posted September 25, 2019 03:22 PM            

"Put on your big girls pants and figure it out"

"Use your big girl words"

"Man are a luxury, not a necessity"

Word a Capricorn came up with: adulting

posted September 26, 2019 02:13 AM            

Suck it up, buttercup.

Nobody owes you anything. You work for it.

posted September 26, 2019 02:47 AM            

Aries: "Can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen"
"Haters gon' hate players gon' play"

Taurus: "Money talks ******** walks" aka what my Taurus moon grandma always says looool
"Lets just stay home"

"Well you see the thing is"-My Virgo grandpa 😂

Sagittarius
"A little party never hurt anyone"
"Cmon live a little"
"I may or may not be buzzed right now"

Leo
"I woke up like this"

Aquarius
"Trends are for the anxious"

posted September 26, 2019 07:00 AM            

"See it from the other person's point of view"- Anything Libra or in the 7th-especially Asc in Lib, Sun/ Moon/ Mer/Ven or Mars

"{insert serious statement here}.Lol..Just kidding"-Anything Sag or 9th -Asc,Sun,Merc,Moon,Ven,Mars

posted September 26, 2019 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Also:

Suck it up, buttercup.

Nobody owes you anything. You work for it.

Try harder next time.

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posted September 26, 2019 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:

Sagittarius
"A little party never hurt anyone"
"Cmon live a little"
"I may or may not be buzzed right now"

Leo
"I woke up like this"

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hahahahaha

I loved your Saggi ones! Can relate! Sag is my strongest sign...

posted September 26, 2019 11:18 AM            

I have moon in pisces in the 3H opposite mercury and I can't relate, I tend to be very honest and upfront so tend to attract people that are also this way unless they have moon in scorpio bc they keep a lot of secrets and tend to be private and in this case I know they are like this and is not my cup of tea but I can be like this too with moon ruling the 8H so I can understand them up to a point but I am not one of those people that always thinks people are hiding or lying to her and if I sense someone is keeping something from me I understand some people are private and don't feel we have that kind of bond yet to go there.

"See it from the other person's point of view"- Anything Libra or in the 7th-especially Asc in Lib, Sun/ Moon/ Mer/Ven or Mars

This is soo pisces in my opinion, I am very much like this.

"{insert serious statement here}.Lol..Just kidding"-Anything Sag or 9th -Asc,Sun,Merc,Moon,Ven,Mars

Soooooooo true hahaha.....we like to joke period although there are some serious saggies too out there which is weird...

"My mom says...."-Anything Cancer-Asc in Can,Sun, Moon,Merc,Ven,Mars[/B]
perhaps if the person has multiple cancer placements this can play out like that maybe..

posted September 26, 2019 11:31 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Also:

Suck it up, buttercup.

Nobody owes you anything. You work for it.

Try harder next time.

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I disagree I admire this type of thinking a lot bc is a very resilient type of mindset that focuses the locus of control around the self, it puts the focus on you, what you can do about the situation and solutions instead of focusing on the problem and what you cannot do about the situation which leads to feelings of helplessness, depression and low self worth.

In personality psychology, locus of control is the degree to which people believe that they have control over the outcome of events in their lives, as opposed to external forces beyond their control.

The reality for most people is that you have to work for everything you have, this is life and with it comes a sense of accomplishment and pride bc you earned everything you have.

Try harder next time is solution focused and makes you feel that if you work harder you will get the results you seek and be rewarded and this is usually true and empowering bc you have control over the outcome with this type of thinking which results in a healthier self worth and feeling happier.

posted September 26, 2019 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
”Please (!) don’t F’n try to manipulate me with BS and tears! State your case if you want help or a logical solution!”

Yours Truly,
Cap Moon 5H

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posted September 26, 2019 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I disagree I admire this type of thinking a lot bc is a very resilient type of mindset that focuses the locus of control around the self, it puts the focus on you, what you can do about the situation and solutions instead of focusing on the problem and what you cannot do about the situation which leads to feelings of helplessness, depression and low self worth.

In personality psychology, locus of control is the degree to which people believe that they have control over the outcome of events in their lives, as opposed to external forces beyond their control.

The reality for most people is that you have to work for everything you have, this is life and with it comes a sense of accomplishment and pride bc you earned everything you have.

Try harder next time is solution focused and makes you feel that if you work harder you will get the results you seek and be rewarded and this is usually true and empowering bc you have control over the outcome with this type of thinking which results in a healthier self worth and feeling happier.

Suck it up, buttercup sounds mean and there is a better way to express the message behind this but in life you can't wallow in self-pity forever or you will be miserable, you have to pick yourself up and look at life from a different perspective or you will never be happy. Sometimes you have to stop complaining and put on your big girl pants and figure it out, this is what is at the heart of this message even though it sounds mean.

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posted September 26, 2019 11:39 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Except that type of thinking doesn't work for everyone. I can put on my "big girl pants" without anyone being rude enough to tell me that they know exactly what I can do, or handle.

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posted September 26, 2019 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
”Please (!) don’t F’n try to manipulate me with BS and tears! State your case if you want help or a logical solution!”

Yours Truly,
Cap Moon 5H

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And tears don't equal manipulation. My Cappy sister used to do this to me, when she actually manipulated people. So maybe she was projecting.

posted September 26, 2019 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Some of us need to take things in our own time. Some of us have PTSD, and ended up in the ER, suicidal, because we couldn't handle things. Because others wouldn't listen.

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posted September 26, 2019 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I feel this is a combo of both your Sun in Cancer with Moon in Cappy!

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posted September 26, 2019 02:54 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Shouldn't the Cancer in me want to comfort??

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posted September 26, 2019 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
"I feel like you are not being honest with me" -Any water Mercury or Neptune/Moon in aspect with Mercury.Moon/Neptune in 3rd house.

"See it from the other person's point of view"- Anything Libra or in the 7th-especially Asc in Lib, Sun/ Moon/ Mer/Ven or Mars

"{insert serious statement here}.Lol..Just kidding"-Anything Sag or 9th -Asc,Sun,Merc,Moon,Ven,Mars

"My mom says...."-Anything Cancer-Asc in Can,Sun, Moon,Merc,Ven,Mars

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posted September 27, 2019 10:58 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Shouldn't the Cancer in me want to comfort??

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posted September 27, 2019 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You comfort with the style of your moon. The need for authentic relating is the sun in cancer but the solution focused approach to comforting others is moon in cappy. That is my opinion.

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I get it and I now also "got it" that Sun/Moon oppositions can be really difficult to get a grasp on; for me personally and people trying to understand me.

posted September 29, 2019 08:00 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I disagree I admire this type of thinking a lot bc is a very resilient type of mindset that focuses the locus of control around the self, it puts the focus on you, what you can do about the situation and solutions instead of focusing on the problem and what you cannot do about the situation which leads to feelings of helplessness, depression and low self worth.

In personality psychology, locus of control is the degree to which people believe that they have control over the outcome of events in their lives, as opposed to external forces beyond their control.

The reality for most people is that you have to work for everything you have, this is life and with it comes a sense of accomplishment and pride bc you earned everything you have.

Try harder next time is solution focused and makes you feel that if you work harder you will get the results you seek and be rewarded and this is usually true and empowering bc you have control over the outcome with this type of thinking which results in a healthier self worth and feeling happier.

Suck it up, buttercup sounds mean and there is a better way to express the message behind this but in life you can't wallow in self-pity forever or you will be miserable, you have to pick yourself up and look at life from a different perspective or you will never be happy. Sometimes you have to stop complaining and put on your big girl pants and figure it out, this is what is at the heart of this message even though it sounds mean.

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posted September 29, 2019 08:06 AM            

I wasn't trying to upset you? "Suck it up buttercup" was meant in a very dry, sarcastic manner, which is very fitting for Capricorn anything IMO. I have 3 planets in Capricorn and my ASC is also there. I was just trying to be funny. Sometimes my humor is a little too dry, though.