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Topic: My Response
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D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 09:56 AM
Bunnies, you said: quote: Nobody ever really knows anyone.
Quite a nice point, Bunnies. D
------------------ Every night and every morn, Some to misery are born; Every morn and every night, Some are born to sweet delight. Some are born to sweet delight, Some are born to endless night. ~William Blake - At best, they take your good intentions for granted; At worst, they use your good intentions against you. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 508 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 03:54 PM
OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG shut up already you say you dont care about lara and that you are ignoring her every move and keeping away from her threads. this does not look like your trying to ignore her. diana get over yourself . the thread was made a few days ago how did you not see it. and you say that your not obsessed with her and dont like her then why the hell are you starting a thread about her when clearly she says she does not want to talk to you. and you say the same thing you dont like her well get over it already and stop wasting valuable thread space **** . stop holding on to things let go of grudges it will consume like it is doing now because you dont seem to stop with lara lara lara. and diana you are entiled to your opinions and i respect that we understand you have a problem with her its fine but can you please try and ignore her for real so we can talk about astrology and elements and all that good stuff. i just feel sorry for you because you seem like a goood person .p.s lara sorry for having too bring your name up in this **** i just had to say it cause i am getting sick of all this you know what i mean. peace out. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 393 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 04:27 PM
D for Defiant:I did not "start" in the MJ thread. I am posting a link to where I entered the discussion. Lara got obnoxious with me first, so I responded in kind. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/201373-6.html I don't feel like quoting piecemeal, but I simply said that everyone is entitled to their opinion. Then I mentioned the PM thing and Lara said PM was worse than MJ. I simply asked why. That's when it started. I did not go into it because I had a *grudge* against Lara. I saw the movie "Dead Man Walking." It made me sick to my stomach. He was a typical psychopath, who wasn't really sorry, imo, but was sorry and scared he had to die. If he were let out, he would've most likely raped again. Recidivism for rape is almost certain. Another thing that is certain about sexual offenders is their cowardice. Even Ted Bundy cried like a baby when they sent him to his death penalty. They ALL do this. Psychopaths are known for being manipulative. He manipulated that nun. He didn't have to rape that girl. He certainly didn't have to kill her. So just because he's sorry when he's staring down death, we are all supposed to forget what he did? Her parents and loved one's will never have her back, because he murdered her. She's dead. It's up to God to forgive him, and if he was truly sorry, I guess he would be forgiven, but not by me. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 393 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 04:36 PM
quote: OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG shut up already you say you dont care about lara and that you are ignoring her every move and keeping away from her threads. this does not look like your trying to ignore her. diana get over yourself . the thread was made a few days ago how did you not see it. and you say that your not obsessed with her and dont like her then why the hell are you starting a thread about her when clearly she says she does not want to talk to you. and you say the same thing you dont like her well get over it already and stop wasting valuable thread space **** . stop holding on to things let go of grudges it will consume like it is doing now because you dont seem to stop with lara lara lara. and diana you are entiled to your opinions and i respect that we understand you have a problem with her its fine but can you please try and ignore her for real so we can talk about astrology and elements and all that good stuff. i just feel sorry for you because you seem like a goood person .
She started a thread about me first. To bash me. Am I not supposed to respond when everyone was accusing me of things? I mean, really! Would you have not responded? I would've responded, but it was locked by the time I got to it. I didn't see it, because I looked in LindaLand Central and not LindaLand 2.0. This is so ridiculous. This has nothing to do with you. What's wrong with you that you are holding a grudge against me and feel the need to attack me? It could be said you are obsessed with me, and holding a grudge against me. Why do you have so much hate that you have to attack me? You need to follow MJ's advice and begin with "The Man in the Mirror" lady.  This thread was done. Lara and I agreed not to talk to one another in the future, yet you started it up again. Why? What anger do you have buried that you need to vent onto someone you don't know? I could see if she and I were still going at it, but we weren't. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 508 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 04:44 PM
no im not obsessed with you and believe me i dont have a grugde against because you didnt do anything wrong to me. And i do not have a problem with you at all i dont. i just hate to see people fight over stuff you know. its just that if you dont like her then ignore her for your sake you forget her . you have to stop this because alot of people are just fed up with it you know. you didnt deserve to get bashed on and yes i would have stood up for my self but yu only have to do it once you know. you didnt have to continue with all this. and when you said this has nothing to do with me it does because i come here all the time and there alot of threads i would like to enjoy as well as other people too and when you start something with someone else whenever you go to that thread and write something you risk the chance or ruining the threads for other people who are here. i am going to aplogize to you for getting in your buisness i just wished yu moved on. this is getting old.dont you think so too.IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Moderator Posts: 380 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 04:58 PM
DepTaurus ~ quote: OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG shut up already
No knowflakes should be telling other knowflakes to "shut up already"  IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 393 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 05:02 PM
If you hate to see people fight then why are you continuing the sage when she and I had ended it? You act as if I have ruined more than one thread. I *ruined* one thread -- the MJ thread, which was already long ruined before I stepped in. I have ignored her, except for this thread, which was in response to a thread she started about me. quote: you have to stop this because alot of people are just fed up with it you know.
It was stopped last night until these people, who are "fed up with it" restarted it. How ironic. Again, you act like I have had many fights with her, and have baited her, which is not true at all. There were two, not counting this thread and her thread about me. quote: and when you start something with someone else whenever you go to that thread and write something you risk the chance or ruining the threads for other people who are here.
Again, where have I started with her besides the MJ thread and this one? Don't act like I follow her around and ruin countless threads, because I don't. If you see where I came into the MJ thread, I didn't start with her. quote: i am going to aplogize to you for getting in your buisness i just wished yu moved on. this is getting old.dont you think so too.
It was old, and I thought it was finally over until today when I see it was revived by people who complain about the *drama* Now it's started up again, and not by me. It's a lie that I follow her around and try to fight with her, so I have to defend that now. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 508 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 05:13 PM
oh i think your wrtie diana i am starting trouble i am my own hypocrtie. im sorry diana i think i was way to hard on you. i would have done the same thing if i was you who the hell am i too judge and i reallly dont want to be one of those people whop start stuff. i am so so sorry i hope yu can forgive and forget. i cant believe i did this sorry again really. azalaksh you are right.IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 393 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 06:15 PM
It's ok. I'd really just like this matter to be over, especially since she and I have settled it between us. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 508 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 06:45 PM
yeah its safe to say its over.IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Grafenwohr, Germany- but my heart is in Iraq Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 07:06 PM
"What i said is that i believed karma had a lot to do with rape"Lara.. I think the proof is in that absurd statment. You think a woman being raped is a result of Karma? Really? What Karma points did I have against ME as a young girl to deserve to be raped at 18? I was barely out of my virginity and had nothing to do with hurting anyone else yet I was the victim. I think you have proved the kind of person you ARE with that statment. What bothers me more is that no one here took you to task for it with the exception of a few. How freaking disgusting. I have been here for more than 7 years and I have never seen anyone post something so assnine. IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Moderator Posts: 380 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 07:51 PM
Pid ~Plenty of us have taken Lara to task for the injudicious things she's written (check out any locked thread ) It dismays me that even the C-word gets used in addressing fellow female knowflakes, with impunity.....  I would bet money that, should there be a response to you from Lara, it will be "you shouldn't make this personal/take this personally".....  IP: Logged |
koiflower Knowflake Posts: 581 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 07:55 PM
pidaua - sorry to hear about your ordeal. No-one should make innane comments about rape, death or other nasty things.IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 393 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2009 10:52 PM
Pidaua,I'm sorry to hear that happened to you, too. IP: Logged |
D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 01:20 AM
Pidaua  I am sorry to hear that. I never knew that happened to you. Diana  D IP: Logged |
woah city Knowflake Posts: 246 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 01:30 AM
to all who've endured such horrific experiences i have too, and it's hard to know what to do with the feelings, isn't it?IP: Logged |
bunnies Knowflake Posts: 77 From: u.k Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 02:53 AM
You see? None of us know anything about the other person. Nothing. What they have been through, what makes them react to things the way they do. How would we speak and feel, if things like that happened to us. We can't possibly understand. So therefore a little tolerance is required. Even if people's opinions may offend ours. Was it not MJ himself who oft quoted the Native American saying?"Walk a mile in another man's shoes" And actually bm I have never lost it with LL'rs! Spend an hour reading comments on Youtube and this place is a haven of peace and tranquility!  IP: Logged |
D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 07:06 AM
I am not going to talk about MJ's astrological information, why I had been quite ignorant about him for the past 16 years, or his legal matters here, or on any MJ mourning thread. I will only discuss such matters on one thread (not mine) at "Know Two...", and I'm not going into the specifics here. I might still post on his mourning threads, but I will bear in mind where the boundary is. Period. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1215 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 07:27 AM
It is interesting, as Bunnies said - the way people jump to conclusions and react to an action.My sentence ' I think karma has a lot to do with rape ' has been totally taken out of context by a raging Pid and she is damning me because her interpretation of that sentence is different to mine. Everyone has been raped in life. Whether it be physical, mental or emotional. We are all rowing the same boat - it's just not all of us wish to wash our dirty laundry in a public forum. Karma is attached to everything and everythin related to karma. I never put a BAD infront of karma - you did! It just shows how the majoirity of people see things in a negative light and not in a healthy perspective. There is no blame - it's simply how it is, but this isn't rape crisis; it's LLC2. Love and peace IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 873 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 07:36 AM
lara - for such an evolved soul, you sure could learn a thing or two about compassion and empathy.IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 873 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 07:47 AM
llc2, this board and the semi-anonmity it provides is an excellent way to work through some of this stuff. i disagree completely with the dirty laundy in public forum statement, as i think bonding sharing and working through this stuff is quite a process. so, lara, are you saying it should be superficial at all times? if thats what everybody here wants, then we all might as well go read the sunday funnies and forget about lindaland, because without the sharing, bonding and growing, there isn't anything of substance worth coming back for. IP: Logged |
koiflower Knowflake Posts: 581 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 07:56 AM
cpn  IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 873 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 08:03 AM
i love you too koi - miss you much.IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1215 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 08:44 AM
CPN - no.. that is not what i'm saying. I'm saying move on. Don't allow the past to affect your present and future.I am very compassionate. Compassion is totally different to subscribing to someone's misfortune from a past event. IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 873 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 04, 2009 08:57 AM
who we are is a cummulation of all of our experiences. we dont wake up every day as babies, with no experiences, complete innocence. i understand what you are saying, but i think our past has to be dealt with or it does effect our present and our futures. some things are pretty hard to get "over". it takes working through, for some people a lifetime, for some a period of time. to say it is the same to be mentally raped as a crime to a child, rape specifically, is not compassionate, nor understanding or empathetic. there is no comparison. effective saying, get over it, move on, blah blah blah zzzzzzzz, is, well, pretty cold and nonsense to boot...not to mention slightly offensive to those that have lived through the nighmare of being raped in reality. that is all i am saying. highly evolved souls, it seems to me, would be kinder to hurting people. IP: Logged |