posted November 14, 2021 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Enjoy Galactic!

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Tanks Stawr

Btw, glad to hear you and your husband are experiencing improvement.

posted November 14, 2021 11:10 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Tanks Stawr

Btw, glad to hear you and your husband are experiencing improvement.

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So welcome!

posted November 14, 2021 11:36 AM            

I think its because I feel I can be vulnerable with him. When I get like this...it moves me to want to work on my marriage more...And say things I'd rather not say to my husband, but need to be said so I don't go to lala-land with other gents.

I told my husband off real good, and continued to text him. I love my husband. Because though it is hard work, I can eventually get my point across and it can eventually click with him, and he will actually want to be better for me. He genuinely doesn't get it at first.

BTW Jupiter is exactly conjunct my Mars right now. Really adding to that ooomph-POW!

I clapped out practically every single solitary reason I never ever have initiated sex with him. Because how he put me down early into dating. And how all of it is his own damn fault. For everything he doesn't appreciate there is someone out there who is willing to rock my world because of it.

I never wanted to do this but I told him how much fun I had in my sex life, and I'm sick of being made to feel like something is wrong with me when I know that ain't the case.

I really hurt his feelings when I told him a man in the past had me moaning like a goat. He told me I was taking it too far. I said no I am not. Because he set the tone by comparing me to the chick before me, and how he deserves it. I clapped out for him that I am just doing what he has done to me for once.

posted November 14, 2021 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
My H4 is in Capricorn and with the divorce there has been a huge focus for me to get my home life in order again. So Venus there will be much appreciated. Capricorn is also part of my H3 and I’ve been thinking about reaching out to a cousin who has been going through a rough period. She’s 6 years older and she lives relatively close to me. She had a divorce a couple of years ago, maybe we can support each other by talking.

@Radium, transit Pluto is opposite my H7 ruler Mars and it’s not been easy. Transit Pluto conjunct Venus sounds challenging as well. But in the end, I feel transit Pluto can help us learn a bit more about ourselves and hopefully we will have grown a bit wiser too. The future is looking bright.

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Thank you for sharing.

posted November 14, 2021 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
So welcome!

Yes...sometimes being triggered and having uncomfortable conversations...real break throughs can happen.

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Indeed. The shadow often NEEDS to be strongly stirred up so that we become conscious of it, because without conscious awareness there can be no transformation/healing. However, that is rarely nice feeling and can be downright uncomfortable. Conscious awareness is always the first step in any healing or transformation. Very much a Plutonian type theme and archetype.

What you described in the next reply sounds pretty intense and no surprise that it deals with issues around sexuality and self/other worth when you have Scorpio Moon conjunct Pluto. Speaking as someone who has been with their partner for a fairly long time--at some point, you have to decide, is the ego or hurt, more important than the love, and become vulnerable and very honest. And not just react with a *** for tat type of thing.

Keep in mind that men and women do tend to be wired rather differently on a body/physical level. Unless a man is really intuitive and very in touch with their inner Feminine/Yin side, they often can be pretty clueless to how and why a woman is feeling and reacting as she does. Men often need a certain amount of directness to better understand or even just to perceive something to begin with. Women really do tend to be a lot more intuitive and aware of that side than men.

Sexuality can be a very sore/insecure subject for a lot of men, especially if they are average sized and/or not particularly skilled in pleasuring a woman. They often worry, "am I enough?". It might perhaps been important for you to go there this time, but I really wouldn't make it a habit, because you might really erode his confidence more than it already is, and that can lead to coldness and detachment i.e. an eventual completely lack in interest in intimacy. There are ways to broach the subject and talk about the core issues without doing the above.

You might have to reign in a little of that Aries-Gemini combo impetuousness and directness. Not saying to compromise your authenticity and integrity--still be honest and direct, but perhaps a little more diplomatic and sensitive about things.

In a lot of ways, men, especially emotionally, really are more fragile than women.

posted November 14, 2021 05:38 PM            

We really enjoyed each other's company on the phone today with out any sort of auguring/debating/bickering/etc.

posted November 14, 2021 09:20 PM            

There are things I do not want to get into on here. I will say he completely deserved it. I do not expect anyone to understand only hearing what I said.

I proved my point to him. I did that to make him feel the way he has made me feel.

posted November 19, 2021 11:55 AM            

I also have natal Venus in Cap. Transit Saturn is also conjunct my ascendant.

posted November 19, 2021 04:40 PM            

Women and men have different strengths and weaknesses that tend to complement each other. It has nothing to do with superiority or inferiority. One of the areas of weakness for men is in the areas of emotions/feelings and what some call the heart. In a loose, analogical sense, men's hearts tend to be more brittle and stiff because they tend to not be as open. It is like the willow vs oak in a storm and high winds. The willow is more flexible and will bend, allowing it survive more intense storms, while the rigid and stiff oak may snap and break. Yin vs Yang energy.

As to why men's hearts tend to be more closed, that's a long discussion in and of itself and involves various variables--some genetic, and some cultural. Nobody really truly knows how much exactly of each.

This only speaks to the average person though. Highly evolved Souls/consciousnesses are often more blended/integrated/merged between inner Yin and Yang, and so these issues and principles don't apply as much to them. They have the best of both worlds, with less weakness of either.

Attunement to true Love consciousness has an integrating, unifying, harmonizing, connecting, and synthesizing effect between these polarities. The "older" (more mature) the Soul, the more strongly, purely, and consistently they are attuned to true Love consciousness, and thus the more merged and balanced between Yin and Yang they become.

posted November 19, 2021 04:43 PM            

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Originally posted by manymoones:
Transiting Venus was exact on my natal Sun, and I was promoted!!! I have been working hard for a promotion for years now. So wild to me how it is tied astrologically.

I also have natal Venus in Cap. Transit Saturn is also conjunct my ascendant.

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Sweet, congrats!

posted November 19, 2021 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Hi Stawr, I wasn't trying to make you feel bad or anything, but just giving you a male and long time married perspective. I hope things work out for both of your highest, long term good.

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posted November 19, 2021 09:02 PM            

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Originally posted by manymoones:
Transiting Venus was exact on my natal Sun, and I was promoted!!! I have been working hard for a promotion for years now. So wild to me how it is tied astrologically.

I also have natal Venus in Cap. Transit Saturn is also conjunct my ascendant.

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posted November 20, 2021 07:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
In matters of money (also Ven), money spending may be conserved towards a certain goal of one BIG purchase that'll last and last. It could also suggest repairing something old instead of getting a new one to replace it. Sticking to a budget may come more easily. I also often think that this is a time where one may curb sweet treats/practice restraint there. And their health will thabk them for it.

I have Venus in Cap transiting my 9th,clinging to old beliefs about 9th house matters is where the focus is. It's not a time for me to embrace the new. But appreciate the "tried and tested" belief structures of old.

So this may suggest more conservative views about foreign places/people? Eccentric religious ideas or opinions are not given serious consideration now. Nor is travelling a great thing-except if its to familiar places with old ties or linked to productivity I.e work travel?

When in 10th,being seen as "the benchmark example" is likely(this especially when I have been closely aligned with Cap principles of "integrity", "discipline" and "respnsibility" etc.)

Maybe someone high up will notice me and give me a promotion? A new position or add more benefits to a currently existing one? There could also be a potential for a new job which is either aligned to what i have always wanted (familiar)? Or paying more? 🤔

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NO. Retracting this statement. Venus is now arcing to square my Asc and conjunct Mc.

I went shopping today and everything looked beautiful. I just wanted to buy socks and underwear. But ended up spending so much more.😶

Venus square asc/conj Mc (affecting the angles)opens the wallet.The good thing is that I bought stuff I need (that's the conservative Cap part).

But the thing about "discipline" and "restraint". Not so. I didnt feel the boundaries that I thought I needed to feel when spending the cash.

I also don't want to be alone. I want to be with company.I feel more outgoing and enthused about meeting new people. Plus i have a feeling that my endeavors( when focused on collaboration) will succeed 🤔

posted November 21, 2021 11:07 AM            

I NEED to pick my self up....everything not working out right now is really getting to me.

I cheered up a little last night. I had no idea how badly I needed the change of scenery going xmas shopping.
I bought some new music too. I usually wait and buy songs at the beginning of each much. But damn it I'll take anything that gives me joy right now.