nessus conjunct Sun in synastry is never good, and it could cause the Nessus person to abuse the Sun person and will never work out. So Im scared.. I don't want to be an abuser. That's just awful. I can take some of the conflict and triumphs of our synastry if I really love him.. I believe I can overcome them but I don't want to be an abuser. That is a whole different story! I don't want to hurt him. it's so unfortunate IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7770 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 25, 2019 02:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Wow, that's a lot of Mercurial energy you have there. Do you consider yourself talkative? Genuine qn. My bestie has Aries Mercury square Jupiter, opp Uranus/Pluto, sextile Mars/Saturn, Gemini Venus/Mars/Saturn. A lot of people find her talkative. She can go on & on and when we have sleepovers she would talk until I fall asleep, hahaha...I've Gemini Asc/Venus with Taurus Sun. I love communicative people. Do you wanna marry me. 😅 Oops, I'm flirting again. What's your ASC sign, btw?
Just when I was ruling marriage out.Pop comes a spontaneous proposal. I am communicative and/or flirtatious too.But there is a depth that Scorpio adds to the flirtatious.Its flirting with purpose(so to speak).The exes i have been dating would flirt with the wall (if that's fun).Its seldom always "purposeful".Just curiosity. What i think they didn't get is that they aroused suspicion and/or insecurities within me i.e which of their flirting is genuine and which is superficial? In the end,I would just detach.But then my passion for them would cool to indifference(passive aggressive) as I could never believe anything thet would say-no matter how "sincere". I try not to be possessive or jealous.But i think the stark diff between Scorpio and Gem is that Gem avoids things that are too "emotional".Gem wants the comic relief on regular doses. Hey I am all for comic relief(Sun-Jup in Sag conj).But bot when its used to avoid problems or contextually insensitive etc. One instance I recall with one Gem Ven was visiting him and his friends.His ex showed up and because i had no reason to be suspicious,i didn't mind him walking his ex out. When we broke up with the Gem Venus-about a year or so later.A friend of his joked at a party how he had sex with the ex that same day that I came to visit.And i was like "when did this happen?" and "Wasn't i there the whole time?" SO that spun me aaround and had me thinking ;"What orher instances did this Gem Ven pull a fast one on mr?Drove me cray cray to a poinr where I was like "you need to let ir go.Its over." Just recently he sent me a message to get back together.Proclaiming that he is still very much in love and i am being spiteful/vengeful by "pretending" I don't feel anything etc. I told him that I am not there.I care.But its not love.If we do get back together,I won't care to preserve the relationship as i will acr indifferent.So there really is no point. He is still persisting  IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2061 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 25, 2019 08:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by SoulOfABird: We have some pretty good aspects my Nessus also conjuncts his Sun and actually Ami Ane, the Christian lady on here said on her website that Nessus conjunct Sun in synastry is never good, and it could cause the Nessus person to abuse the Sun person and will never work out. So Im scared.. I don't want to be an abuser. That's just awful. I can take some of the conflict and triumphs of our synastry if I really love him.. I believe I can overcome them but I don't want to be an abuser. That is a whole different story! I don't want to hurt him. it's so unfortunate
You should look at the main aspects first. I don't think everything in an interpretation plays out. I've Pluto square Mars with my guy. What violence? We've never even raised our voices at each other. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2061 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 25, 2019 08:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Just when I was ruling marriage out.Pop comes a spontaneous proposal.
Well, I have 50 oxen, 20 sheeps and 10 pigs as dowry. Do consider. quote: I am communicative and/or flirtatious too.But there is a depth that Scorpio adds to the flirtatious.Its flirting with purpose(so to speak).The exes i have been dating would flirt with the wall (if that's fun).Its seldom always "purposeful".Just curiosity.What i think they didn't get is that they aroused suspicion and/or insecurities within me i.e which of their flirting is genuine and which is superficial?
I get it. There really isn't any real purpose in our flirting at times. We flirt with people we like and we flirt with those we don't like, but there's a distinct difference. With the people I like I'm less talkative and more shy, more likely to blush. Sometimes I can become flustered. quote: One instance I recall with one Gem Ven was visiting him and his friends.His ex showed up and because i had no reason to be suspicious,i didn't mind him walking his ex out.When we broke up with the Gem Venus-about a year or so later.A friend of his joked at a party how he had sex with the ex that same day that I came to visit.And i was like "when did this happen?" and "Wasn't i there the whole time?"
And how did he manage to do that with you there, not unless he has a doppelganger? Are you sure his friend isn't lying? Gemini doesn't look like the most reliable sign and Scorpio is so suspicious... this is really a challenging combination, haha. IP: Logged |
MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 1634 From: 🌛☀️🌜 Registered: Nov 2016
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posted September 25, 2019 10:01 AM
In tropical terms, he's a cancer Venus, mine is Aqua.We have been married almost 20 years and began as besties before that (total yrs together (22 and friends 23). We were a constant in eachothers orbit and then we were married. However, In recent days a lot of changes have rocked our foundation beyond comprehension. Unfortunately my hubby doesn't understand or care to re astrology, thus his being on my same pg to to get these changes in alignment (a lot to do with growing older too) has been a huge snag.we are working it out tho. Saturn going direct seems to be helping as the timing has been apparent in the smoothing that is slowly working on these rough patches. We have these aspects: Sextile my Venus/his Jupiter Cnj 1a Venus/Saturn (our glue) Trine 1as Jupiter/Venus Sextile Saturn/Venus BQ 0s Neptune/ Venus BQ 0s My name asteroid/ Venus
In midpoint: It sits in h5 (tau/trop) Venus/Mars sextile by 1 Venus/Saturn semisexile 1s Venus/square Jupiter 1s Venus/Uranus biquints 1s Venus/bml biquints 0a In prog midpoint the snags are evident - Venus/Mars semisexile 1 Venus/Saturn square Venus/Chiron square IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 422 From: Registered: Dec 2017
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posted September 25, 2019 01:36 PM
In the case of Venus, I’ve noticed the planet likes others in it’s quality; Cardinal, Fixed, MutableWith my Aries Venus, I attract many Libran Venus IP: Logged |