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Hera
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posted July 29, 2012 02:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:

I'll never show one..:lol:


Are you sure, Leo Mooner?

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posted July 29, 2012 02:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Are you sure, Leo Mooner?

"Never" is to strong, the problem is I've been unable to piece together how to post pictures here..a bit embarrassed by that..

That and the whole "hold camera and take self portrait that looks good" thing..is not working.

A post full of fail to be sure

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posted July 29, 2012 02:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha, you can use hosting sites like www.imageshack.us or www.tinypic.com (or photobucket since you already are familiar with it) then post the forum code in your message. It's easy.

Doesn't have to be a recent picture, I'm not pretentious. haha

I have developed a curiosity for Aries risings lately. Indulge me please.

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posted July 29, 2012 03:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Haha, you can use hosting sites like www.imageshack.us or www.tinypic.com (or photobucket since you already are familiar with it) then post the forum code in your message. It's easy.

Doesn't have to be a recent picture, I'm not pretentious. haha

I have developed a curiosity for Aries risings lately. Indulge me please.


Forum code?

I'm familar with a post a picture icon, but not forum code, could you enlighten me?

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Hera
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posted July 29, 2012 03:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Links to share your image:

Link
Direct Link
Widget Code
Forum Code
Alt Forum Code
HTML Code

Read more at http://imageshack.us/content_round.php?page=done&l=img836/1303/dignities2.gif #laMOhITfDBYtTOHp.99

You copy/paste the code in the Forum Code box and your picture should appear before our eyes!

Like this, for the above picture:

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posted July 29, 2012 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Hera, if I can manage to have a decent picture taken I'll post one!

Let me add that whole Dark hair, blue green eyes, muscular stuff is fairly accurate..just not sure how to take a picture that captures it.

As for the weirdness, my lesbian friend went to great detail describing her uhm, motor on her fun box this evening, I really value our friendship so nothing will ever happen with that, just the fact the weirdness rolls forward is how things have been recently.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, hurry up. I lose interest fast.

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posted July 29, 2012 04:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Well, hurry up. I lose interest fast.

Hmm, soon..Mrs Pushy pants ...it is almost 5 in the morning EST, was out most of the night etc.


Here:

Uploaded with ImageShack.us

I've been told I look young for my age

More as a test..

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posted July 29, 2012 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:

I've been told I look young for my age

More as a test..


Quite so! But a teaser and show off! Gotta love fiery energy though.

Okay, on a more serious note, there is actual cruelty in your chart, despite a Moon-Neptune trine which I suspect is your salvation.. because despite all the fire, you can be ruthless and maybe heartless at times. I don't wonder why women would assume you're into BDSM. Also no surprise you're such a bachelor. Doubt any/a woman would suffice.

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posted July 29, 2012 05:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And sorry to burst your bubble but you're not the only one with striking baby blues or powerful stare. bahaha!!

No quoting pls.

GAME ON!!

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posted July 29, 2012 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Alright, the weirdness has happened yet again:

Nice evening, huge festival downtown, struck up a number of conversations w/both adult male and females.

Seems normal..right?

Uhm, last convo was with a rather successful professional woman who was rather attractive, and the end of it all was:

"I don't want to make small talk, I want you to take off your belt and..*ahhem*!

Now for the advice part..I'm this quiet guy at heart, how do I avoid such situations, and am I putting off a vibe that suggests to women that I'd be "down" with doing such?

How can I "soften" myself while still being true to myself?
http://i1072.photobucket.com/albums/w368/padre35/th_2456136100028.gif?t=1343406058


Wow. That was very inappropriate. I would have been disgusted by that. It was not only rude, but also very violating of you as a person, especially since you aren't involved or in an established physical relationship. It would be one thing for a girlfriend or wife to say that to a boyfriend/husband, but a complete stranger, after just a bit of small talk? Creepy! I get street harassed a lot, so I can relate to that. It really is unnerving and uncomfortable. I notice you have a lot of Scorpio; I have two planets there conjunct in the 12th. Also notice that you have a lot of fire; I too have fire: in my case, ASC and two planets.

Personally, the only thing that ever works for me is when I try to come off as cold, mean, intimidating, crazy, or as some other person that you'd want to stay away from. I don't know that this would work well for a guy, though. (I'm female). If taken too far, it might lead people to think that you're creepy. So, maybe instead of that, try a more "no-nonsense" kind of vibe?

Maybe what you could do is to seem like the committed, stable, secure type, and not like the "bad boy" type that would be up for doing what she wanted to do. The only thing with that is it might make some see you as a challenge. However, it might turn others off if they think that you'd never do anything outrageous like that.

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posted July 29, 2012 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Quite so! But a teaser and show off! Gotta love fiery energy though.

Okay, on a more serious note, there is actual cruelty in your chart, despite a Moon-Neptune trine which I suspect is your salvation.. because despite all the fire, you can be ruthless and maybe heartless at times. I don't wonder why women would assume you're into BDSM. Also no surprise you're such a bachelor. Doubt any/a woman would suffice.


To a point, I'm hard to deal with b/c I'm so active the whole honey are you coming to bed thing just does not work for me.

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posted July 29, 2012 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What a cutie

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posted July 29, 2012 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What a cutie


Aww..*blush*

I had glasses on in this one, it was during happy times with my ex fiance' and in the dead of winter so I look like the whitest white guy evah!

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posted July 29, 2012 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good looking guy, dude. I like your pic with the glasses. More distinguished.

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posted July 29, 2012 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Good looking guy, dude. I like your pic with the glasses. More distinguished.

Agreed. Men in suits are yummmmmmmm!! Erm, black suits, not yellow, blue, red, green or anything flashy or flamboyant. Ugh. No, thanks.

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posted July 29, 2012 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Good looking guy, dude. I like your pic with the glasses. More distinguished.

Well, keep in mind those are older pics, but I look pretty much the same today, can still wear the stuff I had back then today no problems.

Thing with the glasses is my ex's have told me they hide my blue/green eyes.

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posted July 29, 2012 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your ex-fiance looks fiery, Aries or Leo. Very pretty. Aries from the face shape (triangular with pointy chin)

Odd, from the pics you look nice, but your chart gave me the creeps. Maybe because your Pluto squares my Moon exact

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posted July 29, 2012 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Your ex-fiance looks fiery, Aries or Leo. Very pretty. Aries from the face shape (triangular with pointy chin)

Odd, from the pics you look nice, but your chart gave me the creeps. Maybe because your Pluto squares my Moon exact


Virgo, and she was awesome, sometimes things just do not work out..

And how ya doin'?

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posted July 29, 2012 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She doesn't have Aries in her chart at all? May I ask what happened? How come you're single at 42? Sorry if I am being too direct, people who stay single fascinate me because I am curious if I will become one myself.

You have a T-square of Saturn-Moon-Venus, I presume it is to blame for this. Moon-Venus is famous for causing trouble in relationships, esp for men, Saturn delays things and can even switch to misogynism.

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posted July 29, 2012 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh and I am doing great, just came back from a drive on the highway, police was there so couldn't rev my car like I wanted, max speed, but it was cool nonetheless.
Plus I am feeling really good about my persuasive powers A page prior you said you will *never* post a pic and you posted 4. I love Saggies!

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posted July 29, 2012 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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She doesn't have Aries in her chart at all? May I ask what happened? How come you're single at 42? Sorry if I am being too direct, people who stay single fascinate me because I am curious if I will become one myself.

You have a T-square of Saturn-Moon-Venus, I presume it is to blame for this. Moon-Venus is famous for causing trouble in relationships, esp for men, Saturn delays things and can even switch to misogynism.


Honestly do not know is she had any Aries aspects, her Bday was 8/31/64 or so, she was 5 yrs older then me at the time.

As for what happened, it boiled down to being independent as a couple, she had reason to not be, I had reasons why we should be, the differences were irreconcilable so we mutually parted ways.

As for why I'm single, it is mostly b/c the women whom I've been attracted to played lots of games and I grew tired of it for a time and I've decided to finish that degree I put off due to having a well paying job at the time.

My turn, what about my chart is eerie?


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posted July 29, 2012 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Good looking guy, dude. I like your pic with the glasses. More distinguished.

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posted July 29, 2012 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oh and I am doing great, just came back from a drive on the highway, police was there so couldn't rev my car like I wanted, max speed, but it was cool nonetheless.
Plus I am feeling really good about my persuasive powers A page prior you said you will *never* post a pic and you posted 4. I love Saggies!

Oh sure, I mostly said that b/c I simply did not know how to and I have no good current photos, in fact those are literally the only 3 photos I have of myself as an adult.

I do have some when I had a mullet graduating High School...they shall make it to the net anytime soon, they are locked in a vault..and safe..

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posted July 29, 2012 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Honestly do not know is she had any Aries aspects, her Bday was 8/31/67 or so, she was 5 yrs older then me at the time.

As for what happened, it boiled down to being independent as a couple, she had reason to not be, I had reasons why we should be, the differences were irreconcilable so we mutually parted ways.

As for why I'm single, it is mostly b/c the women whom I've been attracted to played lots of games and I grew tired of it for a time and I've decided to finish that degree I put off due to having a well paying job at the time.

My turn, what about my chart is eerie?


Lol, you mean 3 year older. Yeah, I imagine you'd be into older women, due to Saturn. But damn Leo Moon vs Scorpio Venus.. the queen vs the s**t/femme fatale.. ugh. She has Saturn in Aries and NN. Cancer Moon. Weird that I got a distinct Aries vibe from her. Maybe she's Aries Asc? Guess you don't know her btime.
So you don't wanna settle down? Venus is ruler of DC, in detriment but has accidental dignity in the 7th.. but I guess Saturn delays marriage.

You remind me of a Sag friend of mine. We used to have crazy philosophical talks way after midnight lol.

No quoting pls.


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