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Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2011 01:52 PM
"Forgiveness means letting go of the past." Gerald Jampolsky------------------ "Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow in Australia." Charles Schultz IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2011 01:53 PM
The value of compassion cannot be over-emphasized. Anyone can criticize. It takes a true believer to be compassionate. No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands.------------------ quote: Being loved by all is little fun Unless you're also loved by one. ~Robert Brault
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2011 01:53 PM
"Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge." Isaac Friedmann ------------------ "Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow in Australia." Charles Schultz IP: Logged |
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: ←↓↑→ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted January 05, 2011 01:54 PM
All of your forgiveness quotes reminded me of this one.  "Not to forgive is to be imprisoned by the past, by old grievances that do not permit life to proceed with new business. Not to forgive is to yield oneself to another's control... to be locked into a sequence of act and response, of outrage and revenge, *** for tat, escalating always. The present is endlessly overwhelmed and devoured by the past. Forgiveness frees the forgiver. It extracts the forgiver from someone else's nightmare." Lance Morrow (The Chief: A Memoir of Fathers and Sons)
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2011 01:57 PM
"In the end these things matter most: How well did you love? How fully did you love? How deeply did you learn to let go?" Buddha------------------ "Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow in Australia." Charles Schultz IP: Logged |
LEXX Moderator Posts: 6063 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2011 10:14 PM
Origins . Honest and for True by John CollinsI saw an old Greek fellow wandering the streets the other evening holding a lantern out in front of himself, scanning the storefronts, alleyways, and passing cars. He looked kind of disappointed. I can't say as I blame him. I don't mean to be a Cynic, but I think Diogenes' task of finding an honest man was probably a lot easier in his day than it is in ours. In fact, dishonesty and deception are so pervasive in today's society that we've constructed entire lexicons of larcenous and libelous language for the everyday use of politicians, lawyers, and ex-football stars. As you've probably guessed, this issue's Origins focuses on honesty. This is apropos, actually, since the main purpose of the column is to help uncover the truth behind everyday sayings. Now, time to get to the Naked Truth. But what is Truth, really, and why is it naked. Well, Truth, it seems, is a tall, skinny fellow, slightly balding, with a protruding Adam's apple, very scholarly and, of course, modest and reserved, though occasionally a little self-righteous. One day, lo these many years ago, Truth and his rather slovenly counterpart, Falsehood, were strolling together through the woods (they were often together, as they are quite dependent on each other what is the light of Truth, after all, without the darkness of Falsehood against which to compare it?). They were chatting amiably, as was their wont, though not paying much attention to each other: Truth: "Beauty is truth, truth beauty that is all ye know on earth, and all ye need know." Falsehood: "Truth, sir, is a cow, which will yield people no more milk, and so they are gone to milk the bull." Truth: "If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other people." Falsehood: "In matters of grave importance, style, not sincerity, is the vital thing." Their friendly discourse was interrupted by the appearance of a lovely lake (well, okay, the lake didn't actually appear, it was sort of already there and they just happened upon it). On a hot day such as the one on which we are visiting the companions, it was a welcome sight, and they both stripped naked see where this is going now? and jumped in. Truth was splashing pleasantly about enjoying the natural honesty of the little fishies when Falsehood challenged him to swim to the other side of the lake. As it wasn't all that far (and as Truth was, truth to tell, a tad gullible), Truth took the challenge and set off for the far shore. No sooner was he twenty yards away, however, than Falsehood splashed up to the beach and stole Truth's clothes for himself, since they were much finer than his old rags. When Truth got back from his little excursion, he saw Falsehood parading around on the shore in Truth's finery. When asked about his actions, Falsehood replied, "Since Truth is beauty, you don't need these nice clothes. You can wear mine." And with that, he walked off into the woods. Truth slogged out of the lake and looked down at the little pile of stained robes left by Falsehood. "I would rather," he announced to no one in particular, "walk naked than wear the raiment of Falsehood!" And henceforth, he walks the earth as Naked Truth. So, there it is, the unadulterated truth about Truth. IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 1859 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2011 10:38 PM
Kat started this thread, so where did she go?------------------ What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world is immortal"~ - George Eliot IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 6342 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 06, 2011 03:29 PM
hi jinu, i got lost in all the quotes! the reason i started this was because yet another thread was closed almost as soon as opened. and my feeling is there would be a LOT LESS GOSSIP attached to LL if people were not muzzled the way they have been lately. of course some topics are private but if you bring them here, it seems strange to me to then object to others discussing them. this has happened over and over the last few months... to me, for the most part gossip=shmossip, ie what people say is their problem not mine...i did have a tax lady drop me once because a former "friend" said something nasty to her about me, but i consider myself much better off without her. i discovered she was not really doing the job anyway! IP: Logged |
WinkAway Moderator Posts: 1549 From: here, there & everywhere Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2011 02:35 AM
Okay I'm lost...Blog? Well I'm curious if this blog belongs as an issue here on LL or if it's whoever's business? I dunno... lovin the quotes  IP: Logged |
BearsArcher Moderator Posts: 596 From: Arizona with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2010
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posted January 07, 2011 05:46 AM
Me think a Sag and a Cap should get a room and discuss the importance of rumours and gossip. Hee hee... Back in the day we just put a sock on the door  Love you all..... IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 6342 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2011 10:22 AM
blog? there is no blog in this thread...?IP: Logged |
Deux*Antares Knowflake Posts: 945 From: I am where I am and it's enough. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2011 11:03 AM
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juniperb Moderator Posts: 1859 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2011 11:05 AM
kat, glad to see you didn`t skate on out of here !The blog firecracker spoke of is the "blog" in question,yes? ------------------ What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world is immortal"~ - George Eliot IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 6342 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2011 12:52 PM
as per the opening post the subject is not so much the subject of FC's post as the situation in general...nothing to do with any blog or specific rumours or gossip, just how such things happen and how to deal with them...IMO anyhow!IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2011 12:54 PM
It's been dealt with.IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 6342 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2011 08:37 PM
i repeat this is not a thread about any specific personal issues people may or may not have here. it is about gossip and rumours and whether it is worth getting your knickers in a twist over them, whether checking facts before you spread them is a good idea, and whether talking things out in the open is a good way to prevent them running rampant. for FUTURE reference i thought this would be a very pertinent subject right about now... IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2011 08:58 PM
Agreed. People should check the FACTS first before spreading rumours.IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 12:40 PM
What you don't see with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth. ~Jewish Proverb
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charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 12:41 PM
A cruel story runs on wheels, and every hand oils the wheels as they run. ~OuidaIP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 12:44 PM
No sword bites so fiercly as an evil tongue. --Sir Philip Sidney IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 03:48 PM
"And all who told it added something new, and all who heard it, made enlargements too." Alexander Pope------------------ "Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 03:51 PM
"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." ANONYMOUS ------------------ "Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 03:54 PM
"Rest satisfied with doing well, and leave others to talk of you as they will." Pythagoras------------------ "Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 03:56 PM
"There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about." Oscar Wilde------------------ "Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 03:57 PM
"When of a gossiping circle it was asked, What are they doing? The answer was, Swapping lies." Richard Brinsley Sheridan
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