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charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2011 05:17 PM
My final thoughts before I head to dreamland..I hope at least some of these reach out and touch. Words are swords when used to intentionally harm another - maybe they don't realize at the time how those words can affect the receiver.. But! It has made me stronger,wiser and like Scorp said, tells you alot about the relationship with that friend or friends. ..and my final words are.. Ya'll didn't win  ------------------ quote: Being loved by all is little fun Unless you're also loved by one. ~Robert Brault
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2011 05:44 PM
 ------------------ "Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 6342 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 19, 2011 01:14 PM
it seems obvious that it is a lot easier to post quotes about forgiveness than to actually practice it...dunno what bone got stuck in someone's throat please close this thread now!?! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 19, 2011 01:32 PM
Why the animosity, Kat? Why would positive quotes upset you? Forgiveness is something we should all strive for and, being human, often fall short of. I can only speak for myself, but I try to practice it. Sometimes I falter, but I do try. ------------------ "Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 19, 2011 01:54 PM
We can't make someone else forgive anyone or anything. That is their own realization that they have to reach. We can only tend to our own gardens. And I think these quotes (from much more Enlightened people than I) are very positive and uplifting. Like your initial post on this string, the quotes are not directed toward any person or persons; they are just for general consumption. ------------------ "Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 20, 2011 01:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by katatonic: it seems obvious that it is a lot easier to post quotes about forgiveness than to actually practice it...dunno what bone got stuck in someone's throat please close this thread now!?!
Kat you have taken much offence to my "Ya'll didn't win" comment.I wonder why as it would only be understood by someone that truely KNOWS what that is about  ------------------ quote: Being loved by all is little fun Unless you're also loved by one. ~Robert Brault
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 07, 2011 10:07 AM
*bump*------------------ "Everything I eat has been proved by some doctor or other to be a deadly poison, and everything I don't eat has been proved to be indispensable for life. But I go marching on."--George Bernard Shaw IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 04:03 AM
We shouldn't base our opinions of others based on what other people think of us.We should take the time to get to know a person first before passing judgement.Many are lead astray due to wanting to belong to a group or clique and go along with whatever someone says(especially when it's a person that is they hold with high regard). IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 04:25 AM
It's a beautiful world.We must strive to better ourselves and spread the magic by helping those who need a hand.Don't take the good for granted.It's easy to preach about Love and Light but the true test is practicing it.Let's uplift each other instead of breaking each down.------------------ quote: No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.Nelson Mandela
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 05:48 AM
Kat, I hear you have been enlisted by your secret group to come to LL and "blast" Charmaine. I'm not even sure what that means. But I am giving you a pre-emptive warning. You will be banned if you attack anyone on this site. If you do not value your membership here, then by all means go for it. And if you choose to continue being a productive member (as you have been), then good for you. Courage comes in many forms.  IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 05:57 AM
Kat,I hope that is not true or your intention.I've done you no harm and expect the same in return.------------------ quote: No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.Nelson Mandela
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 06:01 AM
 ------------------ "I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. That is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant." Martin Luther King, Jr. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 06:13 AM
And that warning goes for anyone. I don't care if I'm attacked. I've been fending off attacks for years. I'm used to it. But if anyone attacks my family, my extended family (Lindaland), or the people I love, there will be no mercy. Justice is not always swift, but when it finally comes, it can be devastating...and will make anyone a believer in Karma. Peace out. ------------------ "They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips." (Romans 1:29) IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 2361 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 06:18 AM
 ------------------ quote: No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.Nelson Mandela
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9331 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 09, 2011 07:28 AM
It is the truth that those quotes are easy to say and hard to do. May we all strive to do them  ------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 2269 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 08:37 AM
@ AmiYes, yes & yes. Amen, Awoman. ------------------ Let go of trying to control this situation, and allow the divine infinite wisdom to flow through your higher self. ~ Doreen Virtue IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 09:10 AM
Since this has been bumped, I should add that in that post I made when I was very upset, I was only talking about a few people, from both LL and elsewhere (mainly the person spying on others, letting other people take the blame for their actions, and a couple of people I didn't trust at the time).(Oh, someone deleted it? Thanks to whoever did that. I was thinking of doing that myself.)
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9331 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 09, 2011 09:15 AM
Looking from a detached viewpoint as much as I can,I think everyone that loves LL MORE than they love their own hate has come back or is trying to come back. The rest have been sifted as the chaff from the wheat.------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 11:28 AM
No one deleted it. Just a guess, but I think you said it on a different string (maybe Firecracker's closed string).------------------ "They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips." (Romans 1:29) IP: Logged |
AbsintheDragonfly Knowflake Posts: 2303 From: Gaia Registered: Apr 2010
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posted May 09, 2011 01:01 PM
I have been going back and forth with myself for that last couple hours...I have these things to say: Why is this being bumped after 4 months, and off LL stuff being brought on here? Why are you giving out pre-emptive warnings now? Did she even DO anything? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9331 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 09, 2011 01:03 PM
No one can take you down but yourself. The rest is like spit balls.People can aim them for your head. They can hit but eventually they will fall off . They can't really hurt you.Inside is where the real you lives. Anyone who hates---please listen  ------------------ Throw away your books and listen to your heart.Listen the closest when it hurts the most. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Node Knowflake Posts: 1242 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 01:13 PM
Excellent questions McFlyIP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 8188 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 01:31 PM
I didn't say she did anything. That's why it is pre-emptive. And it was bumped due to certain people attacking Charmaine when she was down after her dog died, which is absolutely reprehensible. And why is it being brought here? Because people were planning to bring it here. I don't think Kat would do anything against this community, but I have been shocked before, and I likely will be again. If she doesn't do anything, then no worries. And if this is untrue, then Kat has nothing to worry about...well, except maybe worrying about why she was thrown under the bus as a sacrificial lamb by her supposed friends. I am tired of people I love being attacked from the shadows aand everyone thinking they are just sad little angels who were wronged. They have plotted and schemed and lied and manipulated...and gotten away with it for months...because I kept it off LL. It is time to be held accountable.IP: Logged |
AbsintheDragonfly Knowflake Posts: 2303 From: Gaia Registered: Apr 2010
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posted May 09, 2011 01:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: I didn't say she did anything. That's why it is pre-emptive. And it was bumped due to certain people attacking Charmaine when she was down after her dog died, which is absolutely reprehensible.And why is it being brought here? Because people were planning to bring it here. I don't think Kat would do anything against this community, but I have been shocked before, and I likely will be again. If she doesn't do anything, then no worries. And if this is untrue, then Kat has nothing to worry about...well, except maybe worrying about why she was thrown under the bus as a sacrificial lamb by her supposed friends.
Were people attacking Charm here? (I didn't know that her dog had died. I'm sorry to hear that.) If they weren't, then putting it up here, I don't know, doesn't seem to be very productive. And if what you were told is UNTRUE, then you have pre-emptively told someone they are going to be banned. Which might cause more problems. Just my personal thoughts and opinions, Randall. Take it for what it's worth, ie probably not much. *sigh* IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 02:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: No one deleted it. Just a guess, but I think you said it on a different string (maybe Firecracker's closed string).
I remember now. Thanks. IP: Logged |