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SleepyDiary
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posted August 25, 2023 08:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You are out of your mind. I spent the MAJORITY of this thread being very respectful to her and informing her of the Aries temperament and how we operate.

You're seeing what you WANT to see because you're determined to be hateful yourself. 💯 You came in here attacking me and calling me names like some unhinged psycho. You definitely know her.

And her post is not a "cry" for help nor a plea for understanding. Stop lying! She completely ignored everything that everyone told her about Aries. Except for the one person who confirmed her bias. So what in the world are you talking about?

Take that gaslighting BS somewhere else. Because you are making NO sense and I will never take you seriously in any way moving forward. You're wasting your time typing. Learn to practice what you preach.


Get out of my thread. I read every reply i got even when i didn’t respond to it. Stawr was the one that understood it fully so i responded to her but i still respect Aries23 and he wasn’t wrong in what he was saying but it wasn’t quite how my situations has been like but i appreciate his insight. Your ego is so big that you delude yourself into thinking when people call you out that they must be close 🤣 I have barely interacted with Mee_chryssa. You are immature, a hypocrite, overtly defensive and your ego is so big you are probably someone that won’t ever really evolve because you are in complete denial of your own shadow side. Probably spent your whole life blaming other people for your own problems and why you acted bad. Very common among narcissists

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posted August 25, 2023 09:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Get out of my thread. I read every reply i got even when i didn’t respond to it. Stawr was the one that understood it fully so i responded to her but i still respect Aries23 and he wasn’t wrong in what he was saying but it wasn’t quite how my situations has been like but i appreciate his insight. Your ego is so big that you delude yourself into thinking when people call you out that they must be close 🤣 I have barely interacted with Mee_chryssa. You are immature, a hypocrite, overtly defensive and your ego is so big you are probably someone that won’t ever really evolve because you are in complete denial of your own shadow side. Probably spent your whole life blaming other people for your own problems and why you acted bad. Very common among narcissists

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Blah, blah AND blah.

PROJECTION.

DEFLECTION.

A total coward you are. Fake as heck. You know the truth.

The more you tell me to "get out" the longer I will stay. 🙂 You don't run sh*t. If you want me to leave - STFU talking to me and your wish shall be granted. Trust, I want nothing more to do with you.

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posted August 25, 2023 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
For someone who doesn't like to fight you certainly came in here combative AF. It was very unnecessary.

lol, I dont have a good Mars energy to fight. I get tired easily. For me the fight is over.

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posted August 25, 2023 09:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
lol, I dont have a good Mars energy to fight. I get tired easily. For me the fight is over.

Fair enough. 👍 Done.

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posted August 25, 2023 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Blah, blah AND blah.

PROJECTION.

DEFLECTION.

A total coward you are. Fake as heck. You know the truth.

The more you tell me to "get out" the longer I will stay. 🙂 You don't run sh*t. If you want me to leave - STFU talking to me and your wish shall be granted. Trust, I want nothing more to do with you.


^This is the one that called me immature and unevolved 🤣The hypocrisy. Atleast i’m not trying to pretend i’m this highly evolved person compared to you. You are right you should stay away from me ✌️ people like you can’t handle my bluntness and i’ll probably poke holes in that fantasy bubble you are living in and hurt your ego. Do yourself a favor and don’t hurt yourself and just keep living in your own made up fantasy bubble where you are all perfect.

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posted August 25, 2023 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
^This is the one that called me immature and unevolved 🤣The hypocrisy. Atleast i’m not trying to pretend i’m this highly evolved person compared to you. You are right you should stay away from me ✌️ people like you can’t handle my bluntness and i’ll probably poke holes in that fantasy bubble you are living in and hurt your ego. Do yourself a favor and don’t hurt yourself and just keep living in your own made up fantasy bubble where you are all perfect.


You are unevolved.
You are immature.
You are a coward.
You are a hypocrite.
You are ALL of these things.

Trying to project YOUR mess onto me isn't going to save you, Ms Libraaa. 💩 Your opinion matters as much to me as yesterday's trash.

Maybe *if* you had more pride in yourself and a healthy ego, you wouldn't be making a fool of yourself like this. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I don't use an Astrology Board as my personal diary to spew negativity all over the place, darling.

There are many good reason why Aries Women don't f**k with you. You *knew* that when you created this silly post. Lol. You're a Drama Queen who starts petty fires then cries "victim" once you get roasted to ASHES. 🔥 It's very obvious. You deserve exactly what you received.

Get. A. Life.

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posted August 25, 2023 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You are unevolved.
You are immature.
You are a coward.
You are a hypocrite.
You are ALL of these things.

Trying to project YOUR mess onto me isn't going to save you, Ms Libraaa. 💩 Your opinion matters as much to me as yesterday's trash.

Maybe *if* you had more pride in yourself and a healthy ego, you wouldn't be making a fool of yourself like this. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I don't use an Astrology Board as my personal diary to spew negativity all over the place, darling.

There are many good reason why Aries Women don't f**k with you. You *knew* that when you created this silly post. Lol. You're a Drama Queen who starts petty fires then cries "victim" once you get roasted to ASHES. 🔥 It's very obvious. You deserve exactly what you received.

Get. A. Life.


You are so deluded i just can’t 🤣 Whatever that will satisfy your ego love you go ahead and believe in it. Protect your bubble

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posted August 27, 2023 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amoranthaniela     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahem moving on from the strange kindergarten fight, and back to the topic...

Aries, as I'm sure others have said, have competitive attitudes, and can be argumentative for the sake of argument. They can get stuck on needing to be right, especially if they lack spirituality. Note, practicing yoga and/or going to church doesn't magically give someone higher perspectives. People can easily regurgitate texts and spiritual practices simply for "status".

Aries also doesn't acknowledge that people are above them (superior in some way), unless that other person dominates them on their terms (with competition or aggression).

Conversely, someone who is genuinely superior in a spiritual fashion actually will never fight the Aries in the way they fight others.

If an Aries goes after you, it's usually because they see you as a threat because of hidden envy due to lack. The immature Aries will always seek external validation, and yet always feels incomplete, due to the fact they are seeking external validation, and the cycle of insanity continues in order for them to temporarily meet their inner needs in the same fashion an addict does. Most of this is an unconscious driving force inside of them.

This usually means that for an Aries, their life will likely be quite difficult as they need to be "tenderized" so that some truths can dawn on them and help them evolve. Typically, although not a hard and fast rule, when Aries reaches the age of 40 maybe 50, is when they finally learn to seek all acceptance and resources from within and lose their excessive need to fight for triviality and their own self deceptions that they spend a large part of their life projecting onto others.

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posted August 27, 2023 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Ahem moving on from the strange kindergarten fight, and back to the topic...

Aries, as I'm sure others have said, have competitive attitudes, and can be argumentative for the sake of argument. They can get stuck on needing to be right, especially if they lack spirituality. Note, practicing yoga and/or going to church doesn't magically give someone higher perspectives. People can easily regurgitate texts and spiritual practices simply for "status".

Aries also doesn't acknowledge that people are above them (superior in some way), unless that other person dominates them on their terms (with competition or aggression).

Conversely, someone who is genuinely superior in a spiritual fashion actually will never fight the Aries in the way they fight others.

If an Aries goes after you, it's usually because they see you as a threat because of hidden envy due to lack. The immature Aries will always seek external validation, and yet always feels incomplete, due to the fact they are seeking external validation, and the cycle of insanity continues in order for them to temporarily meet their inner needs in the same fashion an addict does. Most of this is an unconscious driving force inside of them.

This usually means that for an Aries, their life will likely be quite difficult as they need to be "tenderized" so that some truths can dawn on them and help them evolve. Typically, although not a hard and fast rule, when Aries reaches the age of 40 maybe 50, is when they finally learn to seek all acceptance and resources from within and lose their excessive need to fight for triviality and their own self deceptions that they spend a large part of their life projecting onto others.


This was very insightful and very very true 👍

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posted August 27, 2023 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
Aries men or women have fighting energies because of Mars.

Unless they have other planets and aspects mitigating this Mars energy, they will push other people either emotionally or physically, and they will not respect kindness or fairness as it is foreign to them.

If you are acting all Libra with them, they are not triggered by you, but they will try to run all over you because they perceive you as a push over. Appeasing them won't work. Stand your ground. That is the only way they will respect you. As your opposite, they are teaching you to fight and not be so wishy washy.


What? Oh my god.

This thread really took off.

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posted August 27, 2023 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I’m way too Uranian to be all Libra, trust me. I actually think they are intimidated by strong personalities and that is why i feel they get insecure and competitive. It’s like they want to take down the ‘’top’’ dog or something haha. They wouldn’t have wasted their time competing against someone they see as weak nor would they have gotten insecure from a person like that and to me it’s obvious that insecurity is behind their sudden change of attitudes. Like Stawr said they compare themselves a lot to their friends and it can just kill their social connections because they get way too competitive and a lot of that ‘’ competitiveness’’ is triggered by insecurity in my experience.


This isn’t true at all.

I’ve experienced other people thinking I need to be yeeted out of existence, as soon as I strongly defend something that I believe in, or a boundary of my own. They can respond to my stuff with whatever they like, but I respond to them and disagree more than once? I’m evil. I’m a monster, I must go.

They also thought that they had superior knowledge. They treated me like a threat, and then decided to be cruel, knowing I would likely be hurt enough to leave.

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posted August 27, 2023 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is the ******* competition???

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posted August 27, 2023 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha this is the classic defensiveness of Aries i just can`t. You just can`t for the life of you admit that this Sign has their unappealing traits too. Please do me a favor and stay out of my threads. This wasn`t about you but my experience with them and wanting to understand why they act the way they do and Stawr was the only one that really understood it.


I personally think that *people* have unappealing traits. Not signs. Because we didn’t come out of a factory.

I know my flaws. I don’t like people adding more that aren’t actually there. I know when I’m feeling whatever I’m feeling. If someone is right about something, I’ll acknowledge it. It isn’t that hard!

I’m not mad, but I have things to do.

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posted August 27, 2023 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
It’s not the first time she gets like this with her sign. Like even when it’s a known fact this sign is super competitive and can be very childish she’ll still try to deny it and turn it around and say you are the problem and not them 🤣 I use LL to talk about my problems that is why she’s only seen ‘’negative’’ posts from me. You are allowed to use this site for that too but people like her it seems has a problem with that and therefore they can just stay out of my threads.

That’s something to keep in mind with everyone. I do the same thing, especially if things lined up with transits or progressions. Also, just because you get comfortable talking about things. It can become a habit, including a bad one, for anyone.

I’ve just realized that all of this took place on Friday. I’m out, anyway.

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posted August 27, 2023 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Ahem moving on from the strange kindergarten fight, and back to the topic...

Aries, as I'm sure others have said, have competitive attitudes, and can be argumentative for the sake of argument. They can get stuck on needing to be right, especially if they lack spirituality. Note, practicing yoga and/or going to church doesn't magically give someone higher perspectives. People can easily regurgitate texts and spiritual practices simply for "status".

Aries also doesn't acknowledge that people are above them (superior in some way), unless that other person dominates them on their terms (with competition or aggression).

Conversely, someone who is genuinely superior in a spiritual fashion actually will never fight the Aries in the way they fight others.

If an Aries goes after you, it's usually because they see you as a threat because of hidden envy due to lack. The immature Aries will always seek external validation, and yet always feels incomplete, due to the fact they are seeking external validation, and the cycle of insanity continues in order for them to temporarily meet their inner needs in the same fashion an addict does. Most of this is an unconscious driving force inside of them.

This usually means that for an Aries, their life will likely be quite difficult as they need to be "tenderized" so that some truths can dawn on them and help them evolve. Typically, although not a hard and fast rule, when Aries reaches the age of 40 maybe 50, is when they finally learn to seek all acceptance and resources from within and lose their excessive need to fight for triviality and their own self deceptions that they spend a large part of their life projecting onto others.


Is anyone really superior to other people? Spiritually or otherwise? It really doesn’t look like Aries with the ego here.

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posted August 27, 2023 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DamnThatGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Is anyone really superior to other people? Spiritually or otherwise? It really doesn’t look like Aries with the ego here.

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posted August 28, 2023 03:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
This isn’t true at all.

I’ve experienced other people thinking I need to be yeeted out of existence, as soon as I strongly defend something that I believe in, or a boundary of my own. They can respond to my stuff with whatever they like, but I respond to them and disagree more than once? I’m evil. I’m a monster, I must go.

They also thought that they had superior knowledge. They treated me like a threat, and then decided to be cruel, knowing I would likely be hurt enough to leave.



Have you ever had any experience with Aries outside of yourself? If you had you’ll see. The immature ones can compete about the most silliest of things and often compare themselves to others and be very argumentive. They love to fight, they love to compete and they can be very touchy and defensive. They can ruin their connections because of this.

And this is an Astrological site where you can talk about Astrological signs and every sign has their bad sides whether you like it or not. This sign in my experience can be so competitive to a point where it’s stupid everything doesn’t have to be a competition and everything doesn’t have to turn into a fight. Like they can even treat a discussion like a competition they need to win instead of really trying to listen and understand where the other is coming from. Envy is also very common among the immature ones and their ‘’confidence’’ is often more like arrogance and they get their egos hurt very easily when you are better than them in any way.

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posted August 28, 2023 07:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
That’s something to keep in mind with everyone. I do the same thing, especially if things lined up with transits or progressions. Also, just because you get comfortable talking about things. It can become a habit, including a bad one, for anyone.

I’ve just realized that all of this took place on Friday. I’m out, anyway.


I don’t care. You, me or them don’t get to decide what others want to talk about on this site. I have Scorpio in my 5th and our ‘’hobby’’ can be that we like to get to the core of things and can esp focus a lot on the darker side of people and wanting to get to the bottom of that. I’ve had too many experiences with women of this sign and it’s been the same bs over and over again so i wanted to know what their deal is. I convinced myself it must be because we are opposites and they might get triggered more easily because of that but now i have just come to realize that they can treat everything like some type of competition and the closer they get to you the more they’ll start to compare themselves to you.

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posted August 28, 2023 08:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
maybe we need a special post where we can roast the signs we dont like to get out all the frustration ))) I would roast the air signs. )))

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posted August 28, 2023 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SleepyDiary     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
maybe we need a special post where we can roast the signs we dont like to get out all the frustration ))) I would roast the air signs. )))

Haha trust me the Air signs have been roasted alot on here we are not perfect that`s for sure 🤣 But that would have actually been a fun interesting thread haha 👍

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posted August 28, 2023 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha trust me the Air signs have been roasted alot on here we are not perfect that`s for sure 🤣 But that would have actually been a fun interesting thread haha 👍

I missed the chance to do it )))

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posted August 28, 2023 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amoranthaniela     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Is anyone really superior to other people? Spiritually or otherwise? It really doesn’t look like Aries with the ego here.

Yes. There are people who are superior to others.

You don't go to, for example, an astronaut who's been in space, and tell them that you, who've never been in space that your knowledge is superior to theirs. Many people have knowledge and experiences that are superior. That's a fact.

In terms of spirituality, also yes, there are spiritually superior individuals.

However, if you wish to label people who are greedy, selfish, fearful and generally malevolent, who like to, perhaps, harm kids and puppies, as spiritual, be my guest.


Perhaps you are trying to convey the general right to decency that we all have?

Or perhaps you are thinking in terms of domination? Where others see their alleged superiority as a right to subvert, rather than create harmony? I don't personally consider that any type of superiority, but rather abuse and perversion, that goes back to what I said about "malevolent" people above. They are actually inferior and spiritually lacking.

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posted August 28, 2023 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
looool if u think anyone on this earth is a saint, u havent known anything by now.

every person has problems, its only that some are better at hidding them.

sure some have done more harm than others, but that doesnt mean that you or anyone else is not in the same risk to become that bad.

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posted August 28, 2023 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it must be the mercury retrograde cause this post has turned into a therapist session for Aries, but is at the 1 star therapist in a 3rd world country…

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posted August 28, 2023 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amoranthaniela     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
looool if u think anyone on this earth is a saint, u havent known anything by now.

every person has problems, its only that some are better at hidding them.

sure some have done more harm than others, but that doesnt mean that you or anyone else is not in the same risk to become that bad.


Of course, but I was simply giving that extreme example to make the point. And it still stands true.

And while everyone has issues, the point isn't for anyone to be perfect, but to at least come to know themselves and rise above whatever pain life has caused them, in an attempt to end cycles of hopelessness caused by abuse.

Alas, not everyone gets there, but a few try to learn about themselves, be better, and end cycles of negativity.


And you're right about the retrograde. Not only Mercury, but 7 planets are retrograding, and we have the node in Aries, so Aries is sitting in the hot seat and will feel poked and triggered.

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