posted May 05, 2021 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
No I know nothing about her gf except she is her twin flame. That's my ex gf think.
She was secretive so I don't have much idea about her. But know I know the reason why she is secretive. It's defence mechanism. So that when she will left men then they will never able to bother her or ruin her peace.

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posted May 05, 2021 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Sure! How does this go?

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well because it's supposed to pick up on the most probable outcomes here my reading should match the one you got, and quite honestly it does

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3 of cups is indicative of the issue here (a 3rd party situation in his head) knight of wands is showing me that he's being immature and it's passion driven 5 of cups is his struggle to move on from past **** and 5 of wands is showing me the fighting between the 2 of you

he's going to learn how to balance that **** out though (8 of coins with temperance) which is going to take you both to a place where you can find new ways of interacting with each other that are more healthy (magician and light here are showing me that, this is a nonstandard deck which is why this light card is a part of it, not in normal tarot decks) it's going to lead to a rejuvenation of your relationship given the ace of cups here

King and queen of cups are counterparts, matched well too, and 2 of cups is a positive card with relationship connections 3 of wands in this deck is associated with weddings and considering the hierophant is at the bottom of the deck it's definitely a possibility

advice for you up top, your present situation is 7 of pentacles and strength which is telling me that you need to just stay strong in this and have patience and it'll work itself out

all in all i'd say whoever gave you the reading initially did hit what comes up for this question

posted May 05, 2021 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Your ex doesn’t sound like she’s into serious relationship. Btw have you met anyone new?

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posted May 07, 2021 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
well because it's supposed to pick up on the most probable outcomes here my reading should match the one you got, and quite honestly it does

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3 of cups is indicative of the issue here (a 3rd party situation in his head) knight of wands is showing me that he's being immature and it's passion driven 5 of cups is his struggle to move on from past **** and 5 of wands is showing me the fighting between the 2 of you

he's going to learn how to balance that **** out though (8 of coins with temperance) which is going to take you both to a place where you can find new ways of interacting with each other that are more healthy (magician and light here are showing me that, this is a nonstandard deck which is why this light card is a part of it, not in normal tarot decks) it's going to lead to a rejuvenation of your relationship given the ace of cups here

King and queen of cups are counterparts, matched well too, and 2 of cups is a positive card with relationship connections 3 of wands in this deck is associated with weddings and considering the hierophant is at the bottom of the deck it's definitely a possibility

advice for you up top, your present situation is 7 of pentacles and strength which is telling me that you need to just stay strong in this and have patience and it'll work itself out

all in all i'd say whoever gave you the reading initially did hit what comes up for this question

there's no other way to read into it, mine said the same **** , and considering the situation doesn't quite sit right with me the advice isn't entirely something i'd give lol but can only read what i see and not put my own **** there

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Wow Dumuzi, thanks so much for this!

posted May 07, 2021 12:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Probably, he is insecure and wants proofs he is better. With Leo and Libra, he probably needs some attention and compliments. I don’t think it means he wants to leave at all.

I know people with strong Venus, Mercury and Pluto in charts who like to ask all such of weird questions what cause problems. Well, I find inappropriate questions or quotes entertaining sometimes, but not like those and not put somebody in comparison. I thought usually girls do it.
Also, it could be a way to find out what you like.

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posted May 07, 2021 12:33 AM            

though i don't check in personal readings here ever so not there lol but yeah people usually seek out readings when they're in a hard spot or just need some guidance so i'm nearly always open to do that

do cut people off if they seem like they're too reliant on cards for stuff though, sometimes it's better to let life happen

posted May 07, 2021 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
No, you didn’t get the whole situation. I was serious right from the start and he knew that but he was wishy-washy in the beginning and also flirty with other gals which made me feel he wasn’t serious, that perhaps he only wanted to bed me, that’s why I started going out with other guys. After he got serious with me I stopped seeing those guys. But because of this he became suspicious of all the guys around me.

I agree I planted the seed but what’s a gal to do when you’re wishy-washy with her?

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posted May 09, 2021 06:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
yeah that makes sense given the way divination works, happy to help, i give them to people when it comes up so feel free to ask if you ever need one

though i don't check in personal readings here ever so not there lol but yeah people usually seek out readings when they're in a hard spot or just need some guidance so i'm nearly always open to do that

do cut people off if they seem like they're too reliant on cards for stuff though, sometimes it's better to let life happen

it really does all look good once you get past this though, but good luck in the meantime

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Yes, agree. I find that readings are helpful when I feel stuck and confused over important stuff but I’m conscious not to become overly reliant or obsessed about it. There’s still free will!

posted May 09, 2021 06:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Well, this could be a typical Libra. That’s why I prefer not to make deal with Air guys. You’re supposed to convince us here and maybe chase, not to turn away. 😁

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Or maybe he underestimated the Sagittarius Moon gal? 😆

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However, it’s hard to stop Pluto people once they got their issues triggered. They could keep going till they ruin it.

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posted May 09, 2021 07:04 AM            

I did not find out what caused his behaviour, whether it was childhood conditioning or bad rs experience... what I heard so far were pretty normal. He said I’m important to him but sometimes he feels like he’s going crazy and behaves out of norm, and that he hasn’t felt this way for a long time but he isn’t trying to push me away.

posted May 10, 2021 12:45 PM            

Maybe he just needs to start with one area of transformation and build on it. Maybe when he feels better about himself he will feel more in control (and less preoccupied with banalities.)

posted May 10, 2021 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
@viviette
He is actually more disciplined than me in terms of routine, diet and exercise. I’m thinking of what you said regarding feeling better about himself - I think his slow progressing biz plan may have affected him and made him feel lousy. Now that his biz is taking shape, I hope that will help to redirect his focus.

As a Taurus I’m usually calm and he says that’s something he really likes as he gets anxious easily. I like consistency and he is + he really takes care of me so that’s why I’m still with him. 😬

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posted May 11, 2021 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
having a virgo sun myself gotta agree about liking calm taurus vibes, they're ******* great, good balance (libra placements help me appreciate the balance of it i'm sure)

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posted May 11, 2021 03:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Or maybe he underestimated the Sagittarius Moon gal? 😆

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This was what he did...he’d go on and on till I lose my temper, and if you know a Taurean’s temper, we can blow.

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posted May 12, 2021 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Lol Libra doesn’t do it from Gemini mind games and looking for variety reasons. It’s often not intentionally.
But there might an intention to find a more decisive partner like that. It cannot be the two wishy-washy in a couple😊 [/B]

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What do you mean Gemini play mind games? I don’t do that (Gemini ASC/Venus here), haha 😅 Actually Geminis can be rather insecure as we think too much.

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Usually, people do it to me on the phone. In real life, I could be easily distracted sometimes to listen somebody for too long. It should be Mercury. Especially, I noticed it with Aqua Mercury with squares. And Mercury with Uranus/Jupiter. (about going on and on)

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My guy has Virgo Mercury sextile Mars/Jupiter/Uranus square Neptune. He can get long-winded and asks me the same qn a few times or he will talk about 5 different things when his focus is really only on 2 things. He says he wants to see if my answer would be consistent. This annoys me as when I give an answer, that’s my answer so why does he have to reaffirm? So I’d sometimes change my answers to annoy him (lol). He then says I’m not consistent and I’m lying etc. 🤦🏻‍♀️

posted May 12, 2021 01:09 AM            

virgo mercury can turn what should've been a 5 minute conversation into a 10 hour long semantics discussion, drives me ******* nuts

now him asking you endless questions makes sense in a way that didn't even cross my mind, it's the low self esteem and the virgo mercury doing it not the the virgo sun

posted May 12, 2021 02:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
knowing he's a virgo mercury explains a lot, should've said that one in the first place lol i can like some people with the placement (hypatia is good to talk to for example, met a couple guys recently with this too and get along well with them so it can be good) but generally speaking they give me a ******* headache

virgo mercury can turn what should've been a 5 minute conversation into a 10 hour long semantics discussion, drives me ******* nuts

now him asking you endless questions makes sense in a way that didn't even cross my mind, it's the low self esteem and the virgo mercury doing it not the the virgo sun

admittedly if i notice inconsistencies i'll nitpick, but nothing like a virgo mercury would

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Yeah, I should’ve known better than to mess with a Virgo Mercury. 😣 After an argument I usually just wanna stay away and sulk or cool down but he would wanna talk and talk and talk... and he would ask me qns which to me are moot. Drive me nuts, like you said.

Anyway I really hate fighting with him. We’ve not spoken since our argument yesterday and it’s making me so uncomfortable.

posted May 12, 2021 05:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Yeah, I should’ve known better than to mess with a Virgo Mercury. 😣 After an argument I usually just wanna stay away and sulk or cool down but he would wanna talk and talk and talk... and he would ask me qns which to me are moot. Drive me nuts, like you said.

Anyway I really hate fighting with him. We’ve not spoken since our argument yesterday and it’s making me so uncomfortable.

Edit: Where’s your Mercury, btw?

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admittedly sometimes i feel like i need to talk forever about something, but only if it's something major otherwise i'd rather just chill

i can find a middle ground though with things if i want to talk and someone doesn't because i know in a relationship that's serious there's time to have those conversations still doesn't have to happen right away

i'm a leo mercury

i get being uncomfortable, i hate having things not settled, but i do also stand by what i said before about fights sometimes being positive, partially because it means you both care enough to argue over something (lack of fighting can be a worse sign) and partially because it can uncover some stuff

i don't know what the fight was about so i don't want to pry since you didn't mention the content of it too much only the end result, but sometimes fights also help us reevaluate and come together so can a little while apart.

i get being anxious though... is it a situation where you can reach out first? i know sometimes being the one to walk away means it has to be on them to reach out, but if not maybe you should