posted August 29, 2023 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha no wonder Aries/Mars probably feels a lot more "home" to you since you are an Aries with strong mars energy than it does to me where it gets more complicated since they are my opposite too. I get along better with other signs with mars energy than i do Aries women. But i know you are never gonna see my viewpoint because the only thing you got from my thread was me saying the bs usually comes from them and then turned this into whole competition about who`s better than who.

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I was sincerely trying to explain the Aries temperament to you and why they may be clashing with you. Not every Aries is competitive for the sake of being competitive - although they are experts at competition & combat. ♈️ That's why I asked you questions to probe deeper and get to the bottom of it.

I never stated that Aries didn't have flaws.

I'm willing to see someone else's viewpoint. So long as they are capable of extending me the same courtesy. 👍 It must be a two-way street.

While I do have strong Mars Energy, I'm also very Venusian. 🌷 Being a Libra ASC with 7H Sun and having Taurus Venus as my Chart Ruler - I do understand the essence of Venus. As I mentioned earlier, I'm not usually besties with Libras. But I'm also not constantly clashing with them either. Some Libra Women friends I've had may (or may not) feel a bit put off by my bluntness, but they like me overall and don't feel a sense of competition with me just because I'm an Aries.

You possess a different variation of some of the *same* energies that I have - being a Libra Sun with Mars in the 1st. 💪 We are both also Cancer-influened women. 🌙 My Moon is conjunct my MC & square my ASC. My best friend of 20+ years was a Cancer Sun! The relative that I trust the most with my life is a Cancer Sun. They definitely have their flaws. But I don't hate them. If a Cancer is filled with toxicity and is constantly resorting to extreme manipulation tho - I simply cut them loose. And wish them the best. 👌

posted August 29, 2023 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Yeah but she’s not using her mars that well she still hangs around in a thread of someone she thinks is really immature just to prove that she and her viewpoints are right. I lit a fire in her just for simply disagreeing with her and when i told her to leave she became even more immature and started cussing all over the place. It might be because her Mars is badly aspected.

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Your perception of this is all off.

I came at you (initially) because you disrespected me and were rude when I wasn't rude to you. I gave you the same energy that you gave to me. 🤷🏾‍♀️

And I'm replying now because my name was brought up. Which is natural.

You immediately think the worst with all Aries Women. And don't wanna take any accountability for your part. That's why you keep encountering tension with us.

I wasn't competing with you. That's all in your head.

You were *seeking* to "light a fire" - wanting to prove that you are just as "strong" (1H Mars) to yet another Aries Sun rubbing you the wrong way by not going along to get along. Period.

posted August 29, 2023 01:35 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I was sincerely trying to explain the Aries temperament to you and why they may be clashing with you. Not every Aries is competitive for the sake of being competitive - although they are experts at competition & combat. ♈️ That's why I asked you questions to probe deeper and get to the bottom of it.

I never stated that Aries didn't have flaws.

I'm willing to see someone else's viewpoint. So long as they are capable of extending me the same courtesy. 👍 It must be a two-way street.

While I do have strong Mars Energy, I'm also very Venusian. 🌷 Being a Libra ASC with 7H Sun and having Taurus Venus as my Chart Ruler - I do understand the essence of Venus. As I mentioned earlier, I'm not usually besties with Libras. But I'm also not constantly clashing with them either. Some Libra Women friends I've had may (or may not) feel a bit put off by my bluntness, but they like me overall and don't feel a sense of competition with me just because I'm an Aries.

You possess a different variation of some of the *same* energies that I have - being a Libra Sun with Mars in the 1st. 💪 We are both also Cancer-influened women. 🌙 My Moon is conjunct my MC & square my ASC. My best friend of 20+ years was a Cancer Sun! The relative that I trust the most with my life is a Cancer Sun. They definitely have their flaws. But I don't hate them. If a Cancer is filled with toxicity and is constantly resorting to extreme manipulation - I simply cut them loose. And wish them the best. 👌

So I operate the same across the board with people who have similar energies to me. That appears to be the difference between you & myself.

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Yeah but you kept telling me i might have acted fake or something which i kept saying no to. You know us Cancer moons we are bad at faking it and we love to be kind and we love kindness. These women as brought the negativity around and the only thing i can think of that might trigger them is my outspokeness and when they get envious of something. I didn’t like that we got all mean with each other and you were my friend on here Lovely and i think we could have been real good friends in person because of our mutual Cancer and Libra influence. I just get really passionate when i’m frustrated and this situation with this Aries girl had just occured when i made this thread.

posted August 29, 2023 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Your perception of this is all off.

I came at you (initially) because you disrespected me and were rude when I wasn't rude to you. I gave you the same energy that you gave to me. 🤷🏾‍♀️

And I'm replying now because my name was brought up. Which is natural.

You immediately think the worst with all Aries Women. And don't wanna take any accountability for your part. That's why you keep encountering tension with us.

I wasn't competing with you. That's all in your head.

You were *seeking* to "light a fire" - wanting to prove that you are just as "strong" (1H Mars) to yet another Aries Sun rubbing you the wrong way by not going along to get along. Period.

My Mars is positively aspected. And does what needs to be done.

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I do because of my experiences. But you are right i came at you wrong because i was really angry at this other Aries girl, i apologize. You didn’t deserve it

posted August 29, 2023 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Yeah but you kept telling me i might have acted fake or something which i kept saying no to. You know us Cancer moons we are bad at faking it and we love to be kind and we love kindness. These women as brought the negativity around and the only thing i can think of that might trigger them is my outspokeness and when they get envious of something. I didn’t like that we got all mean with each other and you were my friend on here Lovely and i think we could have been real good friends in person because of our mutual Cancer and Libra influence. I just get really passionate when i’m frustrated and this situation with this Aries girl had just occured when i made this thread.

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You know I get it. 🌙

Had you mentioned to me that you just had a situation with an Aries girl and were really hurt by it... I would've been understanding of that. 👍 And a bit more tender.

posted August 29, 2023 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I do because of my experiences. But you are right i came at you wrong because i was really angry at this other Aries girl, i apologize. You didn’t deserve it

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Thank you Sleepy. 💜 I greatly appreciate your apology.

I didn't intend for it to get so nasty. But when I'm being attacked I'm not holding back for sh*t. That's Mars for you!

posted August 29, 2023 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
I swear that I'm so glad to see you two back that I almost cried. This is so cute.

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posted August 29, 2023 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Thank you Sleepy. 💜 I greatly appreciate your apology.

I didn't intend for it to get so nasty. But when I'm being attacked I'm not holding back for sh*t. That's Mars for you!

Regardless of Zodiac Sign, I can't stand women who are competitive over dumb things or who pull drama out of thin air. 💯 So if that's what this Aries girl was doing... push her into a pool next time LOL

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Glad you forgive me 🥰

It’s exactly what she’s doing and i would love to do that to her haha.

posted August 29, 2023 02:17 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Yours is exalted. I liked how you didn't back out from here hahahaha. I started to notice the exalted mars since I have a weak mars in my chart. Gemini and its ruler is in Aries. Anxiety all over the place when I get into a conflict. I had to take some therapy sessions to learn to control it and my therapist has Mars in Capricorn. She said to me "dont leave, just stay there and see what happens" and thats how Mars in Capricorn acts. Most often, you don't have to do anything. Just to stay foot and it resolves itself.

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Thank you. 🙂

If you don't stand your ground people will walk ALL over you. It's just a fact of Life.

And we have to know when to preserve our energy as well.

I cannot stand Bullies. Nor Cowards.

posted August 29, 2023 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Glad you forgive me 🥰

It’s exactly what she’s doing and i would love to do that to her haha.

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posted August 30, 2023 07:57 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Is she a new friend? Or someone you've known for a while?

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posted August 30, 2023 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I have known her for a while but we aren’t close we got to know each other because we were neighboors so most of our interactions were friendly so i don’t know what her deal is, but i don’t care anymore people like her creep me out with how they can behave, haha.

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Yeah that's super annoying when people flip like that out of nowhere. Just ignore her from now on.

posted August 30, 2023 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
I'm sure it's not just you. Aries are annoyed and triggered by almost everything and everyone.

(Aries Mercury here, right on Su/Mo midpoint)

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posted August 30, 2023 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Yeah that's super annoying when people flip like that out of nowhere. Just ignore her from now on.

I sincerely do not relate to the Aries People who do this kind of sh*t. Don't lump me in with them. Lol.

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I WILL ✌️

posted August 30, 2023 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I WILL ✌️

And i never did lump you in i actually thought of you more of a Cancerian for some reason, I must be blinded by our mutual influences because i completely forgot that you were an Aries when i made this thread, haha 🙈

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Too funny LOL

Makes sense in a way though. The Moon is my favorite planet! 🌕 And a highly dominant influence in my chart. I even have a small tattoo representing the Waxing Crescent Moon Phase that I was born under. 🌙 Tonight is actually a ~FULL MOON~ so I will be meditating on my affirmations shortly.

🎵🎵 MOONLIGHT 🎵🎵 http://youtu.be/8F7Q-4PZCjA?si=LNNy1Xp-NfFZ7NO3

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posted September 01, 2023 09:15 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Like they will act like they have a problem with me even though i have done literally nothing. This is something i have seen with this placement specifically. Do you think it might come from them being my opposite? Because what i have noticed about myself too is that sometimes when i’m watching an actress on TV that for some reason annoys me with the way she speaks and acts i find out later tends to be an Aries woman, like Alyson Hannigan. But i have also experienced that these women will change up after a while and act all catty all of a sudden even though i have been nothing but nice to them. We never get along for too long and often times they are the ones that brings the negativity around.

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posted September 03, 2023 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by DamnThatGirl:
Too funny LOL

Makes sense in a way though. The Moon is my favorite planet! 🌕 And a highly dominant influence in my chart. I even have a small tattoo representing the Waxing Crescent Moon Phase that I was born under. 🌙 Tonight is actually a ~FULL MOON~ so I will be meditating on my affirmations shortly.

🎵🎵 MOONLIGHT 🎵🎵 http://youtu.be/8F7Q-4PZCjA?si=LNNy1Xp-NfFZ7NO3

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*BTW - this is my new profile! 🙂 So I'll be going back and forth between this one and LovelyAries.

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Thanks for letting me know 😊

posted September 03, 2023 01:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
if they're annoying you on tv then aren't you the one who's triggered?

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posted September 19, 2023 11:53 AM            

The best - put Aries into action to go after problems, not to create them.