posted December 23, 2010 01:23 PM            

But these threads are so unnecessary. Why be so public about it? Don't most here have each other's email addresses? It just screams attention seeking behavior.

Randall I know you feel the same way about the "Goodbye I'm leaving LL" threads but the difference with that is people are just trying to let others know what happened to them. I didn't even know Diana left until I scrolled a little further down on LLC2 and saw her closed thread.

At least put this type of stuff on LLC2.

If I am ****** with LEXX, I will not create a thread called "I'm upset" and put inside "LEXX I hate you." I will email LEXX and say what I have to say. That is maturity. Why add the negativity and drama to the forum and involve people who have nothing to do with it? And if I don't have her email address, either I can ask for it or ask what about me would make someone not want to exchange something like an email address with me since we are all supposedly such spiritually enlightened beings?

And don't use the "you don't have to click" argument. Of course we will click. It doesn't even say "To FC, BA, etc. etc." It draws you in and then you are caught up in it whether you wanted to deal with it or not.

Just my .02. This was totally unnecessary. Like FC said, we could have just revived the last one.

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posted December 23, 2010 01:28 PM            

I have never,sincerely never, seen a person victimized here in Lindaland. Mods nor Randall would allow it.

Merry Christmas knowflakes!!

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posted December 23, 2010 01:35 PM            

You make false accusations and then you do not have the character to apologize for those accusations. If posting the truth to you means I am being negative then there is a bigger issue brewing.

You made an outright accusation towards Christy (I don't know her and have never met her until that thread and I do not condone some of what she said to you). I did not take sides in that matter, however, since I DID read her link I found that you accused her without taking the facts into consideration.

posted December 23, 2010 01:50 PM            

FC, thank you for seeing yourself objectively. It's tough. I have to hold my tongue almost every day of my life. But there's merit to turning the other cheek. We have to pick our fights. Some things are worth throwing a punch (defending a child or a woman from physical abuse, for instance), and some things it's just best to ignore. Choosing the right battle to devote our energy and effort toward isn't an easy thing to decipher, especially when the cloud of anger rises and obstructs one's vision.

posted December 23, 2010 02:04 PM            

i know my limits. and am indeed working on what i know to be MY issues.

the first one i let go...i do TRY to do the right thing, but i also know that i am not the one to mess with overmuch, as i do have a tendancy to just go for the kill, when the color red comes over me....then all i see is red and go straight for the kill.

i know myself very well, faults and all.

do you think i want to fight to the death over something that does not matter? not really, and yet i know if someone tried to take as much as my wallet,, i would fight to the death. over what? something that didn't matter in the whole big picture.

26t asc and lilith conj mc can be quite some strong energy to overcome. ask anyone with a sun or asc or node on 26t or worse yet mars.... gut reaction is choke em out...the fact that i fear no man on top of it, does not bode well at times for common sense and knowing when it's best to walk away.

posted December 23, 2010 02:23 PM            

The Lunar Eclipse has a mutable cross between Sun and Mercury in Sagittarius next to the North Node of saying your wisdom about what you want, Jupiter and Uranus in Pisces helping that wisdom change into what you want, Moon in Gemini next to the South Node of releasing letting go of the stuff that doesn’t work for you any more, opposite Juno in Virgo answering to Mercury in Sagittarius.

Essentially, you are going to see what you’ve been partnering with and decide you need to change it up and into some NEW, different or perhaps only a slightly revised version of what you have. Revise, redo, revision. And then, once you are clear, announce it to the world in a big, bold statement. Yes I know Mercury is retrograde but you have to start someplace. You have a vision of what it can be so start there. Just be clear about what you want to accomplish or what you want in your life.

http://www.astroanne.com/blog/

Change what isn`t working and find a new working model!!!

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What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world is immortal"~

posted December 23, 2010 02:34 PM            

FC, when some bozo gets in my face, it ain't easy trying to take the high road. I do a good job at it most of the time. But sometimes people just don't understand anything but a painful wristlock. Still, I try to resolve things peacefully as much as possible.

Is it really your b-day tomorrow, Abs?

posted December 23, 2010 02:45 PM            

it is cruel and unusual punishment!

posted December 23, 2010 03:08 PM            

If you blink twice, take 3 deep breaths and put on one smile ... there it is, right in front of you!

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What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world is immortal"~