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From: aspideronmars
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posted June 27, 2009 04:45 PM         

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LOL @condom on a strap on hahahahahahaha

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posted June 27, 2009 04:46 PM         

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TRUST ME, I know the consequences of just saying "eff it, let's bone".

Yeah, me too, this morning I had a shower and there was a Lego Star Wars ship lying around my feet.

And can one of the men please tell me at what age little boys stop talking loudly about their gentialia in public places? It's going to be a depressing answer, like 70 or something.

I just had to let that out there, sorry, back to contraception.

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posted June 27, 2009 06:37 PM         

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future_uncertain..

Oh do I know what you mean. I have not been with Bear the Leo since November 27, 2008.. the day he deployed to Iraq. I only have less than 2 months before I get to see him on R&R and then he's gone again for another few months.

Yes... I am taking everything sexually LOL... I even look at some of the German rolls and call them "man member bread" LOL...

Ugh.... It has been 7 months.. Boo.. booo....hiss hiss LOL

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posted June 27, 2009 07:20 PM         

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, geesh! How do you do it? Or, rather, how do you not do it? I can't imagine how difficult it must be to be in your situation.

So how long do the two of you stay locked in together when he gets home?! I can't imagine you go out for much at first.

I feel for ya!

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posted June 27, 2009 08:40 PM         

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Why would someone put a condom on a strap-on? Some do because they're REALLY concerned about infections.

I don't (I have "different toys" for when I want to make sure "some don't mix ground" and I'm good about cleaning them after use anyway).

I don't know how what I said could be construed as saying putting condoms on strap-ons either, especially as I said I prefer them to a penis with a condom (ie, the condom itself is what's so aggravating), though I get the impression that's how at least one person understood it...which just baffles me.

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posted June 27, 2009 08:52 PM         

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Condoms on dildos/strap-ons are a very sensible idea. Most of these sex toys are made of a material that can harbour bacteria.

The most hygenic material to use is glass and is fast becoming a popular style of dildo to use.

Sadly, even blood tests cannot detect genital warts for every individual. It is this HPV that is responsible for giving women cervical cancer.

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Overall, it is estimated that 75% of sexually active men and women have been exposed to HPV at some point in their lives.

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http://cme.medscape.com/viewarticle/508691

I don't want to burst anyone's bubble or condom, but there's a responsibility that goes with having unprotected sex.

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posted June 27, 2009 10:43 PM         

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Ok, Dervish... I got ya now. I did read that wrong.

I'm sorry if I offended you-- I was only having a bit of fun with a fun topic, although there is certainly a serious side here, too.

One more question while I've already got my foot in my mouth-- am I correct in assuming you're female?

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posted June 27, 2009 10:53 PM         

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Why on earth would you put a condom on a strap-on?

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Hey! Don't knock it 'til you try it.

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posted June 27, 2009 10:55 PM         

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If you're gonna do it - do it right.

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posted June 28, 2009 02:36 AM         

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Not offended, just baffled, and wondering what else I thought I was clear on that people could misread.

Yes, I'm female.

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posted June 28, 2009 03:00 AM         

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I agree on what's been said earlier- condom sex is better than no sex.

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Every night and every morn,
Some to misery are born;
Every morn and every night,
Some are born to sweet delight.
Some are born to sweet delight,
Some are born to endless night.
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posted June 28, 2009 05:01 AM         

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No way about condom sex being better than no sex. What's the point, exactly??
I never put a condom on my strap-ons with my ex-lovers (and never thought to. That would be weirdly super paranoid. Sorry. If I need THAT much protection against you, I'm not going to have you in my bed lol)

I hate how sanitized sex is becoming...rubber genitals, hands, disinfected everything...how the hell do you call that intimate? I'm sorry, I don't get it.

You want to be 'safe'?
Have better judgment.
It amazes me that people don't rely on their own good judgment anymore. Besides, none of us are ever safe. Yeah, I know that's general, but it is the truth. Every time you screw someone, you're at risk. Period. Put on a condom or don't have sex. Or do, and risk it. And for the record, Lara is right. My sister and brother were conceived through condoms, soooo.... LOL

You guys can keep your hand sanitizers and rubbery rubber things lol. To each his/her own, I guess.

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posted June 28, 2009 05:11 AM         

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I just thought that some people might need condoms.

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Every night and every morn,
Some to misery are born;
Every morn and every night,
Some are born to sweet delight.
Some are born to sweet delight,
Some are born to endless night.

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posted June 28, 2009 06:01 AM         

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What? Doesn't everyone scrub their partner's erect penis with Ajax before sex?

Really?

What's wrong with you people. Maybe it's just my Pluto in Virgo in 6th.

I put the condoms in the dishwasher after use. They feel softer the next time.

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posted June 28, 2009 06:13 AM         

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Actually, quite seriously for a moment, in truth, you NEVER know where your partner has been - no matter how long you've known them. They don't know where they've been either - because they don't necessarily know where their previous partners have been (unless someone is a virgin, of course).

So, you don't know where anyone has been or what they've done or do. Condoms aren't nice - they don't feel nice - and I don't think many people actually like them - but they really are a necessity for casual sex situations and with longer term partners until you've had the relevant tests and clear results.

It's ignorant to think that it's okay to go without condoms because the person looks healthy or clean or because you've known them for a certain amount of time.

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posted June 28, 2009 06:13 AM         

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This is what I wore to the prom. Sorry about the huge pic. I'm too lazy to crop.

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posted June 28, 2009 06:16 AM         

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That's brilliant Deux

I'm guessing that this is the before shot, because I imagine that during the course of the evening, people would have been coming up and, well, you know, plucking, so to speak.

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posted June 28, 2009 06:22 AM         

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PA

But I didn't get chosen as prom queen, someone had a better gown.

I'm not keen on getting married but if ever I do I already know what to wear.

Sorry Valus for hijacking.

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posted June 28, 2009 06:38 AM         

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and some time later........ the groom was seen preparing for the wedding night.

See..... condoms really are useful on strap ons. Doubters!

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posted June 28, 2009 06:39 AM         

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Don't forget the instruction manual Deux

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posted June 28, 2009 06:40 AM         

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Valus

Err.... yeah.... sorry. It is on-thread though. Well, it is!

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posted June 28, 2009 06:44 AM         

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Deux

I'm really sorry you didn't get voted as Prom Queen and missed out on the crown. Yeah, that's pretty traumatic. I don't know how you cope.

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posted June 28, 2009 08:57 AM         

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I don't think condoms are all out horrible-- at least I don't think they negate connection. There is more than just genital to genital connection happening during sex. I've had close, intimate encounters while using condoms. I don't use birth control pills, and before we were married, if my husband and I wanted to have sex while I was ovulating, we would use a condom. I actually felt that being responsible together promoted intimacy.

Sure, the skin to skin contact is infinitely better, but I don't think condoms are so horrible that I would forgo sex.

Hubby on the other hand would generally disagree...

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posted June 28, 2009 08:59 AM         

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I guess he would say that's what bj's are for!

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posted June 28, 2009 10:12 AM         

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I love the way condoms are so versatile!!!! You can stretch them, craft them, tie them, blow them up, turn them into pretty dresses!!!

I love condoms!!!!

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