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posted October 05, 2009 07:15 AM         

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Yes PA, my adage meant that too. We need to draw close to our loved ones when they feel threatened/saddened.

Wheels, you really need to feel supported by someone in the flesh, be it your sister, your parents or your boyfriend. There must be something there for you to represent someone who cares. Perverts can't have it their way all the time.

Thanks Pire A gay friend is a great idea!! As long as he didn't take the same handbad as wheels

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posted October 05, 2009 07:16 AM         

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True bm. Expecting him to be a mind reader is not going to work. The only way is telling him, isn't it. That's so hard though. The whole thing. It's laying your heart out - totally bare and having no idea which way it's going to go.

And, no, you don't want to mess with Mr Angel's Mars in Scorpio squaring his Moon. At least with it also squaring Mercury he won't mince words about it beforehand so you get warning before the emotions get the better.

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posted October 05, 2009 07:17 AM         

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Are you busy Saturday Pire? hehehee!!! I do have a really good gay friend but he wouldn't intimidate anybody! Bless him.

I agree Blue, I need to be direct about this, he's not a mind-reader. I am confronting this issue more and more as time goes on, it's been a year now.

I really am grateful about your responses. It is useful to have a sounding board and knowing about what expectations are realistic. I know that I need to call time on this if necessary. I'm just being a coward about it.

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posted October 05, 2009 07:20 AM         

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posted October 05, 2009 07:39 AM         

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i won't be there physically but it's like if i was there

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posted October 05, 2009 07:41 AM         

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If that's the case - then wheels can take us all. Between us we have all bases covered.

I'm curious though? Which one of us gets to grab him by the..... wind chimes?

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posted October 05, 2009 07:41 AM         

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What a sweetheart. Thank you Pire!

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posted October 05, 2009 07:42 AM         

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posted October 05, 2009 07:43 AM         

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Well, it's just practical wheels. I mean, you'll be too busy lighting candles.

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posted October 05, 2009 07:44 AM         

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posted October 05, 2009 07:46 AM         

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I know! pire can light the candles. wheels, you get wind chime duty.

Come on pire, light my fire

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posted October 05, 2009 07:52 AM         

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Yay! I was hoping for the wind chime duty! *gets out sharpening implement and skips the Vaseline*

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posted October 05, 2009 07:54 AM         

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***PA backs aware slowly and afraid***

Sounds like you have some experience wheels.......

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posted October 05, 2009 07:55 AM         

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Nope, but I am learning fast!

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posted October 05, 2009 07:59 AM         

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Ha! Made you laugh.

My work here is done.

Actually, mother-in-law is still here. I've been asked to wake her at 5am. Which is fine. Though someone has to wake me to wake her at 5am.

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posted October 05, 2009 08:02 AM         

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I can't believe I'm saying this but I am REALLY jealous that you have a mother-in-law!

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posted October 05, 2009 08:05 AM         

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posted October 05, 2009 08:07 AM         

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posted October 05, 2009 08:09 AM         

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LMAO!!!

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posted October 05, 2009 08:10 AM         

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You wouldn't be saying that if you married into this:

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posted October 05, 2009 08:10 AM         

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Things the Aries Sun/Gem Rising Would Do (Aside From Punching):

1.) Not change my plans

2.) Practice my evil eye in the mirror

3.) Show up looking hot and powerful (why should he spoil my fun/presentation?)

4.) Any time he comes near me, sing loudly or otherwise draw considerable attention to us

AND/OR

5.) Buddy up with his wife for the night, so that she's around more.

AND/OR

6.) Make yourself a central focus of the party so that you are never alone with him.

Choice phrases:

"Frankly it's offensive to me that you think there would ever be a chance that I would ever, in any universe, be interested in you. I'm out of your league, you know it, and you owe me an apology just for the suggestion."

"If I have to warn you about invading my personal space one more time, this is going to get ugly really fast. I suggest you run off and find your wife, preferably with your tail between your legs."

"I just love your wife, isn't she amazing? She's so funny and smart and attractive and really loves you, too. Too bad YOU'RE a tool, huh?"

Also, I know Pisces is being a knob, but this whole situation also shows how lucky you are NOT to have a "partner" who grabs other girls bums at parties. Ya know? And maybe this is his unconscious way of letting you know that (besides being scared to meet your family, heh) he also trusts you and believes in your personal stregnth. Maybe?

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posted October 05, 2009 08:10 AM         

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This morning I had a moan about job-hunting to a friend. Up on the 'net today for our local area is porn acting and escort agency.

Maybe we should set up the gay friend agency? Pire would get quite a bit of work - 6 foot 3, handsome and French.

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posted October 05, 2009 08:11 AM         

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Oooh - I like this one. Good thinking.

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Buddy up with his wife for the night, so that she's around more.

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posted October 05, 2009 08:15 AM         

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Suggestions from Mercury Square Mars with Midlands rising...the printable ones...

* I'd need another man to finish off what you started.

* I'd rather have a w....

* eff off or I'll tell my mate big Al who will be happy to kick your head in on request, no explanations required

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posted October 05, 2009 08:16 AM         

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Up on the 'net today for our local area is porn acting and escort agency.

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Could be a suitable job for your pussy, bm?

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