posted December 28, 2010 12:39 PM            

God Hates those who judge others. Honestly, if Ami were a good Christian, she would be silent and turn the other cheek...

posted December 28, 2010 12:57 PM            

The accusations thrown around, along with the threats that God is going to come down on people, threatening to delete threads or posts and general martyr BS is causing people to become angry and a heck of a lot more sensitive than we have ever been. Even GU isn't as bad as some of the forums because of all the accusations.

I thought simply ignoring things would be a good way to work around it but then I go to a thread that should be about something completely devoid of controversy and BAM... I see another poorly veiled accusation, which people pick up on and then the fight it on.

However, I do still think ignoring it is the best option because trying to argue with a wall never works out. The wall always wins because it cannot learn, it will always be a wall (get my drift). I have gotten to the point where I read and then just shake my head laughing because nothing that is said astrologically or esoterically is going to make a change or sink in on any level unless we are one of the "chosen" people that the wall allows to hang up a pic.

I had to deal with situations like this before and sadly we don't have an ignore button to completely hide the posts from people that irritate us-so back to using my own blinders? LOL...

posted December 28, 2010 01:19 PM            

Yeah, if I was referring to you, FC, I would have posted in your string. Charmaine's issue is with someone else. There is no connection to you whatsoever.

posted December 28, 2010 01:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
And isn't calling Ami a bad Christian in essence judging her, PS?

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I agree with you Randall. I also must say that Ami does bring a lot on herself. In her last post to FC she said:

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I don't wish ill on anyone.
HERE is what I think,FC, totally real and honest.
You have a lot of internal anger you have not faced and you are looking for someone to put it on.
You THOUGHT it could be me cuz I appear weak, initially.
I ,prolly, am weak, but I do have Pluto conjunct Deja and I ,eventually stand up for myself.
You do not SEE yourself, FC.
You are a bully.
You need to face that in yourself.
It sounds mean but I am saying pure truth ,now.
You need to look at it as *I* looked at what Lonake said.

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She keeps playing Armchair psychologist and calling people; bully's, mean and angry. In the same paragraph she portrays herself as a victim :"You THOUGHT it could be me cuz I appear weak, initially."

It is a common theme- place blame and play the victim which in turn ticks people off, especially when she is so busy pointing the fingers at others and not looking at herself in what she is saying.

In another thread she basically discounts everyone that she does not consider to be in her inner circle

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Certain people can tell me things and I will listen like Lonake, Nicki,Popcorn, Banx,Road(my new friend)Mir,Teasel,Mblake, AG or Randall.
They had to earn that by their personal qualities.
If someone has not earned it with me, I won't receive it.

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... that is her right to do so and if that is the case, then others should just leave her alone and let her have her say on her threads. I don't think it is right for people to jump into her threads and criticise her because it just brings about more anger. In the same respect, Ami should also take that advice and leave others alone and stop brow beating them with the threat of being a part of an angry mob or group of "mean girls".

I also think the whole God / Christian thing is totally played out. As a Christian, I don't need to flaunt my beliefs or use them to threaten or manipulate others. Doing that defeats the purpose of being a Christian IMO.

People are becoming very sensitive because of the constant accusations- on all sides from being accused of being angry and mean to the accusations of deleting threads and posts.

posted December 28, 2010 02:04 PM            

Ami, in her passive-aggressive hatred towards members here on Lindaland (which God can still see, because he knows our hearts).

Me, in my irritation, because I am so sick of "the cat's meow" so to speak...

And, Firecracker... well, because Firecracker just can't stand that Ami is on a high-horse?

posted December 28, 2010 02:07 PM            

i agree with pidarcher, the best thing is to ignore, but that is not being allowed as a TWO WAY STREET.

@ami, your obsession with proving FC to be a bully and closet angry person just don't wash. many of us have known her for a long time now and been bowled over by her compassion, humour, and pluck in the face of at least as much wounding as you suffered in your youth. she has risen above her wounds and largely healed them, and has expressed much frustration with you, yes, but personally i think your criteria for "OK PEOPLE" is very superficial. it depends on a lot of WORDS like "respect, love" etc, which ANYONE can say, it doesn't make them more loving than people who go straight to the meat of the question.