posted August 23, 2023 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
What happened?😶

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posted August 23, 2023 03:28 PM            

This is because of Mars energy. And if there is no Mars Sun or Moon. Then there is Sun/Moon midpoint Aries, Mars elevated or Aries Asc etc. In the ones that are considered "difficult" to handle.

It's mostly unintentional. But Mars does tend to dislike niceties for the sake of niceties. And since the social atmosphere is mostly like a dinner party, if you bring a soldier (Mars) into the mix.It kind of upsets the little fantasy "heaven" of polite exchange around the table.

Aries is very candid (this to a point of being rude or even crude).So some people who have more sensitivity towards social etiquette, can find Aries makes them wince and cringe a lot. Because the things they can say can be so cutting or inflammatory (Mars).

All fire sign women (More so Moon and Asc) tend to be this way ime. And since bluntness is expected and accepted from men, with women(however) it can be seen as something very offputting.And if i wasn't fire Asc/Sun and Mars-Moon-Mercury T-square myself, I would also avoid being around people with a sharp tongue (as fire tends to have).

We all absolutely loved Joan Rivers smart mouth (Aries Asc/Moon) as she roasted others and cut through their pretentious celebrity status on "Fashion Police".But who wants to be her friend? 🤷🏿‍♂️.Not with that seemingly tough talking, unsympathetic tongue.

There is am brusqueness that is there. And (admittedly) a tendency to be the firestarter. That's Mars.I think most like an environment where everyone is themselves. Not putting up appearances. And so when they feel they are not getting the "real" you, the Mars acts to dig that "you" out.

It's uncomfortable for the person being dug out. Yes. Nobody wants to expose themselves until THEY are ready. And that's what Aries fails to understand. Many of us like having our clothes on. Aries would like us ALL to be (metaphorically)NAKED. Libra likes to have the undergarment on(at the very least) to conceal the flabs and cellulite.

To quote Downton Abbey(when the Dowager Countess was scolding her daughter) her response was "You know me Mama. I must speak my mind." To which the Dowager responds "Why?No-one else does."

This is something that Aries struggles to learn i.e. not everything that is felt, needs to be said. Not saying some things doesn't make you "fake". It just makes you aware that some things are best off left unsaid. Peace must be nurtured in the long-term. This sometimes means occasional pretension and aligning to social etiquette.

posted August 23, 2023 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Like they will act like they have a problem with me even though i have done literally nothing. This is something i have seen with this placement specifically. Do you think it might come from them being my opposite? Because what i have noticed about myself too is that sometimes when i’m watching an actress on TV that for some reason annoys me with the way she speaks and acts i find out later tends to be an Aries woman, like Alyson Hannigan. But i have also experienced that these women will change up after a while and act all catty all of a sudden even though i have been nothing but nice to them. We never get along for too long and often times they are the ones that brings the negativity around.

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Hey girl. As you know, I'm an Aries. Lol.

Some people just don't mix and that's okay. As that's life. Plain & simple. It's not always personal.

Being catty is not an Aries thing. It's often a Woman thing TBH. And I generally prefer being in the presence of men these days because of it! 🤷🏾‍♀️ I do typically get along with Libra Women. We aren't necessarily "besties" but we usually have fun together and balance each other out. However, I did very recently block & delete a Libra acquaintance who kept forcing her opinions down my throat and sticking her nose too deeply into my Love Life. She projected HER insecurities onto me when I was nothing but kind to her.

So please believe, the pendulum swings both ways. 💯 If you admit that you are regularly annoyed or turned off by Aries Women on TV whom you've NEVER met... is it possible that you carry that energy with you when encountering Aries Women in real life? Because we are going to be able to *smell* the BS on you no matter how hard you try to mask it with your perfume and your Libran charm. 🌷 You don't have to SAY you don't like us we can SENSE it! And we will quickly adjust, flip the script on you and then give you a *real* reason to feel uncomfortable.

I can go from really liking you this week to treating you like you're completely, utterly irrelevant trash the next week *if* you insult my intelligence or get on my BAD SIDE. People who are open, honest and genuine have nothing to worry about. 👍

The dynamic you have with Aries Women is quite similar to the one that I often have with Sagittarius Women. At first - we get along so great. It appears that we will be two peas in a Pod! We're both exciting, bold, blunt Bad B*tches. 🔥 Then... it all goes to SH*T soon after. In my case, most Sag Women become highly competitive in my presence when I was just minding my own damn business. Lol. They'll even try to sabotage me and then have an emotional breakdown when they learn that I give even *LESS* of a f**k than they do.

posted August 23, 2023 11:03 PM            

My fiends who have Aries and Taurus in their chart can compare themselves to their friends, to a point where it's not healthy and stupid...and they can't see how good they have it.

posted August 24, 2023 03:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I'm an Aries...but it is our nature to be competitive...it can lead to social suicide for sure.

My fiends who have Aries and Taurus in their chart can compare themselves to their friends, to a point where it's not healthy and stupid...and they can't see how good they have it.

Aries moon with water sun can make them emotionally impulsive.

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posted August 24, 2023 03:32 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

Some people just don't mix and that's okay. As that's life. Plain & simple. It's not always personal.
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posted August 24, 2023 03:34 AM            

I do like social niceties, I don't like passive-aggressiveness, and that can be a big thing in general with people. I don't want to be pushy - I want people to be comfortable. When it comes to passive-aggression, I'll either take the full brunt, and get it over with, or if someone just wants to keep it up, it's none of my business, until they make it mine.

posted August 24, 2023 10:57 AM            

Unless they have other planets and aspects mitigating this Mars energy, they will push other people either emotionally or physically, and they will not respect kindness or fairness as it is foreign to them.

posted August 24, 2023 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Aries men or women have fighting energies because of Mars.

Unless they have other planets and aspects mitigating this Mars energy, they will push other people either emotionally or physically, and they will not respect kindness or fairness as it is foreign to them.

If you are acting all Libra with them, they are not triggered by you, but they will try to run all over you because they perceive you as a push over. Appeasing them won't work. Stand your ground. That is the only way they will respect you. As your opposite, they are teaching you to fight and not be so wishy washy.

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THIS.

When I think of the dynamic I've had with my Libra Sun friends, I have always encouraged them to know their worth and to set boundaries. 👍 That they can seek harmony while also seeking growth. And they've taught me some things as well.

I'm not triggered by them. Nor jealous in any way.

posted August 24, 2023 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Aries men or women have fighting energies because of Mars.

Unless they have other planets and aspects mitigating this Mars energy, they will push other people either emotionally or physically, and they will not respect kindness or fairness as it is foreign to them.

If you are acting all Libra with them, they are not triggered by you, but they will try to run all over you because they perceive you as a push over. Appeasing them won't work. Stand your ground. That is the only way they will respect you. As your opposite, they are teaching you to fight and not be so wishy washy.

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I’m way too Uranian to be all Libra, trust me. I actually think they are intimidated by strong personalities and that is why i feel they get insecure and competitive. It’s like they want to take down the ‘’top’’ dog or something haha. They wouldn’t have wasted their time competing against someone they see as weak nor would they have gotten insecure from a person like that and to me it’s obvious that insecurity is behind their sudden change of attitudes. Like Stawr said they compare themselves a lot to their friends and it can just kill their social connections because they get way too competitive and a lot of that ‘’ competitiveness’’ is triggered by insecurity in my experience.

posted August 24, 2023 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Yeah but we can go from being friendly with each other to them completely destroying that for no real good reason. I haven’t been fake nor mean and actually been the same since the day they met me so why go from being all cool with me to all of a sudden not when i have been the same. I find them to be triggered because of insecurity and that insecurity is what is usually ruining it. They are very competitive too.

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I hear you. And I'm sure it's frustrating.

You do have a segment of Aries Women that are hyper-competitive. But they are like that in general, not just with you as a Libra Sun. I can think of (2) Arian Women in particular who were insanely jealous of me and I didn't even know! I remember being shocked because I assumed they were just as confident in themselves as I was. 🤷🏾‍♀️ They resorted to some really crazy things in order to "prove" something to me when I wasn't even competing with their dumba$$es . Filled with insecurity. It was absurd! Whenever I encounter an Aries acting like this I think "get TF off of my team, peasant. How dare you disgrace our name like this?!"

One of them - a triple Aries - actually started sobbing when I called her out on this. It was evolved Ram (myself) VS unevolved Lamb (her) and it was very clear. ♈️ Similar to a Scorpio in low-level Scorpion energy VS a Scorpio that has risen like a Phoenix from the ashes and is now an Eagle soaring high. 🔥 Or a mean & miserable imbalanced Libra VS a fully balanced Libra filled with peace & discernment. You get my point.

On average, this has not been my experience with Aries Women though. ♈️ We're usually pretty confident in ourselves and focused on living our best & most exciting life. Unfazed by what the next person is doing. Now when our "compete mode" is genuinely activated? Your a$$ is toast! 🤣 We'll go from fun party girl to morphing into a mix of Athena (Goddess of War) & Buffy The Vampire Slayer in an instant. That much is true.

posted August 24, 2023 01:19 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I’m way too Uranian to be all Libra, trust me. I actually think they are intimidated by strong personalities and that is why i feel they get insecure and competitive. It’s like they want to take down the ‘’top’’ dog or something haha. They wouldn’t have wasted their time competing against someone they see as weak nor would they have gotten insecure from a person like that and to me it’s obvious that insecurity is behind their sudden change of attitudes. Like Stawr said they compare themselves a lot to their friends and it can just kill their social connections because they get way too competitive and a lot of that ‘’ competitiveness’’ is triggered by insecurity in my experience.

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Again, this is not an Aries thing. This is very common amongst Women in general. I've experienced *exactly* what you said with other signs, including Libras.

People with REAL inner strength respect others who also possess the same. 💯 A Warrior doesn't want to be surrounded by Cowards.

You are dealing with some unevolved, pretentious phonies with FAKE bravado. They aren't the real deal.

posted August 24, 2023 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Again, this is not an Aries thing. This is very common amongst Women in general. I've experienced *exactly* what you said with other signs, including Libras.

People with REAL inner strength respect others who possess the same. 💯 A Warrior doesn't want to be surrounded by Cowards.

You are dealing with unevolved, pretentious phonies with FAKE bravado. They aren't the real deal.

Most Aries Women & Men do not enjoy the company of weak, passive Yes-Men. But they also do not take kindly to disrespect or covert competitiveness being thrown their way either.

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posted August 24, 2023 11:05 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:

Nobody is competing with them THEY are the ones that start to act all competitive because they get insecure in my experience.

I did however have an exact opposition from her Saturn to my Venus which i think might be why she was so insecure too.

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Aside from mentioning Saturn being involved, you haven't answered my previous questions.

I understand that this is your experience. And it is valid. 💯 I'm just sharing with you that this particular behavior is not specific to Aries Women just because you personally don't mesh with most of them. It's a matter of mature VS immature. And overall synastry - not Sun Signs.

posted August 25, 2023 03:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Yeah my one friend who is an Aries rising(Taurus Sun, Gemini Moon)...lashed out on her now husband because I was in a long distance relationship and we were on the phone a long time. All she could see was that we talk longer on the phone than she does with her man. She could not see that she got to physically be with him multiple times a week. Unlike my relationship.

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posted August 25, 2023 03:39 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Aside from mentioning Saturn being involved, you haven't answered my previous questions.

I understand that this is your experience. And it is valid. 💯 I'm just sharing with you that this particular behavior is not specific to Aries Women just because you personally don't mesh with most of them. It's a matter of mature VS immature. And overall synastry - not Sun Signs.

I'm not very compatible with Virgo Suns but I would never go around insinuating that they're ALL insecure & jealous of me just because they aren't *my* cup of tea. That would be silly.

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posted August 25, 2023 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I thought it was interesting since this is the Sign i have experienced this the most from esp with the Suns and they happen to be my opposite too and opposites signs can trigger each other easier, but i don’t walk around thinking all them are jealous of me haha. But now after hearing from Stawr and her experiences too i don’t think it’s bc we are opposites anymore but more so that they are just very competitive. It is afterall the most competitive sign of the Zodiac, but sometimes they use their competitive sides and can get jealous over the most silliest of things.

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So because (1) person confirmed your experience that means that every Aries Woman is going to be competitive with you over "nothing"? If that's how you wish to roll... have at it. 🤷🏾‍♀️ If you put negative energy or expectations out there, that is surely what you will receive back in return.

posted August 25, 2023 06:21 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
So because (1) person confirmed your experience that means that every Aries Woman is going to be competitive with you over "nothing"? If that's how you wish to roll... have at it. 🤷🏾‍♀️ If you put negative energy or expectations out there, that is surely what you will receive back in return.

Just do yourself (and Aries Women) a favor and stop trying to befriend them. Problem solved. 👍 Competition gone.

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Haha this is the classic defensiveness of Aries i just can`t. You just can`t for the life of you admit that this Sign has their unappealing traits too. Please do me a favor and stay out of my threads. This wasn`t about you but my experience with them and wanting to understand why they act the way they do and Stawr was the only one that really understood it.

posted August 25, 2023 06:50 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha this is the classic defensiveness of Aries i just can`t. You just can`t for the life of you admit that this Sign has their unappealing traits too. Please do me a favor and stay out of my threads. This wasn`t about you but my experience with them and wanting to understand why they act the way they do and Stawr was the only one that really understood it.

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No. The rest of us FULLY understood your post and saw straight through you. 💯 We *know* Aries has flaws. The fact that you just flipped and got all nasty with me and demanded that I "stay out of your threads" when you & I have been very friendly with each other leading up to this - shows me that it's YOU who is the problem. NOT the Aries Women. Just as I suspected.

That's why you didn't answer my questions.

That's why you've ignored every logical explanation that I've given you.

That's why you skipped over Aries23's response when you usually are quick to agree with *everything* that he says. He doesn't hate Aries Energy enough for you.

Your post has ARIES in the title, dear. ♈️ So I answered you respectfully as an Aries Woman. So why are you so triggered? You don't want to hear different perspectives, that's why. You just want to confirm YOUR irrational bias. Almost every post that you create has *some* type of negative undertone and stereotype behind it. Maybe do some self-reflection instead of continuously projecting outwards.

The defensive one here is you.

I'm so not mad. So not jealous. So NOT competing with you girl. Best of luck to you. 👍

posted August 25, 2023 07:01 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
wow, lovely aries… back off

aries energy is competitive and period… I dont know why you lash at her because you dont want to accept this … clearly not everyone is equipped to manage this energy and is no ones fault

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LOL

If you aren't equipped to handle it, then stay away from it. Don't keep your hand over a fire and then cry about getting burned. 🔥 What sense does that make?