posted August 28, 2023 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Of course, but I was simply giving that extreme example to make the point. And it still stands true.

And while everyone has issues, the point isn't for anyone to be perfect, but to at least come to know themselves and rise above whatever pain life has caused them, in an attempt to end cycles of hopelessness caused by abuse.

Alas, not everyone gets there, but a few try to learn about themselves, be better, and end cycles of negativity.

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posted August 28, 2023 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Yes. There are people who are superior to others….

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I don’t think that anybody is going to argue that someone can’t be better at a thing than another person. But that is about skills and talents not about your value as a human being. An athlete is superior to a disabled person in physical strength, a physics professor is superior to a hairdresser in mathematics. But are they “better” human beings?

posted August 28, 2023 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Back on topic, it’s always wise to look at your own chart to see what is triggering you. It’s usually a two way street. Why does their reaction make you feel like they’re triggered?

Aries is Mars ruled, and their reactions can come off more brash and rude than intended. Especially to people with a strong Venus who value diplomacy and harmony. But are they really “triggered” or just a bit too rough for your taste?

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posted August 28, 2023 06:15 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Back on topic, it’s always wise to look at your own chart to see what is triggering you. It’s usually a two way street. Why does their reaction make you feel like they’re triggered?

Aries is Mars ruled, and their reactions can come off more brash and rude than intended. Especially to people with a strong Venus who value diplomacy and harmony. But are they really “triggered” or just a bit too rough for your taste?

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posted August 28, 2023 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
I don’t think that anybody is going to argue that someone can’t be better at a thing than another person. But that is about skills and talents not about your value as a human being. An athlete is superior to a disabled person in physical strength, a physics professor is superior to a hairdresser in mathematics. But are they “better” human beings?

And you can be a person that has “better” morals than another person, but that still doesn’t mean that the other person is less of a human being. Even if their behavior suggests otherwise. Because that reasoning is a very slippery road. This will get you into discussions related to race supremacy, slavery, elitism and genocide. We are the “civilized” ones, the others are “savages”. We are superior to them, we need to submit them and re-educate them, to make them see the error of their ways… This is why we have laws but also human rights.

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posted August 29, 2023 02:31 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Because it has been obvious. The men i have found to be a bit too rough while the women has been triggered.

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I’m a Libra Rising and there have been plenty of Aries in my life. My best friend has her Aries Sun on my descendant. Does her behavior make me shake my head every once in a while? Yes, she can be incredibly impulsive and distracted by new “shiny objects”. She sometimes makes me uncomfortable but that’s a lesson for me too. I’m very Venusian and I can get too passive if I don’t get the occasional “kick in the butt”. She has a heart of gold and we go back a long time. We know how to handle each other and appreciate our differences.

If you notice an Aries getting triggered, you can try and ask them about it. If there’s one sign that appreciates directness, it’s Aries. As a Libra that’s a challenging thing, but maybe this is why you meet these women. There are bad apples everywhere, so you’re bound to run into the occasional unevolved Aries as well. If you keep attracting them, the universe might be trying to teach you something. It could be about challenging your own approach to certain situations or maybe it’s about the kind of people you choose to surround yourself with.

posted August 29, 2023 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Yes I see, and I already clarified that.

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posted August 29, 2023 02:54 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
I don’t think that anybody is going to argue that someone can’t be better at a thing than another person. But that is about skills and talents not about your value as a human being. An athlete is superior to a disabled person in physical strength, a physics professor is superior to a hairdresser in mathematics. But are they “better” human beings?

And you can be a person that has “better” morals than another person, but that still doesn’t mean that the other person is less of a human being. Even if their behavior suggests otherwise. Because that reasoning is a very slippery road. This will get you into discussions related to race supremacy, slavery, elitism and genocide. We are the “civilized” ones, the others are “savages”. We are superior to them, we need to submit them and re-educate them, to make them see the error of their ways… This is why we have laws but also human rights.

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Thank you. This is what I meant, I just wasn't in the mood to expand on it any further.

I wasn't going to come back to the thread, I just got curious, because my anxiety was playing up a bit.

I appreciate directness, but it doesn't have to be blunt. I've become more than way, in recent years, but I try not to. Sometimes I wonder if someone was especially triggered by me, because they didn't expect me to disagree with them so much, but we'd never talked politics until 2020 - and that wouldn't explain the way they've acted since. We triggered each other, but I don't go on to think they're evil, and to try to get rid of them. This has happened a few times, the most hurtful being my sister, who tried to get me thrown out of our home. Scorched earth capricorn, standing up for someone who repeatedly caused trouble between us.

posted August 29, 2023 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
I’m a Libra Rising and there have been plenty of Aries in my life. My best friend has her Aries Sun on my descendant. Does her behavior make me shake my head every once in a while? Yes, she can be incredibly impulsive and distracted by new “shiny objects”. She sometimes makes me uncomfortable but that’s a lesson for me too. I’m very Venusian and I can get too passive if I don’t get the occasional “kick in the butt”. She has a heart of gold and we go back a long time. We know how to handle each other and appreciate our differences.

If you notice an Aries getting triggered, you can try and ask them about it. If there’s one sign that appreciates directness, it’s Aries. As a Libra that’s a challenging thing, but maybe this is why you meet these women. There are bad apples everywhere, so you’re bound to run into the occasional unevolved Aries as well. If you keep attracting them, the universe might be trying to teach you something. It could be about challenging your own approach to certain situations or maybe it’s about the kind of people you choose to surround yourself with.

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I think i attract them because of my fire Venus (the types of women you might end up dealing with) and I have no problem being direct i do have Mars on my Asc but like i said earlier it’s like they are triggered by other strong personalities esp of the same gender. I am very outspoken and have strong opinions and in my experience they can also get jealous over the most silliest of things which gets really irritating. But i think Mee_chryssa was right about this sign not being so great in the Moon or Venus because i checked a few of them and it turn out that they had more than one personal planet in Aries or they had hard Moon-Mars aspects.

posted August 29, 2023 05:52 AM            

you can’t walk in life without Mars being noticed on the ASC. And Mars aspects the 7th house from there, its involved directly in ur relationships.

posted August 29, 2023 06:30 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:

you can’t walk in life without Mars being noticed on the ASC. And Mars aspects the 7th house from there, its involved directly in ur relationships.

you have very strong Mars energy and Mars is a lot more powerful than the signs Aries and Scorpio.

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Might be so. I have said it already i think they are triggered by strong personalities and i think they sense this in me and therefore i trigger this competitive nature in them. I have certainly dealt with Marsian types aswell as the Sign Aries.

posted August 29, 2023 06:38 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Might be so. I have said it already i think they are triggered by strong personalities and i think they sense this in me and therefore i trigger this competitive nature in them. I have certainly dealt with Marsian types aswell as the Sign Aries.

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posted August 29, 2023 07:13 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
you both trigger one another. we attract similar energies in our lives. I have Saturn on the DC. The people I love th most have Saturn conjunct Sun or Venus. Usually, ruler of 5th in the ASC is a very good ign, but I dont know how it is when it is a malefic.

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posted August 29, 2023 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
yeah, dont pay attention to them…. theres no other way…

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posted August 29, 2023 10:36 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
in ur case, its about Mars energy, not Aries the sign. having a strong aspect on ASC is bringing Mars experiences in ur life. Lovely Aries has Mars opp Moon so its no wonder that she reacted.

you probably have people in ur life that have a stringa aspect from mars to personal planets.

And again, planetary influence has nothing to do with the signs they rule. The signs are childs play comparing to the planets.

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
you both trigger one another. we attract similar energies in our lives. I have Saturn on the DC. The people I love th most have Saturn conjunct Sun or Venus.

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In addition to having Moon opposite Mars, I also have Mars square ASC.

And Pluto in the 1st. Trine Moon & MC.

I love Scorpionic/Plutonian Energy. 🔥 In others, in synastry and within myself.

I also like Mars/Aries Energy as well. 💪 Do I enjoy certain placements of it better than others? Oh yes, definitely. 💯 But I don't constantly find myself clashing with people who possess similar energy as me like OP does. We usually have mutual respect for each other. So I don't relate.

One can essentially embrace their own essence. Or shun it. Depends on the individual.

You mentioned having 7H Saturn and loving Saturnian types. Makes sense. I have 7H Sun and I adore Leo types! ☀️ Attract them often. So I get it.

posted August 29, 2023 10:53 AM            

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In addition to having Moon opposite Mars, I also have Mars square ASC.

And Pluto in the 1st. Trine Moon & MC.

I love Scorpionic/Plutonian Energy. 🔥 In others, in synastry and within myself.

I also like Mars/Aries Energy as well. 💪 Do I enjoy certain placements of it better than others? Oh yes, definitely. 💯 But I don't constantly find myself clashing with people who possess similar energy as me like OP does. We usually have mutual respect for each other. So I don't relate.

One can essentially embrace their own essence. Or shun it. Depends on the individual.

You mentioned having 7H Saturn and loving Saturnian types. Makes sense. I have 7H Sun and I adore Leo types! ☀️ Attract them often. So I get it.

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posted August 29, 2023 12:04 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
In addition to having Moon opposite Mars, I also have Mars square ASC.

And Pluto in the 1st. Trine Moon & MC.

I love Scorpionic/Plutonian Energy. 🔥 In others, in synastry and within myself.

I also like Mars/Aries Energy as well. 💪 Do I enjoy certain placements of it better than others? Oh yes, definitely. 💯 But I don't constantly find myself clashing with people who possess similar energy as me like OP does. We usually have mutual respect for each other. So I don't relate.

One can essentially embrace their own essence. Or shun it. Depends on the individual.

You mentioned having 7H Saturn and loving Saturnian types. Makes sense. I have 7H Sun and I adore Leo types! ☀️ Attract them often. So I get it.

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posted August 29, 2023 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Yours is exalted. I liked how you didn't back out from here hahahaha. I started to notice the exalted mars since I have a weak mars in my chart. Gemini and its ruler is in Aries.

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posted August 29, 2023 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
She didn’t back out because she needs to ‘’win’’ very typical Aries energy not because of her exalted Mars. And Gemini’s tends to like discussions so no wonder you enjoyed it.

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They are good fighters. They know when to act or when not to act. And it's very important to not back out from a fight because of fear. I only fought 3 times in my life, like physical fights. And this was just to defend myself because I was constantly being bullied by some girls. When they took it to the next level and wanted to fight me physical violence, that's when I fought back. What you think happened? I put them to the ground and kept them there for a while. They never did anything to me again. I didn't beat them or anything, just kept them there to the ground.

Sometimes, you have to fight. You have to show it. Cause there are people that have a special smell for weakness.

It's not the Aries that you have problems with, but with Mars in general... Anyone that has strong aspects from Mars could recognize your own Mars and come to you with their own things...

posted August 29, 2023 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
They are good fighters. They know when to act or when not to act.

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posted August 29, 2023 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Yeah but she’s not using her mars that well she still hangs around in a thread of someone she thinks is really immature just to prove that she and her viewpoints are right. I lit a fire in her just for simply disagreeing with her and when i told her to leave she became even more immature and started cussing all over the place. It might be because her Mars is badly aspected.

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posted August 29, 2023 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
you have mars opposite each others mars, sooo..... this speaks for itself.

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