posted January 07, 2021 01:37 AM              

So they provide opportunities for a lasting relationship, but whether or not that happens depends ENTIRELY upon the action taken by the chart owner.

posted January 10, 2021 06:38 AM            

Diane Keaton, who at 75, recently said she "never found a home in a man's arms". And that's just how it is now for many of us.

posted February 18, 2021 09:14 AM            

Transits are really more about timing of doing something, so if you had a 7th house transit it would say maybe it’s a good time to get married to someone you’re seeing, but also, just my interpretation, Saturn and Capricorn both represent patience to me and taking things slow. Maybe your desperation caused you to look over some things or move too quickly with some people? Saturn rewards patience and research.
Take more time to get to know people if you can (and if they’re not kookoo right off the bat) and shun the ones who want to move quickly.

Could also be that you were not looking for the kind of love that specific transit was offering for whatever reason. Everything is about resonance and if we’re not resonating with an opportunity we will miss it. No judgement, it’s just something I’ve learned after going through similar things.

But the good thing about astrology is that it shows there’s always another chance at things and more opportunities. DO keep the faith and keep learning more about yourself and what you really want. And don’t settle. Don’t think it’s too late. My aunt and uncle got married when they were in their 40’s and they are in their 70’s now, very happy together. My aunt had two kids and was divorced. There are a host of similar stories... you still have time.

posted July 21, 2021 06:30 PM            

Also, there are strange portals that come in that these might not have anticipated. Hence, it CAN happen at any time... yes. The Universe works in Mysterious Ways.

If you're looking to a more likely Timing, get your chart read by a true experienced Professional, and ease your anxieties.

The other thing too--
The one you would meet ALSO is having 'timing' meet in his chart. He's got to move by his intuition, etc. He too may be having incidents that come out of the blue, and deflect -- (if you are having the notion of "THE One" for you).

There are some kind of relationships that begin as merely friends that you wouldn't have thought of as candidates, then suddenly, *Love*...

posted July 21, 2021 07:40 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
The Vedics talk about other window openings around 32~34 .. and another later time. (sorry, I can't remember what those were right now). I think they're called Mahadasha Periods that make meeting someone more likely.

Also, there are strange portals that come in that these might not have anticipated. Hence, it CAN happen at any time... yes. The Universe works in Mysterious Ways.

If you're looking to a more likely Timing, get your chart read by a true experienced Professional, and ease your anxieties.

The other thing too--
The one you would meet ALSO is having 'timing' meet in his chart. He's got to move by his intuition, etc. He too may be having incidents that come out of the blue, and deflect -- (if you are having the notion of "THE One" for you).

There are some kind of relationships that begin as merely friends that you wouldn't have thought of as candidates, then suddenly, *Love*...

(music) It's Getting Better (Mama Cass)
[3:00] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5i8Lir_ysis

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posted July 21, 2021 07:42 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by mirage29:
The Vedics talk about other window openings around 32~34 .. and another later time. (sorry, I can't remember what those were right now). I think they're called Mahadasha Periods that make meeting someone more likely.

Also, there are strange portals that come in that these might not have anticipated. Hence, it CAN happen at any time... yes. The Universe works in Mysterious Ways.

If you're looking to a more likely Timing, get your chart read by a true experienced Professional, and ease your anxieties.

The other thing too--
The one you would meet ALSO is having 'timing' meet in his chart. He's got to move by his intuition, etc. He too may be having incidents that come out of the blue, and deflect -- (if you are having the notion of "THE One" for you).

There are some kind of relationships that begin as merely friends that you wouldn't have thought of as candidates, then suddenly, *Love*...

(music) It's Getting Better (Mama Cass)
[3:00] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5i8Lir_ysis

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And I was in a very favorable mahadasha and antardasha for marriage two years ago. Moon mahadasha and Jupiter antardasha. In my vedic chart my moon is in my 7th house and jupiter rules my 7th. I should’ve met a man two years ago. I’m now in moon mahadasha and mercury antardasha. In my navamsa my 7th house is ruled by mercury.

posted July 21, 2021 09:00 PM            

Cancer Ascendant

MARS Pisces (conjunct your Part of Fortune) in your 9th House, is in good aspect with your planets at 7th Capricorn Descendant.

Your Venus (in the 10th) is in good aspect (sextile = opportunity) to Saturn (in the 8th, and ruler of your Partnerships house.

Venus will go into Virgo tomorrow and soon conjunct your Jupiter in the 3rd.

Planets Jupiter (the spouse) and Mars usually represent 'the man' in the chart.
(Earth and Water)

Read about the kinds of places and people, and activities that are represented by the 9th House, and the 3rd House . .. Don't be too tight in yourself as you read those, but handle it wistfully, loosely. Get the overall feel of it. Imagine what you'd like to be in-presence with. General way. Hold space with that.

Saturn is Lord/ruler of Capricorn cusp of your 7th... is in your 8th House Aquarius. Rules both houses for you.
There will be a Full Moon in your 7/8cusp on Friday..
Dream and hold inside you the 'satisfied feeling' you would have if you knew your Dreams were on their way!

Look up Saturn vocations-- generally read the descriptions. What kind of places, jobs, would the 8th House represent.. and also, what gets associated by the sign of Aquarius (and the 8th, and 7th).

(You have Uranus Cap on your Desc too-- "suddenly", out of the blue, unexpected== you would have never considered or thought-of this.)

You have transiting Uranus in your 11th right now.. That's your "friends and associates" in your Taurus House.
(Do you like to fly? .. Anyone with a tie to Airports?)

With Cancer on Ascendant, and your Moon 6th conjunct 7th Capricorn... let your Friends make introductions for you?

Capricorn, and Saturn ..
sometimes 'delay' things-- but really, it's BETTER to have things delayed than to get into a more serious relationship BEFORE the chart (Saturn) would release and say that you're ready...

I notice that Chiron in on your 2nd Cusp.
"Self Esteem" issues, and haunting sense given to you from childhood that you're not-enough? Not worthy? Had things you loved 'stuff' taken away from you? .. H1 has to do with your personality -- the way you present yourself.

You've got great placements in Aries in your Pisces 10th .. sextile the 7th.

. .
I had met my first husband while riding 'the bus' into work. His car had broken down and needed to be in the repair-shop for that week. There was a bus stop outside his apartment building. He had a very professional job and handsome appearance (nice suit and briefcase). It was my custom to sit on the back row of the bus, in the Sunshine, looking forward to reading the morning paper on that hour-long ride into town. He sat in the middle. Was 6'5" and needed leg-room. He started bending over to read the paper over my shoulder and arm. Irritated, I gave up and OFFERED pages of it for him to hold and read.
..
That's how we got to know each other. Our work buildings were only a block away. Later, we'd meet for lunch at nearby restaurants.
One day, we were holding our menus.
Suddenly a chill went through me, and something inside said that I was sitting across from my future husband.
Later, he said he remembered that particular lunch, and that 'he' himself had received that same impression.

I didn't know astrology in those days.
We had conjunct VESTA Cancers..
My VESTA is in the 8th near my Vertex Cancer.
(I'll skip further delineations).

Look for Vesta conjunctions which can indicate soulmates? (One of LL's Interpersonal Astrology threads had mentioned it.)

Anyways... {{ }}

I had had some female friends (we were same ages) who felt nervousness about getting "older" (nearing Saturn Return) .. and had no prospects.

Do you realize that our body-biological-clocks can give chemical worry-nudges? ~~ Happens around the time we get to 30yo. Yes, 'the body's chemistry' can send out urgency-impulses-- mixed with the mind, and societal expectations, this can render a kind of desperation--
It can be "biologically driven", SunAscendant.

With my friend group (~church people), I remember when two of them 'decided' (inside herself) that it's "okay" to be Single, and started "resting" in it and their job/career, then POP!-- both (in a matter of a few months), had attracted someone.
This happens!!

Just like women "trying" to get pregnant--
with some, once they give up the anxiety of trying, they get the surprise news of pregnancy.

Guys can probably 'sense' desperation?
That can act as a deterrent??

See if you might be able to 'switch' your focus towards advancing in your Career and Job choices.. Put prospecting to Rest. The more developed you get in the career path you've chosen, there will be opportunities to meet other 'established' (Capricorn word) people, working in the same interests as you. Will feel familiar (Moon).

Let "him" find YOU.

Avoid that desperation-- if you find him someone who mirrors same desperation, that could be imprinted with insecurity?
..
(think about that a little..)
What kind of person would you WANT for a "life" partner.. not someone you'd grasp temporarily (to be met by heartbreak later?).

*~
You've Graduated from University now, right?

COVID interfering? ..
What did you finally 'decide' upon for your Career path?

Oh! With the VERTEX Scorpio placement you have, 5th House--
Ask your Friends (11th, antivertex) to make introductions/suggestions.
Maybe even it would be a friend you would have never thought there'd be an interest that develops.

Vertex-- People with a Sun or Ascendant withing ~8 degree orb, (or a planet) on your Vertex Degree, can play a huge part in your life's advancement. Can take you to the next leg of your journey.

Pluto 5th
I've seen Pluto in the 2nd half or e.o. 5th play a prominent role in the lives of Youth. Perhaps it gives special charisma for working with them successfully. Can publish books for that age group's benefit.
(Just-in-case you ever had the urge OR you were to meet someone with those kinds of interests.)

With your Vertex in that part of Scorpio 5th, the transiting Sun is IN that area of Scorpio in month of November each year, around week of Thanksgiving and the start of Holiday Season in US.

Nodes are changing houses for you--
NN entering your 11th,
SN entering your 5th ..

Does your work, or hobbies, affect or touch the lives of children (H5) in any way? Or the Elderly? (H11)

posted July 21, 2021 09:02 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by mirage29:
I have a copy of your chart.
I see that you have your Vertex in 5th House, Scorpio 27.54 (next to Pluto there).

Cancer Ascendant

MARS Pisces (conjunct your Part of Fortune) in your 9th House, is in good aspect with your planets at 7th Capricorn Descendant.

Your Venus (in the 10th) is in good aspect (sextile = opportunity) to Saturn (in the 8th, and ruler of your Partnerships house.

Venus will go into Virgo tomorrow and soon conjunct your Jupiter in the 3rd.

Planets Jupiter (the spouse) and Mars usually represent 'the man' in the chart.
(Earth and Water)

Read about the kinds of places and people, and activities that are represented by the 9th House, and the 3rd House . .. Don't be too tight in yourself as you read those, but handle it wistfully, loosely. Get the overall feel of it. Imagine what you'd like to be in-presence with. General way. Hold space with that.

Saturn is Lord/ruler of Capricorn cusp of your 7th... is in your 8th House Aquarius. Rules both houses for you.
There will be a Full Moon in your 7/8cusp on Friday..
Dream and hold inside you the 'satisfied feeling' you would have if you knew your Dreams were on their way!

Look up Saturn vocations-- generally read the descriptions. What kind of places, jobs, would the 8th House represent.. and also, what gets associated by the sign of Aquarius (and the 8th, and 7th).

(You have Uranus Cap on your Desc too-- "suddenly", out of the blue, unexpected== you would have never considered or thought-of this.)

You have transiting Uranus in your 11th right now.. That's your "friends and associates" in your Taurus House.
(Do you like to fly? .. Anyone with a tie to Airports?)

With Cancer on Ascendant, and your Moon 6th conjunct 7th Capricorn... let your Friends make introductions for you?

Capricorn, and Saturn ..
sometimes 'delay' things-- but really, it's BETTER to have things delayed than to get into a more serious relationship BEFORE the chart (Saturn) would release and say that you're ready...

I notice that Chiron in on your 2nd Cusp.
"Self Esteem" issues, and haunting sense given to you from childhood that you're not-enough? Not worthy? Had things you loved 'stuff' taken away from you? .. H1 has to do with your personality -- the way you present yourself.

You've got great placements in Aries in your Pisces 10th .. sextile the 7th.

. .
I had met my first husband while riding 'the bus' into work. His car had broken down and needed to be in the repair-shop for that week. There was a bus stop outside his apartment building. He had a very professional job and handsome appearance (nice suit and briefcase). It was my custom to sit on the back row of the bus, in the Sunshine, looking forward to reading the morning paper on that hour-long ride into town. He sat in the middle. Was 6'5" and needed leg-room. He started bending over to read the paper over my shoulder and arm. Irritated, I gave up and OFFERED pages of it for him to hold and read.
..
That's how we got to know each other. Our work buildings were only a block away. Later, we'd meet for lunch at nearby restaurants.
One day, we were holding our menus.
Suddenly a chill went through me, and something inside said that I was sitting across from my future husband.
Later, he said he remembered that particular lunch, and that 'he' himself had received that same impression.

I didn't know astrology in those days.
We had conjunct VESTA Cancers..
My VESTA is in the 8th near my Vertex Cancer.
(I'll skip further delineations).

Look for Vesta conjunctions which can indicate soulmates? (One of LL's Interpersonal Astrology threads had mentioned it.)

Anyways... {{ }}

I had had some female friends (we were same ages) who felt nervousness about getting "older" (nearing Saturn Return) .. and had no prospects.

Do you realize that our body-biological-clocks can give chemical worry-nudges? ~~ Happens around the time we get to 30yo. Yes, 'the body's chemistry' can send out urgency-impulses-- mixed with the mind, and societal expectations, this can render a kind of desperation--
It can be "biologically driven", SunAscendant.

With my friend group (~church people), I remember when two of them 'decided' (inside herself) that it's "okay" to be Single, and started "resting" in it and their job/career, then POP!-- both (in a matter of a few months), had attracted someone.
This happens!!

Just like women "trying" to get pregnant--
with some, once they give up the anxiety of trying, they get the surprise news of pregnancy.

Guys can probably 'sense' desperation?
That can act as a deterrent??

See if you might be able to 'switch' your focus towards advancing in your Career and Job choices.. Put prospecting to Rest. The more developed you get in the career path you've chosen, there will be opportunities to meet other 'established' (Capricorn word) people, working in the same interests as you. Will feel familiar (Moon).

Let "him" find YOU.

Avoid that desperation-- if you find him someone who mirrors same desperation, that could be imprinted with insecurity?
..
(think about that a little..)
What kind of person would you WANT for a "life" partner.. not someone you'd grasp temporarily (to be met by heartbreak later?).

*~
You've Graduated from University now, right?

COVID interfering? ..
What did you finally 'decide' upon for your Career path?

Oh! With the VERTEX Scorpio placement you have, 5th House--
Ask your Friends (11th, antivertex) to make introductions/suggestions.
Maybe even it would be a friend you would have never thought there'd be an interest that develops.

Vertex-- People with a Sun or Ascendant withing ~8 degree orb, (or a planet) on your Vertex Degree, can play a huge part in your life's advancement. Can take you to the next leg of your journey.

Pluto 5th
I've seen Pluto in the 2nd half or e.o. 5th play a prominent role in the lives of Youth. Perhaps it gives special charisma for working with them successfully. Can publish books for that age group's benefit.
(Just-in-case you ever had the urge OR you were to meet someone with those kinds of interests.)

With your Vertex in that part of Scorpio 5th, the transiting Sun is IN that area of Scorpio in month of November each year, around week of Thanksgiving and the start of Holiday Season in US.

Nodes are changing houses for you--
NN entering your 11th,
SN entering your 5th ..

Does your work, or hobbies, affect or touch the lives of children (H5) in any way? Or the Elderly? (H11)

Keep A Miracle-Consciousness

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posted July 21, 2021 09:04 PM            

Yes, I Understand about the Vedic periods.
Remember TOO -- that Society TODAY has been in the midst of an emergency. COVID 19.

MANY people have gotten sick, or lost jobs, etc.
This certainly has placed a Delay (and Priority) on our regular lives and timings.

Let me read and ponder what you've said.

posted July 24, 2021 04:23 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I had transit Jupiter and Saturn transiting my Capricorn 7th house all last year of 2020 and I was sure I’d meet a man. My moon is in Capricorn as is my north node. I heard from everyone that transit Jupiter and Saturn both transiting the 7th house undoubtedly brings about a long-lasting relationship. Obviously I was excited for these two planets to transit my 7th house. Also, in December 2019 my progressed moon had just conjuncted my natal moon and I’d had my first natal return, AND on top of that my progressed moon entered my natal 7th house, which is also said to be an auspicious time for finding true lasting love. However, no love was found. I dated despite the pandemic. I put myself out there as I always do, but nothing stuck. I do have Uranus conjunct Neptune in Capricorn in my 7th exactly square my 10th house Aries Venus, so that doesn’t help me keep relationships, but still, I thought the transits and my progressed moon entering my natal 7th last year would surely bring lasting love finally, but no . I’ll be 29 in April and I’m worried I’ll never find lasting love. How do you guys keep the faith when transits fail you?

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How would *I* Keep the Faith?

* Using Common Sense, Societal Awareness.
There are some things we have NO control over, that can interfere with ALL our intellectual 'plans'. .. Weather Events, Geo-Events, Pandemics-- insurrections, acts of war. Accidents happen too.

We HAVE to be adaptable ..

* With astrology?
There are different systems.
I like investigating the various ones.
I can find that what I learn in one, can be applied to the other, also.

I've learned that there are hidden things in your chart that can change the behaviors of planets for windows of time sometimes...

READ
post regarding KP System
- http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum38/HTML/000345.html

I'm trying to keep tropical and sidereal in mind, at the same time.

SunAscendant..
I ran across info on the Darakaraka planet in the chart, which describes your spouse's Relationship Patterns.
(Look for the planet with lowest/smallest degree in the chart--)
(Nodes not counted; but other systems do)

Learn the Nakshatra TOO.

The Dasha Periods (mentioned in above posts) are what brings forward 'certain TYPES' of Relationships to more prominence during certain time periods.

Darakaraka planet can indicate which people we aspire to be with, too.

I know you're searching --
and in an inverse way,
you can also "allow" the Darakaraka person to find YOU?